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Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by Ifebazz(m): 12:20pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
murmee:I prefer he wrote in pigin than the half baked English many do here with more acronyms than a mainframe could decyfer. |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by Nobody: 12:20pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Your Bro in law is tired of your stay in his house and looking for a way to drive you out. Thats all. |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by noblegrex: 12:23pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Cutehector:I need not go further cos I've seen what I intend posting. Just in another version.how can he be staying with her sister doing nothing.just sleep,wake up take your bathe and stroll about without doing anything in the house. With all due respect he's the one being rude here. How can you expect your sis husband to be washing plates for you.lai lai. If he's doing that then,something must me wrong somewhere. Don't tell me I can't understang cos I was in your shoes and I'm the one washing,coocking,cleaning, doing virtually everything in the house before I had my freedom. My Advice;leave the house and make yourself useful. Regardless the Joblesness of your sis hubi.let your sis do the complaining. 8 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by BrainnewsNg(f): 12:24pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Cutehector:Ok 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by blackmantis: 12:26pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Your Brother in law is becoming too rude for your liking.......and you at 30 live under his roof. You better grow up. 5 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by tintingz(m): 12:28pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
I'm a muslim and mister op you make no sense in your story when you try to use his "unbeliever" to judge his character. Mister believer are you even better than him? 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by 185mikel(m): 12:30pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
GMartyns:move out of that house immediately and look for a friend place to stay until you are financially capable enough to get your own apartment 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by robinsoncrosoe: 12:30pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Cutehector:am sorry to say this. U sound stupid to me. Hw old are u anyway 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by Nobody: 12:31pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
GMartyns: Your brother in-law no try at all , if na me be your brother in-law I go pack all the plates we take chop go kitchen go wash after every meal , including yours. When you see me wash our plates about 3 times nobody go tell you before you collect the plates for my hand wash. |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by missyadorable(f): 12:32pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
GMartyns: Guy,when you live under somebody's roof at an adult age of 30,expect anything! What your brother-in-law is displaying is typical..If he was your brother and his wife your in law,you would have seen worse hell My candid advise: Get a place of your own and move out...Only then will you be respected.You can't live in somebody's house and prolly they feed you and you seek respect.its rare My cousin's wife used to act very horrible to me whenever I visited from school.i was abt 23.at a point,i stopped visiting and the next time she saw me was 4 years later on my wedding day! You needed to see her smiles! To avoid problems,stay on your own! 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by SpencerLewis(m): 12:34pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
cococandy:Thats my girl. Very intelligent analysis. Was just thinking what his BIL's belief got to do with the op. May be the BIL is more frustrated than d op due to lack of job. Africans are their craze over this imported religions from the middle east. My Amadioha must hear this. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by CandiceJay(f): 12:34pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Mr Op, you re so very funny "Your Brother in law is too rude for your liking"... So u have a 'liking' in anoda man's house. Dats pride nd its irritating. If you can't find ur dream job, y dnt u start sumwer, teach. Even if its a primary schl wer u get paid 8k, start there nd get a room for urself instead of being a burden to ur sister. Or beta still plead wit her to help u wit a little money to get a room. You are 30 for crying out loud. I understand d economy is not stable but dats no excuse. Pls NLanders re begging u, try nd be responsible. Thank you. (No offense intended) 6 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by delaks0829(m): 12:37pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
My broda, simple truth,is either u leave d house 4 good or u continue 2 receive d insult until u ve a better option. God see u 2rue. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by 2goodbobo(m): 12:44pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Their house their rules. When you get your house then you can give your own rules bro. Intensify your job search so you can leave there. For now humble yourself and do as he says. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by corneli83(m): 12:47pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Brother, you don't have etiquette nor fear of God (Exodus 20:12) is why you think you BIL who is 10 years older should wash dishes while you live in the the same house. I am sure that you shall begin to record success and prosperity as soon as you become humble (not to your BIL alone). 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by 4C2215131: 12:48pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
As long as you're under his roof, you got no choice. He's sending you a subtle message-"get the hell out of my house"! 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by menxer: 12:48pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Bros, wetin happen to your Papa house, Boko Haram burn am? Stop playing the victim card, whatever treatment you are experiencing you set up yourself for it. Wake up, your bro-in-law owes you nothing, his attitude towards you is clear on that. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by 4C2215131: 12:49pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Cutehector: Easy to say... |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by 4C2215131: 12:50pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
CandiceJay: You're sounding like being 30 is the end of the world! 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by joshuacaleb(m): 12:50pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Well you have to show him respect as long as you are still with him. But from your explanations it sounds like you don't like him and so its difficult to show humility. Pls be humble and try get a job that will solve the problem. |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by Nobody: 12:51pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
@ GMartyns i had a similar experience;i once stayed with my sister and her husband,i wash d dishes,sweep d floor,wash d toilet ,wash d car (nt everytime sha),den i was 21 and i was preparing for jamb;but at a time,i got tired of d place cos most times,i was home alon,i advise u leave d place afterall your parents did nt send u packing, and instead of looking for job up and down,why not try entrepreneurship,its beta den sitting down and doing notin. but op sincerely,u should do d dishes,nothing dey dere,weda u chop or not 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by mohdimplez(m): 12:54pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Cutehector:Epic advice. Thumbs up[color=#990000][/color] |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by CandiceJay(f): 12:56pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
4C2215131: It's not d end of d world neither is it d beginning of d world. The point there is you shouldnt be in your married sister's house at 30(and be complaining of her husband's attitude). 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by dandollaz: 12:57pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
helovesme:As far as he is not contributing to feeding,he is a coward to say such.if na me awol till 9-10pm let me see how he will command me.any i blame op at 30 he is still attaching. |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by Ay04z(m): 12:57pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
oya open ur eyes,u re 30 a graduate,now u re expecting to get a white collar job abi?..find something doing and move out of dat house asap..teaching in private school could b stressful and low salary but brodaar manage it for d main time and get ur own accomodation even if na slap me i face u take it like dat and move on....God bless our hustle. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by 4C2215131: 12:58pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
CandiceJay: What you should have said in your post earlier. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by danduchi(m): 12:58pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Forgive the negative talk from others @OP... Just want to tell u nothing good comes easy... Remember Joseph in the bible, he disrespect him, do ur house chores with melody, I tell u the God I serve will change ur story 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by Ay04z(m): 1:00pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Addicted2Women:lol continue to dey lie. |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by jacy67(f): 1:01pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Op you're the one that is too rude for your BIL liking. At 30 you should be someone's Brother in-law 6 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by adeboizy11(m): 1:01pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Cutehector:Gbe fun!!! He needs fervent prayers, in short he should pray till something happens( on mountain o) till God answers him, he shouldn't leave d mountain, not even in d ☔ or sunny weather. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by sauceEEP(m): 1:02pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Op you better bury your head in shame cos this thread is filled with "BBB" ( Bashing Back to Back) 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by id4sho(m): 1:03pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
man vs man
at least we now know that two idle
men will also produce friction 3 Likes |
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