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Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by Dongreat(m): 9:47pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
Team 1, and 2 woohoo. Too busy expanding d family business dat the only unclothedness hv seen since 3yrs ago is that of a mannequin, lol . I feel so alive everyday cos women is anoda full time job and it's a multitask I have no strength for 5 Likes |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by wristbangle: 9:48pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
ronald4lif: Excellent research doctor ronald4lif. This hard to get mechanism is what some ladies actually use to beef their deflated esteem, feeling as if their market value is 2nd to none. There is no point proving this attitude when she knows the guy possess what she is looking for. Most time ladies always say "ooo if I don't do it, he will consider me as their cheap hoe". Like I told a female friend of mine today, a guy will not respect u becos of your proving to hard attitude. Honestly this attitude is becoming stale and blatantly silly. The sharp ladies nutmeg husband material dudes but the shakara ones end up as side chic to a player @ oliviaarims, nice comment from you. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by Nobody: 9:49pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
Rapmoney:i just hate it, i will like a girl, grab the courage walk up to her she will say no, i swear i will not talk to her again, even if i do, the passion won't be there again 2 Likes |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by adekhingz(m): 9:53pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
Rapmoney:lols,,, 2 Likes |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by tosyne2much(m): 9:57pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
wristbangle:Nice one Dr. Wristbangle As for me, I don't think hard-to-get can be used to measure the colour of my love. Once I woo a lady and she gives an outright negative response, I drift away at once This is not because I don't love her or I'm impatient or something, it's because I don't know how to force people into liking me 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by Rapmoney(m): 9:58pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
wristbangle:Una dey one of the categories! |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by ronald4lif(m): 10:00pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
wristbangle: Bros, no lady with a sense of aplomb, and sterling values plays hard to get. If she likes him she likes him and if she doesn't she says so and move on. Only unsophisticated women with bairnlike attitude does plays hard to get. And that's only when the guy wooing them doesn't tick the right boxes, if he does they succumb and embrace his advances. 2 Likes |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by Nobody: 10:01pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
ronald4lif:The normal obligation of Nigerian ladies. An erroneously backward orientation lacking value. Wait, is there any difference between ladies who play hard to get and those who depend on their boyfriends for everything? When the moral girl who has been playing hard to get finally settles for begging, conveniently for cash & material things, then her 'hard-to-get' facade would sure be blown up & uncovered as a lame attempt at trying to protect her non-existent dignity so she wouldn't look cheap at first. Delusion of its highest order. 8 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by Cutehector(m): 10:04pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
tosyne2much:me too .. it's just left for d lady to make a choice weda to like the guy or not.. Lately, I told myself am Nad gona toast any babe until i"m very very ready. 1 Like |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by ronald4lif(m): 10:07pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
Drefan: I wish I can upvote this comment a hundred times. This is the finest explanation as to why the ones who plays to get does so. They normally have nothing to offer in a relationship and are leeches who depends on a man's finance hence the need to portray a non-existing self-worth so the guy doesn't becomes detached and timorous towards their demands. No one could have said it better than you did. Respect! 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by Nobody: 10:10pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
ronald4lif:Exactly. 2 Likes |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by tosyne2much(m): 10:16pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
Drefan:Gold and silver, I do not have Bro may God bless you abundantly for this comment |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by Nobody: 10:18pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
tosyne2much:i did, it makes sense to me. |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by Nobody: 10:19pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
tosyne2much:LOL. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by tosyne2much(m): 10:25pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
MissGdope:If I have interest in you and I woo you, just consider me gone the moment I notice you are playing chess or ludo with my life 4 Likes |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by Toks2008(m): 10:29pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
tosyne2much: Another description of me but im not a moderator neither do i see myself as handsome but not ugly tho. 2 Likes |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by ehissi(m): 10:36pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
