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Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Sunnypar(m): 12:31pm On Feb 17, 2016
fiziebaibie:
My ex is a monster...e be like say dem don use pussy swear for am..jumping frm bed to bed although he wanted to be serious wth me bt I ran cos his dick is as big and long as a pestle..
grin
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Sunnypar(m): 12:32pm On Feb 17, 2016
greatbrian:


I've spoken well bro. But my mum do tell me smfin wen I was young. Be careful who u r dealing with. And if u hv read the act of seduction by Robert Greene, u will see d diff kind of people even law 19 in d 48 laws of power tells u dia r sone pple u shud not offend and if u do. U shud crush dem totally coz dey will keep seeking revenge. No matter how long it might take......... Seriously dz girl broke my hrt at my very trying period. I had a problem wt d school I am NDA, A yr after I buried my dad, and d moss gross part of it was it was on my betday. Wen I needed a shoulder to lean on. Coz of all d problem den. DAT was d best time she knew we ain't so compatible. And when the problem was over. She knew we r compatible again....... Lolzzz. So I didn't complain. I just hv a good plan for her
Don't be silly.
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Sunnypar(m): 12:34pm On Feb 17, 2016
john4reala:
She too like sex!!! ... And I caught her smoking and mixing 3 different drinks I:e magic moments, Bear and blue vodka in a Club.. And she was gang fu-cked by up to 4 boys in the club and I was there she couldnt spot me because she was drunk to the fullest..
She came home drunk and in the morning i showed her the video tape !! she cried beg and saying she was forced to smoke!!
Lies......
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Sunnypar(m): 12:35pm On Feb 17, 2016
mjblinks:
I left because of genotype.
you shocked......omo, my guy has not gotten over you at all......he still find it difficult to date girls..... He said, you know him like the back of your palm.
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 12:36pm On Feb 17, 2016
Youngpo413:
don't expect a rich handsome guy to be faithful,so he did nothing wrong.
so we don't have rich,handsome guys who are faithful in der relationship?, and you think he did nothing wrong, well jst wait until it happens 2 ur sis.

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Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Sunnypar(m): 12:39pm On Feb 17, 2016
VitaminB12:
Left my Ex for asking me how much I earn as Salary on the first day we met. I gave her a cooked up figure and the feelings I had for her died that night but I continued with her and gave the relationship a 6-month life span.

Within that 6 months, she had told me again indirectly that she prefers two bedroom flat to one bedroom flat coz I stay in One bedroom flat. She equally once refused me coming to see her in a squalor she was putting up with during her IT. I insisted coming to see her there, but she refused saying we won't be comfortable there that we should look for a more comfortable place, I asked my friend for his space, and he invited us over to his very comfortable three bedroom flat. On informing her of where we are going to hibernate, she asked me how comfortable is the place? Choosing comfort over us. I kept playing along and after the 6 months was due with the numerous sweet straffings and smacking of her voluptuous ass, I let her go though against the will of my flesh.
I know this kind of girls you'd be amazed at the kind of place she resides and their father has nothing or probably from a broken home..... I dated one.....it was one shoe to dress to shows...... Shine your eyes

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Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Sunnypar(m): 12:41pm On Feb 17, 2016
GoldenDr:
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Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by EOOJ(m): 12:43pm On Feb 17, 2016
greatbrian:
She left me coz she tot she found a better guy. Although it was painful coz she left me exactly a yr after I buried my dad. She was just like she's young and she will still find better guys. And she said d most painful tin in d world. Let's just be friends. Lolzzzzzz after 2 days I realised she's wt a guy she's always calling a cousin. Lolzzzz anyway to cut d story short after d guy used her she came back begging and I took her back with bad intentions of braking her heart back few days to our wedding. My plan might take years to achieve. Buh I swear to my dads grave I will shatter her hrt in return. undecided undecided undecided
what Dats just not right o. Don't end up doing ur self by ur self
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Sunnypar(m): 12:45pm On Feb 17, 2016
amaben2020:
I was scared she would get pregnant sooner or later
Irresponsible man....man up....your mates are getting married.
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by kunlexze(m): 12:46pm On Feb 17, 2016
stonecoldcafe:


Good story... Just small correction at the end "she never worth my time". I notice a lot of Nairalanders making the same mistake, not sure why.

...she wasn't worth it or
She wasn't worth my time or better still just add 'was'.
She was never worth my time.

You are in OAU now so write well. God bless
kk.thanks
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Lilkingsamuel(m): 12:46pm On Feb 17, 2016
Joy1706:
He was broke
simple and concise
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Sunnypar(m): 12:47pm On Feb 17, 2016
henryhemon:


Noticed people have 2 lives .....internet life is different from real life n what they made us believe.
Yes same with Nairaland.... Many people have two monickers, the serious monicker and the mischievous monicker...... Many people believe what they read on the internet but a lot of lies on the internet. Men pretend to be what they are not and girls project fake images...... Bunch of hypocrites!
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Sunnypar(m): 12:50pm On Feb 17, 2016
Joavid:


quote ke? if I try that, a whole page is not enough.
the sad thing is most of these people are undergraduates and some, graduates.

