menabae:
prof,correct me nau,mtcheeeeeew

missyadorable:


The whole point of being in a marriage is to be respected,to be accepted and termed "responsible"..the kind of insults and embarrassment single ladies go through ehn...Being single is a serious "curse"...

I give people gifts,friends,family and neighbour but a man am romantically involved with? Boyfriend,fiance and now husband? Can't get a match stick from me as a gift! Never!!

youngalex:


Wow..."You wanted the marriage and you got it" am amazed....I do tell my guys that most ladies just want the wedding...after the wedding you will know who you married...They preach love yet so selfish #Pathetic

missyadorable:


I am enduring o,just like most women..."They" said I should marry to be respected and I did! I didn't come for enjoyment,i came for the title(Mrs)..besides,am not sad! He is a calm man,doesnt maltreat me and keeps his philandering off my face,provides for d family and gives me peace...am happily enduring!

kingofchess:
when she stops u from sending money 2 ur younger ones in skul....bro fleeee

wristbangle:

So it has become a taboo to spend on guys?

menabae:
yes especially when he is not yet ur hubby

menabae:
,that number 4 can nevr happen,why should i spend on a guy?huh,that's left for sugar mommies

missyadorable:
Well,for me I grew up with the mentality that my money must not reach a guy except my brothers.

Spending money on my guy in cash or kind will make him take me for granted,like "she is spending her cash on me,she is desperate" cos that's how African men think

I didn't think gifts were necessary.I didn't play romance with my money....

I could agree to split the bills on date but my weak point was getting my guy gifts on special occasions...I didn't pester for gifts too cos I could afford whatever I wanted..

Now,am married and I can't imagine buying my husband a gift...I didn't give him any gift on his bday in January and on valentine's day.i just behaved like it was every normal sunday.Although, he bought me a gift which I didn't see as a big deal.just muttered "thank you" n tossed it aside

3 days ago,he passed a comment about it and I replied "you are a man,what do u need gifts for? You need anything,you go and buy it,you can afford it"

And he took offence! And I don't understand why a supernatural human being should want a gift from a "lesser" being called woman

MzPecs:
Thank God i'm not stingy!

SweetJustice:


its a pity you haven't had the chance to travel out. Going dutch isn't a big deal in the western world.

MzPecs:

I'm sure you're being sarcastic

Donpizzle:

Be honest, Hw many times hv u paid for evrything on a date. None

menabae:
,that number 4 can nevr happen,why should i spend on a guy?huh,that's left for sugar mommies

prela:


Thank you o, I thought so too. Poverty or irresponsibility has turned our guys into sthelse

HateU2:
Here you are again

menabae:
,that number 4 can nevr happen,why should i spend on a guy?huh,that's left for sugar mommies

Jadekitana:


On the contrary he-goat i'v left the shores of nigeria, on business trips and vacations nd i'v not really seen couples splitting bills in my presence! You should learn how to address people with decorum in public and don't be a scalywag. What a foolish statement! Where in the world have you been to? Maybe just 3 countries and you have the guts to make such a silly sweepy statement. I pity your wannabe ignorance.

dazzle101:
Whatttttttttttt you want to split bills on every date and later u'd come on out and say 'u the man'

Taaaaaaa, how petty!! Idiat try that rubbish with me n u so goooooneeeee!!! Broke ass... namsense!!

If I want to pay the bills, i'd initiate the date n do the paying not when I'm not up for an outing n u come up n say let's go out n split bills, u and who And hey, it's not being cheap, it's just how it should be naturally. Adam was created to be the provider ab inito but ur lazy selves would have none of it: the world is changing, women now work so heck: they should be splitting bills and contributing, a livid excuse for the lukewarm n lax man who knows not his place!!!!

Tomorrow they'd open their chauvinistic mouths to claim 'I'm in charge as the man' may.........!!! lemme stop here.

I'm sure my stance is clear enough!!! To every dude out there: be the man you were created to be and stop looking for flimsy excuses to support your baseless theory @OP berra do away with that inane thought of yours as its so banal and shoddy!!!

MzPecs:
Thank God i'm not stingy!

Mayflowa:


Hey! You are been too hard on the guy. Please be subtle with the curses. I think what is better is for either of the partner to pay the bills. It also depends on who initiates the outing.

Sharing of bills is mostly common with French and Dutch peeps hence the name. This shud not be a way of judging women. However, it is selfish when you drag your male friends everything to fast-food expecting they should pay everytime simply because you are a woman. That is taking advantage of ur gender which most foreign girls don't do.

You too should pay for them sometimes or pay your part if you just want the company of your friends like lunch break at work. You can also pay for yourself or contribute money with a longtime boyfriend. Nothing bad if you work and earn money.

No one should expect you to pay for a boy who is asking u out for dates in order to kiss you one day. New boyfriends should not expect it too except u feel like it

MzPecs:
Thank God i'm not stingy!

Jadekitana:


On the contrary he-goat i'v left the shores of nigeria, on business trips and vacations nd i'v not really seen couples splitting bills in my presence! You should learn how to address people with decorum in public and don't be a scalywag. What a foolish statement! Where in the world have you been to? Maybe just 3 countries and you have the guts to make such a silly sweepy statement. I pity your wannabe ignorance.

henrylowe:
Who cares whether you have travelled to Ghana or Zimbabwe? I just pity the man that will marry you with your manner of talking


I don't know if your parent didn't train you well, or they trained you but you failed to accept training. Even when they have nothing to offer a man, they will come to a faceless forum like this displaying hypocripsy just to convince people that they are priceless.. Rubbish !!!

Jadekitana:


Please take your frustrations elsewhere, I replied who mentioned me, I can't remember having any debate with you. You should learn to mind your business, it helps alot.

missyadorable:


God made women "lesser" creatures to men and here in Africa,men treat women like real thrash...so I dnt expect a Master to seek gift from his slave.

At least, am not stingy to myself,siblings and parents...

You know,i have come to realize the more attention a woman gives a man,the more he messes her up...After all the gifts,attention and love you shower on him,he does unimaginable things just to hurt you....So I don't buy that talk! I give gifts or not,when and if he wants to give another lady attention outside,he will gladly do! That's the typical African man

menabae:
prof,correct me nau,mtcheeeeeew