Fatherson:


In Naija you won't get half of anything. You will only get custody of the small children until they are past childhood.

You will even be lucky to get child support.

I'm African American, and he gettin' took back ta my land

Tough question...... I will definitely be mad for a while but I don't think I could leave except he isn't even remorseful about it, that's where we will have a problem.

I'd feel really hurt and betrayed.. It would be less agonizing if it was someone different, of course.. Someone who's respectably self-sufficient.

But for a maid? It would be difficult. I'll always regard him as a shameless man who took advantage of a girl dependent and far below him.

But my home must continue to stand.

francizy:


Unadulterated brilliant speech??

If thats an euphemism for bullsh!t, then yea

If my husband cheated on me, It'd be extremely difficult to forgive him. If he impregnate a woman outside, there would be no forgiveness not to talk of him sleeping and impregnating my maid in our house. Hahahahaha! Fogerrit o. No coming back from that. I would divorce him, we'd divide our assets and I'd claim damages for adultery sef and move on. OR I'd remain married to him, kick the maid out but we'd definitely have an open marriage and he won't say jack about it. We'd be strictly room mates, do your things by yourself and vice versa. If he doesn't like it, he can as well move out.

Those women who are saying they'd collect the child, una try sha

Code45:

Dey there na.

So, you're not gonna explain? No?

d bible says forgive and forget......

Madam u said u need a househelp n nw she cme in n help u to get pregnant cus der is love in sharing.so y d complain nw?

QueenValerie:
It wouldn't be.

Be what? He's not entitled to half?
P.S: I never said you would do such a thing.

Fkforyou:


Be what? He's not entitled to half?

P.S: I never said you would do such a thing.

It wouldn't be me cheatin' so he gets nothin'

Suigeneris93:
I won't ever forget no matter how hard I try so why delude myself that I've forgiven him? There is no two ways about it, the marriage would definitely be over

Spare me
If he were rich u can never do anything
Doubt me
Ask Annie idibia
Let accept tuface made mistake at first without condom
2nd time nko
3rd time nko
Abegiii

That is the devil for you! Impregnating maids since 1820

No forgiveness o because I know he would definitely not forgive me if the case was reversed and he would now feel I can tolerate any kind of poo...
As for d maid I would send her packing but wld help take care of the child.

Having sex with the maid should be enough to get his ass in jail

I ain't sheltering no paedophile or someone who abuses his position and take advantage of others. Why on earth should I sit back while he ruins a young girl's life

As for the poor girl, she will get the necessary theraphy.I will ensure she goes back to school when she is strong. I won't take her child away from her (what madness). It is up to stay with me or with her parents.

QueenValerie:
It wouldn't be me cheatin' so he gets nothin'

Ha ha ha...dodging the question ain't ya..??

Okay let me ask you this, in the case of divorce and it's obvious you are wealthy than your husband, I mean you are 3 times richer than your husband, would you allow the assets to be shared equally?

SirJeffry:
Even Jesus said "thou shalt not tempt the Lord thy God" so why tempt your husband with a grown girl housemaid?

Why does a woman need a househelp in the first place? Is she handicapped?

Why bring the sacred name of Jesus into issue like this? And you must be a Christian as I know a Muslim would not even bring Jesus into this! And again the premise was totally off!

SirJeffry:
Even Jesus said "thou shalt not tempt the Lord thy God" so why tempt your husband with a grown girl housemaid?

Why does a woman need a househelp in the first place? Is she handicapped?

Are you so handicapped that you won't help out in the house?

QueenValerie:
So, you're not gonna explain? No?

Offcourse, I will.

Women just don't like the truth. But I tell them anyway.

Most guys will have another babe outside. Shikena.

Instead some guys keep a second family outside because wife at home might never accept that reality.

I realised that the day I found out that a gentle cool guy was dating a girl near my house. Some years ago now.

His very loving pretty wife should be enough for an average guy. With 2 kids. But no.

I'm sure she (his wife) doesn't know till today. She praises him to high heavens.

Fkforyou:


Ha ha ha...dodging the question ain't ya..??

Okay let me ask you this, in the case of divorce and it's obvious you are wealthy than your husband, I mean you are 3 times richer than your husband, would you allow the assets to be shared equally?

Wait ,is this still my cheating hubby?
Cause if yes he wouldn't get a cent
And I need not answer because I would not do it.

Code45:
Offcourse, I will.

Get to it.

cybriz82:
Madam u said u need a househelp n nw she cme in n help u to get pregnant cus der is love in sharing.so y d complain nw?

Ode!

daretodiffer:
Having sec with the maid angle be enough to get his ass in jail

I ain't sheltering no paedophile or someone who abuses his position and take advantage of others. Why on earth should I sit back while he ruins a young girl's life

Mumu, you are never objective and rational, always prejudicial in your comment.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
That's the difference between you and some other women who will park out of their house at any given opportunity as if they have been witing for it. Some people who celebrate golden jubilee in marriage will tell u that it has not been easy. U will have to stop counting how many times ur spouse has wronged u.

Id.iot


Would the husband forgive if you were in his shoes? A man that can have sex with a maid will surely kill you to satisfy his madnedd

Fkforyou:


Mumu, you are never objective and rational, always prejudicial in your comment.

You must be really st..upid

Ode!

Arnold Schwarzenegger got his maid pregnant, when his wife, Maria shriver, found out, she left left his ass; after 25 years of marriage. The child was 9 or 10 years old at the time; as old as Maria's last child.

Suigeneris93:
I won't ever forget no matter how hard I try so why delude myself that I've forgiven him? There is no two ways about it, the marriage would definitely be over

soo u cant forgive but you will stay if he intends to marry another woman into the home?

He accidentally skilled his manhood into her vagina


Most of you taking about forgiveness haven't seen cases like this.


What business would she have with my husband that child lead to sex in the first place?

daretodiffer:


Are you so handicapped that you won't help out in the house?

Lady, instead of shouting back at guys here, better learn from it.

So that you do not make a similar mistake. Guys are just saying it how it is. Neither you nor I can change that.

30 years back, polygamy was still very common. "Poly-womany" is still very much around, even if not all under one roof.

If one woman walks away, lots of women are ready to take her place, especially if the guy is comfortable.

QueenValerie:
I'd forgive him after I got a divorce and half of everythin'!!!
And I mean it, if he wears a wig I want my half of that too!

materialism at its peak.geezzzzzzzz

Nija women....always quick to say I'll leave him in hypothetical situations. In reality, most of them are in an emotionally, physically and verbally abusive relationship with a no good brother and still begging to be in there.

QueenValerie:
Wait ,is this still my cheating hubby?
Cause if yes he wouldn't get a cent
And I need not answer because I would not do it.

Lol.....Have a nice day ahead .