Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by Chinwem(f): 3:16pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Kachisbarbie:
leave those ones. They are heartbroken You just have to understand that great men don't bring down women, they rarely have time to even discuss women, what happened to political/business and invention talks? Abi o? |
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by MistyDave(m): 3:17pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by serendipityF: 3:29pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Menix, shey u hear? Its a very small world and there is life outside Nairaland |
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by kinibigdeal(m): 3:32pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Kids everywhere |
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by PBeni(m): 3:37pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
naijainfogalery: I once read a story of a guy on nairaland, who went to visit his fiance and the dad needed to send an email unfortunately he left his laptop at the office, so he decided to leave his laptop with the dad while he went out shopping/on a date with his girl. The dad happens to be a nairaland addict, so immediately he opened the browser, he logged into his gmail account, so he decided to check nairaland to check whats happening, Only to see that username a****** i mean the username that abused him, the one that called him all sorts of names just because of their different views on politics. low and behold, immediately they came back from their date, all of a sudden the sweet loving father got all mad, ask him if he was a****** he said yes, he just told him to get out of his compound. All pleas fell on deaf ear. It was later he told his daughter that he wont open his eyes for his daughter to marry such a person.
The problem here is we think we can get away from being a retard online, but it always come back at us. So let me narrate my own experience
I went to a very remote area of Lagos to do something. I needed to access the internet and i couldnt, so i asked people around for a cafe, after moving a long distance we finally found one, the cafe had just 5 systems and it was fully booked by yahoo boys and there are about 5 of them waiting to take turn. Damn!! i needed to do this thing asap.
i begged the dude at cafe attendance to just allow me do what i needed to do as it wont take more than 20 minutes and i said i would give him 500 naira. After he heard that it was as if i promised him 1 million , see as the guy dey yes sir , yes sir me.
So he took me to their Server. where i did all that needs to be done, i decided to download the file i needed, while it was downloading, i decided to open nairaland to while away time,If you are nairaland addict lol you will understand that at any slight internet chance you will always come home (nairaland) so i quickly opened nairaland.com , All of a sudden i saw 40 mentions, fear gripped me , i was like what did i post for people to mention me like this, i clicked on mention and i saw abuses and topics i never commented on. I checked the username then i occured to me that i haven't logged in and it was the dude at the cafes nairaland account.
What i saw was heartbreaking, this dude abuses people for no reason. he calls people all sorts of names. he is one of those guys that forms team foreign girls on nairaland, i read one of his posts where abused one graduate that posted that he needed job badly, he called him a broke ass and all sorts of name , i am not trying to mock or abuse him but meanwhile this is someone that earns N8,000 monthly and he is being owed 2 months salary (wanna know i knew?) after the downloading my file. I decided to have a chit chat with him, he told me how much is earns and how he is being owed 2 months salary. I needed to be sure it was him. But then the picture he has on his nairaland account was the picture he has as his phones screensaver . Thought it wasnt his personal picture but an image.
So ever since that day, if anyone abuses me online, I just remember that guy and smile. because most of these folks that abuses or curse you here wouldnt look into your eyes and say nonsense when they see you.
Word! |
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by PBeni(m): 3:41pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
So ever since that day, if anyone abuses me online, I just remember that guy and smile. because most of these folks that abuses or curse you here wouldnt look into your eyes and say nonsense when they see you.
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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by Nobody: 3:46pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
naijainfogalery: Hahahahaha you know sometimes we come here and say things no thinking of the consequences, Its like me abusing your mum and saying LOL. The whole reason i put this up is for people to comport themselves and if you now deemed it fit to still come here and do exactly opposite what was posted. Then its you that has a very big Social media comportion disorder Is that all. |
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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by Nobody: 3:47pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by Nobody: 3:47pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by Nobody: 3:49pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Amberon: I'm sorry on his behalf. I understood that you were just being sarcastic but he didn't understand and took it P. my bad!! His mode of thinking tho. Cry baby style. |
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by Nobody: 3:49pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by Nobody: 3:51pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by naijaboiy: 3:52pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
MistyDave:
Gbayi! You get sense jare. Oga Naso I see am o. |
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by Nobody: 3:57pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Lmao..i was testing ur tolerance..n yes u failed repogirl: lol, who swear for your life like this? Better go and beg them to reset your brain back to its default settings.
