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Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by pbs4real(m): 2:58pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Helloflife:i bliv u nw hv a soulmate nw ryt ![]() |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Dbrainiac1(m): 3:04pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Helloflife:Do me a favour please... gerara here, gerara here!!!! |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Nobody: 3:05pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Helloflife: The best truth is the one u tell yourself, you don't need any advice here because you know what you want and you know exactly what you are doing so go ahead and do the needful and you know what exactly what it is. So you want people here to tell you to tell him you don't love him right? So you don't know that it is what should do and do not need any advice on that? You must be a comedian! When u come up with an issue that deserves an advice, you will definitely be adviced. |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Tonia500(f): 3:06pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
guess we ladies are just heartless haba!!!! for that long?? ok check it out the other way round... won't you say he was just using you to dump you.pls stop decieving him and open up to him |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Maximus85(m): 3:06pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Helloflife: Modern marriages don't last because the two parties have their different meanings to what love it. They tend to compare others to their partners. They haven't grown together in love. Therefore, they hardly agree. But let's consider the oooooold school marriage process. Bode and Bose doesn't know each other. Baba and Mama Bode goes out in search of a good woman for Bode. They finds Bose after rigorous research. Bode might never have seen Bose before. They prolly would meet close to the wedding day or even on the wedding day. This will be sounding like poo in some people's hears. But history says that divorce is a very hard thing to happen back then. Marriage lasts. Bode and Bose naturally wouldn't love each other just like that. But they both respects the opinion and decisions of their parents. Each knows their responsibilities and carry them out. Love is not the primary basis for this strong union but being responsible. Bode and Bose will start to cultivate love together, love will mean the something to both of them. They are cemented. They become one soul. Many will say this is barbaric but it works. Cos they follow the first process of marriage. God brought Eve to Adam. Today the story is different and the next thing you hear is divorce. OP, no one will force you to love this dude. But you have a golden chance to own a relationship / marriage that will last forever. Love isn't the major basis for marriage. Think about it. Is he responsible, patience, self sacrificing, honest, loyal, forgiving, trustworthy, decent, kind, enduring? If he has all these and you don't love him..... Then I'm sorry, you don't know what you want. See 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by tommychow(m): 3:07pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Helloflife: If there's one thing men hate with a passion, it's being led on. That's why these guys are vexing. It's belittling because men naturally have a big ego. If and when you get outta this dilemma (by telling him how you feel, obviously), don't ever make the same mistake of leading a guy on. It's very troubling emotionally and can be dangerous in some cases assuming he doesn't take it very well. |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Gordieshegz(m): 3:08pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Does anyone think wat I am thinking? This mistress only used that dude like a scrub... Just like my Uncle did wen seeking employment, he worked as a primary school teacher b4 he got employed as a lecturer in a University.... You call this tactic "hold on to this till you find something better".... Our sister in question has found a better guy and only trying to discard this poor young man.... Eve,,,,I fear anything with breasts.... |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by taurus21: 3:08pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Helloflife: |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Luvties(m): 3:09pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
![]() This alone shows the guy is boring to her liking. But why not initiate it? |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Mrlekan07034617: 3:09pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Op its not your fault but the guy who sunk himself in the pool of this crazy this called "love". Each time he calls and after saying he loves you and you couldn't reciprocate, he should be aware that you don't love him. This alone should make him call u and ask you to ur face not sitting and expecting that u might change ur mind some day How on earth will I be in a relationship for over 1month and I won't know my lady's stand even when she said "yes" @first My final take is that u should meet him in person and say it to his face simple..... |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Nobody: 3:09pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Helloflife:after you must have been eating his money! rubbish WOMEN everywhere! nonsense |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by siegfried99(m): 3:09pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
cruzita: ![]() ![]() |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by mulliga44(m): 3:13pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Call me 08101956577 if you need advice |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Mrlekan07034617: 3:13pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
sonofananimal: Please its the guy who played DUMB, although some ladies are players but this case is glaring that she's not in love with him. But she shouldn't have said "YES" in the first instance but the guy wasn't sensitive or he is suffering from "inferiority complex" |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by mulliga44(m): 3:14pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
obiorathesubtle:why nah |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by brownlolly(m): 3:15pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Helloflife: I'm in d same situation now. This girl I worked with last year. She is a very pleasant person. I had intentions but amidst all of dat I saw right thru her. We talked everyday since then till this year and I tot we should start a relationship. We have never had sex. But now I know I'm not into her. Never told her I love her. I don't miss her. I don't feel obliged to call her or do anything. I just want to be left alone. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by redcliff: 3:17pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Helloflife: Shatal my friend.. what advice do you need. You dont love him and are u expectung us to tell you something you have not heard or dont know before? Ko oshi lo jor....#wastehistime2016 |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by bellville: 3:18pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Marry that guy. You will get to love him with time. Love grows. Amberon: 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Divinerose(f): 3:18pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
its better u tell him than raising his hope where u are. The earlier the better. If he's nt 4 you then he's for someone else. |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by zezebabyxoxo: 3:19pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Ok |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Nobody: 3:24pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Mrlekan07034617:I keep wondering why can't a woman said " NO! IM NOT INTERESTED OR YOU DONT LOOK INTERESTED TO ME" but instead be putting guys on suspend and be doing all such of emotional testing to see if the guy is worth it or not ![]() is there a law that don't allow a WOMAN to say no? the way I am! I respect a woman that can boldly say no! and that day she will never see me in any parameter of her life because I respect that no but instead of be pretending to love and be showing on and off ![]() that is RUBBISH! we are not in that era anymore. WOMEN like that OP are the kind of WOMEN with no sense at all |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by RVBC: 3:26pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Helloflife: Just answer this questions pls sincerely, (1)what made you accept to date him in the first place (2) what made you realise you love him no more? |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Temmytea70(m): 3:27pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
sickstars: I just like your handwriting ![]() |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by refiner(f): 3:28pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
SameMissclassy: oga easy nah....ur blood dey hot oooo! |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by steppin: 3:30pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Helloflife:Situation indeed! You knew from the onset that you have no feelings for him, yet you lead him on. Probably to spend his money and then dump him. You just created another monster and soon he'll take out his anger and frustration on some poor girl who has no clue. Weldone. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by tivta(m): 3:30pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Helloflife: Later girls will say men are players... 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Henryubani44(m): 3:32pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
There is a difference between falling in love and dating, most guys don't get this. U just meet her and go out with her, all u have in mind is she is yours and ur in love. That's a lie 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by talk2archy: 3:32pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Just blame GEJ and thats all.... |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by nairaman66(m): 3:33pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Helloflife: Took you whole 12 months to know you don't love him? I can only say these are the comments of gold digging dishes! |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by steppin: 3:33pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Helloflife:Either way, you used him. Women are always the first to cry fowl in relationship matters, but here you're the one using people and you don't even have the guts to tell him you never had feelings for him. |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by Mrlekan07034617: 3:37pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
sonofananimal: Lolz really hilarious I must tell u. That's y I don't give a shit about them. If I'm attracted to you and I make the first move to meet u by trying to talk to you and you are like..... (Forming!!!) I will just walk away and talk to someone else, instead of holding your fingers on my knee begging for just a "YES" The BAD ones among them had really made guys go WILD dealing with ladies. That's y there are so many RAPE cases everywhere!! |
Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by seaga: 3:40pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
RoyalBlak007: After spending pot load of his money. ...and he doesn't even pressurize you.Shaking my head 1 Like |
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