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I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by debbysmyles(f): 10:42am On Jan 24, 2016
Pls I need advice,i just had to create a new account to avoid embrassment.
I'm 21yrs old and I had sex for the first time 1month ago,i was feeling sick so I decided to visit the doctor only to discover that i am pregnant.

I told my boyfriend and he suggested abortion..the problem is I don't want to abort the baby cos of fear.I kept my since till one ago because of different Phrophecy concerning pregnancy I must not abort if I do I will die.
I told my boyfriend everything but he insist I abort it if not he is going to abandon me to my fate.
My mum will kill me,society will crucify me,i have cried and cried,i don't know what to do.

Some guys are wicked upon all the promise of love.
I would have kept my virginity if I had known.

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 10:44am On Jan 24, 2016
It's always advisable that if you want to engage in premarital sex, you should endeavor to use protection always. Asides preventing you from getting pregnant it also protects against STDs.
It was your first sex and the smart thing would have been for both you and the guy to use protection, but you didn't and now you are facing the consequences.

I am going to be honest with you. It's not right to abort children. It's religiously and morally wrong. It's murder and it's not right.
Asides for the fact that abortion is wrong, it can also be detrimental to the health of the lady and sometimes it could be fatal. So I won't advice you to abort the pregnancy. Besides this isn't a decision you should take on your own.

You just gonna have to tell your parents. That's the best thing. They are not going to kill you. They would scold you and probably punish you, but they still love you and have your interest at heart. Talk to your mum. Present the matter to her in a mature way, and be prepared for what would come after that. She would get mad and angry and emotional, but after few days, she would come along. She is a woman like you. If after you present the matter to your parents and they insist you abort it, then you have no choice. You aren't going to raise the child alone. But I don't think they would. I don't think any parent would want their child to abort a pregnancy.
If they tell you to keep it, I am sure they would proffer ideas and solutions on how you would go about the whole pregnancy issue including sorting things out with the guy who impregnated you.

You made a mistake, I get it. Everyone makes mistakes at some point in their lives, what's important is that we all learn from these mistakes. Don't worry, it's all right. Everything is okay.

You are just 21 and you have your whole life in front of you. Don't let this discourage you in anyway. It's just a little set back, but don't let it stand as a hindrance to you striving to achieve your dreams and goals in life.

It's alright. smiley

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by fartkay(m): 10:46am On Jan 24, 2016
D poster bellow, sorry can't solve it.




Girl ,,go tell his mum dat her son is ready to become a father. No sane mother will tell u to do abortion.

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Emac34: 10:47am On Jan 24, 2016
sorry u hear

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by CaroLyner(f): 10:47am On Jan 24, 2016
first of all at 21 you dont know about condom
and aftermath pills? am not upto 21 but i know
all these things.anyway the deed has been
done.do not get an abortion.Dont let anyone
force or coerce you to get one. You are your
child’s mother, and no one – not your boyfriend– can make you get an abortion. Let your “no!”
mean “no!” – no matter what anyone else tells
you. Your baby is a new, unique person who
deserves a chance at life. Period. If you ever
need to be reminded why you don’t want an
abortion, read real stories from real women who have had abortions. Their experiences will
remind you why you don’t want to do this, and
will help keep you strong in difficult moments

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Michellla(f): 10:48am On Jan 24, 2016
lipsrsealed

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by AlexCk: 10:50am On Jan 24, 2016
debbysmyles:
Pls I need advice,i just had to create a new account to avoid embrassment.
I'm 21yrs old and I had sex for the first time 1month ago,i was feeling sick so I decided to visit the doctor only to discover that i am pregnant.

I told my boyfriend and he suggested abortion..the problem is I don't want to abort the baby cos of fear.I kept my since till one ago because of different Phrophecy concerning pregnancy I must not abort if I do I will die.
I told my boyfriend everything but he insist I abort it if not he is going to abandon me to my fate.
My mum will kill me,society will crucify me,i have cried and cried,i don't know what to do.

Some guys are wicked upon all the promise of love.
I would have kept my virginity if I had known.
Lalasticlala,farano and seun Pls from page.

Tough break ma'am,
Well, u just have to tell ur mum. Its gonna be hard but u just have to. Cause abortion shaaa, e no make. U would have abstain or prevented it. But the deed has be done. So summon up courage n tell mumsy. As for ur bf, ur eye don open, e no love u b dat , so leave am. Wish u the best o

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by firstking01(m): 10:58am On Jan 24, 2016
Decker:
bro shift, maka follow sidon na, dem don book all the space finish cry

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Mhizkel(f): 11:00am On Jan 24, 2016
Build up courage and tell your mom about it. She won't kill you, but be prepared to face any sort of treatment from her cos you brought this upon your self.
Keep the baby and stay away from that boyfriend of yours. He doesn't wish you well, he values your life not.

