Cutehector:
At 30 u are stayin with ur sister and her family..



Pray for urself bro.

Cutehector:
At 30 u are stayin with ur sister and her family..

dominique:


I find that detail a lot more disturbing than her BIL's 'rudeness'

Sorry op, as long as you live under their roof, you will have to put up with whatever BS they dish at you. If you have alternative accommodation option, you can go for them. I pray you get a good job before this year runs out.

cococandy:
Oga Get your own place. That's the one solution.

There's really nothing you can do about it except ignore the dishes when he uses them.
He can't drag you into the kitchen to wash them.
If it gets to that point where both of you have to verbally or physically enter a scuffle over what chores you should do, you don't need a prophet to tell you to leave the next day.

And why is his religious life your problem? It's his life so leave him to it.

ronald4lif:


I was surprised to read that part and almost lose interest reading the complete post but somehow I did and had in mind to ask same question. I'm much interested as to how his belief is an issue.

And to further display his religious intolerance attitude and give his spurious claims a lift he said he listens to corrupt songs. Also interested in knowing what he considers corrupt songs.

Cutehector:
At 30 u are stayin with ur sister and her family..



Pray for urself bro.

dominique:


I find that detail a lot more disturbing than her BIL's 'rudeness'

Sorry op, as long as you live under their roof, you will have to put up with whatever BS they dish at you. If you have alternative accommodation option, you can go for them. I pray you get a good job before this year runs out.

stzy:
1. If I am d husband I'll definitely kick ur broke Jobless ass(though 2 of u guys aasses are Jobless). 2. D husband is older dan u. N since ur sister works 7-7 its ur Job nw 2 help her tidy her house. 3. So long as u stay in his house n u pay no rent foot no bills, he's ur. Boss. 4. As 2 which church he goes or d type of music he listens 2 should in no way concern u if it disturbs u buy a huge headphone. 5. Finally, u hav 10yrs 2 b a fool 4eva so really u hav no tym playing hide n seek with ur sister's hubby who's alreasy 40 n Jobless... Young niqqur go giit ur money n leaave ur sister's marriage in peace. A sentence is enough 4 moderately wise

oluafam:
My dear, humility should be your watch word here. Clean the dishes and Intensify in ur prayers and job hunting.
Even if it means waiting by the corner for him to finish his meal and u then clear the dishes, do it. He is ten years older than you, u should be answering him, sir.

There's a reward that comes with humility. So b humble.