There are certain things guys do that put ladies in the position to insult and disregard them even to the point that it becomes very difficult for such guys to earn respect from them despite the fact that he may have changed from his shameful acts.

Some of the things guys do that make ladies loose respect for them are;

1. Gossiping

Normally this is one of the idle hobbies ladies indulge in to relief their emotions but I count it as a total shame to see grown up men gossiping on meagre issues. I mean how will constant discussion on the kitty cat of ladies provide money or contribute to the economy of the nation?

2. Wearing dirty clothes

Some guys don't even care about their outfit, wearing a particular underwear, socks and shirt for several days without washing it. Ladies will definitely find an excuse to push such guys on visitation away whose socks stink like dead rat. I am sure that some of our nairaland ladies must have experienced this situation.

3. Touching a lady's butt/bosom at rowdy places

I detest guys who stylishly romance ladies in public most especially at rowdy places in order to satisfy their sexual urge. This situation happens more frequent at places such as congested buses, bus terminus, etc where some guys seize the opportunity to touch the untouchable. I am also a bit guilty of this act when me and a busty lady boarded an okada few weeks ago. During the juicy journey, I enjoyed the view of her dancing mangoes when the bike man was busy manoeuvring the galloped roads.

4. Urinating openly

Guys involve in this act are not different from a chronic lunatic because I don't understand why a normal guy will openly urinate in public. Such guys should forget about ladies having respect for them and I think they need urgent psychiatric evaluation.

5. Drinking irresponsibly

The tolerance level of some guys consuming alcohol is very low but they always want to prove "I am the don" when friends push them into drinking competition. After getting drunk, they start misbehaving and eventually sleep on bare roads/dirty canals which annoys ladies a lot.

6. Cheating

Though the act of cheating hibernates in men's blood but some guys have become heavy weight champion in chasing ladies shamelessly meanwhile they have a standby girlfriend. The question I keep asking is what does the other lady possess that is not in their girlfriend's body?

7. Rape

I honestly support the recent invention of condom with teeth by a scientist to serve as defence mechanism for ladies and punishment for perverts. Rapists are not even respected in the society and no wonder their jail term is grievous.

8. Nagging

There are situations when a guy will be tempted to nag but if it becomes unnecessary and excessive, ladies at such scene will start loosing respect for him. Ladies hold high esteem for guys who knows when to talk and when to keep cool.


You can add yours

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9. Wearing one Boxers for a Week

Whether you believe it or not, some dudes normally wear one boxers for a couple of weeks after which they will wash it with hypo and starch it the moment they know that they want to get laid. I also wear my own boxers for at least three weeks before washing it. Though my gf often complain of the stench always emanating from my boxers but do I have a choice?


10. Small Joystick/ One Minute Loving-Making

Ladies have no atom of respect for dudes who always boast of their bedmatics skills, only to climax after just three thrusts. I have been humiliated and discriminated several times by the reason of my small joystick. Research and findings have shown that ladies passionately detest guys with small joystick

Arguing wth a lady.
Comparing her wth another.
Beating her.
Calling her names.
Judging every of her move.
Borrowing frm her and not paying back.
Saying things that portray dat u're sufferring cos you want her to pity you.
Releasing sperm in2 her during sex most especially when she says she's ovulating and she warned you not to release inside her!

true

tosyne2much:
This land is not for sale


I dey come

make I give u share from what dansuki gave me bro !!

$100million. Nko !!!

Telling her the introvert next door got a better hole.

Nice post...but i think these can detests a lady very much too... My lists.
Kiss and Tell.. Very bad childish act,can earn you an immidiate and direct red card from a lady.

Garlic/tobacco breath..please dont try this at home!!

Over bleached skin...what an eyesore to see those green veins on a guy's arm..talk more of his skin discolouration.

some guys wear dirty boxers and stinking clothes and still,they feel as if they are on top of the world...smh

jonaifame22:
Arguing wth a lady.
Comparing her wth another.
Beating her.
Calling her names.
Judging every of her move.
Borrowing frm her and not paying back.
Saying things that portray dat u're sufferring cos you want her to pity you.

