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Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by mightycrown1(m): 12:21am On Feb 11, 2016
guy, u just need to be very careful.
love is blind they said but i think love still uses inner eye to see.
1. she is older than you
2. she has two kids
3. she is a policewoman
now what gave u the assurance that u will still love her the way you do now when u finally gain employment with good pay
do u care to ask the reason why the father(s) of the kids did not marry her
do u think ur parents hate what will be good for u in the long run
anyway it is your call u just need to think very welll before you decide
good luck brod
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Nobody: 12:22am On Feb 11, 2016
sheilak:


Very young

Never had an abortion or a kid

But I do have common senseundecided
Very good girl, now come over here let daddy show you the way to heaven
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Nobody: 12:22am On Feb 11, 2016
Oh really..
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by mazizitonene(m): 12:23am On Feb 11, 2016
when you see death and you put head all because of love stupiriri.......

but just to give you common sense.......DONT DO IT....DONT MARRY HER, EVEN YOUR PARENTS WONT SUPPORT YOU IF THEY MEAN WELL FOR YOU

it never goes well on the long run.....i can tell you this.....i've seen many cases
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Kingsteve(m): 12:23am On Feb 11, 2016
Na to flog sense into your thick skull.
What do you know about love?
Listen, if you know what's good for your future, better think straight and never ever harbour any thoughts of settling down with that lady.
You deserve better...'nuff said.
Marry her @ your own peril.
idiots children of nowadays!
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Lexusgs430: 12:25am On Feb 11, 2016
damostic2005:
Hello guys, I need your honest opinions, I'm 26years old and I'm in love with a 30year old lady. She loves me too and she's got 2kids already, she has never been married as the father of her children left her over 8years ago..

She's a responsible woman as far as I know because she takes proper care of her kids, she's fromAkwa ibom and she's a police officer (Asp) but my parents don't want me to be with her, they say because she's older and she's got kids and because she's not yoruba, that she won't be submissive and respectful to me, bla bla bla.

..I'm a fresh graduate am still job hunting though..but once I get a job and settle down, I'm willing to go all the way with her..

We have been off and on for 4years now..but one thing am sure is that she loves me and her kids love me too..please I'm I on the right path? I hope am not getting myself into trouble? Please I need your candid advise..thank you guys

(1)Can you love her kids, the same way you might love yours?
(2)Are you happy to financially bear the cost of looking after 2 extra kids?
(3)Hope you are not looking at her has a financial shoulder in your present state of job search?
If you can sincerely answer all the above, your solution would be between the lines!!!

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Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by sheilak: 12:26am On Feb 11, 2016
GogobiriLalas:
Very good girl, now come over here let daddy show you the way to heaven

Why don't you do your mother and your sisters?smiley

Oh! You could show daughters too when they become of agewink
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Nobody: 12:26am On Feb 11, 2016
damostic2005:
Hello guys, I need your honest opinions, I'm 26years old and I'm in love with a 30year old lady. She loves me too and she's got 2kids already, she has never been married as the father of her children left her over 8years ago..

She's a responsible woman as far as I know because she takes proper care of her kids, she's fromAkwa ibom and she's a police officer (Asp) but my parents don't want me to be with her, they say because she's older and she's got kids and because she's not yoruba, that she won't be submissive and respectful to me, bla bla bla.

..I'm a fresh graduate am still job hunting though..but once I get a job and settle down, I'm willing to go all the way with her..

We have been off and on for 4years now..but one thing am sure is that she loves me and her kids love me too..please I'm I on the right path? I hope am not getting myself into trouble? Please I need your candid advise..thank you guys
Decide for yourself..
1. She must be PROPERLY divorced. (Ask your lawyer)
2. You need to get a SKILL. Begin to earn money, no matter how small.
3. Responsible relationship only. Premarital sex is a bad sign.
4. Confide in someone older and in a stable relationship, who is not a pessimist or an overzealous optimist
5. Discuss each others future. In what ways will you be committing to support each other materially in 15years time
BACK OUT IF ALL THE ABOVE FALLS FLAT. DECIDE if ALL of the above looks reasonable.