Anyway I know you want to test my insultive abilities. I hope I passed. |
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by Nobody: 3:58pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by Rawblings(m): 4:02pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
True talk Op. It's never good to insult anyone whether online or offline. People can take it personal. Everyone should learn how to be polite.. It doesn't cost you anything |
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by sparkleRed(f): 4:36pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
naijaboiy: This is crap to me.
Not everybody is cool headed and can tolerate bullshyte. I for one can't tolerate bullshyte.
I return insults as they are thrown at me without remorse. I've met a lot of nairalanders and when they see me they know I'm totally different from my persona on here.
So it all depends on if you want to take what people do on an Anonymous forum such as this seriously.
Go to Reddit and other forums and see insults. Twitter is not anonymous yet the users insult each other.
Abeg jare! |
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by naijaboiy: 4:41pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by coveredchic(f): 4:45pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
BlackMaria:
Funny,u cud type this epistle @ me. I was just teasing u based on the topic. Which was y,I added lol into my sentence. Since u av decided to take it personal,then I b'liv u gat low self-esteem. @blackmaria, I saw the humour in your comment. And I'm wondering at how the op reacted. He succeeded in doing exactly what he preached against. I guess op is those "do as I say, not as I do" types. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by Nobody: 4:45pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
naijainfogalery: I once read a story of a guy on nairaland, who went to visit his fiance and the dad needed to send an email unfortunately he left his laptop at the office, so he decided to leave his laptop with the dad while he went out shopping/on a date with his girl. The dad happens to be a nairaland addict, so immediately he opened the browser, he logged into his gmail account, so he decided to check nairaland to check whats happening, Only to see that username a****** i mean the username that abused him, the one that called him all sorts of names just because of their different views on politics. low and behold, immediately they came back from their date, all of a sudden the sweet loving father got all mad, ask him if he was a****** he said yes, he just told him to get out of his compound. All pleas fell on deaf ear. It was later he told his daughter that he wont open his eyes for his daughter to marry such a person.
The problem here is we think we can get away from being a retard online, but it always come back at us. So let me narrate my own experience
I went to a very remote area of Lagos to do something. I needed to access the internet and i couldnt, so i asked people around for a cafe, after moving a long distance we finally found one, the cafe had just 5 systems and it was fully booked by yahoo boys and there are about 5 of them waiting to take turn. Damn!! i needed to do this thing asap.
i begged the dude at cafe attendance to just allow me do what i needed to do as it wont take more than 20 minutes and i said i would give him 500 naira. After he heard that it was as if i promised him 1 million , see as the guy dey yes sir , yes sir me.
So he took me to their Server. where i did all that needs to be done, i decided to download the file i needed, while it was downloading, i decided to open nairaland to while away time,If you are nairaland addict lol you will understand that at any slight internet chance you will always come home (nairaland) so i quickly opened nairaland.com , All of a sudden i saw 40 mentions, fear gripped me , i was like what did i post for people to mention me like this, i clicked on mention and i saw abuses and topics i never commented on. I checked the username then i occured to me that i haven't logged in and it was the dude at the cafes nairaland account.
What i saw was heartbreaking, this dude abuses people for no reason. he calls people all sorts of names. he is one of those guys that forms team foreign girls on nairaland, i read one of his posts where abused one graduate that posted that he needed job badly, he called him a broke ass and all sorts of name , i am not trying to mock or abuse him but meanwhile this is someone that earns N8,000 monthly and he is being owed 2 months salary (wanna know i knew?) after the downloading my file. I decided to have a chit chat with him, he told me how much is earns and how he is being owed 2 months salary. I needed to be sure it was him. But then the picture he has on his nairaland account was the picture he has as his phones screensaver . Thought it wasnt his personal picture but an image.