The bolded annoys ladies alot.

Lmao @ borrowing from her without paying back. She go frustrate your life pass Nigeria.

Any guy that does these doesn't deserve to be called a man

Pucaxo:
When your dick goes limp during sex

Hahahahaha, Lmfao. O boy I need the attention of kingtom on this comment.

When they think they're cool wearing sunglasses in the club :/.

When they talk about having sex with 1001 women and how all the girls want them but in reality they're ugly and nobody wants them.

When they speak badly about their ex or their mother or their sister.

When they have Twitter fingers like meek mill having online fights

When they think they're balling because theyre pursuing rapping "career" but they're broke, uneducated and still live in their parents house.

When they'll be listing things they want females to have but they can't differentiate between your and you're. Or in some cases ur and ure.

When they talk about getting money but their "iPhone 6s" has an android interface and their "Ralph Lauren polo shirt" has a dragon on its logo. Okay

Julianne10:
some guys wear dirty boxers and stinking clothes and still,they feel as if they are on top of the world...smh

But if the guy get money, u go still deny am?

wristbangle:


The bolded annoys ladies alot.

Lmao @ borrowing from her without paying back. She go frustrate your life pass Nigeria.

I swear she will!

Pucaxo:
When your dick goes limp during sex

Ouch!
Black Hawk Down!

Telling a lady that :-

1. She is fat.
2. Her eye pencil is awkward

3. You have no money (always)

that boxers and singlets part dey vex me die.how person go wear singlet till e turn to surulere milk and boxers go dey smell like palm kernel. I tire oo

Pucaxo:
When your dick goes limp during sex

This one happened to me and you know the outcome........guess

YourMain:
When they think they're cool wearing sunglasses in the club :/.

When they talk about having sex with 1001 women and how all the girls want them but in reality they're ugly and nobody wants them.

When they speak badly about their ex or their mother or their sister.

When they gave Twitter fingers like meek mill having online fights

When they think they're balling because they pursuing rapping "career" but they're broke uneducated and still live in their parents house.

Who make you angry to this extent

YourMain:
When they think they're cool wearing sunglasses in the club :/.

When they talk about having sex with 1001 women and how all the girls want them but in reality they're ugly and nobody wants them.

When they speak badly about their ex or their mother or their sister.

When they gave Twitter fingers like meek mill having online fights

When they think they're balling because they pursuing rapping "career" but they're broke uneducated and still live in their parents house.

Very common among guys who are extremely lazy.

The issue of saying they get laid with 1000 ladies, even solomon said "vanity of vanity, all is vanity"

Akkord4gov:


Who make you angry to this extent

Lol I'm not even mad though

wristbangle:


Very common among guys who are extremely lazy.

The issue of saying they get laid with 1000 ladies, even solomon said "vanity of vanity, all is vanity"

Ugh I swear it's actually irritating. And they actually think they sound cool. Who are you trying to impress kmt.

Farting

wristbangle:


Hahahahaha, Lmfao. O boy I need the attention of kingtom on this comment.

that's the end of your career

Do this 8 things plus loaded financially, they will respect u

When you reject their advances and they start cursing and telling you of how they can get any woman they want

Julianne10:
some guys wear dirty boxers and stinking clothes and still,they feel as if they are on top of the world...smh

pervert like u! Wetin u find go their boxers? Did u forget ur eyes there?

wristbangle:

Definitely I know you will.

Wrist-jewellery I'm present


Let me add :2. Wearing dirty clothes / wearing clean cloths but you stink.


Common mistake. The man has to be clean because no matter what he wears even if it's Hugo boss suit, without Hugo boss Cologne, it's a lost cause. An expensive lost cause!

Dekatron:
Telling a lady that :-


1. She is fat.

2. Her eye pencil is awkward


3. You have no money (always)

Ladies especially the white hate it when you term them "orobo"