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| How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Helloflife: 9:15am On Jan 09, 2016 |
We started dating last year november. We haven't gone intimate yet and he doesn't even pressurize me. Truth is, i don't love him, and i think i made a mistake accepting to date him. I've found out we have literally nothing in common. Throughout our relationship, i've never said the word "i love you" to him. He called last night and asked me if i love him and i couldn't give a direct answer cause i didn't want him to get hurt. Dear romancelanders, whats the best way i could tell him how i really feel? 5 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Nobody: 9:16am On Jan 09, 2016 |
The Best way is to tell him! 36 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by RoyalBlak007: 9:18am On Jan 09, 2016 |
[size=25pt]...what made you say YES inthe first place?,,,Money??[/size] 221 Likes 11 Shares |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Nobody: 9:22am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Helloflife: You didn't love him yet you still decided to date him and spend his money abi? You are a gold digging idiot. Now you are coming here to ask us stupid questions okwa ya? What a redundant moronic Ingrate! 192 Likes 11 Shares |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Anthony0094(m): 9:24am On Jan 09, 2016 |
last November  ? u didn't tell him dat u don't love him b4 Christmas and u want to tell him now, if u r him wat wll u think? Xmas maga? u beta wait tll June to tell him dat if by dat time u still don't love him.make sure u lender d service u r getting paid for. no offense 74 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Nobody: 9:29am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Kindly tell him. But y did u agree to date him in d 1st instance?  4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Helloflife: 9:29am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Please, i want you all to know i didn't date him for money or any other material gain but because i needed a soulmate at that point in time. Lalasticlala please i need more valuable advice. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Rozaystunna(m): 9:31am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Ogbeni u don use d nihhga flex Xmas naa, now u wan talk shiit  this is why nihggas dey rape Una24 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by emotions1: 9:31am On Jan 09, 2016 |
it's this kind of things you do that make guys heartless as you termed...... you didn't tell him since last year you just want to break his heart kawai 5 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Godswillnwaoma(m): 9:33am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Don't tell him but its better you use your actions so that he will use his brain know that you don't love him. But baby why don't you have feelings for him? Are you desperately going to love him when you clocks 35. 13 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by cruzita(f): 9:35am On Jan 09, 2016 |
 maybe she think say na nairabet wey she go enter try her luck better go tell am face to face or send am through letterbomb6 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Nobody: 9:36am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Best thing is tell him M sure he too has noticed some behaviour of urs He is just waiting for d truth from u to move on Nd even if u dont say it he wud get tired nd move on Humans will get tired nd we need love nd care So dont feel to fly Drop ur ego nd tell him Cos u are too wicked for keepin it dis long Tell him den tell him now he was prone to get hurt since u av fufiled ur desire let d innocent man go please 11 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Helloflife: 9:39am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Is it that none of you nairalanders have ever been in this situation before,i need advice and not insults. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by LouisBERG: 9:46am On Jan 09, 2016 |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by firstking01(m): 9:50am On Jan 09, 2016 |
@ op, no mind all these bashers...my take is...dnt sign off yet...give it time...love grows...try to look @those lil aspect of his life u admire....truth is, smtin must have attracted you to him in the first place, look more into that tin...a relationship that started like this always end great...allow the love to grow...instant love or love @ firstsight neva works, it fades away with time...i'd categorically tell you that if you go into a relationship because you love the person, i bet the love will diminish with time...relationship is much more than just love. 39 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by obiorathesubtle: 9:52am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Say this exact thing to him. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Nobody: 9:54am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Helloflife:Kindly tell him... |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Lordskyes(m): 9:57am On Jan 09, 2016 |
You don chop the poor boy money finish na now you know say you nor love am... God dey look Una o...!! 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Nobody: 10:01am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Tell him the truth and stop wasting his time. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Fabzgrace(f): 10:01am On Jan 09, 2016 |
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| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by kokoA(m): 10:08am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Christmas, boxing day, new year all passed with him lavishing goodies on you and you never realized you don't love him. Fear God o. Okay, just give him 1 week of steady puszzy as payment for all his love and care after that you can tell him your mind. If na me I no go vex again. 13 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Nobody: 10:50am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Tell him by opening your mouth and talking to him 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Richardonald(m): 11:26am On Jan 09, 2016 |
U beta tell him now b4 its too late |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Bekwarra(m): 11:30am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Ask Lai Muhammed to help you And Lai Muhammed be like: Every lie I told was a hit back to back from "blame everything on GEJ" to "Boko has been defeated" and campaign promises yet no trust from Nigerians. Iyalaya anybody technical lying ti take over. And devil (father of all liars) be like: Egbon Lai if you want my position come and take it. 12 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Amberon: 11:42am On Jan 09, 2016 |
we have a very similar situation. My bf who happens to be my best friend persisted and disturbed me for years, I finally gave in but I don't love him one bit. The thing is that he's crazy about me, before we started dating we'd sleep over at each other's houses a couple of times but he never touched me nor asked for sex. up till this day, he hasn't asked me for sex. he's cute, dresses very very very well, neat and treats me like an angel. I told him countlessly that I didn't love him and couldn't date him but he came back begging and vowed that he must marry me. He even told everyone that we're engaged.... Anyways I made a promise to stick with him even tho I don't love him, after all the one I used to love didn't treat me well. Helloflife: PS: before someone starts saying sh!t, I'm not dating him for money. I know I won't fall in love again, so I gave in simply because he loves and cherishes me, he's purpose driven and has good qualities which so many men lack. he also advises me like a sister. [/quote] 20 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Amberon: 11:46am On Jan 09, 2016 |
what is your problem? can't you pass your point across without running your mouth? how old are you? 12? You didn't hear her saying she accepted because of money. people go into relationships for various eg companionship. Everyone isn't a gold digger. SameMissclassy: 3 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Amberon: 11:56am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Why do people think like this? what service?? is she a how?? Anthony0094: |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Nobody: 12:02pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
I blame the poor guy, there is no way i would be with a lady for that long without knowing where i stand in the relationship. thats why I advised somebody in the other thread to be rugged and always be a step ahead when dealing with human beings. now this op after spending this guy's money wants to ball out anyway none of my bizness 7 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Anthony0094(m): 12:09pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Amberon:u wl mk a good lawyer 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by frakdon(m): 1:23am On Jan 10, 2016 |
Helloflife:nothing at all, that would make you love him? you know, because you can decide to love him... 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by macsino: 3:07am On Jan 10, 2016 |
tales by moon light.... |
| Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by pamellla(f): 4:14am On Jan 10, 2016 |
Amberon:u don't date someone out of pity...ur NO should be ur NO! I won't be surprised if in the next few years u com here on NL nd start ranting bout the downfall of ur marriage (I forbid it tho) cox ts crystal clear u don't love d dude, u are only trying to put up with him coz of his persistence...marriage is a challenging institution, you have to think twice bfo venturing into it. 10 Likes |
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