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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by j3r3myk3n(m): 6:18pm On Feb 09, 2016
MrJohnAgbo:
The "No" sometimes doesn't mean she don't want to get married to you. It could be she needs time to think. Marriage is not a child's play. That ring is an everlasting handcuff.
Why will she say NO if she truly care?. The no means a lot it can be:
1. We are not in same class
2. I dont have time for that now
3. Am in a relationship and so on..........
So where is the reason why i shld still stick to a grl who doesnt care abt my feelings? Jst asking.
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Nnemuka(f): 6:21pm On Feb 09, 2016
ok
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Intrepid01(m): 6:23pm On Feb 09, 2016
Nnemuka:

happened as far back as 2007. i dont regret making that decision if that's what you wanna know.

okies...so I guess the lucky guy is doing better....By the way how is hubby and kids?
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Nnemuka(f): 6:24pm On Feb 09, 2016
Intrepid01:


okies...so I guess the lucky guy is doing better....By the way how is hubby and kids?
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Intrepid01(m): 6:28pm On Feb 09, 2016
Nnemuka:


Okay before I draw any form of wrong conclusion here, lemme ask you this;

Did you reject him on the basis of reality or fantasy?
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Nobody: 6:31pm On Feb 09, 2016
j3r3myk3n:

Why will she say NO if she truly care?. The no means a lot it can be:
1. We are not in same class
2. I dont have time for that now
3. Am in a relationship and so on..........
So where is the reason why i shld still stick to a grl who doesnt care abt my feelings? Jst asking.
Maybe you didn't understand what I said. From my own point of view, her "No" could mean what I already posted up there.
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Adewale65: 6:33pm On Feb 09, 2016
Better luck next time
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by j3r3myk3n(m): 6:36pm On Feb 09, 2016
MrJohnAgbo:

Maybe you didn't understand what I said. From my own point of view, her "No" could mean what I already posted up there.
Okies bro. I jst got the whole thing . bt to me my belief is if a grl tells you NO. @ your proposal she mean it. Persuading her to change her mind doesnt really matter that shez gonna be yours after wedding. Marriage shldnt be made out of consideration If she truly love me she wont at first gimme a NO as her answer and besides i cnt jst walk up to a lady i havent really known much about and propose to her.......it would be several months of dating after then if its a no. BROSS WATIN I DEY WAIT FOR AGAIN?

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by maestroferddi: 6:37pm On Feb 09, 2016
Nnemuka:
i have rejected a proposal before, he accepted his fate and moved on.
we still friends but not as close as before.
His fate?

You can't be more ridiculous...

Your choice of words made it look like you denied the fellow a passage ticket to heaven!

The way some of you women reason makes one wonder.
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by JuicyGee(f): 6:40pm On Feb 09, 2016
Eddodoh:

U'll make good a partner! Some pple date for dating sake.
Lol.. Thanks. The thing is that some people date for security, money, sex, and some date to show off their partner as trophies. Some don't know why they even date...
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Nobody: 6:43pm On Feb 09, 2016
lilmax:
this comment is brainless
I see
No girl can ever say yes to u with that ur brain. Must u be brainless in commenting on sm1's point of view undecided undecided
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by JuicyGee(f): 6:47pm On Feb 09, 2016
IamUdo:
Mos Def! Like real quick.... Like Asap... Like we ain't leaving that spot together...

grin grin grin i like you!!
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Tobium1(m): 6:55pm On Feb 09, 2016
NO! There are soooooo many reasons why a lady will say no to a guy;
1. No; I can't spend the rest my life with you
2. No; taking our relationship to a permanent stage (marriage) is not going to augur well for both of us
3. No; I can't imagine my kids taking after you (looks, behavour) etc

In my opinion, dere' notin like "give me more time to think" when de guy and de babe have been dating and fvcking for like 5yrs! Wat de hell does she want to tink about??
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Nobody: 6:55pm On Feb 09, 2016
KAYD007:
For me it is....i take No for what it is...No..

i won't ask why, i won't say i beg na, pls na, i beg na

would just say okay and simply move on..shikena angry



Just like a real man
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Nobody: 6:57pm On Feb 09, 2016
Lexusgs430:
No.
It could mean........
(1) I am not ready, yet
(2) I am just managing you,and have no plans to marry you
(3) Other suitors are out there, and I would rather wait for the best candidate
(4) That ring looks too cheap, get an expensive ring and try again
(5) I only loved your money
(6) I am bisexual and intend settling with another lady

Guy you have a weird imagination

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Nobody: 7:07pm On Feb 09, 2016
First and foremost, a NO does not necessarily mean "never", it could mean "not now"...secondly a NO, could simply be acronymed for Next Opportunity(in this case, simply re-work her psychological state of mind and look for another opportunity to propose)...finally, if a lady says NO, get the reason for her unfavourable response so you can work on that aspect of your life before moving on(or staying back if she changes her mind)...but whatever the case, just make sure you close her door gently before moving on(because you could still get married as WIDOW and WIDOWER in years to come).
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by mcpapillo(m): 7:09pm On Feb 09, 2016
HateU2:
It does not mean it's over. It means 'let's get to know each other better'. It's only guys that are mature that will understand

Bullsh*t ..For a guy to have proposed, the getting to know each other better phase must have been passed way back. If she says no, she clearly doesn't see herself settling with the guy so what's d fukin point ?