So ever since that day, if anyone abuses me online, I just remember that guy and smile. because most of these folks that abuses or curse you here wouldnt look into your eyes and say nonsense when they see you.
LMAO Searching4love, where art thou? |
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by Nobody: 4:56pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
coveredchic:
@blackmaria, I saw the humour in your comment. And I'm wondering at how the op reacted. He succeeded in doing exactly what he preached against. I guess op is those "do as I say, not as I do" types. Just dey look am jare. If I didn't add 'LOL' to it,it would av shown,I was insulting him. For him to turn around using 'Mother' as an example is so funny. His actions has made me b'liv his story as a lie. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by Laveda(f): 4:56pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
naijainfogalery: You know what? whatever you say cant get to me, you are somewhere living in abject poverty. Frustrated , broke and looking for where to dispense those poverty anger, you search and couldnt find anywhere, You managed to get a 6,000 naira china phone, and thanks to networks that gives free MB, you come online and spew trash. Sorry your frustration cant get to me, whatever you say doesnt change the fact that you will remain broke after coming online to spew trash sorry bro i cant help you . I remember that OP and it gives me a good picture of what you are going through Like this makes you different? And you're even the Op
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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by HardMirror(m): 4:57pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
naijaboiy: This is crap to me.
Not everybody is cool headed and can tolerate bullshyte. I for one can't tolerate bullshyte.
I return insults as they are thrown at me without remorse. I've met a lot of nairalanders and when they see me they know I'm totally different from my persona on here.
So it all depends on if you want to take what people do on an Anonymous forum such as this seriously.
Go to Reddit and other forums and see insults. Twitter is not anonymous yet the users insult each other.
Abeg jare! Thanks jare I insult people more on twitter especially those politicians. They are rich and powerful yet I insult them. Don't know what the op and some are feeling like here. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by HardMirror(m): 4:59pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Laveda: Like this makes you different? And you're even the Op
Guess he feels he is the richest man on nairaland. Lol and has exclusive right to insult people. He could even be a pauper himself forming don here 1 Like |
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by sparkleRed(f): 5:01pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by Laveda(f): 5:08pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
HardMirror:
Guess he feels he is the richest man on nairaland. Lol and has exclusive right to insult people. He could even be a pauper himself forming don here He just did the opposite of what he preached
One shouldn't even take these online insults so serious
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Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by xtervaganza(m): 5:13pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
ladycomfort: . See liar on NL even peeps that don't abuse you , you insult them. Mtcheew lol You don come again abi? You see me for dream abi you de trip for me? |
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by HardMirror(m): 5:15pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Laveda: He just did the opposite of what he preached
One shouldn't even take these online insults so serious
That is why I love naijaboy's contribution to this topic. I do my insulting on twitter and my target are politicians. I don't even bother with celebrities. Insults count for nothing on a faceless forum and what do you even achieve in the end? |
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by xtervaganza(m): 5:15pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
preetyb:
U no get mind how u know? Lol |
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by Laveda(f): 5:20pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
HardMirror:
That is why I love naijaboy's contribution to this topic. I do my insulting on twitter and my target are politicians. I don't even bother with celebrities. Insults count for nothing on a faceless forum and what do you even achieve in the end? LOL ..you know there are peeps who registered on Nairaland just to cause trouble?
Seriously nothing...if you can't face the heat its better you just ignore them...that's the best one can do.. |
Re: Why You Should Stop Abusing People Online - My Encounter With A Nairalander by ladycomfort(f): 5:26pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
xtervaganza: lol You don come again abi?
You see me for dream abi you de trip for me? . U dey mad. Ode |