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Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Nobody: 12:41am On Jan 06, 2016

STAND BY YOUR WORDS BRO. NO SEX. IF SHE GOES, SHE GOES. IF YOU NEED GOD TO BE THE FOUNDATION OF YOUR MARRIAGE, STAND BY YOUR BELIEF.

AM ALSO IN THE SAME SHOES WITH MY FIANCEE. I HV LONG TOLD HER, NO SEX UNTIL MARRIAGE. ITS NOT EASY, BUT THE GRACE OF GOD IS AVAILABLE FOR YOU AND IT PAYS AT LAST...

IF YOU DECIDE TO HAVE IT WITH HER, I GUARANTEE YOU DT U WOULD HATE YOURSELF AND MAY EVENTUALLY LEAVE HER.

YOU ARE BLESSED

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Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by lifestyle1(m): 12:45am On Jan 06, 2016

ifymagik:

Are you still a virg.in ?

Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by davidif: 12:45am On Jan 06, 2016

repogirl:
Okay.... Since you want to settle with her eventually and you only want sex after marriage, then just marry her na!

WHAT?!?!

Which kind logic be that? Marriage is a lot more than sex. Not to diminish the role of intimacy in a marriage but there are several other components required to make a marriage work like compatibility (are you guys the right fit?), character, goals, vision.

This are things you have to sort out before marriage not because you want to have sex ASAP. You don't make a long term decision based on biological urges.

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Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Truckpusher(m): 12:45am On Jan 06, 2016

elantraceey:
Move on if she can't control herself, you'll get someone better who keeps same principle, she'll count her loss when she sees your wedding picture.

Good to know we still have men like you around.

This is how some of you folks will end up marrying men with dysfunctional erectionn all in the name of "no sex during courtship" that bros is hiding something or he's afraid of something. cheesy

If people that are married should open up and tell you the negative effect of bad sex in marriages you'll understand what I'm saying here.
Let him continue hiding that thing , not all women will buy that joke from him. grin

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Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by NovusHomo(m): 12:45am On Jan 06, 2016

ifymagik:
Hello Everyone, I seriously need your advice on this issue because am very confused. Here is my Story. I am in love with this girl that I met during NYSC, although it took some time for her to accept me but she eventually did. I have studied her closely and I see the qualities that I want in a woman in her, and so I intend to settle with her but there is a challenge. I am strongly against Sex before marriage and so the relationship has been Sex-free. But recently she said she could no longer take it, she said she want us to hav sex or I should not blame her if she gets it elsewhere because according to her she has exceeded her endurance limit. I am Confused, I don't know what to do. I really love her and I don't wanna loose her but I can't go against my personal principle. Help a Brother plz I nid your advice.

Give her my digits, man. She can always come back to you after I'm done with her. What kind of man are you though?! You need some lesson on the human body and its needs.

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Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Nobody: 12:47am On Jan 06, 2016

And after the NACKING, WHAT NEXT?? U WIN GOLD, SILVER, BRONZE, CUP OR SPOON

THERE IS NOTHING IN SEC. SEX IS AS FREE AS FREEDOM TODAY. ASK YOURSELF AFTER THE SEX WHAT NEXT?? EVEN IF U BE MIKE POWER, NACK WOMAN FOR 5-6HRS. WETIN HAPPEN AFTER DT?? SRX OUTSIDE MARRIAGE IS A DESTINY KILLER!!

obontami:

Please send her number to obontami1@gmail.com so I can help you fccck her since your dick is not functioning

Gamaliel12 my nigga abi you no see this okpe ni sha

Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Mufasa27(m): 12:48am On Jan 06, 2016

LouisBERG:
Desperate times calls for desperate measures. Judging from the nigeria system it should have been the other way round but here you are at the receiving end. Bro you have a STANDARD that shouldn't be altered by a mere potential gf. Be calm let her know the dangers of engaging in pre marital sex. I smell an iota of a depreciated TRUST. But if she still insist on her stand. Remember to close the door behind you and look out 4 someone that reasons the same way you do. I know if it is some other guys, how LUCKY they will term themselves smh. There are better things to worry about dude
#liveBYyourRULES.
#caLLmeBERG

Sorry what are the dangers of engaging in pre marital sex pls angry

Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by NovusHomo(m): 12:49am On Jan 06, 2016

NewSheriff:
_Fuck her. What's hard about that?

The Bible and the Pastor say "no"! Am I wrong OP Brother Jesus? He will be surprised when he learns that the Pastor has helped the poor girl take care of her need.

Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by repogirl(f): 12:49am On Jan 06, 2016

davidif:

WHAT?!?!

Which kind logic be that? Marriage is a lot more than sex. Not to diminish the role of intimacy in a marriage but there are several other components required to make a marriage work like compatibility (are you guys the right fit?), character, goals (finacial stability e.t.c), vision.

This are things you have to sort out before marriage not because you want to have sex ASAP. You don't make a long term decision based on based on biological urges.

he who finds a wife finds a good thing.

