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Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Kunlegzy(m): 10:46am On Feb 17, 2016
herbie27:
realising he doen't deserve me made me move on cos i knw beta wat love is, thanks sha.
You will be fine and OK. You deserve one that will respect you.

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Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 10:48am On Feb 17, 2016
Left him because am far away from home..can't be in a long distance relationship!!

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Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by greatbrian(m): 10:54am On Feb 17, 2016
Bollove:
I'm sorry.
U welcome..... Same here sorry for my words too. Peace

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Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 10:57am On Feb 17, 2016
beautycrush24:


undecided
ur still pretty much confused.. whether to reply reasonably or not.. ur confused if ur a male or female. ur confused bout ur whole self.. smh...
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Sparklequeen(f): 11:01am On Feb 17, 2016
greatbrian:
She left me coz she tot she found a better guy. Although it was painful coz she left me exactly a yr after I buried my dad. She was just like she's young and she will still find better guys. And she said d most painful tin in d world. Let's just be friends. Lolzzzzzz after 2 days I realised she's wt a guy she's always calling a cousin. Lolzzzz anyway to cut d story short after d guy used her she came back begging and I took her back with bad intentions of braking her heart back few days to our wedding. My plan might take years to achieve. Buh I swear to my dads grave I will shatter her hrt in return. undecided undecided undecided

Please vengeance is for the Lord, please allow her be
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 11:01am On Feb 17, 2016
greatbrian:
She left me coz she tot she found a better guy. Although it was painful coz she left me exactly a yr after I buried my dad. She was just like she's young and she will still find better guys. And she said d most painful tin in d world. Let's just be friends. Lolzzzzzz after 2 days I realised she's wt a guy she's always calling a cousin. Lolzzzz anyway to cut d story short after d guy used her she came back begging and I took her back with bad intentions of braking her heart back few days to our wedding. My plan might take years to achieve. Buh I swear to my dads grave I will shatter her hrt in return. undecided undecided undecided
shocked shocked shocked
Please, don't! sad
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 11:08am On Feb 17, 2016
Bobbyunitedfc:


its a bad experience bro,we still talk for now but i can sense shes mad at me....are u in a relationship again now?
it's healthy knowing that you two still talk, does she still have hopes of you two ever being together in the future? But bro if I were in your shoes I would have taken all the risks, Bleep parental opinion sometimes you just have to take that high road and see where it leads. she's still mad at you because you refused to defend her in the presence of your parents.

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Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by patrickgeddes: 11:14am On Feb 17, 2016
meeeeeen.... .my ex can nagg for africa....she can even complain for d whole world.

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Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by abimbawealth(f): 11:15am On Feb 17, 2016
XtraSmooth404:
Cheat plus liar angry
It wasn't the lie that bothered me, it's the insult to my intelligence that I found offensive.


Awwwwen embarassed cry
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by ssoftappless(m): 11:15am On Feb 17, 2016
patrickgeddes:
meeeeeen.... .my ex can nagg for africa....she can even complain for d whole world.
LMAO
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Sparklequeen(f): 11:17am On Feb 17, 2016
peterboro:
I left her cos:
1.She is a cheat and not evn ashamed of it
2.she has Neva told me any gudnews in her family each time she travels n come bak
3.she is so selfish and self centred
4.she demand an labish like i'm Dasuki bt she can't work for jus one month without complaining of the work being stressful
5.evn wit the money i give to her evryday + the work i secured 4 her yet nt evn a boxer has she bought for m b4
6.the worse of all is dat she has Neva sat me to ask if i'm evn planning and saving 4 d future as making money at this time
7.and because of dat God also has Neva allowed dream anything good about.

So one day she reminded of the 2k i was owing her i now told to leave my house i Neva to her near me again. Imagine sum1 i enrolled into computer class and accommodated and fed for more Dan 1year and also paid sum part of moni for her new apartment asking me 2k

Sorry, some ladies can be ungrateful and annoying.
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Emypresh(m): 11:25am On Feb 17, 2016
Are u cwious? Hmmmm my Rosemary dat yr is light skinned oh....Plz confirm
Krismart:
We must have dated d same girl
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by waikiki(m): 11:28am On Feb 17, 2016
She had serious hygiene issues down there. Everytime i pull down here undies, the climate/weather/condition of my room changes and because i'm asthmatic, i just had to let her go, if you know what i mean.

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Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Youngpo413: 11:31am On Feb 17, 2016
herbie27:
I left my ex bf for numerous reasons.
1) he barely call and wen i complain his like your suppose 2 knw my busy schedule.
2) on a gud day i called n he didn't pick so i decided 2 pay him a surprise visit den i caught him wit another babe and asked who the girl was, dats after excusing him 2 go out wit me 2 talk which he obliged to and he said he has nothing wit the girl, i was to go home and he was like "i hope we are nt quarrelin" i left angrily and even cried dat night, a week later i paid him another surprise visit and found a different girl again in the house and i left, my friends said i shld stay dat he will change bt i made up my mind to end thing bt i didn't want to do it on the phone so i went to his house for the 3rd time and dis time he was wit a different girl again and kept me out for almost 3 minutes wit lies dat he was in the bathroom bathing while he was the room wit the girl and i knew the game he was playing but jst pretended to be stupid and play along while he opens the main door, which he did and i got in n saw d girl trying to adjust her clothes, bt i ignored n told him we needed 2 talk outside bt the FOOL insisted we talk b4 the girl cos he sensed i want 2 end things which his nt ready to, and i insisted we talk outside which he later did bt went 2 his car n was formin busy den i told him 2 stop all he was doing and give me some attention bt den he ignored wat i said n was like his all ears, so i told him i was going inside n until his ready den we can talk, the stupid girl started forming busy body by cooking indo-mie 4 him and i jst ignored her cos fighting a fellow girl over a man is one thing i can never do, so i told him my observation and ended d relationship.I slept well dat night bt frm the second day 2 a week i was pained n kept calling him names like his a loosed dog on watsapp, and within two weeks i was over him cos he isn't worth it.
don't expect a rich handsome guy to be faithful,so he did nothing wrong.