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by mcpapillo(m): 7:10pm On Feb 09, 2016
Tobium1:
NO! There are soooooo many reasons why a lady will say no to a guy;
1. No; I can't spend the rest my life with you
2. No; taking our relationship to a permanent stage (marriage) is not going to augur well for both of us
3. No; I can't imagine my kids taking after you (looks, behavour) etc

In my opinion, dere' notin like "give me more time to think" when de guy and de babe have been dating and fvcking for like 5yrs! Wat de hell does she want to tink about??

You've said it all man ...
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by lilmax(m): 7:11pm On Feb 09, 2016
HateU2:
I see
No girl can ever say yes to u with that ur brain. Must u be brainless in commenting on sm1's point of view undecided undecided
your point of view is brainless and childish.....thats the point cheesy

The fact is you know nothing about marriage

“they should get to know eachother“ how dumb are you? grin

POINT OF VIEW INDEED cheesy
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by josilcool(m): 7:14pm On Feb 09, 2016
she go become side chick
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Lexusgs430: 7:22pm On Feb 09, 2016
neoapocalypse:


Guy you have a weird imagination

Lol. You might call it weird, but if you think ahead, you a better prepared (just incase)!!!
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by foriz4u(m): 7:38pm On Feb 09, 2016
MrJohnAgbo:
The "No" sometimes doesn't mean she don't want to get married to you. It could be she needs time to think. Marriage is not a child's play. That ring is an everlasting handcuff.
everlasting ke? what happend to e keys or a sledge hammer?
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by foriz4u(m): 7:43pm On Feb 09, 2016
JuicyGee:
Why stay a relationship, when you know you won't marry him Didn't you know he was gonna propose one day?? Some ladies know in their heart that they wont marry the guy, they just continue... Some double date, so what if the two guys propose Same questions i keep asking my cousin...
v didn't ask her d right question which is... what if d guy she loves most and desires to marry never proposes where as she as chased d right one wit a "no" reply
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by foriz4u(m): 7:48pm On Feb 09, 2016
it happend to me and I'm moving on with myself happily without her. though it hurts o but in d long run I found out she's not d girl I really wanted for a wife. so she did me a great favor and saved my future.
though I'm still single same wit her.

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by teevodaprinz(m): 7:57pm On Feb 09, 2016
Nnemuka:
i have rejected a proposal before, he accepted his fate and moved on.
we still friends but not as close as before.


Sorry to ask this please, on what level/ground do you reject his proposal?
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by JuicyGee(f): 7:59pm On Feb 09, 2016
foriz4u:

v didn't ask her d right question which is... what if d guy she loves most and desires to marry never proposes where as she has chased d right one wit a "no" reply
well, i just tire 4 her.. She's currently dating two guys, the one she loves treat her trashy, he goes awol and comes back like a prodigal son everytime, the other one treats her nice but she doesn't like him that much (according to her). And my other cousin is still encouraging her to date the two, incase one fail.. I've advice her tire..
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Eeroh95(m): 8:14pm On Feb 09, 2016
HateU2:
It does not mean it's over. It means 'let's get to know each other better'. It's only guys that are mature that will understand
oga before you propose,you guys have know eachother better....so no excuse of knowing eachother beta again

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by DAVE5(m): 8:22pm On Feb 09, 2016
MrJohnAgbo:
The "No" sometimes doesn't mean she don't want to get married to you. It could be she needs time to think. Marriage is not a child's play. That ring is an everlasting handcuff.

in the first place before the question popped up from the guy he must have given her hints he would someday ask her to marry him or better still she must have thought about the fact that her man would someday ask her to marry him cos i guess they would have been very close and shared a lot for him to even think about asking her to marry him, the guy sef go don think hin life up and down say wether nah she hin want put for house

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by cosmicrayboi(m): 8:23pm On Feb 09, 2016
i would play cool, and collet dis two last Bleep, and a Mouth Action cheesy

then bye bye grin
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Nobody: 8:27pm On Feb 09, 2016
lilmax:
your point of view is brainless and childish.....thats the point cheesy

The fact is you know nothing about marriage

“they should get to know eachother“ how dumb are you? grin

POINT OF VIEW INDEED cheesy
Again, I'm not dissappointed
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Cutehector(m): 8:29pm On Feb 09, 2016
HateU2:
Again, I'm not dissappointed
stil expectin ur reply cool
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Nobody: 8:35pm On Feb 09, 2016
Cutehector:
stil expectin ur reply cool
naughtynaughty is single. U want her?

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