Fadman4real:


I always love reading your responses they make a whole lot of sense.

Thanks.

osesology:

Come on, dude, give her a break. Tell me u've never mistakenly slept with a woman, unprotected, before (or maybe u are just a kid) Most of us have been in this type of sh*t before, so crucifying her online is just plain HYPOCRISY!
If u dont have any advice to give, kindly shield your sword.

@bolded, you are kidding right? Mistakenly? Really?

And as for your question, I was virgin until i got married

Congratulations..

debbysmyles:
Pls I need advice,i just had to create a new account to avoid embrassment.
I'm 21yrs old and I had sex for the first time 1month ago,i was feeling sick so I decided to visit the doctor only to discover that i am pregnant.

I told my boyfriend and he suggested abortion..the problem is I don't want to abort the baby cos of fear.I kept my since till one ago because of different Phrophecy concerning pregnancy I must not abort if I do I will die.
I told my boyfriend everything but he insist I abort it if not he is going to abandon me to my fate.
My mum will kill me,society will crucify me,i have cried and cried,i don't know what to do.

Some guys are wicked upon all the promise of love.
I would have kept my virginity if I had known .
Lalasticlala,farano and seun Pls from page.

To the remaining virgins out there that are trying to enter into one bf and gf relationship that won't lead to marriage, please take note of the bolded. @Op may God guide and strengthen you.


To The House:
Jesus is Coming soon o, please repent and turn away from your evil ways.

Aunty it will be a tough decision to make,
Don't let one mistake change your life forever,
If you are not comfortable with having that baby,
Abort it,
No let Pastor wife tell you otherwise,
It's your life, do what you think is best ,
No be say tommorrow dia, you go begin blame that pikin say, if no be say you been born am, you for be the next Ngozi okonjo Iweala, Beyonce,Genevieve etc,
Don't forget the stigma that is associated with girls were be born one,
To see man were go gree marry you go dey like to win lottery oh,
But most importantly, think well and hard before you make a decision oh.

What I Hate Most Is Abortion - It Was My Neigbour That Taught Me A Lesson, She Got Impregnated Mistakenly By Her Bf And She Opt For Abortion, After The Neccessary Things Were Carried Out.

She Carried On With Her Life, And Has Got Married, She's Now 40years And No Child, According To News, Her Womb Has Got Spoilt Due To Abortion.

Since Then, I'd Never Advice Someone To Abort Even If I Impregnate That Person Mistakenly.

Apart From Affecting Womb, It's Also An Intense Sin In The Presence Of Thy Lord.

There's No Difference Between Killing Someone With A Gun And Abortion.

Pls Don't Abort, God Will Cater For You And The Unborn Child - Please, Pleasee, Pleasee! PLEASE!!!

Joe4real1988:
. So my broda u ar advisin her 2 commit abortion ryt? Doh i dnt wish u such, bt cn u disown ur daughter over such a mistake? No matter d situation, abortion is a gr8 sin b4 God nd man coz if ur parentz had abortd u, u wudnt b alive 2day.

My parent had me after they got married, now do you see the difference? Or should i spell it out for you?

Strahovski1:
Trash... serves you right. Getting pregnant at 21. When you were fuc!king you did not know you would use use a condom?

Lucky you created created a new account.

Hoe.

in support

debbysmyles:
Decker I appreciate but my mum has been warning me since about pregnancy,the main problem now is the guy is threatening to deny me and pregnancy if I don't abort it.

50Naira condom would have save u dis messup. Never abort, else u are a moderer...take responsibility of yur action. Talk to an elderly family member to break d good news to yur mum

sorri

Pls don't. Thanks

If you are old enough to have sex ,then you 're old enough to take responsibility.