Hmmmmmm.............. On behalf of all hard to get ladies and all responsible men who are enjoying their relationships and marriages with their hard won "Eminados"; I disagree!! Whether men be intelligent, high or low self esteem, direction or directionless, being hard to get isn't a factor. On the contrary, the only reason any man will consider a woman/lady "hard to get" is if he hasn't taken out time to observe a lady to establish her worth or he is attracted to her simply because of the "goods or luggage" she is carrying or he didn't get her eventually. Once the true value of a ladies companionship is assessed and established; it doesn't even occur to you that she is actually playing hard to get; that is until you get her anyway!! It cost me 8 full years to capture my personal, customised, one in a million "asamkpokoto", my original eminado - not all those pirated software everywhere - and for 6 of those years I never got a yes or no answer not even an "I will think about it" answer!! That didn't stop my vision and dreams, on the contrary it shapened it, because they are lot of things a typical man in life may take for granted, until a remarkable lady with a focus and vision for her own life too and the dexterity to pursue it appears on the scene; na there parade go change Oooh!! If a man, claims to be intelligent, busy, an introvert, has high self esteem, focus and other such mumbo-jumbo, hocus-pocus, slippity-slam; when he sees a woman/lady that has value and high net-worth in the field of matrimony and a life-long partnership and companionship, his calendar, schedule, ward-robe, spending habits, feeding habits, life-style, even the way he dey waka will change to accommodate a jewel of inestimable value!! In any case, in my own particular example/experience, the issue wasn't whether she was hard or soft or easy to get. I was more concerned with finding out if there is something I was missing; getting to understand this type of person fully, so I know if I am looking down the wrong lane. Of course there were times when it looked like I was just wasting my time; especially considering that most guys around me use the same period I use to get her to walk in and out of at least 10 different babes/relationship and chop, clean mouth waka!! But where/what are those relationships now; compared to what I have?? So I disagree with the article entirely; what I don't advise is playing hard to get just for the fun of it!! Like a rite of passage he must go through just because you say so; if you are keeping him on a waiting list so that you can observe if the person in question is sincere and is someone whom you can cope with for the rest of ya life; I think there's nothing wrong with playing "Hard-to-get" or whatever name it is called these days!! #MyOwn10Kobo 13 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by Rapmoney(m): 10:38pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
tosyne2much:Lol! If dem play chess for ur head ehn! |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by ronald4lif(m): 10:42pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
Oliviaarims: This is a better persuasive basis for procrastinating a relationship. Sure there's a need to gauge a guy's feeling to be sure it's sincere and not just a temporal feeling of lust. But I don't think that's what constitutes playing hard to get. I think playing hard to get borders around unnecessarily leading a guy on even when the lady is certain he ticks all her desideratum and requisites. That's where the problem is. 1 Like |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by Rapmoney(m): 10:44pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
ehissi:There are lots of Bimbos out there who play hard to get more than the 'virtous woman' you have been preaching about. This statement alone, renders your opinion invalid. Let your 'No' be 'No' and your 'Yes' be 'Yes'. What's the essence of acting as if you are in, at the same time, acting as if you are not in? 3 Likes |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by Rapmoney(m): 10:46pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
ronald4lif:...and your last paragraph is what I have been talking about |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by ichommy(m): 10:53pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
Rapmoney: you no go kill person @ rapmoney |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by 1surdman: 10:59pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
So much anticipation by the way we go then |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by Aminat508(f): 11:00pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
ichommy:u never sleep? |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by Nobody: 11:00pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
tosyne2much:By the time you notice, i go don chop you finish I'm joking oo. i'm soft-to-get 1 Like |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by Nobody: 11:04pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
Ladies still play hard to get these days and times? I didn't know. 1 Like |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by tosyne2much(m): 11:04pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
MissGdope:I guess we should get to talk behind these walls then, or what do you think? |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by Nobody: 11:05pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
MissGdope:Otiemhen, onegbe? |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by opey112(m): 11:06pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
RexKex:nah ur papa house u go grow put....stay there |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by scachy(m): 11:07pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
CaroLyner: #TeamHardToGet?? Wait until u reach late 20's or early 30. Then we ll know who ll play hard to get, wether its ur team hard to get or "we 'dem boys " Am not wishing you late marriage oo pls. 2 Likes |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by Dindondin(m): 11:08pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
HungerBAD:I detest over hard to get girls 3 Likes |
Re: Types Of Guys You Should Not Play 'Hard-To-Get' With by sagaxity(m): 11:08pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
HungerBAD: For where dem dey see dem? Abi dem dey write am for face? 1 Like |
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