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"If My Man Cheats On Me While I'm Pregnant, I'll Kill Him And The Baby" - Lady / My Girlfriend Is 2 Weeks Pregnant, I Asked Her To Keep It But She Wants Abortion / My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help (2) (3) (4)
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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Mintayo(m): 7:07pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
The earlier young peeps understand that bf and gf relationship is a scam the better. Don't date someone who you are not willing to be committed to and who is not willing to be committed to you. Op you should have thought about your action before you agreed to having sex with this your scam bf, now you have to dance to the music alone. Yiu had better involve your parents and keep the kid. 4 Likes |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by mallamseifaldin(m): 7:07pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
CaroLyner: So u mean no matter how you have sex u can never get pregnant? 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Phargbemmy(m): 7:07pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
debbysmyles: See, it is better you are rejected by the society, including ur siblings than to commit murder and even get urself killed in the process. You made a mistake, then you have to bear the consequencies and the beauty of it is you will look back to this day and regret you ever thot of abortion. #stay_positive #stay_alive |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by jgbemson1: 7:08pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
young lady, life is choice decide on wat to do, when u are having it u didn't let us know,it's up to u......i |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by egorov(m): 7:09pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
debbysmyles:Its advisable to date someone responsible and mature. Had it been ur bf was, it would have been easier for u, all u will be worried about now will be how to break the news to ur parents. I really pity u babe. And ur bf, he's a miserable fellow, he couldn't use condoms or better still get u pills that will wash away his bast-ards. He's now telling u to abort after telling him ur life is at stake. Well my advice 4u is to look for someone u can trust in ur extended family who is respectable before ur parents to help u. This yoke is too heavy for u, you are so young. Sorry 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by ephi123(f): 7:09pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by happney65: 7:10pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Go and abort the Damm Baby Please..Go.meet a competent Doctor and it would be done not all these quaks around..Send me a P.M if you need one. Omolola15 na him u dey hear so...Dont have unprotected sex..Okay? Thank You 4 Likes |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Ishilove: 7:10pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
debbysmyles:Sister, what will you tell God if you die while aborting? 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by realborn(m): 7:10pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Keep it. No one will kill you. Many are looking for children now. Had they known, they would have kept that pregnancy of yesteryears. The deed is done. No need admonishing you. It is well! |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by STILESGANG: 7:10pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
You are either plain ignorant or stupendously stuppid.So at 21 you allowed a guy sleep with you without protection.Nowadays 13 years old know what a condom is. My only advice for you is to look for a competent hospital and abort that pregnancy,everyone admonishing you to keep the baby won't be there for you when everything goes awry cos its obvious that you are too stupid and immature to raise a baby 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Code45: 7:11pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
The girl is dumb. Who have first sex at her age without protection when you ain't married? 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by babestell(f): 7:11pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
debbysmyles: I know someone who is interested in adopting your baby, if you choose not to keep it. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by enoch273: 7:12pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
debbysmyles: My dear, is it not the same society that say abortion is wrong but then look down on teenage parents? Is it not imam that preach about charity but are all fat, is it not pastors that preach about greed but they own private jet, is it not government that preach peace but endorse wars, so stop trying to please society, don't commit two sins of killing an innocent soul and yourself, pls and pls ve the baby. God will provide, your mum might come to hate you now, but in the end she will help you along the line. I beg you once more, don't abort that baby. You can reach me on 08179538301 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by vansfks: 7:13pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Strahovski1:Asshole must u be rude |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by KINGDAV2015(m): 7:15pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
DON'T DO IT! |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 7:15pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
debbysmyles: Um not advising you to keep the child or not but taking care of child will deal on you greatly since you are not even married, no fiancée, boyfriend is denying, 21 you still going don't make your life miserable. All I can say o. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by akankemi1(f): 7:16pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
since u ve ruled out abortion...grow up. u won't be d first person in dis situation. u ve to be strong |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by justwise(m): 7:16pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
debbysmyles: The deed is done so no need blaming you for getting pregnant because it will not change the situation now. Don't abort the baby no matter what your bf says, yes your mum will be angry and disappointed in you but she will calm down with time to accept you. Find a way to tell her as earlier as you can, yes it's going to be hard but it's better than killing that innocent baby. You are still young with a lot to look forward for, Genevieve got pregnant at the age of 17 but that did not stop her from achieving so much in her chosen field. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Ishilove: 7:16pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
debbysmyles:Another thing, screen grab your conversations with him either through bbm or whatsapp so that when shiit hits the fan, you will have proof to present to his people that he is the father of the child but he doesn't want to man up and take responsibility. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by silent10(m): 7:17pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
d struggle 4 fp don dey fear me o, mak sombdy no com one day sey gej na gay jst to get to fp |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Malakh: 7:17pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
you gat me laughing hard "when it was sweeting you" lol.. DICKtator: 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Wowzer(m): 7:17pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Keep the pregnancy. With time your family will accept what you have brought upon yourself. It's just a passing phase. You are not the first and won't be the last. Prophecy or No prophecy keep the precious baby. You will be glad you did. Let the guy deny you, As long as your family comes to term with your situation that is what matters most. They will support you. You had be surprised the support you will get from your family after the initial anger. Forget society. Face the consequences of your action, rather than damning it. Might be tough along the way..but you will be happy you made the right choice. Start loving your unborn baby henceforth and defy all plans to terminate the pregnancy. The earlier the better. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by M4gunners: 7:18pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
debbysmyles:Please and please don't remove it. As i talk to you now, i regret asking my then girlfriend to remove pregnancy she had for me back then in 2006.If only i know, i would've done it.I have a child now with Oyibo,we are not married and they don't have a male child in their family and my child is a boy. Could you believe the lady refused my Son to answer my Father's name instead her own Father name. While i am telling you this, if i didn't abort the one back then in Nigeria, he would have at least answer my Father's name. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 7:18pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Ishilove:small girl like u |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by brownlolly(m): 7:18pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Stupid girl 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by sanc2s(f): 7:18pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
In life, the best advise u can get is the one you give yourself. Can't tell u to leave d pregnancy cos I won't assist you in cattering of the baby and I can't tell u to abort it cos I wasn't the one who got u pregnant. If I mistakenly impregnate my girl like am suspecting nw, I'll simply try my best to marry her cos u can't be sleeping with who u can't marry. Takia |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by DavidEsq(m): 7:19pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Decker:The way u painted her mum as one who would be very understanding shows u know little about some mums. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by evy1(m): 7:20pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Some boys are wicked trash,when he was on top of you,u didn't know it will result to this. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by ladyF(f): 7:21pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
What has happened has happened. Your mother will NEVER disown you because u got pregnant. Having a child alone is enough load, having a child outside wedlock is like 10 times harder. Especially with the way society looks at single mothers. I dont even know how to advice you sef. May God be with you and give you the wisdom to make the right decision!!! 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by DavidEsq(m): 7:23pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
fartkay:U really don't know some mums. 1 Like |
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