CaroLyner:
first of all at 21 you dont know about condom
and aftermath pills? am not upto 21 but i know
all these things.anyway the deed has been
done.do not get an abortion.Dont let anyone
force or coerce you to get one. You are your
child’s mother, and no one – not your boyfriend– can make you get an abortion. Let your “no!”
mean “no!” – no matter what anyone else tells
you. Your baby is a new, unique person who
deserves a chance at life. Period. If you ever
need to be reminded why you don’t want an
abortion, read real stories from real women who have had abortions. Their experiences will
remind you why you don’t want to do this, and
will help keep you strong in difficult moments

Since you know all, can we make good friends? Can I get to meet you? Lol

Clap for urself shakara don end o. You wanna be a baby mama? Why would u make love without being married? Anyways I don't support abortion u ve to carry ur cross somehow and anyhow

debbysmyles:
Pls I need advice,i just had to create a new account to avoid embrassment.
I'm 21yrs old and I had sex for the first time 1month ago,i was feeling sick so I decided to visit the doctor only to discover that i am pregnant.

I told my boyfriend and he suggested abortion..the problem is I don't want to abort the baby cos of fear.I kept my since till one ago because of different Phrophecy concerning pregnancy I must not abort if I do I will die.
I told my boyfriend everything but he insist I abort it if not he is going to abandon me to my fate.
My mum will kill me,society will crucify me,i have cried and cried,i don't know what to do.

Some guys are wicked upon all the promise of love.
I would have kept my virginity if I had known.

Abort the baby and save yourself and the child a whole bundle of misery. Don't listen to the lie that he or she might be president tomorrow. About time we knew the disservice we are doing ourselves when we do things out of spiritual fear rather than convenience.

Nairalander's will never advice you, rather mock you.

I have had a similar experience as a guy, the bae told me she's preg and this vision of a thing.

I simply replied her that I prefer she die than keep d baby. Though we didn't have a thing just the sex. And that does it, she aborted it knowing I won't take it

debbysmyles:
My mum will never accept me,I'm scared right now.

Why are you scared?

lxyrul:


Since you know all, can we make good friends? Can I get to meet you? Lol

Lol........No

Don't abort the baby!!! Don't do it. Your mom won't kill you trust me..

this OP is better than many girls who go round fucking around and no carry belle.
but unfortunately she's at a disadvantage with respect to those loose girls. welcome to their world, you're now one of them.
live with ur fate.
don't abort that child

debbysmyles:
Pls I need advice,i just had to create a new account to avoid embrassment.
I'm 21yrs old and I had sex for the first time 1month ago,i was feeling sick so I decided to visit the doctor only to discover that i am pregnant.

I told my boyfriend and he suggested abortion..the problem is I don't want to abort the baby cos of fear.I kept my since till one ago because of different Phrophecy concerning pregnancy I must not abort if I do I will die.
I told my boyfriend everything but he insist I abort it if not he is going to abandon me to my fate.
My mum will kill me,society will crucify me,i have cried and cried,i don't know what to do.

Some guys are wicked upon all the promise of love.
I would have kept my virginity if I had known.

You've already made the mistake. Stay away from him to avoid being poisoned with abortion pills.

Next step, confide in your mum and tell her. She will scold you but she will not kill you. Right now, take her as your best friend and tell her the whole issue. Apologies to her and be sincere about it. You'll be fine. Note: Say NO to abortion, stay away from anyone who says you should abort. Take care and pray.

debbysmyles:
Pls I need advice,i just had to create a new account to avoid embrassment.
I'm 21yrs old and I had sex for the first time 1month ago,i was feeling sick so I decided to visit the doctor only to discover that i am pregnant.

I told my boyfriend and he suggested abortion..the problem is I don't want to abort the baby cos of fear.I kept my since till one ago because of different Phrophecy concerning pregnancy I must not abort if I do I will die.
I told my boyfriend everything but he insist I abort it if not he is going to abandon me to my fate.
My mum will kill me,society will crucify me,i have cried and cried,i don't know what to do.

Some guys are wicked upon all the promise of love.
I would have kept my virginity if I had known.

