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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by ikorodureporta: 12:21pm On Jan 09, 2016
Thats why u have to log out anytime u aint online
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by Elchappo: 12:21pm On Jan 09, 2016
Chommieblaq:

U just did d opposite of wah u preached, u didn't see d humor in wah he wrote huh? Imagine calling him broke and all sorts, abeg na u fall hand pass jor.





Let's learn to practice wah we preach.

No mind the guy, him get Apollo come dey laugh person wey soap enta him eye..

@OP.. preach what u practice..

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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by tgmservice: 12:22pm On Jan 09, 2016
I don't c anythin wrong in throwing some abuses online is just for the fun we can't have in real life.

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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by redcliff: 12:23pm On Jan 09, 2016
BlackMaria:

Funny,u cud type this epistle @ me.
I was just teasing u based on the topic. Which was y,I added lol into my sentence.
Since u av decided to take it personal,then I b'liv u gat low self-esteem.

Lolz
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by Iyamar(f): 12:24pm On Jan 09, 2016
naijainfogalery:
I once read a story of a guy on nairaland, who went to visit his fiance and the dad needed to send an email unfortunately he left his laptop at the office, so he decided to leave his laptop with the dad while he went out shopping/on a date with his girl.
The dad happens to be a nairaland addict, so immediately he opened the browser, he logged into his gmail account, so he decided to check nairaland to check whats happening, Only to see that username a****** i mean the username that abused him, the one that called him all sorts of names just because of their different views on politics.
low and behold, immediately they came back from their date, all of a sudden the sweet loving father got all mad, ask him if he was a****** he said yes, he just told him to get out of his compound. All pleas fell on deaf ear. It was later he told his daughter that he wont open his eyes for his daughter to marry such a person.

The problem here is we think we can get away from being a retard online, but it always come back at us.
So let me narrate my own experience

I went to a very remote area of Lagos to do something. I needed to access the internet and i couldnt, so i asked people around for a cafe, after moving a long distance we finally found one, the cafe had just 5 systems and it was fully booked by yahoo boys and there are about 5 of them waiting to take turn. Damn!! i needed to do this thing asap.

i begged the dude at cafe attendance to just allow me do what i needed to do as it wont take more than 20 minutes and i said i would give him 500 naira. After he heard that it was as if i promised him 1 million , see as the guy dey yes sir , yes sir me.

So he took me to their Server. where i did all that needs to be done, i decided to download the file i needed, while it was downloading, i decided to open nairaland to while away time,If you are nairaland addict lol you will understand that at any slight internet chance you will always come home (nairaland) so i quickly opened nairaland.com , All of a sudden i saw 40 mentions, fear gripped me , i was like what did i post for people to mention me like this, i clicked on mention and i saw abuses and topics i never commented on. I checked the username then i occured to me that i haven't logged in and it was the dude at the cafes nairaland account.

What i saw was heartbreaking, this dude abuses people for no reason. he calls people all sorts of names. he is one of those guys that forms team foreign girls on nairaland, i read one of his posts where abused one graduate that posted that he needed job badly, he called him a broke ass and all sorts of name , i am not trying to mock or abuse him but meanwhile this is someone that earns N8,000 monthly and he is being owed 2 months salary (wanna know i knew?) after the downloading my file. I decided to have a chit chat with him, he told me how much is earns and how he is being owed 2 months salary.
I needed to be sure it was him. But then the picture he has on his nairaland account was the picture he has as his phones screensaver . Thought it wasnt his personal picture but an image.


So ever since that day, if anyone abuses me online, I just remember that guy and smile. because most of these folks that abuses or curse you here wouldnt look into your eyes and say nonsense when they see you.

Nice saying... God bless

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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by LesbianBoy(m): 12:25pm On Jan 09, 2016
@OP very true especially the insult part. I hardly take insults here to heart. Because majority of people on here are immature teenagers. If they see me in real life fear no go let them insult me because wetin i go take their eyes see eh!