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Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by humilitynike: 12:29am On Feb 11, 2016
my gai, forget dt awof tins both d money and d oda one cos wen d belly for purge u, Na den u go understand
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Nobody: 12:35am On Feb 11, 2016
For the mere fact that she is a police officer don even disqualify her.....dont even try to go there. She has the full resources to treat your fuckup.. If u value your life and happiness, steer clear of her.

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Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Nobody: 12:38am On Feb 11, 2016
MrsPhyno:
Love is controllable and at the same time uncontrollable so
I get it.

Just marry her. Whatever. It's really not that big of a deal, although if you were my brother/son/any male I knew, I would never allow that. But you're not, you're just a random dude out there in the world. So I can't care and you should just do whatever it is you want.
see this ugly gal
dude dont mind her....u are not any random guy...as a yoruba sister i will advice u not to marry her...we dont marry other tribes like that..they are not respectful

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Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by evy1(m): 12:38am On Feb 11, 2016
Eleponblue:
Akwa Ibom babe don nack my guy akpako he come dey think with hin balls now...Guy don't do it...it might look good initially but on yhe long run it won't be pleasant at all...I'm presently in this sh**t now.pls run when you still can...
grin grin grin grin As in eh the akpako dem don knack the guy eh no get part 2,wen i been dey for situation like dis mehn i leave my boxers for back run four forty oo no looking back.

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Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Sunnypa11(m): 12:38am On Feb 11, 2016
Prison is smelling all over u
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Sunnypa11(m): 12:43am On Feb 11, 2016
Adebowaletunji:

see this ugly gal
dude dont mind her....u are not any random guy...as a yoruba sister i will advice u not to marry her...we dont marry other tribes like that..they are not respectful

Pls add me on whatsapp with 08155289260...I also base in ABJ,i be Omo Ibadan.
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by oluwaahmed: 12:45am On Feb 11, 2016
U be usher raymond?
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Nobody: 12:45am On Feb 11, 2016
Sunnypa11:


Pls add me on whatsapp with 08155289260...I also base in ABJ,i be Omo Ibadan.
send ur bbm pin....need to download new whatsapp
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Nobody: 12:45am On Feb 11, 2016
sheilak:


Why don't you did my mother and sisters?smiley

Oh! You could show my daughters too when they become of agewink
olosious gal, gtfoh nobody likes you
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Nobody: 12:46am On Feb 11, 2016
Sunnypa11:
Prison is smelling all over u
grin grin grin angry
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Sunnypa11(m): 12:47am On Feb 11, 2016
Adebowaletunji:
send ur bbm pin....need to download new whatsapp
My small Nokia no get pin ooo
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by buddylawson: 12:48am On Feb 11, 2016
Pls listen to ur parents. They see farther n know better than u do. Moreover, to me u are still a kid to life. I plead u learn mo from ur parents.
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by TheSunSon: 12:48am On Feb 11, 2016
MrsPhyno:
Love is controllable and at the same time uncontrollable so
I get it.

Just marry her. Whatever. It's really not that big of a deal, although if you were my brother/son/any male I knew, I would never allow that. But you're not, you're just a random dude out there in the world. So I can't care and you should just do whatever it is you want.
Smart mouth,I'm phynos relative by the way wink
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Sunnypa11(m): 12:50am On Feb 11, 2016
socialist:
grin grin grin angry

His manhood dey prison,his future na cell,dem do use Vegetable soup remove his medulla
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by colebrent: 12:52am On Feb 11, 2016
Niggar don't ask for advice Like this here on NL, U should know 90% of the answer will be negative,pls wake up 12 midnight and think deeply about ur case, U go know say ur way Na lagos road but U miss road enter Sabisa forest but there are still chances to escape because BOKO haram never spot U... My advice is get ur own work first and work for like 2 years then ur orientation go change... U dey do loving u with 30 years old woman with 2 kids, guy stop joke Abegiiii, to be honest with U she loves U because she knows U can't control her and then she will turn u to nanny, she will come back home late after banging some high ranks policemen, she will feel on top of the world... Afterall she get younger husband for house wey no fit question her, abi tell me the kind lever wey U wan get para or shout on top a woman older than U with 4 years (and U know it urself) and she is a police officer and not just a low rank ooo, I no go born dullard for my life, ur parents are gentle with this case, they suppose use power of God and locally power self commot childish love for ur head, if u are sleeping wake up and find sweet 22,23,24,25 infact sweet 26 ur same age Na still match, I don't usually comment on NL but ur case get comma lipsrsealed

