Stats: 3,186,935 members, 7,931,249 topics. Date: Sunday, 25 August 2024 at 08:01 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin (63365 Views)
Sadiya Lawal's Divorce Story: "I Was Still A Virgin, 3 Years After My Wedding" / I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos / What Is The Most Annoying Punishment A Man Thinks He Can Give His Wife? (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (Reply) (Go Down)
Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by Empathy1695(m): 8:39pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
My mum still thinks that I'm a virgin. I overhead her while she was advising my younger one in her bedroom. If only I could reverse time... Here's my story and a very brief history that should give you a picture of the kind of family I come from. I come from a christian home with very religious parents, I'm the 3rd out of 4 children. My dad (he's late now) was a serious member of the "die by fire" group of worshipers, and my mum, a children teacher in a famous Bible believing church. We were all brought up to fear God, and to live by example. I remember doing evangelical exercises with my friend back then in secondary school during the break period. I even preached in the bus on my way to school. I kept distance with the girls, and will not socialize much so as to avoid temptation. They complained I was too shy, and during camp meeting in school then, when boys and girls begin to mingle, I was either on my own or with my close friend discussing the bible. People will tell my parents that I was the pastor in our family and things like that. I too loved it, and I can remember dreaming and telling myself that I was going to get married being a virgin. But things changed, so fast than I could imagine in that aspect. I'm still a quiet good guy (if I'm to access myself), I've learnt to socialize a little, but guess what; I'm no longer a virgin. I lost it 8 months after I graduated from secondary school. Worst still, I did it with someone 4 years older than my elder sister (our 1st born). I was 16+, she was 23. She lured me to her house that day and took my innocence. Not as if I didn't know something wasn't going to happen, at least I suspected it. Prior to that incident, she was always being nice to me whenever we cross paths.. --------------------------------------- Okay, now I'm in my early 20's. I traveled home from school for the Xmas break and one of the days I was going to get something from my mum's bedroom, when I overheard my mum advising with my younger sibling who is yet to enter the higher institution about associating with the opposite sex. She was using me and the others as point of reference that we are all well spoken off outside and are still virgins. VIRGINS ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I can't tell my mum I'm not a virgin, she'll feel terribly bad..And it's not Nigerian to discuss relationship matters with your parents, religious once for that matter. I have a few friends and they all think the same. Some say I'm shy, I act like slow poison, I pretend, I'm a pastor, I'm a nerd and jibes like that. But I've done things crazy things, I'm no more the guy who always dreamt of getting married a virgin and now I don't pray to marry a virgin either, I don't even deserve one. I think virgins should get married to virgins, IMO. No much regrets though, but if I could reverse time, I'll not loose my virginity at 16 (it doesn't show I was breed from a God fearing family), I will loose it now, at least I'm way older than then. 95 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by Meeloreh(f): 8:44pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
She's not spiritually inclined 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by tungstar(m): 8:44pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Ok 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by obiorathesubtle: 8:48pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
121 Likes 9 Shares
|
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by hungryboy(m): 8:53pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
My guy, You get luck sef say woman lure you free of charge go disvirgin you, My own, na me take my leg waka go ashawo house go pay ashawo 1k make she disvirgin me, I no even ask am her name sef, The only conversation we had was, Comot clothe, Put your prick here, You don release, Come dey go, Na so i take waka leave my virginity for ashawo house. 921 Likes 119 Shares |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by Nobody: 8:53pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
I grab how u re feeling. I feel our parents train us to behave as christians and not how to be christians and why we should be christians. If parents learn to do this, then children will learn to protect themselves from people who would lure them into sexual immorality 72 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by Nobody: 9:00pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
hungryboy: Rotflmao... . See simplified summary.... 155 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by Nobody: 9:01pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
. hungryboy: Rotflmfao... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 101 Likes 5 Shares
|
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by Liberty101: 9:01pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
![]() ![]() ![]() hungryboy: 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by MrLankeeee(m): 9:06pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by Nobody: 9:07pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
hungryboy: ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by Nobody: 9:10pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Ok |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by Nobody: 9:13pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Guys actually care about Being virgins?? ![]() Okay...this is weird. 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by Nobody: 9:14pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
...... 2 Likes |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by cruzita(f): 9:21pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
op talk small small because ur mum might be on nairaland 65 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by Empathy1695(m): 9:28pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Estharfabian: Not like I care now..But then I used to dream of being a saint |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by Empathy1695(m): 9:31pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
3 Likes |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by Emac34: 9:33pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Estharfabian:so u mean there ar no virgin nigger ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by Nobody: 9:35pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Empathy1695:Oh..Okay then? ![]() My bad? |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by Nobody: 9:36pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Emac34:Lai Mohammed!! ![]() 26 Likes |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by Emac34: 9:42pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Estharfabian:Is a politician ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by Richy4(m): 9:43pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Empathy1695: Oh really!!!! you dreamt about being Saint Obi the nollywood movie star ![]() ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by Nobody: 9:48pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Smh |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by MilesLamar(m): 10:31pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Guy dix ur thread no go reach front page ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Hmmm the mod geh nine lives ![]() 8 Likes |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by kushsy: 10:53pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
hungryboy:. Eyaaaa 2 Likes |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by Thebrightest(m): 10:56pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
hungryboy: That a horrible way to loose virginity bro. Chai you get mind ooo 3 Likes |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by Adonis3: 11:03pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
That's how many parents are (in this part of the world). They think that the issue of sex is so sacred that children must not hear about it, hence do not give their children the right advice to handle sexual issues. I'll use myself as an example. My parents are soo religious that they feel their child was too young to know anything about sex, yet they sent me to the boarding house... Can you just imagine. It didn't actually start from there, it started from when my dad's niece came to stay with us (she's orphaned). This girl was much older than me, but she introduced me to the world of immorality. Needless to say, I had my first party when I was in pry school. My parents were still thinking I was one very good boy. Then I went to the boarding house, that sealed it! I'm very sure if you ask my parents now, they still believe I'm one good boy who doesn't know how to talk to girls. There is need to educate children on issues like this, coz this world is becoming a very morally bankrupt place by the day. When you've already told them what they need to know (you don't have to tell them everything at once), by the time friends are talking about it, they would have an idea and won't be easily misled. 41 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by flokii: 11:06pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
hungryboy: yeee! I no sure say evrytin reach 10mins o... from ur house.waka till exit from dat brothel you collect change? ![]() ![]() 28 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by ashewoboy(m): 11:10pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Lalasticlala |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by Nobody: 11:17pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Op who cares |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by sinaj(f): 11:17pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
hungryboy: LWKMD! ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Mum Still Thinks I'm A Virgin by drizslim(m): 11:18pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Ok.Com 7 Likes 2 Shares
|
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (Reply)
Amazing Photos Of Grown Nigerian Quintuplets & Quadruplets / Married Zimbabwean Man Caught Pants Down With ‘Mad Woman’ (Photos) / ‘Family Cut Me Off Because I Married A Woman On Wheelchair’
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 45 |