akike:


In your village

Some men get married for just the BEAUTY AND SEX, go figure

Cholls:
my sister look I don't know you from anywhere not until you came here with this story of your love life. so just accept my advice which ever way you like to see it good or bad............ back to the topic........one of the things I deduced from what you wrote is how proud and arrogant of a person you could be........thinking you're better than the lady cuz she couldn't speak English fluently.....and the one that annoyed me most was when the brother told you to move to Mowe with him you refused.......Damn! You are too proud for any man to marry.

cirmuell:
No mind Acidosis jare, even 1 month dey wella. the rate at which people rush into marriage these days.

DeeTus:
OP is not arrogant but comfortable. Women who are really comfortable are quite outspoken. You should know this.

Malakh:
why do some of you women think with fish brains, what did they exactly go thru,please tell me, all they did was fvck,they did wrong all the friggin time, I blame the West who glamorizes promiscuity, try to reason without emotional sentiments

chenor:
as in ehn, once you have money no need of wooing for a long time. Most ladies need financial security. They want to be better than their friends. Some don't even mind if the guy should cheat as long as she has the latest stuffs in town

nlfan:
This Is How I Broke Him Down After He Broke My Heart

I met this young man when i was 21 and he was 24 we dated 4 years, we were both struggling, we stayed with each other and help each other to grow.

We grow to become successful and i became very influential in my field and he was so proud of that.

Last october we agreed to walk down the isle, we were planning where we are going to stay after the wedding, he stays somewhere in Lagos mainland while i stay in the island. He told me that he will be moving somewhere in Mowe in Ogun State where his father built a house about 2 years ago.

I told him that will not be a good idea, going from Mowe to Victoria Island everyday will be terrible for me since we can afford a house in Lagos at least for now or we stay where he is staying currently, he maintained he cant change, we could not reach an agreement on that, the next thing i got a shocker, he traveled for event outside Lagos to the east, where he comes from, only to get attracted to a girl he met there and came boldly to tell me, if i cannot marry him and stay at mowe, there are so many good girls who will rush the offer and in annoyance i told him, have you found one please marry her.

To my surprise few days after i saw a photo of him and that girl he just met, less than two months all over social media, he has engaged her.

Initially i was pained, but let's face it he doesn't deserve my tears, his groups of friends started calling my line to ask when we stopped dating since we still stepped out recently to his friend birthday.

I didnt know what to say i asked them to ask him, things went that way and i started hurting, after he did official intro to the girl i knew it was over, i called him and told him i wish him happiness and best of luck with his wife to be.

He felt bad but said he knew i was a good person that he is not shocked i called, i ask him to keep me updated on wedding plans and he did and i told him i will attend he said he will be grateful.

On the wedding day, during the reception i showed up, i had gone to get a very flattering dress, i even paid for make up, i looked so beautiful i couldn't believe myself too

When i entered the room everybody went crazy, all his friends and associate knew me, some are even pained at what he did to me, i showed up all his friends rushed to greet me, it took over 30 minutes to cheek kiss all of them and hug a few, the few people who didn't know me was wondering who i was and why i am so beautiful

I went up to greet him, he almost fell down from where he was standing, i greeted his wife ( a village girl from akwa ibom lol - the way she pronounce the thanks for coming though )

I started catching fun and dancing crazy, my ex couldn't stand it anymore, he ask his wife to go inside the car only him came to greet his guys where i was seated, THEN BROKE DOWN IN TEARS

HE CRIED SO LOUD LIKE PEOPLE WERE SCARED, People will think that i will disappear from there scene since he was crying, i was still seated shaking body to the tune of music, he then told one of his friend, i don't know but i think i messed up - the guy was like you messed up big time, are you just realizing, then live with it the rest of your life, his wife rushed out of the car i guess he heard his prince charming was crying, he came and the moment she opened her mouth to ask daring wot isssit, guys had funny faces about to explode.

At that point he left and i continue hanging out with his friends before oping into my car to go home. He sent a touching sms yesterday.

sainty2k3:

and that's why they will leave you after enjoying all you sexskils and get married to a wifeable lady from akwa ibom

firstolalekan:

Honestly, I think you're the loser.

So for your mind, you think he fell in love and married a lady he met in two months? jjc

I think he was only shedding crocodile tears.
Your ex finally picked a better lady with a bigger bóobs and tighter pússy. Get over it!

cirmuell:
That's just it dear.