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Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Nobody: 12:54am On Feb 11, 2016
Sunnypa11:

My small Nokia no get pin ooo
fvck stupid dude and gerrarahia
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Kingsteve(m): 12:55am On Feb 11, 2016
colebrent:
Niggar don't ask for advice Like this here on NL, U should know 90% of the answer will be negative,pls wake up 12 midnight and think deeply about ur case, U go know say ur way Na lagos road but U miss road enter Sabisa forest but there are still chances to escape because BOKO haram never spot U... My advice is get ur own work first and work for like 2 years then ur orientation go change... U dey do loving u with 30 years old woman with 2 kids, guy stop joke Abegiiii, to be honest with U she loves U because she knows U can't control her and then she will turn u to nanny, she will come back home late after banging some high ranks policemen, she will feel on top of the world... Afterall she get younger husband for house wey no fit question her, abi tell me the kind lever wey U wan get para or shout on top a woman older than U with 4 years (and U know it urself) and she is a police officer and not just a low rank ooo, I no go born dullard for my life, ur parents are gentle with this case, they suppose use power of God and locally power self commot childish love for ur head, if u are sleeping wake up and find sweet 22,23,24,25 infact sweet 26 ur same age Na still match, I don't usually comment on NL but ur case get comma lipsrsealed
He deserves two military slaps, so that his senses will go back to factory reset.
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by sheilak: 12:55am On Feb 11, 2016
GogobiriLalas:
olosious gal like my mother gtfoh nobody likes you

I got yousmiley

Now FVCK off
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Nobody: 12:59am On Feb 11, 2016
You're in lust
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Nobody: 1:01am On Feb 11, 2016
sheilak:


I got yousmiley

Now FVCK off
No, you immature brat, am the one who gets to fvck you cheesy
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Sunnypa11(m): 1:01am On Feb 11, 2016
Adebowaletunji:
fvck stupid dude and gerrarahia
Yes i will,thanks
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by eji1979: 1:04am On Feb 11, 2016
Guy,my best advice for you is please don't go into marriage with her,your parents are far more experienced than you,they do see the future. You can't handle what will come out of this if you proceed with the marriage,better be a friend to her than a husband.

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Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by Sunnypa11(m): 1:04am On Feb 11, 2016
colebrent:
Niggar don't ask for advice Like this here on NL, U should know 90% of the answer will be negative,pls wake up 12 midnight and think deeply about ur case, U go know say ur way Na lagos road but U miss road enter Sabisa forest but there are still chances to escape because BOKO haram never spot U... My advice is get ur own work first and work for like 2 years then ur orientation go change... U dey do loving u with 30 years old woman with 2 kids, guy stop joke Abegiiii, to be honest with U she loves U because she knows U can't control her and then she will turn u to nanny, she will come back home late after banging some high ranks policemen, she will feel on top of the world... Afterall she get younger husband for house wey no fit question her, abi tell me the kind lever wey U wan get para or shout on top a woman older than U with 4 years (and U know it urself) and she is a police officer and not just a low rank ooo, I no go born dullard for my life, ur parents are gentle with this case, they suppose use power of God and locally power self commot childish love for ur head, if u are sleeping wake up and find sweet 22,23,24,25 infact sweet 26 ur same age Na still match, I don't usually comment on NL but ur case get comma lipsrsealed

U dey para no be small
Re: I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids by sheilak: 1:07am On Feb 11, 2016
GogobiriLalas:
No, you immature brat, am the one who gets to fvck my mother cheesy

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