We come across people of all kinds in this world and the diversity is wonderful though. But when it comes to relationships, most of us often end-up being with the wrong people, be they friends or life-partner. All good people wish they knew the true colors of the person before they were disappointed. New year is also time to take stock of relationships and to decide which ones to keep or discard. Here’s a checklist to help you understand the differences between real and materialistic people so that you end up getting some real happiness from relationships.


1.On a date

Real: They would begin conversations revolving around your well-being and happiness.

Materialistic: They would begin conversations revolving around your financial status, professional status.


2. Social life

Real: They would call you regularly to know how you are and will be there during your trying times.

Materialistic: They are available at every party you invite them to and would love to become part of all your celebrations but unavailable otherwise.


3.Success

Real: You are their friend whether you are employed or unemployed and they are always happy with your success.

Materialistic: They always keep a tab on your success status and boast about it among friends to make an impression, but will compete with you in private.

4.Communication style

Real: They talk in simple manner and love to have heart-to-heart conversations with you.

Materialistic: Conversation is full of show-offs, other people’s weaknesses and fake information.


5. Acceptance

Real: They accept you the way you are and love to be with you in spite of your imperfections.

Materialistic: Their acceptance is always until you are rich, sought after and elite in a certain way. Their acceptance is based on what you have.

6.Professionalism

Real: They will only commit as much as they can deliver

Materialistic: They will show you day dreams of goals beyond their capacities and will deliver you less than what was committed.

7. Mind

Real: They are creative, have a mind of their own and use it while performing actions.

Materialistic: Their mind works only on trends or theories; they often live on other people’s ideas.


8. Problem solving

Real: They solve the problems first hand and accept responsibility for them.

Materialistic: They ignore problems and blame others for their occurrence.

Do you concur?

Nice

Sure. I had to check myself too to know what category I fall into.

I'm a real nigga i'm a real nigga
Who wana roll arond with some real niggas

had real sons who needed real sitters


But as soon as i leave niggas will get real bitter

I love nicki minaj aunty oni idi nla

thank God I fall into the real category. i can't be materialistic na

CaroLyner:
most girls fall into the materialistic category except me

People in the market shouldn't throw stones, it might end up hitting their mom, dad, and or relatives

I dey come

The ladies above me are all gold diggers

The ladies above me are all gold diggers ....

9) HEALTH

REAL: when you are healthy they rejoice with you but even when you are down they still stick around and look for ways to help

MATERIALISTIC: When you are okay they are around to chop money but when you go down even with even mild fever...you n.o go see their brake light...when you need money for medical emergencies...they come up with swift excuses...GOD save us from fake people

CaroLyner:
most girls fall into the materialistic category except me

Proof or....................you know the drill

firstking01:
The ladies above me are all gold diggers

except Carolyner o bros....she's a diamond digger...na play Caro

AyamConfidence:
except Carolyner o bros....she's a diamond digger...na play Caro

na u talk o

firstking01:
na u talk o

i can vouch for her anyday

AyamConfidence:
i can vouch for her anyday

owk keep on the crush

firstking01:
owk keep on the crush

lol...leave am like that...na me say make you no get crush? Hehehe

AyamConfidence:
lol...leave am like that...na me say make you no get crush? Hehehe

lol, my crush no dey come online again

AyamConfidence:
Proof or....................you know the drill

how will i prove it?

firstking01:
lol, my crush no dey come online again

get a new crush...thats how it works bro

CaroLyner:
how will i prove it?

of course you made a claim...and the only way to make us believe is to prove it...now provimg it will be a product of your own brainwork...i aint tipping you at all

AyamConfidence:
get a new crush...thats how it works bro

nope, she was way too exceptionaL

AyamConfidence:
get a new crush...thats how it works bro

nope, she was way too exceptionaL....

AyamConfidence:
get a new crush...thats how it works bro

nope, she was way too exceptiona

AyamConfidence:
of course you made a claim...and the only way to make us believe is to prove it...now provimg it will be a product of your own brainwork...i aint tipping you at all

dont really know how to prove it

CaroLyner:
dont really know how to prove it

chai.....Nairaland women sha

firstking01:
nope, she was way too exceptiona

eeyah sorry bro....she will come back again no worry

AyamConfidence:
eeyah sorry bro....she will come back again no worry

i pray, she assured me that she's gonna always be here, and we planned meeting this year

AyamConfidence:
eeyah sorry bro....she will come back again no worry

i pray, she assured me that she's gonna always be here, and we planned meeting this year...

AyamConfidence:
eeyah sorry bro....she will come back again no worry

i pray, she told me she'd always be here for me...we planned meeting this year....she's a prominent romancelander

firstking01:
i pray, she told me she'd always be here for me...we planned meeting this year....she's a prominent romancelander

wow...you guys don go deep o...CaroLyner still dey play hard to get...i'm still bidding my time sha

AyamConfidence:
wow...you guys don go deep o...CaroLyner still dey play hard to get...i'm still bidding my time sha

ok