Wish you a safe delivery wink

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Laveda(f): 11:00am On Jan 24, 2016
Your first time and he got you pregnant? That's sad embarassed

But girl, before now, I know you've known lil things about sex and all, you aren't a kid 21 no be beans,
You should have asked from friends before going into this, and your silly boyfriend? He's wicked, wasted the whole spërm inside you without giving you advice...

I don't believe in all these spiritual whatever,it doesn't work undecided
You have to talk to your mum at this stage, I know she's gonna yell, sure its normal. You didn't use your head undecided tell her about every thing, what if you die in the process of abortion? That's gonna be sad, see your mum as a friend right now, only she can help you..and your boyfriend? Knowing him was the worst mistake you made in life....

Decker will help you better grin

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Strahovski1(m): 11:01am On Jan 24, 2016
Trash... serves you right. Getting pregnant at 21. When you were fuc!king you did not know you would use use a condom?

Lucky you created created a new account.

As a result of your silliness, you are about to kill an innocent life via abortion simply because you were not careful to use a condom or perhaps you are just a hoe.

Piece of trash...

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by sseunth(m): 11:03am On Jan 24, 2016
is condom now expensive or there is no more contraceptive pill?

tell ur parent, u have no choice.....

dont worry, let me become the president of nigeria i will legALLISE ABORTION CUS OF PEOPLE like you. but as for now......THOU SHALL NOT ABORT

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by fartkay(m): 11:08am On Jan 24, 2016
Strahovski1:
Trash... serves you right. Getting pregnant at 21. When you were fuc!king you did not know you would use use a condom?

Lucky you created created a new account.

Hoe.


I smell something fishy ere.
Aw u take know say na lucky, oh I see u re d boyfriend suggesting abortion.

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Strahovski1(m): 11:11am On Jan 24, 2016
fartkay:



I smell something fishy ere.
Aw u take know say na lucky, oh I see u re d boyfriend suggesting abortion.

Huh

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by fartkay(m): 11:14am On Jan 24, 2016
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by debbysmyles(f): 11:17am On Jan 24, 2016
Decker:
It's always advisable that if you want to engage in premarital sex, you should endeavor to use protection always. Asides preventing you from getting pregnant it also protects against STDs.
It was your first sex and the smart thing would have been for both you and the guy to use protection, but you didn't and now you are facing the consequences.

I am going to be honest with you. It's not right to abort children. It's religiously and morally wrong. It's murder and it's not right.
Asides for the fact that abortion is wrong, it can also be detrimental to the health of the lady and sometimes it could be fatal. So I won't advice you to abort the pregnancy. Besides this isn't a decision you should take on your own.

You just gonna have to tell your parents. That's the best thing. They are not going to kill you. They would scold you and probably punish you, but they still love you and have your interest at heart. Talk to your mum. Present the matter to her in a mature way, and be prepared for what would come after that. She would get mad and angry and emotional, but after a day or two, she would come along. She is a woman like you. If after you present the matter to your parents and they insist you abort it, then you have no choice. You aren't going to raise the child alone. But I don't think they would. I don't think any parent would want their child to abort a pregnancy.
If they tell you to keep it, I am sure they would proffer ideas and solutions on how you would go about the whole pregnancy issue including sorting things out with the guy who impregnated you.

You made a mistake, I get it. Everyone makes mistakes at some point in their lives, what's important is that we all learn from these mistakes. Don't worry, it's all right. Everything is okay.

You are just 21 and you have your whole life in front of you. Don't let this discourage you in anyway. It's just a little set back, but don't let it stand as a hindrance to you striving to achieve your dreams and goals in life.

It's alright. smiley
Decker I appreciate but my mum has been warning me since about pregnancy,the main problem now is the guy is threatening to deny me and pregnancy if I don't abort it.

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by AnonymustME(m): 11:17am On Jan 24, 2016
Did you post a topic about the straffing sessions that lead to the pregnancy?

congratulations, I hope you have triplets

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by thorpido(m): 11:19am On Jan 24, 2016
debbysmyles:
Pls I need advice,i just had to create a new account to avoid embrassment.
I'm 21yrs old and I had sex for the first time 1month ago,i was feeling sick so I decided to visit the doctor only to discover that i am pregnant.

