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Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by Nobody: 10:58am On Jan 11, 2016 |
fabby27: That one is too extreme, Biko? I understand his relincyanve to give gifts maybe because he doesn't want to be called maga, but this women has been doing things for him. He should have at least tried to get her something. What type of person would collect N1500 from another person like that? told him if he wants me to come he ll pay for the transport fare, which he didn't pay for eventually, at the party I was sprayed 1500, on our way home I showed it to him, he collected the money from me, saying we are ONE now, i was thinking in my mind, are we married? I felt he shouldn't have collected it. At least show you are the MAN. 1 Like |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by Nobody: 11:04am On Jan 11, 2016 |
Gaborone:I don't think there is any excuse here. I am sure he grew up with male friends. He has siblings etc. There are many men who grew up with their grandmothers or mothers and I don't think they are the crazy. |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by babythug(f): 11:30am On Jan 11, 2016 |
I quite agree with you. Some gestures are even innate despite culture and upbringing. How can you be eating in someone's house often and never think to contribute? Even villagers bring bread along on visits to family members.... How can he collect her money on the pretext of we are one? Does he give her his money on this same basis? He will form ignorance and keep expecting her to foot bills. Besides his somewhat simple nature does not exonerate him from being a womaniser. With men you usually cant tell. Even the most unassuming ones may cheat. Take it from me, bobo yen o ni nkan se! Its like one yeye guy I knew who said he didn't know he should give his mom an allowance when he got a well paying job. Did he forget how she was scraping to eat in the village? This matter just dey upset me like say I sabi the OP.... daretodiffer: 1 Like |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by Nobody: 11:34am On Jan 11, 2016 |
babythug: LOL at the bolded. I should have thought of that too That can never change. He is going to be domineering and probably run her down. |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by HaneefahRN(f): 2:37pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Onegai:Not ur former neighbour o, just his think alike. Abi o, my sister. May God save we the single ones from such kind of men and continue to increase the joy in ur home. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by confun: 2:59pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Sister, I no sabi wetin to talk, all the comments just de make me laff... But sincerely, I don't think his problem is poverty jare, C,mon, how can he collect the #1500 dt u were given in a parry, How can he price bike up to the 7th bike just because of #30 difference How can he keep eating in your house without him giving u something to eat in his house How can he tell you to come down from a bus just because of #10 increase I think dey said men get ego, dey like to prove to dir gals dt they are able, how come ds man no dey prove his ego.... How can he not know the meaning of lol, lmao,lwkmd in this jet age? A PhD student? I think he has personal problems, for heavens sake I know young men who grew up in d village, many came from broken homes, many sponsored demselves, see dey av developed demselves so much..... Abeg, free d guy o, even if he is rich, he will still behave like dt oo, Someone like me can't marry him because I no go fit cope, he go rubbish me one day in d presence of friends and families....and he wouldn't even know that.... Well, may be u can teach him with patience sha..but.. And the funny thing is dt there are hundreds of ladies who will love him as he his, just free him and let him get his type of lady... |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by mrwonlasewonie: 4:32pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
babythug:why are you laughing na |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by rolled: 5:36pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Man when nor won spend nor dey look woman Run for your life That's how I thought I could change my hubby Now am depressed,sad,confused,quarrel everyday My own even get serious mouth odor join To buy clothes for himself na problem Imagine someone dey wear green shoe and pink shirt I don die Everyday I dey pity my life 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by Miami11: 6:00pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
rolled:Tell as about this your husband na! 1 Like |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by Acidosis(m): 6:10pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
I know this will hurt some folks but I don't care. OP is your man an Ijebu man? You've successfully described a typical ijebu man like one I know personally. If he's from Ijebu, don't waste your time trying to CHANGE him. He won't change!!! I'm talking about a 60yr+ man that will deny his children from watching TV just to manage prepaid electricity unit. I'm talking about a man that will switch-off bulbs and use rechargeable lamps just to manage prepaid electricity unit. A man that will boldly offer N1000 for a N5000 good after checking about 20 shops. Don't be deceived, its not always about POVERTY. This same person has over 4 residential apartments on rent and another 9 - 10 shops in Lagos. When you meet a genetically stingy man, he'd recommend charcoal iron over electric iron even if he's made the MD of Ikeja Electricity Distribution Company. 4 Likes |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by Acidosis(m): 6:11pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
