Do you ask him for money too?

purity22:

And you will be his nanny for as long as you agree to meeting his selfish demands.
some men sha! A lady that is desperate will keep to his demands but a lady that knows what she wants will never intertain that relationship

So says a lady who will someday marry a man. Dont worry life itself has a way of retraining ladies who reason the way u do.

Achilles2:
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God bless you and your family.
May you and your wife grow old together in love, harmony and in wealth.

Amen and amen. And may yours be as glorious as it is fruitful

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naijadeyhia:


Amen and amen. And may yours be as glorious as it is fruitful

Amen
Remain Blessed

slyIsaac:

Tiis is serious o....I was making a joke...
On the less "weird" side....There nothing wrong in him demanding his Gf to wash his clothes....She either says yes or No...He did not threaten her....
Yhur language is quite offensive...

Sorry for hurting u thou.....buh why would say if she can't do ur chores, she should pack off Remember, she's ur partner not ur maid

purity22:

And you will be his nanny for as long as you agree to meeting his selfish demands.
some men sha! A lady that is desperate will keep to his demands but a lady that knows what she wants will never intertain that relationship

No babe....It depends on how she sees it....mayb she just reading meanings to something so simple....It doesn't mean he has no respect 4 her..

Naff24:

Sorry for hurting u thou.....buh why would say if she can't do ur chores, she should pack off Remember, she's ur partner not ur maid

Ts aiit....Love overlooks meaningless things...I still see nothing wrong in it.....

Eesha:
What demand(s) have u put to him to warrant these counter-demands .

To every action, there is a reaction - where does urs belong

at times we dont demand from them while they dey start demanding money now

oloyede252:
it doesnt matter if you have a job or not.you wil stil do it.but if you dnt wanna do it.the door is wide open for you

Are you serious? Please go to the village and get a maid.

elantraceey:



Are you serious? Please go to the village and get a maid.

Chai!! Telemundo pikin

naijadeyhia:

Chai!! Telemundo pikin

Lolz , telemundo ko. . . .

elantraceey:



Lolz , telemundo ko. . . .

You are saying someone should go to the village and get a maid. You are indirectly directing him to the very happening place because real women are abundant in the villages. Any girl with good home training is a village woman... any girl with morals is a village woman because at least they still have values unlike these city chicks abi na chickens who look at your :
height,
looks,
account balance,
car type,
apartment type,
dress sense,
complexion,
teeth,
worth of clothes,
wrist watch,
perfume,
diction,
etc etc before even responding to the "hi" you said.
Mtcheew.

Do not start what you cannot finish.

where were you when God was distributing senses?. You lack knowledge my dear.. Help your boyfriend, if u can't, any bae will do.. If u can ask him for money, then u must serve him..SIMPLE

Cutehector:
so wouldn't dat make her to use her thinking faculty very well? She doesn't have to think that he is d only man on earth.

I think ladies shouldn't be threatened with marriages these days just like job seekers are fearful with managing jobs. You don't like the situation, den u change it!

@Bolded..

Aint their fault brov.. Once a lady gets to a certain age, they feel threatened.. Time factor, Availabilty of Potential Suitors are the two most dreaded ish by Ladies within this age bracket..

naijadeyhia:



You are saying someone should go to the village and get a maid. You are indirectly directing him to the very happening place because real women are abundant in the villages. Any girl with good home training is a village woman... any girl with morals is a village woman because at least they still have values unlike these city chicks abi ma chickens who look at your :
height,
looks,
account balance,
car type,
apartment type,
dress sense,
complexion,
teeth,
worth of clothes,
wrist watch,
perfume,
diction,
etc etc before even responding to the "hi" you said.
Mtcheew.

Hahaha Why are you pained? You weren't forced to approach them

Then stop asking for money

Selena06:
It is horrifying at times to state the length guys in relationships go to make their girlfriends do some things because they are dating.


There are relationships (not married) where the guy expects the lady to visit him every weekend, wash his clothes, cook for him and store in the refrigerator, clean the house and entertain his friends that may visit during her stay.


Sure, it is good helping your guy out but whereby he makes them compulsory and queries you when you fail to do them is not so cool although as they would say, different strokes for different folks.


NLanders, what's your take on this, is it right?
Meanwhile, I am new here. Show me some love

Joy1706:

Ur so wrong. Lemme tell u eh, my first guy, I neva asked anything from him not even airtime. He also never gave me a dime, not even t - fare, not to talk of gifts or even 100 naira airtime. Yet the buffoon had the guts to be demanding for sex and asking when ill come wash and cook for him. My only joy is that I never did a single one of those tinz 4 him.

You try clap 4 ya self

As u make ur bed so shall u lie.
the lady who has refused to uphold the pride of womanhood is up for big surprises by the male folks who are preying for women to make their puppets.
so wat he requires of her she's being doing, why complain.
Am getting tired of reminding people of the things they know to be doing wrongly.
be a responsible woman and no man abuses u.
Islam thought me so.

Babe na u I blame. Nothing is compulsory. How will I leave all my chores at home to go do house girl for a grown man. My last bf eh, I'd meet him washing, I'd go and balance on his bed and wait for him to finish. He'd say he wants to cook, I'd say ok and keep on watching TV. It's his mess, he should clean it up himself. Do I pack my clothes for him to wash? If I no get chores for house, I go kukuma lie down sleep for my house. Mstchewwww. Stop doing all those things abeg. Well, unless u want to

Selena06:
That's a natural phenomenon already.

Ahaha...that naturally comes with the package!

Wa gbayi....ori e fonka si be....#gbam

hartson:


You try clap 4 ya self

*clapping for myself*

elantraceey:


Hahaha Why are you pained? You weren't forced to approach them

I am not approaching anyone. I am married and happily too and just speaking for the benefit of u single ones

Chukazu:


are you saying he would have been entitled for sex if only he had given you such things as airtime, A dime,gifts and T.fair as you mentioned?

Oga don't read meaning. I don't believe in sex before marriage. I don't believe in bestowing on a bf husband privileges. I was only letting you know that guys demand for those tinz whether they spend on a girl or not

My dear for same guy to allow u visit his all d wknd shows is only u which u ought to b proud of. But if u think is difficult for u to maintain dat means ur not ready to hv ur own home and as such u shld allow other girls dats ready to come in..

He's keeping u busy since u don't have any job yet. And secondly, he sees u beyond that ordinary dating zone so count yourself lucky.

Joy1706:

*clapping for myself*

good,gals like u ain't taking shit.no time

Selena06:
True but the fear is he might turn her to a fulltime housewife when they finally get married, thereby abandoning her career if she was meant to pursue one.

baby u know wat, lets get married, send me a PM

just like my ex, she would remove her #4500 nails to clean my closet and run my laundry.

God bless her and RIP to her

DO IT, DONT COMPLAIN.

First if u leave ur house to pass the ALL weekends in his place u need 65 strokes of aboki blala.
secondly, before u start a r.ship or during a r.ship, the guy and lady should draw boundaries. He demands all dat from you cos u have no boundaries. Its nice to get to ur bf's house once in a while and help him out, but when he makes it a right then its a problem. so my guess is young lady u gave him those rights and he is using them properly.
furthermore, it maybe that u demand somethings from him probably becos u not working and he gets the share back by letting u do those things...

Ikunle ooooo.. yeeee. Are your parents still alive?.. You are a disgrace to writing that sh!t instead of you to contribute something meaningful..