What love

You are to blame. And he is to be blamed

So far he has done nhing wrong. He has the right as you to express his wish on the foetus.

Please abort the pregnancy however make sure you do it at a legit hospital.

Forget the stupid prophecies. Nothing will happen to you provided it is not done by one quack doctor

After the abortion, abstain from sex and if you cannot, visit a hospital or ARPH and asked for a comprehensive sex education

Do not be shy, access to that information is a right




However if you decide not to abort, tell a family member.

With adequate support, you should be able to continue with your education whilst pregnant. However you have to ork harder at your academics, being a mum is not an excuse for a laziness. Also, you have to learn to be smart and hardworking

lxyrul:
Nairalander's will never advice you, rather mock you.

I have had a similar experience as a guy, the bae told me she's preg and this vision of a thing.

I simply replied her that I prefer she die than keep d baby. Though we didn't have a thing just the sex. And that does it, she aborted it knowing I won't take it

HAAARRSSSH!

Hi...you aren't the first to get pregnant at 21 and also believe if a guy decides to have unprotected sex with you..you both should be prepared for anything.and now you are pregnant and he's asking you to abort it..it shows he doesn't love you despite all you have told him.please and please don't abort the child .your parents can't kill you.they will be disappointed but won't cut off your head.please keep the child.I could speak to your folks on your behalf.be strong and stay blessed .

debbysmyles:
Pls I need advice,i just had to create a new account to avoid embrassment.
I'm 21yrs old and I had sex for the first time 1month ago,i was feeling sick so I decided to visit the doctor only to discover that i am pregnant.

I told my boyfriend and he suggested abortion..the problem is I don't want to abort the baby cos of fear.I kept my since till one ago because of different Phrophecy concerning pregnancy I must not abort if I do I will die.
I told my boyfriend everything but he insist I abort it if not he is going to abandon me to my fate.
My mum will kill me,society will crucify me,i have cried and cried,i don't know what to do.

Some guys are wicked upon all the promise of love.
I would have kept my virginity if I had known.

When you were about to have sexx, you no come NL

after you had sexx, you still no come NL

When it was "sweeting" you and you were screaming more,more
Nobody knew
Now you are here,talking abortion and shytte

You better gerrahahia mehn!!!

debbysmyles:
Decker I appreciate but my mum has been warning me since about pregnancy,the main problem now is the guy is threatening to deny me and pregnancy if I don't abort it.

It is sad that this is Nigeria. In a normal society, you would have the choice of keeping it or not. Don't mind these people telling you to keep it by all means. They are not in your shoes. Do you come from a rich family? Can you raise a kid at this time? Do you have a good paying job? If your answer to any of these questions is no, then life as you know it now is over. It is going to be rough for a very very long time.

Listen, if he's not going to marry you don't bother. That child could only be your destiny child. God will sustain you and him/her in Jesus name. Think of when you will be 40 years........., your now unborn child will be 19 years. talking from experience though. Goodluck.

debbysmyles:
Pls I need advice,i just had to create a new account to avoid embrassment.
I'm 21yrs old and I had sex for the first time 1month ago,i was feeling sick so I decided to visit the doctor only to discover that i am pregnant.

I told my boyfriend and he suggested abortion..the problem is I don't want to abort the baby cos of fear.I kept my since till one ago because of different Phrophecy concerning pregnancy I must not abort if I do I will die.
I told my boyfriend everything but he insist I abort it if not he is going to abandon me to my fate.
My mum will kill me,society will crucify me,i have cried and cried,i don't know what to do.

Some guys are wicked upon all the promise of love.
I would have kept my virginity if I had known.

You should move your thread to the family section.

M

nollywood, next post abeg

society has gone beyond crucifying pregnancy b4 marriage
since you have started forking you are ready to get married
make una go do introduction,
marriage thinz

have you done it before?

Yaaaaaaaaay. Congratulations