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Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by freecocoa(f): 10:45am On Feb 13, 2016 |
2sex:Lol, 2sex go and make up with your ex o, she still loves ypu. ![]() |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by 2sex(m): 10:46am On Feb 13, 2016 |
freecocoa: ![]() ![]() You I know I can trust you judging by your post from years back. BUT how many of your kind exist? How many? Women are deceptive abeg ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Sobrit(m): 10:46am On Feb 13, 2016 |
[quote author=2sex post=42882451] Bros, watch Titanic and you will see where it was said at the very beginning: "a woman's heart Is an ocean of secrets" Ndubisi for my area train babe from secondary school to uni, what came out of it? Another man married her. One bro told me his as well. He took a girl who sold near ekpoma and spoke to the dad. She secured admission. Four years going and what happened next? The earlier we realise humans are selfish beings, the better for us. Like someone rightly stated, love does not exist. I used to be an advocate of love but I have come realise that it does not really exist, it's just personal interest. As in what you stand to gain. It's an investment with hope in will yield good ROI in the future and if you are smart, only invest what you can afford to lose like we say in forex parlance. Never invest more than 2% of your capital ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Nobody: 10:47am On Feb 13, 2016 |
I've been there & even worse!..imagine a lady dat twice in d past attemted suicide over me, only to dump me after 5yrs for a more buoyant dude! Suicide was a gross understatement/option 4 me but i got over it...She's today UN-HAPPILY married with kids, WHY?..she won't stop disturbing my peace wit over 2000 un-replied missed calls/several love sms & still counting!.. i'm done wit her 4eva! @ op, be strong, dust-up & move-on, she'll realise someday she lost a diamond while hunting for stones! 3 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Chatlaury(f): 10:48am On Feb 13, 2016 |
my dear brother just move on,I know it won't be easy but at the end of the day you will look back and smile#no woman or man is worth dying for. |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Nobody: 10:48am On Feb 13, 2016 |
just man up and make it a priority to be better in life. see her disappointment as a motivation and keep in mind that the woman for you is out there. forget her; she's not yours. |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by cmoney22222: 10:49am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Like seriously, I feel your pain bro. I pray you get over it. For me, in a relationship, all men should possess a kind of shock absorber. Any thing can happen like such you narrated. But, you should have read the hand writting on the wall nah? Well she has moved on and you should try and do away with anything that brings her memory to you. As for me , if I take 3 bottles of goldberg everynite for 2days and I get intoxicated wella. Na forget be that ooo. Anyway tomoro is val. Who will be my val for one day? Hahahahah. Its CMONEY again |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by freecocoa(f): 10:50am On Feb 13, 2016 |
2sex:Why do you take it very personal whenever you hear that a woman hurt a man then? E just be like say you still dey vex. Leave am o, better women dey, my sisters follow too. ![]() |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Digriz(m): 10:50am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Before I got married, I was madly in love wt this particular lady and even proposed to her. She disappointed me upon we are family friends and we knew each other right from childhood. I thought then she's the best woman that I wl never get any other like her and her refusal was bcus of my financial status then. You know wat,I.later married 1yr after her disappointment and my present wife has been the. most beautiful thing to me nw, whenever I compare her to that idiot I gv God the glory for giving me the wisdom and stenght that helped me moved on and later meet my better half. We now hv a kid and expecting another and improve financial status. Bros move on,u wl later discover that lots of good women are out there who are better than her in all the qualities u need in a woman. 1 Like |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by ChappyChase: 10:51am On Feb 13, 2016 |
italo:My Gwad!!!!!!! 3.5 billion women in the world and I still dey pursue sikiratu like usen bolt since last week!! Well, am of to go serch for another babe!! Thanks for the info bro.. 1 Like |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Nobody: 10:51am On Feb 13, 2016 |
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Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by 2sex(m): 10:52am On Feb 13, 2016 |
freecocoa:please no swear for me o. Love ko, Lover ni. You cross the trust line and that's the end, no matter how much I was once crazy about you. It kills every vibes and energy that has keep those feelings going. Trust is VERY important to me and if you abuse the trust in form of playing with my emotions or abusing it, no juju can resurrect those feelings. Ex came back a number times... did it work? even tried sex, did it work? That's me. Our type fit use 3 years dey endure rubbish. When we do, we don go b dat. Lastly, she has joined the Church crew seeking for prayers ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Moz22: 10:52am On Feb 13, 2016 |
hurting:na wa oo..bros. Ur moniker-Hurting, ur email add- heartyreallyheavy. Did u create this names cos of wah happened? 1 Like |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Freeheart(m): 10:52am On Feb 13, 2016 |
I experienced d same last year dec.... Ave dated d gal for gud 3yrs it all start from sckul but today I'm telling oda story abt her. She actually left me for a guy cos of my employment status so ur case is nt d first one and its can b da last Dis actually show wot gals of today really wnt 3 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Sunkyphil(m): 10:52am On Feb 13, 2016 |
my friend u Berra move on if u die she will definite my b doing fine with her hussy;u beta no kill itself because of a lady av u reached d conclusion DAT u can Neva make it again in life ![]() |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Skipfr(m): 10:52am On Feb 13, 2016 |
