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Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by czarr(m): 5:49am On Jan 10, 2016 |
Did you notice the thing the op and the commenter with the same problem have in common? The guy doesn't ask them for sex,or pressurize them rather!!! These girls feel like they are dating their brother. They don't feel sexually desired and that alone is an ego killer to a girl,she may not like to admit it but its true She wants to turn you down but she also wants you to ask... Weird right? Women right?! 15 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Amberon: 8:01am On Jan 10, 2016 |
Then what do I do?? I know I will never love again. The only person I've ever loved, which I still have feelings for doesn't seem to care. ( moreover, its been years since we broke up). Is it not better I date someone who I know loves and cherishes me and has proven himself worthy? If I leave this guy now, its the same NLs that will call me a mumu for leaving him. pamellla: 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by IamLEGEND1: 8:41am On Jan 10, 2016 |
Amberon:Lawd, save us from karashikaz 6 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Eversoul(m): 8:46am On Jan 10, 2016 |
u didn't love him n u agreed to spend his money abi. I pity u |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Eversoul(m): 8:46am On Jan 10, 2016 |
u didn't love him n u agreed to spend his money abi. I pity u |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Amberon: 8:46am On Jan 10, 2016 |
you have a serious problem... where did you get that from.. pls don't come showing your stupidity here. if you lack self control, there're men who do. We both have talked about sex and I notice that whenever we sleep he gets a boner but he told me that he won't force or compel me to do what I don't want to do. czarr: |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by JanuaryTempest(f): 8:48am On Jan 10, 2016 |
Lol, he must have served his purpose as Santa over the Christmas season. Now like the Christmas tree & lights, he gots to go. Poor guy. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by czarr(m): 10:32am On Jan 10, 2016 |
Amberon:boring! I'm sure you bore him too Go to church abeg I wasn't talking to you |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by malele(m): 11:04am On Jan 10, 2016 |
Amberon: U look like a gd person. Just hold on to the guy, u will surely fall in love with him one day. That's the simple truth 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by malele(m): 11:06am On Jan 10, 2016 |
czarr: You are right too. Women don't cherish guys that don't ask for sex. It makes her lose interest in u fast. Talking from experience 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by skywalker240(m): 12:41pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Helloflife: What the hell do u want us to say? Advice u? Put any lady or urself in his shoes lets say for instance he needs a soulmate and u fell for him and he slept with u and then post such topic on NL what will u say about him when u read this..u need him for something now uve got what u want and u want to end it..sounds like gold digging to me. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by malele(m): 1:27pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
skywalker240: Felling in love with any girl is a big mistake. One should only fall for the wife 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by skywalker240(m): 1:34pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
malele: THATS TRUE BROTHER 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by pamellla(f): 2:19pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Amberon:I understand u girl....it happns like that. sometimes life is not just fair on one but think of it don't u think of the emotional trauma dis dude ll pass thru if in d future he fnds out u don't av a pinch of love for im...if really u like him as a friend nd u don't wanna hurt him tell him straight to his face u can't settle down with him nd back it up with reasons y it can't work out...I believe he ll understand u....ts better u hurt him than wen u are married to him....think of dis scenario u gt married to him nd ur so called bf now dat u love frm d depth of ur @ showx up in d future nd com begging fo u....won't u go with him dts a question fo u to ponder over....we ladies are movd by emotions, den t ll be too late for the 'poor guy' to move on....nd he ll never forgive u for that... to NLs bashing u....do u care ts ur life not thiers...dey are not gonna stay in d house with u. to round up moi epistle....GO FOR SOMEONE U LOVE NOT THE OTHER WAY ROUND! 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by NemzySeries(m): 2:43pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
hook himup wit a willing & adorable sister dat he wud like & on d orda hand dunt make such mistake....always b sure of ur emotional bearing |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by missyadorable(f): 3:06pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Helloflife: Tell him straight! And who told you he is going to be hurt? You must be a child,you don't know men! A man getting hurt because a lady said she doesn't love him? Hahahaha! Are you the only lady on earth? The earlier you stop considering men's feelings and emotions(cause they have none),the better for you! |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by frakdon(m): 5:06pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
missyadorable:oh! |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by missyadorable(f): 9:18pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
frakdon:Oh! |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Slikbae: 9:37pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
But there's also no guarantee that that someone I love cares or will even be back. Anyways I think I'll heed to your advice. thanks. pamellla: |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by tommychow(m): 9:39pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Helloflife: They just looking for a punching bag to vent their frustrations before work on Monday. The easiest way is to pretend you're very engrossed in work and slowly distance yourself from him (hardly pick his calls, late text msg replies, cancelling dates etc.). Then when he wants to have "THE TALK", tell him you need space for awhile that the relationship is getting harder to maintain with all the pressure. He'll kinda get the message except he's a clingy, soft, low self-esteem nigga. If he is, then it ain't gonna be easy dear. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by pamellla(f): 9:40pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Slikbae:you are welcome |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Slikbae: 9:47pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Awww!!! thanks... hopefully... That was my moniker you quoted. Amberon malele: |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Slikbae: 9:49pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
gibberish!!! just Swerve!!! czarr: |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by flokii: 9:51pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Helloflife: why give him false hope in d first place... guess you've met a prinz you desire to be with right? just tell him anyhow... I just hope he doesn't commit suicide. |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by malele(m): 10:09pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
pamellla: What if the person u love does not love u back? Or maybe he is a player? 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by lahit14(m): 10:20pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
SameMissclassy: C'mon man, tak it easy on her, I wantd to first ask if u dropd off the sky a monkey and evolution transformd u in 3days perhaps the reason ur not somuch intouch with our present reality but I don't tink its necessary anymore. Dis kinda shiit happns evryday. At OP I tink u should come forward with the truth, his reaction might shock u, especially why he probably already suspects it, no1 deserves this kinda shiit. On a more personal note, I tink its his fault, no woman can somuch as pretend to be my girl for all of 5hours n not eventually fall inlove...... |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by pamellla(f): 10:31pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
malele:u simply move on...he is not the only one on planet earth! eventually u ll meet someone u love nd he l also love you in return. |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by frakdon(m): 10:40pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
missyadorable:I think I felt your pain.....Dibéé |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by OTEGA1: 2:36am On Jan 11, 2016 |
Amberon: if u dont love the guy and u just derer because he is persistent, the day u find a guy u will love u will fill something race down ur blood. U will know that u in love. Dont manage it oh wait d love for u will show up. Wen he shows up u will hate dis guy with all his good qualities..................................Follow ur mind it hardly ever decieves u . 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Slikbae: 4:43pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Thanks for your comment. This thing is that mind is only on one person, and its my ex who broke my heart. I can't wait for him forever, moreover he doesn't deserve me. OTEGA1: 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Helloflife: 7:30am On Jan 30, 2016 |
Cc Lalasticlala stop ignoring me now. |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Helloflife: 7:43am On Jan 30, 2016 |
I still haven't told him.
I need more advice |
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