Koolking:


You no nothing about marriage dude. When you are of age, you will understand.

sheilak:


I don't have to

FYI, I am the first of five children, my siblings are are all boys. Also, I have seen families with young kids who wake up exactly at 6am and manage to get to school/work on time

What do exactly do you want to tell me about responsibility and morning preparation I haven't done throughout my life?

I am waiting

Koolking:


Typically in Lagos with it's peculiar traffic situation, are you saying, it's ideal and reasonable for a wife to wake up by 6am to prepare the children for school and manage to meet up appointments at work by 8/830am? Or meet up with the children school bus coming by 630am? There are situations that require common sense. As a wife, you need not wait for your husband to nag and tell the world. What is responsibility? ..."force that binds you to the courses of action demanded by that force"

For the Op to wake up 4/5am every morning to go to work, it means he lives in a city where traffic is unpredictable.

I still stand my opinion based on observation: The Op wife is irresponsible

sheilak:


You are irresponsible, irrational and controlling.

Where in the Op's post did he mention that he lives in Lagos?

Where in his post did he stated that it affects her work/school/home?

The Op did not give a reason other than 'I think 4/5am is the ideal time to wake up, a[b]lthough it does not affect her but she must wake up at 4/5am because I am the man and that is what I think[/b]'

Koolking:


You are in voice mail, Next...

vybzkartel:

She wakes up at 6am

sometimes after 6 am

and i believe a virtuous wife should be waking up earlier

I am often up by 4am or 5 am

She wakes up late and doesnt pray

I have been diplomatic, harsh and all...but she hasnt changed. what do i do?

vybzkartel:

She wakes up at 6am

sometimes after 6 am

and i believe a virtuous wife should be waking up earlier

I am often up by 4am or 5 am

She wakes up late and doesnt pray

I have been diplomatic, harsh and all...but she hasnt changed. what do i do?

JeffreyJamez:
You call 6am late? ....abi you're looking for excuse to send her packing

vybzkartel:

She wakes up at 6am

sometimes after 6 am

and i believe a virtuous wife should be waking up earlier

I am often up by 4am or 5 am

She wakes up late and doesnt pray

I have been diplomatic, harsh and all...but she hasnt changed. what do i do?

Godmother:



Please reconsider your no-marriage option, dear. There are several good men out. You just have to be prayerful that you meet one of them. Its sad that some Nigerian men have a warped view of marriage and see women as property whose lives should be planned out. If not, I don't see how a woman waking up by 6am becomes an issue.

My hubby wakes by 5 am to shave and wash and I wake by 7am and get all my house chores done before 9am and my dude has not come to nairaland to rant and call me a non virtuous wife.

This OP is just a jobless man that needs his thought process revamped asap.

vybzkartel:


pray and do household chores

misspicy:
This kind of men makes marriage scary

imagine my mum controlled almost all my life as a young adult,get married again,your husband take up the control wheel.....


danbrowndmf am considering that my no marriage option again you people wicked

vybzkartel:



she could be awake...but once it is not 6am, she has sworn never to get up from bed

vybzkartel:

She wakes up at 6am

sometimes after 6 am

and i believe a virtuous wife should be waking up earlier

I am often up by 4am or 5 am

She wakes up late and doesnt pray

I have been diplomatic, harsh and all...but she hasnt changed. what do i do?

JeffreyJamez:
You call 6am late? ....abi you're looking for excuse to send her packing

Laveda:
See likes for you

JeffreyJamez:


If only the likes fit turn to money.... say 1k for 1 like,my money for Range Rover for don complete

Laveda:



I know you're not from Igbo nau, Jeffy you too like money

danbrowndmf:
oya come na just let ous have one baby boy then u can go stay on your own.




You are not serious.u want to me judging real life with all these nuisance that come to NL to spill nonsense? Marriage is sweet when you marry your friend not when you friendzone them. Well marriage is not by force like u use to say but at the same time marriage is a sweet thing.people like mercy johnson or annie adibia will never come out to rant about their marriage not because they don't have issues but rather because they married someone who who understand them & can easly settle issues before it get out of hands...it all depends on what you want.At the same time marriage is not what you force a man into or what you rush into. Be ready & let him be more ready. That's why i prefer long year of dating before marriaf IMO.even if the lady is 35,we will still date for atleast 2years before i can say yes.

misspicy:
This kind of men makes marriage scary

imagine my mum controlled almost all my life as a young adult,get married again,your husband take up the control wheel.....


[size=20pt] danbrown dmf am considering that my no marriage option again you people wicked [/size]

misspicy:

lolz

I like your view,but no man is gonna give me time table to live my life by like this OP....wha dah F