A friend had the same issue. when he graduated the job wasnt coming while his girl friend was working with a telecoms company. After a while she informed my friend that she has found the love of her life and that the intro will be in 2 months time. The intro finally took place and my friend was devastated just the way you are right now. In another space of 3 months the same girl came back to start pleading with the guy that the guy she introduced to her family has abandoned her claiming she is mannerless. To cut the story short my friend later gained employment with one of the financial institutions and got married to another girl this was after tens of free abuna from her estranged girl friend who later come dey form caring. My guy move on. She isn't yours. If she can't bear with you now that means she can't bear with you tomorrow. Her leaving you might just open that door that has been closed 2 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by KangaIye: 10:53am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Please Lasser Fever and Zika virus are still much around we don't want shortage of Rat poison, Otapiapia and G.O.90 abeg ![]() |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Trulie(m): 10:54am On Feb 13, 2016 |
wow! guy I feel ur pain. And I mean it when i say I feel your pain. Years ago I was in the same position as u are now. At the point I thought life was void, empty, and a charade without HER. I loved her so much in ways the word 'luv' cannot fully define. So, like u, I thought it's done, am done. Days turn to month and months to years and am still here. still breathing, still living, still smiling, looking happier, and grateful. You see my dear, I found love again when I least expect. She has all the qualities my EX lacked. My guy, give urself time, am sure in few years time u will see the stupidity in wanting to end ur meaningful life for a less meaningful reason. Life is beautiful! Don't waste ur life for Nothingness. 2 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by 2sex(m): 10:54am On Feb 13, 2016 |
ChappyChase:yes, the population of women far out number men in this world. 2 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by crackhouse(m): 10:55am On Feb 13, 2016 |
hurting:chai this dude don change everything to suite heartbreak including email. guy where u dey is far. I pray u come back. I put u in my prayers tonight. 1 Like |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by miltonchux(m): 10:55am On Feb 13, 2016 |
hurting: Brother, I would,nt want to give you more advice, but the only thing I will tell you is to delete her number, pix or anything that reminds you of her. Don't ever call her again. Try and get over, don't reply her msg on facebook or any social media. If she calls just answer her normally and casually, make it brief and end the call b4 she tries telling you stories. It works for me, and when she finally come begging, tell her you have moved on. The Hunter will soon become the hunted, she will become heart broken and comes begging you. Trust me this works, it's psychological. Focus on yourself and even explore and attend more proffesional certification to improve yourself. Best of Luck. 1 Like |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Jesona(m): 10:56am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Op, i understand very well what u re goin thru. I knw is really hard for u right now given d fact that u guys ve been togeda all dis years. Believe me is not gonna be eazy for u, to jus get over her like dat, bt trust me, u can do it.. Infact dis is the best time for u to top up ur game. Re-discover ursef, husle harder, retrace ur past errors, make new frnds, work on ur weakness n strenght, get more focused as she is no longer a "distraction" to you anymore. Get on ur game n up the ante, she has moved on, n u nid to also. As sum1 earlier stated there is always sum1 better than what we have or had even when we tink, we ve seen it all. If she cums bck to u begging fine, but don't ever make dat mistake of tryin to get her back again. Jus top UP ur game, datz all u nid. Avoid anytin dt will bring bck the good old times, don't allow ursef in a confined enviroment dat cld spark up d tots abt her. Go out n meet with friends, make new ones also, n be d best in what u re doin. she has moved on. Note: When people walk out of your life, let them go; your destiny was never tied to anyone who leaves you! And it does not mean they were bad people. It jus means their role in your life's story is over! New helpers will locate you! 2 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by 2sex(m): 10:56am On Feb 13, 2016 |
cherrymum:I hope ladies will learn. Truth is nobody wants poverty. |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by ChappyChase: 10:57am On Feb 13, 2016 |
2sex:I don hammer be that! 1 Like |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by freecocoa(f): 10:57am On Feb 13, 2016 |
2sex:I can understand that, there are just some situations where second chances don't apply, I was teasing you btw. ![]() Lol, prayer for husband abi wetin? ![]() |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by gqboyy(m): 10:57am On Feb 13, 2016 |
nothing's worth suicide |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Edipee(m): 10:57am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Hmmmm. May God see you through. |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Nobody: 10:58am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Hang out with guys, have some drinks. It is well bro. 1 Like |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by crackhouse(m): 10:58am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Moz22:a new moniker comes with an email so he created one too. somebody need to locate that guy's address to avoid stories that touch. |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by bigtt76(f): 10:58am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Let her go joooooor! Look for one Agege bread seller and pray that God answers her call you sef go hammer like Olajumoke and her husband ![]() |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by VcStunner(m): 10:59am On Feb 13, 2016 |
hurting:bro I gotta tell you, no one knows how u feel right now, no one. But most of us do have an idea a little. I only assure myself that there is always light at the end of the tunnel. No situation is as bad as it seems trust me. You will laugh at yourself later. But for now just cry as much as u can, and free urself from d pain, put the memories away and make sure to succeed. That's the sweetest thing u can do for urself. She is making an equally tough choice, but u are a man and have a family to build and ur immediate family to contribute to. They need you more than anything. Don't be stupid aii |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Candybob(m): 11:00am On Feb 13, 2016 |
italo:Say what? And I never get one girl friend! 1 Like |
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