Abbie25:


We don't have fish brains.. our emotions makes us look like we do. Imagine what happens when a woman takes away the emotion? Hmm disaster!
If the woman was the wrong one here, your post would be something else.. smh

sainty2k3:

nothing wrong in being outspoken but in the context of marriage, you need to voice out but the in a respectful manner to your man.. not rudelyin the op way. in fact many ladies will have their way on issueslike yhis without stress,
besides I believe there is more to the story she didn't tell us. the guy definitely have his reason which we won't know till u hear from him.
and what do you see to the way she's been referring to the new wife like she's nothing , u think that's not pride

great664:
Thank You Sir, I thought I was the only one seeing the pride in the write up and how she will be in real life too....

Considering your Pride and the age difference, the brother didn't consider you for marriage cuz he knows he will never have a good and peaceful Home.

Your type nags about anything and everything. I am glad he married a lesser person who will show him respect (you denied him) and will appreciate the little he has to offer.

akike:


Nah, I disgaree

Some people are mainly softhearted and some people are mainly hardhearted. There is nothing wrong with being either. Some people find it easy to balance both regardless of the ties they share with the other person. If she is hard-hearted, I don't see the big deal. That guy is not worth it and it does not make her a damaged person.

chenor:
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I know of a girl who got married to a guy after being warned by her friends that he was a womanizer. She confronted the guy n he told her he had changed. He took her shopping, bought her a car, told her that her friends were jealous of her that's y they were telling stories. She stopped talking to her friends.
Along the line, they got married, when she was almost due, he started his old ways. This one in full swing, worst was when she put to bed. He gave her money yes but the funniest aspect is that he started dating someone in her faculty. *she is a student *. And the guy got no chills. He comes to pick up the other girl sometimes.
Imagine ur husband picking another girl in school. Her girlfriends saw this and didn't say anything. They minded her business. When sh the saw she couldn't handle it, she the ran back to them and told them, she wants a divorce. They just told her that they had nothing to say.
I don't kn know how it ended.
This happened in my university. Where I school. It happened last year

Abbie25:


We don't have fish brains.. our emotions makes us look like we do. Imagine what happens when a woman takes away the emotion? Hmm disaster!
If the woman was the wrong one here, your post would be something else.. smh

akike:


Did you just admit to a fish-brained that guy that some women have fish brains?

akike:


Lol

Imagine leaving a professional career in Lagos for Mowe? It is not like she would be moving from NYC to Manhattan. These mofos would be the ones screaming ‘leech, b1tch' etc of she had decided to depend on him.

Personally, I don't think they had God communication

cirmuell:
She got served, some girls are just too desperate these days. Most don't even care about career or anything anymore. Young girls o, they don't even know jack sh*t 'bout life yet. They just wanna get married, it's more like competition these days.

nlfan:
This Is How I Broke Him Down After He Broke My Heart

I met this young man when i was 21 and he was 24 we dated 4 years, we were both struggling, we stayed with each other and help each other to grow.

We grow to become successful and i became very influential in my field and he was so proud of that.

Last october we agreed to walk down the isle, we were planning where we are going to stay after the wedding, he stays somewhere in Lagos mainland while i stay in the island. He told me that he will be moving somewhere in Mowe in Ogun State where his father built a house about 2 years ago.

I told him that will not be a good idea, going from Mowe to Victoria Island everyday will be terrible for me since we can afford a house in Lagos at least for now or we stay where he is staying currently, he maintained he cant change, we could not reach an agreement on that, the next thing i got a shocker, he traveled for event outside Lagos to the east, where he comes from, only to get attracted to a girl he met there and came boldly to tell me, if i cannot marry him and stay at mowe, there are so many good girls who will rush the offer and in annoyance i told him, have you found one please marry her.

To my surprise few days after i saw a photo of him and that girl he just met, less than two months all over social media, he has engaged her.

Initially i was pained, but let's face it he doesn't deserve my tears, his groups of friends started calling my line to ask when we stopped dating since we still stepped out recently to his friend birthday.

I didnt know what to say i asked them to ask him, things went that way and i started hurting, after he did official intro to the girl i knew it was over, i called him and told him i wish him happiness and best of luck with his wife to be.

He felt bad but said he knew i was a good person that he is not shocked i called, i ask him to keep me updated on wedding plans and he did and i told him i will attend he said he will be grateful.