Op confessed that she is wife material and he intends to marry her.

They should just marry and good things will come to them.

I didn't wait till my husband was rich before we married, in fact we did wedding with loan but we are very okay and stable now.

If you know where you are going, and you are sure your partner is the one, then what else are you waiting for?

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Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Truckpusher(m): 12:50am On Jan 06, 2016

obontami:

I'm suspecting that guy to be an impotent nicca

I swear, how person go want give you sara toto fcccck and you still dey do mumu-mumu

If the girl go fccck better big prick outside come dump am

The mumu go open thread like " WHY ARE LADIES SO HEARTLESS"

Smh

As in better convincing prick wey dey make toto dey clap hand like choir mistress . grin

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Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by StarMogul(m): 12:53am On Jan 06, 2016

ifymagik:
Hello Everyone, I seriously need your advice on this issue because am very confused. Here is my Story. I am in love with this girl that I met during NYSC, although it took some time for her to accept me but she eventually did. I have studied her closely and I see the qualities that I want in a woman in her, and so I intend to settle with her but there is a challenge. I am strongly against Sex before marriage and so the relationship has been Sex-free. But recently she said she could no longer take it, she said she want us to hav sex or I should not blame her if she gets it elsewhere because according to her she has exceeded her endurance limit. I am Confused, I don't know what to do. I really love her and I don't wanna loose her but I can't go against my personal principle. Help a Brother plz I nid your advice.

Bro,I truly believe that two things define a true man,his faith and his principles. On a serious note if u let love blind you and lead you astray you r not a Man.Please my bro stand firm against all and kindly explain to her that u can't compromise just becus of a few minutes of pleasure. I know it's hard...trust me.If she can't wait,it says alot about her.....patience and tolerance are the keys to a good lasting relationship ohhhh don't forget God.Be safe.

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Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by mcpapillo(m): 12:53am On Jan 06, 2016

SHE WANTS TO KNOW IF YOU CAN DO #SIMPLE

Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Nobody: 12:54am On Jan 06, 2016

obontami:

I'm suspecting that guy to be an impotent nicca

I swear, how person go want give you sara toto fcccck and you still dey do mumu-mumu

If the girl go fccck better big prick outside come dump am

The mumu go open thread like " WHY ARE LADIES SO HEARTLESS"

Smh

obontami d master and king of toto... I hail u, ur nairalanders boys are loyal, respect 2 u man...

Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by davidif: 12:55am On Jan 06, 2016

repogirl:
he who finds a wife finds a good thing.

Op confessed that she is wife material and he intends to marry her.

They should just marry and good things will come to them.

I didn't wait till my husband was rich before we married, in fact we did wedding with loan but we are very okay and stable now.

If you know where you are going, and you are sure your partner is the one, then what else are you waiting for?

You do have a good point but really?? Rushing into a permanent situation just because you want to have sex?? Wow!!!!

Na wa o.

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Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Nobody: 12:56am On Jan 06, 2016

Truckpusher:

As in better convincing prick wey dey make toto dey clap hand like choir mistress .

Thanks for the mental image

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Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by AngryNigerian(m): 12:57am On Jan 06, 2016

Bro, you don't need to bring this kind of issue up on social media...this kind of fiction story sef

Majority say go ahead, so what do you say

Advice yourself...dont listen to them. I've discovered in life that when people do wrong things, they drag others into the guilt so as to have more 'colleagues' that'll defend the wrong action. They also do that 2 stop the inferiority & insecure feelings that build up.

Be proud of what you have if you are a virgin...pple still regret not holding on @ the long run!

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Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Whobedatte(m): 12:58am On Jan 06, 2016

Get her tested for STDs first oo
She fit dey on a sharing spree
Who knows?

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Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by jakmankind(m): 12:58am On Jan 06, 2016

Op better stay with what you believed Bible says let marriage be honour among all and bed undefiled.start everything in God way and u will received its reward beside I'm sorry to say I don't believed in yuh fiance as born again Christian since she behaving this way and that is y u need to marry from yuh believed so that it will easy for both part and that is y God told Israel to married within their people op pls be careful and think before u make decision remembered not all majority advice is good to followed but be wise and ask God to direct u but flee from formication be bless

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Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Mufasa27(m): 12:59am On Jan 06, 2016

Op I can be of help, since you can not kpansh I can help you even more than she ask for grin

pending the time you guys will get married and she can always come back for more cheesy

No no don't thank me...I'm just trying to be a good friend to you tongue

Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by chijokz(m): 12:59am On Jan 06, 2016

Hia! What is wrong with this OP? Your babe is begging you for sex and even threatened to get it elsewhere and you are here on NL asking for advice when you should be busy rodding the konji out of your babe..

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Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Truckpusher(m): 12:59am On Jan 06, 2016

Nubian113:

Thanks for the mental image

I Know some smart girls would code what I'm talking about.