I told my boyfriend and he suggested abortion..the problem is I don't want to abort the baby cos of fear.I kept my since till one ago because of different Phrophecy concerning pregnancy I must not abort if I do I will die.
I told my boyfriend everything but he insist I abort it if not he is going to abandon me to my fate.
My mum will kill me,society will crucify me,i have cried and cried,i don't know what to do.

Some guys are wicked upon all the promise of love.
I would have kept my virginity if I had known.
What do you want to do with front page?
You're blaming your boyfriend?Was it not consensual?Rather than listen to your parents and follow their leading and counsel,you decided to go your way and now you can't face your parents.

Tell your parents or get a relative tell them.Heaven won't fall,you won't be the first to have such an experience.You will just have to bear the consequences and make the best of your situation.

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by debbysmyles(f): 11:19am On Jan 24, 2016
Laveda:
Your first time and he got you pregnant? That's sad embarassed

But girl, before now, I know you've known lil things about sex and all, you aren't a kid 21 no be beans,
You should have asked from friends before going into this, and your silly boyfriend? He's wicked, wasted the whole spërm inside you without giving you advice...

I don't believe in all these spiritual whatever,it doesn't work undecided
You have to talk to your mum at this stage, I know she's gonna yell, sure its normal. You didn't use your head undecided tell her about every thing, what if you die in the process of abortion? That's gonna be sad, see your mum as a friend right now, only she can help you..and your boyfriend? Knowing him was the worst mistake you made in life....

Decker will help you better grin
My mum will never accept me,I'm scared right now.

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by cruzita(f): 11:19am On Jan 24, 2016
keep the baby he might be the one to change naija

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by cruzita(f): 11:22am On Jan 24, 2016
VERY BIG DILEMMA. BUT NO MATTER WHAT *DON'T ABORT THAT BABY*

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by tpiar: 11:22am On Jan 24, 2016
this is the third such topic in the last month or so.
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 11:23am On Jan 24, 2016
Sorry sis. It's gonna be a hard decision but u have to keep the baby. 4get about what the people will say, it's just gonna be for some months and u will have ur baby 4eva

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by debbysmyles(f): 11:23am On Jan 24, 2016
sseunth:
is condom now expensive or there is no more contraceptive pill?

tell ur parent, u have no choice.....

dont worry, let me become the president of nigeria i will legALLISE ABORTION CUS OF PEOPLE like you. but as for now......THOU SHALL NOT ABORT
you can condemm me but everyone make's mistake.

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Laveda(f): 11:25am On Jan 24, 2016
debbysmyles:
My mum will never accept me,I'm scared right now.
You need to try, summon courage and tell her...
You don't expect her to be happy over this, or what's your plan?
Abortion?
Think about the risk behind it, what if something goes wrong in the process?
Babe you've gotta do this....its hard I know, really hard time for you... cry just try okay? sad

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by debbysmyles(f): 11:25am On Jan 24, 2016
HateU2:
Sorry sis. It's gonna be a hard decision but u have to keep the baby. 4get about what the people will say, it's just gonna be for some months and u will have ur baby 4eva
Thanks.

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by falconey(m): 11:25am On Jan 24, 2016
Crap

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by debbysmyles(f): 11:26am On Jan 24, 2016
Laveda:

You need to try, summon courage and tell her...
You don't expect her to be happy over this, or what's your plan?
Abortion?
Think about the risk behind it, what if something goes wrong in the process?
Babe you've gotta do this....its hard I know, really hard time for you... cry just try okay? sad
maybe I will involve her sister.Thanks.

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Laveda(f): 11:27am On Jan 24, 2016
debbysmyles:
maybe I will involve her sister.Thanks.
Better!!!
Cheers and goodluck.

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by thorpido(m): 11:27am On Jan 24, 2016
debbysmyles:
Decker I appreciate but my mum has been warning me since about pregnancy,the main problem now is the guy is threatening to deny me and pregnancy if I don't abort it.
You should have listened to your mum then!
Leave your boyfriend,it's you and your parents now.

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by debbysmyles(f): 11:28am On Jan 24, 2016
thorpido:
What do you want to do with front page?
You're blaming your boyfriend?Was it not consensual?Rather than listen to your parents and follow their leading and counsel,you decided to go your way and now you can face your parents.

Tell your parents or get a relative tell them.Heaven won't fall,you won't be the first to have such an experience.You will just have to bear the consequences and make the best of your situation.
you can insult me but I already realised my mistake.

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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 11:31am On Jan 24, 2016
If you keep the baby and your mum disowns you like you said, now what?

You're gonna come back here and ask for a place to stay?
This same people telling you to keep it wont even look twice at that thread.

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