rolled:ahahahahahaha Your hubby is s e xy |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by Miami11: 6:24pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Acidosis:Acidosis you always sound like a man of the qualities mentioned here. |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by HIDDENSECRECY: 6:26pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
rolled: Since you are married to him, you can gradually suggest clothing's for him to wear. He has mouth odor, you can get mouth wash for him or try to ensure he brushes his teeth after eating. I suggest you start looking at the solutions rather than dwelling on the problem. Because the more you thunk of these problems you only get bitter depressed,sad,confused,feel like quarreling everyday. |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by Miami11: 6:37pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
HIDDENSECRECY:Maybe he is the stubborn kind that will never accept change, I dated someone that use to refuse to apply deodorant/ he reaked of heavy man sweat, I bought him deodorants as gifts, he never touched them, besides he was lazy among other vices, am glad I ran for my life. |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by Acidosis(m): 6:42pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Miami11:not as bad as described here |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by HIDDENSECRECY: 7:05pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Miami11: I understand your point. Ego and pride is always a mans challenge. However, I will always propose that females look for a man who has understanding and respects your opinion. Life is too short to live a miserable life. |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by nnamdiosu(m): 8:04pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
missempress: sweet heart as far as I'm concerned you are in the relationship out of pity. I suggest you quit if you can't bear. marriage is meant to be enjoyed not endured out of pity |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by DipoDee: 8:30pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Missempress... pls lack of money is not the only sign of poverty.. You man is TOTALLY poor coz you may be broke but really HAPPY in your relationship; so his own poverty is more than meets the eyes. A boyfriend that can't pay your Tee-fare has spiritual issues and if truly, he hasn't gotten you a single gift before (not even TomTom) then you need to put your life in perspective and don't assume that he will change. He will get money and still make your life miserable, pls don't play games with your future and your happiness. We court to have a taste of what we will live with for life so if you think you can stand your boyfriend's attitude forever, you can stay with him. It all boils down to what you want anyway. 2 Likes |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by Arsenate(m): 8:42pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
rolled:you have an amazing sense of humor i swear. Forgive me but I have to laugh some more. |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by FynBabe(f): 9:04pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
:DYour post describing that Ijebu man made me laugh so hard that I even forgot I was angry self. Acidosis: 1 Like |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by FynBabe(f): 9:08pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Funny people every where! Thanks for making me forget my sorrow Person been make me vex but as I read your post ehn, I no even know when I burst laugh. rolled: |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by Nobody: 9:15pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Acidosis:Send an email to vannenisoblessed@yahoo.com |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by Acidosis(m): 9:22pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
FynBabe: really? I'm glad you forgot the worries and anger |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by Acidosis(m): 9:23pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Vannywealth:Done Ose |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by FynBabe(f): 9:25pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
How come you guys all suddenly became comedians on NairaLand this evening. Lol @ TomTom Abeg, I no fit laugh again! DipoDee: |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by FynBabe(f): 9:27pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Yes o! Acidosis: |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by Nobody: 9:56pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Acidosis:Alright. 1 Like |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by dahmie2013: 10:03pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Op, I'll advise u leave him. Men like dat don't change. Let him marry his type, its not exposure dat is d problem, its d stinginess. If he wasn't stingy, I'll say u shud stay with him so he can learn & be exposed as u're, but he's too tight fisted. |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by raumdeuter: 10:32pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
OP, when you go visit him, does he even entertain you with anything or he would tell you to bring along your own refreshment? |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by Neverquit(f): 10:50pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Mdrr (Morte de rire)! raumdeuter: |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by blessedtwins: 11:37pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
ambient: Way forward niyen |
Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by byvan03: 11:51pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
This guy is terrible!! I see no good in him, hold on to him and regret your entire life. This has nothing to do with being broke, he is obnoxious. Taking away money that was sprayed on you? Marry this guy and go nuts. |
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