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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by xtervaganza(m): 12:26pm On Jan 09, 2016
It's in my blood already



If you yab me I go yab you even for your face. I'm stubborn myself and I fear nobody except soldier grin grin

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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by Aremu01(m): 12:26pm On Jan 09, 2016
Shortyy:
Whatever happens online, stays online. Diss me all you want bruh that doesn't change who I am.
U re not so sure about that thou

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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by Nobody: 12:27pm On Jan 09, 2016
BlackMaria:
Fvck u OP.
Lol.

Hahaha, epic comment m8

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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by Ijaya123: 12:28pm On Jan 09, 2016
I will gladly recommend this for all those abusuve Ipob set of people online.
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by oglalasioux(m): 12:30pm On Jan 09, 2016
And most of them are 17 year olds. They will never comment on a topic but go straight to abusing the person of people who comment.

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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by Kayoski(m): 12:31pm On Jan 09, 2016
kaziblake:
Some people open their mouth and insult people on a faceless forum.
I don't insult people online even if you insulted I will never reply you.
damn,you are so clean..
I ran a superficial check on your NL posts and didn't find a stain..
how come??

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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by kayodescrib(m): 12:31pm On Jan 09, 2016
Good one
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by qtx(m): 12:32pm On Jan 09, 2016
In everything, just be thy self and the best of you will come out.
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by LionInZion: 12:33pm On Jan 09, 2016
Wether you earn 8,000 or 8milion, it's absolutely wrong to come online to abuse anybody who has different opinion to yours. People who that have big problem, they need to change.
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by bidemi12(m): 12:33pm On Jan 09, 2016
I still wonder how Nigerian's think i swear. They never seem to ask logical and normal questions. Why would anyone just pick up someone else's laptop to use without their permission? This should have been the first question asked. And do you know the odds of this fake drama happening? There are less than 2 million members on NL nationwide, so, out of more than 120 million Nigerians, the guy hooks up with the daughter of another NL member, leaves his laptop to go shopping, the dad uses the laptop without consent, and happens to discover another NL member's moniker who's been insulting him. NIGERIAN'S, USE YOUR BRAINS. It is like their brains are wire differently from everyone else's on the planet.

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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by abiambo(m): 12:34pm On Jan 09, 2016
U no sabi read ni? Illiterates on NL l grin grin l
Akkord4gov:
Pls highlight the lessons grin grin grin grin

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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by preetyb(f): 12:35pm On Jan 09, 2016
The girl's father was too harsh on the guy. One thing I ve notice is that there is no respect in politics and football so getting ur self involve in an argument of any kind about these two is like esau selling his birth right to jacob because of food. You can't get urself involve in politics and football and still expect to be given a kind treatment or respect by ur opponent. But still I agree with the OP. We should always try and control what comes out of our mouth when speaking or writing to those we know and don't know.
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by repogirl(f): 12:35pm On Jan 09, 2016
Lmao! Very true.

I am very guilty of this....but no be me dey find trouble. If you find my trouble, I will unleash my own. A word is enough....... grin

There are those who insult to feel relevant sort of.

For me, whenever I poke people or I'm sarcastic, its cause am bored.

I don't plan on changing soon anyway. It's fun coming up with creative new ways to insult people online, after all what's the worst they can do to me? grin
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by kaziblake(f): 12:35pm On Jan 09, 2016
Kayoski:

damn,you are so clean..
I ran a superficial check on your NL posts and didn't find a stain..
how come??
I control myself and pretend have got a thick skin.
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by Nobody: 12:36pm On Jan 09, 2016
naijainfogalery:
You know what? whatever you say cant get to me, you are somewhere living in abject poverty. Frustrated , broke and looking for where to dispense those poverty anger, you search and couldnt find anywhere, You managed to get a 6,000 naira china phone, and thanks to networks that gives free MB, you come online and spew trash. Sorry your frustration cant get to me, whatever you say doesnt change the fact that you will remain broke after coming online to spew trash grin grin cheesy cheesy sorry bro i cant help you cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy grin . I remember that OP and it gives me a good picture of what you are going through
you can kill someone grin grin grin
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by serikiYCU(m): 12:38pm On Jan 09, 2016
naijainfogalery:
You know what? whatever you say cant get to me, you are somewhere living in abject poverty. Frustrated , broke and looking for where to dispense those poverty anger, you search and couldnt find anywhere, You managed to get a 6,000 naira china phone, and thanks to networks that gives free MB, you come online and spew trash. Sorry your frustration cant get to me, whatever you say doesnt change the fact that you will remain broke after coming online to spew trash grin grin cheesy cheesy sorry bro i cant help you cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy grin . I remember that OP and it gives me a good picture of what you are going through



@ OP, it's very easy to undstand that dis guy was just kiding even with d abusive words but out of misunderstanding, u commited the same thing u ar preaching against

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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by Shortyy(f): 12:38pm On Jan 09, 2016
Aremu01:

U re not so sure about that thou
Sure bout what?
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by Kayoski(m): 12:39pm On Jan 09, 2016
kaziblake:
I control myself and pretend have got a thick skin.
ok
keep it up...I might still be on the look out...
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by preciousMI1(f): 12:41pm On Jan 09, 2016
Tell them.. it's simply not civilization and shows illiteracy
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by feeloscar(m): 12:41pm On Jan 09, 2016
naijainfogalery:
You know what? whatever you say cant get to me, you are somewhere living in abject poverty. Frustrated , broke and looking for where to dispense those poverty anger, you search and couldnt find anywhere, You managed to get a 6,000 naira china phone, and thanks to networks that gives free MB, you come online and spew trash. Sorry your frustration cant get to me, whatever you say doesnt change the fact that you will remain broke after coming online to spew trash grin grin cheesy cheesy sorry bro i cant help you cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy grin . I remember that OP and it gives me a good picture of what you are going through
Haba, try understand now, he was only joking bros. Abeg Kool temper.
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by 1wolex85: 12:42pm On Jan 09, 2016
naijainfogalery:
Hahahahaha you know sometimes we come here and say things no thinking of the consequences, Its like me abusing your mum and saying LOL. The whole reason i put this up is for people to comport themselves and if you now deemed it fit to still come here and do exactly opposite what was posted. Then its you that has a very big Social media comportion disorder
the guy was only being sarcastic na , haba
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by silversonuc(m): 12:42pm On Jan 09, 2016
naijainfogalery:
Hahahahaha you know sometimes we come here and say things no thinking of the consequences, Its like me abusing your mum and saying LOL. The whole reason i put this up is for people to comport themselves and if you now deemed it fit to still come here and do exactly opposite what was posted. Then its you that has a very big Social media comportion disorder
uncle calm dwn, am with him on dis one , dt was an innocent jab
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by Nobody: 12:42pm On Jan 09, 2016
Eyaaa sad
Poor searching4love cry cry
So they've not paid him for two months? No wonder he hates Nigerian girls. They are not giving him face because he doesn't have money.
I hope he finds a better paying job soon so that he will no more be a frustrated woman hater sad

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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by 1miccza: 12:42pm On Jan 09, 2016
Nice Job Op . The truth is a clearly sensible and truly matured person would not just keep on throwing insults and abusive words around.
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by jahlove4jah: 12:42pm On Jan 09, 2016
naijainfogalery:
Hahahahaha you know sometimes we come here and say things no thinking of the consequences, Its like me abusing your mum and saying LOL. The whole reason i put this up is for people to comport themselves and if you now deemed it fit to still come here and do exactly opposite what was posted. Then its you that has a very big Social media comportion disorder
op are you not guilty of what you preach?

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