Funny enough not all women will tell you that you're doing a poor job - They just let you finish your scratching of the surface and find a way to give the real pounder. cheesy

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Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by gemale(m): 1:00am On Jan 06, 2016

Kindly point her in my direction. I wld do d 'dirty' job 4 u. Som1 has 2 do it if u r nt willing because lyf doesn't permit vacuum. In doing so, u kill 2 birds wt a stone; she's satisfied & u dnt compromise ur principles. Dnt worry I wldnt charge u; it's on d house.

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Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by lordprosh(m): 1:05am On Jan 06, 2016

ifymagik:
Hello Everyone, I seriously need your advice on this issue because am very confused. Here is my Story. I am in love with this girl that I met during NYSC, although it took some time for her to accept me but she eventually did. I have studied her closely and I see the qualities that I want in a woman in her, and so I intend to settle with her but there is a challenge. I am strongly against Sex before marriage and so the relationship has been Sex-free. But recently she said she could no longer take it, she said she want us to hav sex or I should not blame her if she gets it elsewhere because according to her she has exceeded her endurance limit. I am Confused, I don't know what to do. I really love her and I don't wanna loose her but I can't go against my personal principle. Help a Brother plz I nid your advice.

Bro do u wanna marry dat kinda woman??

For instance u both ar married nd drz a cause for u to leave home 4 a while.. Bro she's ganna be bleeping jonny ur errand boi..

No Godly woman, I repeat no Godly woman wil av sex wit u b4 marriage..

Wait oo is she mad she's tryn to force u 'DO'

My bro if yhu do u do u do nd she go she go carry ur glory zoom, she zoom she zoom..
Ur ur brain bro boo oo bro boo bro boo
Dr grl na queen of the coast d coast d coast..
LoL

Buh seriously *in daddy adeboye's voice* "my son 'joseph away'"

Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by john633(m): 1:05am On Jan 06, 2016

touching story

Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by abbey621(m): 1:07am On Jan 06, 2016

Kindly let the girl go as the both of you are not compatible or are you ready for marriage now? A virgin like yourself has no business dating a non virgin,most times it's always complicated when the guy is the inexperienced one. The fact that she's revealing her frustrations to you shows that she cares for you a lot, most girls in her situation would have gotten it on the side and leave you clueless, take note!

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Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by rugged7(m): 1:09am On Jan 06, 2016

Knock yourself on the head 5 times
Go back to the girl and apologize for your idiocy
Put on a durex condom
Switch on the A.C
And screw the living daylights out of her punane

Don't worry, thank me later... tongue

ifymagik:
Hello Everyone, I seriously need your advice on this issue because am very confused. Here is my Story. I am in love with this girl that I met during NYSC, although it took some time for her to accept me but she eventually did. I have studied her closely and I see the qualities that I want in a woman in her, and so I intend to settle with her but there is a challenge. I am strongly against Sex before marriage and so the relationship has been Sex-free. But recently she said she could no longer take it, she said she want us to hav sex or I should not blame her if she gets it elsewhere because according to her she has exceeded her endurance limit. I am Confused, I don't know what to do. I really love her and I don't wanna loose her but I can't go against my personal principle. Help a Brother plz I nid your advice.

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Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Slimzy910: 1:11am On Jan 06, 2016

#OMG....People jzt dey find recognition sha...Wah concern us wif all diz one naw

Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by xtervaganza(m): 1:12am On Jan 06, 2016

ifymagik:
Hello Everyone, I seriously need your advice on this issue because am very confused. Here is my Story. I am in love with this girl that I met during NYSC, although it took some time for her to accept me but she eventually did. I have studied her closely and I see the qualities that I want in a woman in her, and so I intend to settle with her but there is a challenge. I am strongly against Sex before marriage and so the relationship has been Sex-free. But recently she said she could no longer take it, she said she want us to hav sex or I should not blame her if she gets it elsewhere because according to her she has exceeded her endurance limit. I am Confused, I don't know what to do. I really love her and I don't wanna loose her but I can't go against my personal principle. Help a Brother plz I nid your advice.

if I talk wetin de my mjnd eh

But if you truly love her and you don't believe in sex b4 marriage why not marry her then?

Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Nobody: 1:13am On Jan 06, 2016

Truckpusher:
I Know some smart girls would code what I'm talking about.

Funny enough not all women will tell you that you're doing a poor job - They just let you finish your scratching of the surface and find a way to give the real pounder.

I'm no lair angry

My favorite word is "was that it" undecided

#shame the devil grin

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Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by sisisioge: 1:14am On Jan 06, 2016

what do u mean by no sexxx? Is she supposed to sit and watch a paint dry?

Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by yahnoah: 1:21am On Jan 06, 2016

Principle of sex! Keep on waiting while she meet someone like me. Are you Vagine? I ask again are you Vargin? u no do a ré iya ati Baba when you are young? Garrrrra ra herrre mehn. Mr. Principle

Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Udstar(m): 1:21am On Jan 06, 2016

Smallville10:
This question would be good on Google but seriously your babe dey beg for sex u come dey ask us weda make u fvck am. Guy na wa for u o.

Pre-marital sex is a sin for God sake

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