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Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 11:36am On Feb 17, 2016
herbie27:
don't make the mistake of nagging about it when he never calls, he will even use ur nagging to end the relationship b4 u as a woman in love think of it, there is a way dat some guys brains are wired dat i jst can't get.


I was a guest but had to register on NL when I saw dis topic.
No relationship should be one-sided, I am speaking from experience, just parted ways with my ex because he doesn't call or act right. Mind you, I never,ever ask him for cash or gifts, I try to hustle my own sh*t. I complained at first, he apologised and then went back to his old self,it went on and on like a vicious cycle.It hurts!
Just because I didn't want to be seen as a nag,I'd ignore him and give him space for some time, then he'd come back begging and saying I should 4give him and his insensitive nature. A man that loves a woman will never give her a reason to nag continuously.. It was like we were having several takes of the same old scene, always arguing about his insensitive nature and if you love like that, love runs cold.

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Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 11:42am On Feb 17, 2016
undecided

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Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 11:42am On Feb 17, 2016
ssoftappless:
LMAO

Sorry sir, are you trying to say she nags for no just reason? Did you treat her right? Don't you have your own flaws? A woman may try to point out your mistakes continuously because she loves you. For every action ,there must. be an equal reaction.. I know how my ex frustrated me and hurt me deeply..I don't know her neither do I know you, but there are many sides to a story ..Don't take this personal tho.
All na talk 4 table.

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Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by beautycrush24(f): 11:46am On Feb 17, 2016
armylord:
ur still pretty much confused.. whether to reply reasonably or not.. ur confused if ur a male or female. ur confused bout ur whole self.. smh...

undecided
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Sparkles003(f): 11:49am On Feb 17, 2016
ok
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 11:58am On Feb 17, 2016
SirDorianGray:

You're a goat.


Easy on people.... Nobody holy pass
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Bobbyunitedfc(m): 11:58am On Feb 17, 2016
dumo1:

it's healthy knowing that you two still talk, does she still have hopes of you two ever being together in the future? But bro if I were in your shoes I would have taken all the risks, Bleep parental opinion sometimes you just have to take that high road and see where it leads. she's still mad at you because you refused to defend her in the presence of your parents.

taken all the risks,bros it so much more than that,u think i didnt try,imagine ur parents tellin u they wont be at your wedding,parental opinion matters when it come to marraige,love alone aint enough....and yes i still have hope we might get together anytime in d future but i dont wana harbor such cos its risky and involves too much emotionally...yea shes mad at me,she calls me mamas boy now but for 3 years we dated i wasnt a mamas boy,shes hurting what about me,,,?
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by FRANKOXY(m): 11:58am On Feb 17, 2016
Her mum told her that igbo people uses their wives for money rituals during hard times & things weren't same again. Kanayo's movies has killed me. cry cry

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Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by ssoftappless(m): 11:59am On Feb 17, 2016
Sparkles003:
I wanted a sex free relationship cos i wanted us to know what makes each of us happy,how we could build the relationship without the complications of sex. Thou in my own case sex made me feel guilty before God as my conscience couldn't stand the deception of doing it.Which he agreed to but after months we broke up cos he got tired of waiting for me to change my mind and belief.
SEX wahala
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by FRANKOXY(m): 12:02pm On Feb 17, 2016
BUT SOME LADIES HATE FREQUENT CALLS

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Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by NiggaBoi(m): 12:03pm On Feb 17, 2016
Well, I have always discovered we always want who doesn't want us. I left my ex when I discovered she wanted out already. Always nagging and being unfaithful. This babe being one I was so much in love with. Guess, immaturity and not knowing exactly what she wanted played a major role in her decision making back then as she tells me now. She is back now after being treated unfairly by the ones she ran after, but who am I to say her punany is no longer worth hitting. PS: nothing like being in love with her now sha

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Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by ssoftappless(m): 12:04pm On Feb 17, 2016
FRANKOXY:
BUT SOME LADIES HATE FREQUENT CALLS
YES ure right, i dnt really blame them, i blame d guys.
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by ronaldbecky(m): 12:12pm On Feb 17, 2016
ssoftappless:
I SMELL LIES
lolz lies of d century
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by ojotobiloba1: 12:18pm On Feb 17, 2016
The problem I had wt her den was d issue of aggression and she don't forgive easily..

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Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by damilareoye: 12:24pm On Feb 17, 2016
Can't just cope with the age difference...
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by danbrowndmf(m): 12:25pm On Feb 17, 2016
Sexytemi:
He cheated on me with another Lady from his church, and also the distance between us was not just helping matter then.
Wow.u look so much like a friend of mine...Zara Josh
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Sunnypar(m): 12:31pm On Feb 17, 2016
henryhemon:


She's a runs girl.
Thank your star and go for medical check up.
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by danbrowndmf(m): 12:31pm On Feb 17, 2016
freecocoa:
This your grammar na one in town.grin
Lmaooooooooooooooooooooooo.
Longest time.
Hope u still listen to those rap song i gave to you?

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