On the wedding day, during the reception i showed up, i had gone to get a very flattering dress, i even paid for make up, i looked so beautiful i couldn't believe myself too

When i entered the room everybody went crazy, all his friends and associate knew me, some are even pained at what he did to me, i showed up all his friends rushed to greet me, it took over 30 minutes to cheek kiss all of them and hug a few, the few people who didn't know me was wondering who i was and why i am so beautiful

I went up to greet him, he almost fell down from where he was standing, i greeted his wife ( a village girl from akwa ibom lol - the way she pronounce the thanks for coming though )

I started catching fun and dancing crazy, my ex couldn't stand it anymore, he ask his wife to go inside the car only him came to greet his guys where i was seated, THEN BROKE DOWN IN TEARS

HE CRIED SO LOUD LIKE PEOPLE WERE SCARED, People will think that i will disappear from there scene since he was crying, i was still seated shaking body to the tune of music, he then told one of his friend, i don't know but i think i messed up - the guy was like you messed up big time, are you just realizing, then live with it the rest of your life, his wife rushed out of the car i guess he heard his prince charming was crying, he came and the moment she opened her mouth to ask daring wot isssit, guys had funny faces about to explode.

At that point he left and i continue hanging out with his friends before oping into my car to go home. He sent a touching sms yesterday.

nlfan:
This Is How I Broke Him Down After He Broke My Heart

I met this young man when i was 21 and he was 24 we dated 4 years, we were both struggling, we stayed with each other and help each other to grow.

We grow to become successful and i became very influential in my field and he was so proud of that.

Last october we agreed to walk down the isle, we were planning where we are going to stay after the wedding, he stays somewhere in Lagos mainland while i stay in the island. He told me that he will be moving somewhere in Mowe in Ogun State where his father built a house about 2 years ago.

I told him that will not be a good idea, going from Mowe to Victoria Island everyday will be terrible for me since we can afford a house in Lagos at least for now or we stay where he is staying currently, he maintained he cant change, we could not reach an agreement on that, the next thing i got a shocker, he traveled for event outside Lagos to the east, where he comes from, only to get attracted to a girl he met there and came boldly to tell me, if i cannot marry him and stay at mowe, there are so many good girls who will rush the offer and in annoyance i told him, have you found one please marry her.

To my surprise few days after i saw a photo of him and that girl he just met, less than two months all over social media, he has engaged her.

Initially i was pained, but let's face it he doesn't deserve my tears, his groups of friends started calling my line to ask when we stopped dating since we still stepped out recently to his friend birthday.

I didnt know what to say i asked them to ask him, things went that way and i started hurting, after he did official intro to the girl i knew it was over, i called him and told him i wish him happiness and best of luck with his wife to be.

He felt bad but said he knew i was a good person that he is not shocked i called, i ask him to keep me updated on wedding plans and he did and i told him i will attend he said he will be grateful.

On the wedding day, during the reception i showed up, i had gone to get a very flattering dress, i even paid for make up, i looked so beautiful i couldn't believe myself too

When i entered the room everybody went crazy, all his friends and associate knew me, some are even pained at what he did to me, i showed up all his friends rushed to greet me, it took over 30 minutes to cheek kiss all of them and hug a few, the few people who didn't know me was wondering who i was and why i am so beautiful

I went up to greet him, he almost fell down from where he was standing, i greeted his wife ( a village girl from akwa ibom lol - the way she pronounce the thanks for coming though )

I started catching fun and dancing crazy, my ex couldn't stand it anymore, he ask his wife to go inside the car only him came to greet his guys where i was seated, THEN BROKE DOWN IN TEARS

HE CRIED SO LOUD LIKE PEOPLE WERE SCARED, People will think that i will disappear from there scene since he was crying, i was still seated shaking body to the tune of music, he then told one of his friend, i don't know but i think i messed up - the guy was like you messed up big time, are you just realizing, then live with it the rest of your life, his wife rushed out of the car i guess he heard his prince charming was crying, he came and the moment she opened her mouth to ask daring wot isssit, guys had funny faces about to explode.

At that point he left and i continue hanging out with his friends before oping into my car to go home. He sent a touching sms yesterday.

akike:


She achieved her aim. It is part of moving on

Cholls:
my sister look I don't know you from anywhere not until you came here with this story of your love life. so just accept my advice which ever way you like to see it good or bad............ back to the topic........one of the things I deduced from what you wrote is how proud and arrogant of a person you could be........thinking you're better than the lady cuz she couldn't speak English fluently.....and the one that annoyed me most was when the brother told you to move to Mowe with him you refused.......Damn! You are too proud for any man to marry.

hey! u must b lacking cerebral presence here. refusing to move to Mowe cannot be tagged 'pride'. there has to b a unanimous agreement- she isn't a slave. as pa d guy using dat as a prerequisite for marrying her is 'stupidity at it's peak'. fact remains dt he isn't ready to settle wt her. mayb d wife material he found in her is no more than a handkerchief size; cannot make a wedding gown. move on wt Ur life gurl

akike:


You can deceive those women certainly not my likes