I miss the former romance section. from half quarter of 2014, the section lost its credibility.
85.4% are graduates, 2% are illetrates that have access to the internet(High school student are included) and 12.6% are undergraduate.
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Sunnypar(m): 12:51pm On Feb 17, 2016
Kunlegzy:
Dear,
I must confess, after four good years!
It was never easy.
I had to stay off ladies till now.
Just few friends that's all.
Not really serious, to build isn't easy. sad
To build is not easy, to destroy is very simple hence the reason we have antibam spot on NL.
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Sunnypar(m): 12:52pm On Feb 17, 2016
ellacute45:
Left him because am far away from home..can't be in a long distance relationship!!
Rule 2 of relationship 101.
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by missnikky(f): 12:54pm On Feb 17, 2016
1 He got a new girlfriend ** Virgin**

2 having trust issues, then i got a job in a bank was another big issue. So happy I ex him like **TYJ** grin
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Sunnypar(m): 12:56pm On Feb 17, 2016
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Share and let learn.
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Lilkingsamuel(m): 12:59pm On Feb 17, 2016
Bollove:
You are a foolish dude , ignorant and dirty.

If you ain't careful with this mentality, you will ruin your life with it...... I hope she is like me and sense Ur plan, she will shatter and scattered you like never before even your dead dad will pity you.

MySon, if you don't need that girl, leave her now and stay with your life ..... If you hurt her later, she may kill you for it then you will be the ultimate loser.

Don try toy with woman's venom.
deep shiiit
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 1:00pm On Feb 17, 2016
Youngpo413:
don't expect a rich handsome guy to be faithful,so he did nothing wrong.
jst 2 correct u of the view u hv now, i dated him 4 two yrs and wen i accepted 2 he was using a car dat looked like wat men use as commercial cars(cab), and dat was nt why i said YES, i noticed his a hard working person who doesn't compromise business wit any other thing, and a year later he said to me dat his planning of changing his car which i was against bt he gave good reasons why he needed a new one and bought an infinity jeep, we broke up cos he said he was told dat am a lesbian which am nt and we hooped up again after 11 months of nt seeing or hearing from each other, for these two yrs the highest amount of money he gave me was 2,000 n he did it once bt i didn't mind cos i believe am nt his responsibility since he made it look dat way and never nagged abt it, i talk abt it once in a while bt he says his TESTING me and even told me once 2 tell him wen i needed any financial assistance. So u see i wasn't der because of the car or the money bt because of who he was, he has wat i will look for in my future husband, bt the problem started wen he changed his car PH girls ar crazy abt guys who own cars and his using a lot of them, and dis person is the same person who wants me 2 be faithful 2 him

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Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Lilkingsamuel(m): 1:01pm On Feb 17, 2016
Sunnypar:
See them CommentRreaders' Association of Nairaland (CRAN).
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Share and let learn.
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Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by doskie(m): 1:01pm On Feb 17, 2016
refiner:


its just a simple sentence....u ought to!undecided
quite obviously. you cant be loved by a rational man without much patience. you are a cold fish. are you sad?

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Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by belloabd1914(m): 1:01pm On Feb 17, 2016
FRANKOXY:
Her mum told her that igbo people uses their wives for money rituals during hard times & things weren't same again. Kanayo's movies has killed me. cry cry
lol, abeg no wound person with laugh.
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Kunlegzy(m): 1:04pm On Feb 17, 2016
Sunnypar:

To build is not easy, to destroy is very simple hence the reason we have antibam spot on NL.
LOL, which one is antibam spot smiley
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Sunnypar(m): 1:07pm On Feb 17, 2016
herbie27:
jst 2 correct u of the view u hv now, i dated him 4 two yrs and wen i accepted 2 he was using a car dat looked like wat men use as commercial cars(cab), and dat was nt why i sayed YES, i noticed his a hard working person who doen't compromise business wit any other thing, and a year later he said to me dat his planning of changing his car which i was against bt the gave good reason why he needed a new one and bought an infinity jeep, we broke up cos he said he was told dat am a lesbian which am nt and we hooped up again after 11 months of nt seeing or hearing from each other, for these two yrs the highest amount of money he gave me was 2,000 n he did it once bt i didn't mind cos i believe am nt his responsibility since he made it look dat way and never nagged abt it, i talk abt it once in a while bt he says his TESTING me and even told me once 2 tell him wen i needed any financial assistance. So u see i wasn't der because of the car or the money bt because of who he was, he has wat i will look for in my future husband, bt the problem started wen he changed his car PH girls ar crazy abt guys who own cars and his using a lot of them, and dis person is the same person who wants me 2 be faithful 2 him
I don't have a car........ Smh!!! Girls and cars are like bee and honey.....you can use it to get them laid and give them 200 naira for transport...
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by 2sex(m): 1:12pm On Feb 17, 2016
Sunnypar:
See them CommentRreaders' Association of Nairaland (CRAN).
DebbyChris(f), francababy(f), zaynie(f), DIG1, xnigga(m), stan241(m), BlizzydoDo(f), Bukish21(f), holluswagga(m), habib55, Emeraldz(f), yankosbaba, stephnie44(f), Geeflow(m), ohgurl(f), Anoti1(m), pomide(m), torpedodaezy(f), Liberty101(m), cberryx, makky04, Onyi2013, belloabd1914(m), Enes22(m), Chijiuche, Thugnificent(m), preshyp(f), BukkyDan(f), dimarket(m), 2sex(m), exotiqueify(f), Ebusbaba1(m), Harrisonwo(m), vargasvictory, Lilkingsamuel(m)
Share and let learn.
grin
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by exotiqueify(f): 1:19pm On Feb 17, 2016
Jadeite:



I was a guest but had to register on NL when I saw dis topic.
No relationship should be one-sided, I am speaking from experience, just parted ways with my ex because he doesn't call or act right. Mind you, I never,ever ask him for cash or gifts, I try to hustle my own sh*t. I complained at first, he apologised and then went back to his old self,it went on and on like a vicious cycle.It hurts!
Just because I didn't want to be seen as a nag,I'd ignore him and give him space for some time, then he'd come back begging and saying I should 4give him and his insensitive nature. A man that loves a woman will never give her a reason to nag continuously.. It was like we were having several takes of the same old scene, always arguing about his insensitive nature and if you love like that, love runs cold.

May d good lawd bless u.... But one thing is, u really shouldn't have registered. everyone commenting knows d truth as to what happened with their exes, but they would lie, its excused tho, cuz dis is NL and we see a whole load of crap....Funny how every guy on NL faults a lady for a break up, while they keep mute in d role they played.....
Thank u for this particular line "A man that loves a woman would not give her a reason to nag', and I must confess, it should be vice-versa... Insensitivity and selfishness are two things I can't stand....U don't claim to love someone and be insensitive, u don't get to try to control a woman just bc 'she is a woman'....A man dosent want to be controlled, but would love to control a woman.... Vile, sick world....

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Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by BlizzydoDo(f): 1:23pm On Feb 17, 2016
we quarreled about evrytin, I had 2go.
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by pomide(m): 1:30pm On Feb 17, 2016
Sunnypar:
See them CommentRreaders' Association of Nairaland (CRAN).
DebbyChris(f), francababy(f), zaynie(f), DIG1, xnigga(m), stan241(m), BlizzydoDo(f), Bukish21(f), holluswagga(m), habib55, Emeraldz(f), yankosbaba, stephnie44(f), Geeflow(m), ohgurl(f), Anoti1(m), pomide(m), torpedodaezy(f), Liberty101(m), cberryx, makky04, Onyi2013, belloabd1914(m), Enes22(m), Chijiuche, Thugnificent(m), preshyp(f), BukkyDan(f), dimarket(m), 2sex(m), exotiqueify(f), Ebusbaba1(m), Harrisonwo(m), vargasvictory, Lilkingsamuel(m)
Share and let learn.

Caught me red-handed! cheesy why did the pages stop at 12? sad
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by BrightEye(m): 1:37pm On Feb 17, 2016
beautycrush24:
He was just too nice and never gets upset. Too perfect for my liking. Whatever i do or say is always right. Doesnt allow me lift a pin. *yawns* boring embarassed

In other news, check www.juicygossips.com.ng and thank me later
.

exactly what I am afraid of. My girl could leave me for this same reasons too.
Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by amaben2020(m): 1:40pm On Feb 17, 2016
Sunnypar:

Irresponsible man....man up....your mates are getting married.
my brother, marriage no dey my agenda, I would love to marry once I hit the 5million naira mark

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Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 1:48pm On Feb 17, 2016
exotiqueify:


May d good lawd bless u.... But one thing is, u really shouldn't have registered. everyone commenting knows d truth as to what happened with their exes, but they would lie, its excused tho, cuz dis is NL and we see a whole load of crap....Funny how every guy on NL faults a lady for a break up, while they keep mute in d role they played.....
Thank u for this particular line "A man that loves a woman would not give her a reason to nag', and I must confess, it should be vice-versa... Insensitivity and selfishness are two things I can't stand....U don't claim to love someone and be insensitive, u don't get to try to control a woman just bc 'she is a woman'....A man dosent want to be controlled, but would love to control a woman.... Vile, sick world....



My dear...I had to cos I see some stories making it look like it was only the Lady's fault.……Been wanting to register on NL 4 sometime tho,felt I shld make a comeback now..God bless you sis..

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Re: Why Did You Leave Your Ex? Share Your Experience. by uncjay(m): 1:52pm On Feb 17, 2016
Oliviaarims:

Nahh.. I don't think so. There's always payback someway, somehow.
it depends, sometimes death is not a payback.

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