dazzle101:
Whatttttttttttt you want to split bills on every date and later u'd come on out and say 'u the man'

Taaaaaaa, how petty!! Idiat try that rubbish with me n u so goooooneeeee!!! Broke ass... namsense!!

If I want to pay the bills, i'd initiate the date n do the paying not when I'm not up for an outing n u come up n say let's go out n split bills, u and who And hey, it's not being cheap, it's just how it should be naturally. Adam was created to be the provider ab inito but ur lazy selves would have none of it: the world is changing, women now work so heck: they should be splitting bills and contributing, a livid excuse for the lukewarm n lax man who knows not his place!!!!

Tomorrow they'd open their chauvinistic mouths to claim 'I'm in charge as the man' may.........!!! lemme stop here.

I'm sure my stance is clear enough!!! To every dude out there: be the man you were created to be and stop looking for flimsy excuses to support your baseless theory @OP berra do away with that inane thought of yours as its so banal and shoddy!!!

henrylowe:
You should be the one who should get a life and stop being a nuisance on a public forum

SweetJustice:


If I hear! Ok send me ur bf's number for confirmation.

No bf

Cutehector:
eeeeh.. . shhhhhh... shhhhh.. keep quiet... no talk am again

Why I no talk am?

wristbangle:


Is there anything wrong in splitting the bills on date?

menabae:
yes especially when he is not yet ur hubby

menabae:
yes especially when he is not yet ur hubby

menabae:
,that number 4 can nevr happen,why should i spend on a guy?huh,that's left for sugar mommies

olakan22:
it is wrong o. The decision of men to be dependent on women is a major cause of break ups. Men are naturally the head and they should be in charge. When a man starts collecting money 4rm his fiancee...that marriage don get comma be dat o...and if them no careful it'd be a full stop

tosyne2much:
yes I'm here again

kingofchess:
when she stops u from sending money 2 ur younger ones in skul....bro fleeee

Jadekitana:
But why should we split bills when we go out on dates? It's simple, either I pay for everything or he pays for everything. It's somehow when we start doing donation in front of the waiter or waitress because one person has decided not to cheat the other.

Chicagoesontop:


Everything About You Is Still Showing That You Are Not A Wife Material, You Hissed On Top Your Mistake !!!

Jadekitana:
But why should we split bills when we go out on dates? It's simple, either I pay for everything or he pays for everything. It's somehow when we start doing donation in front of the waiter or waitress because one person has decided not to cheat the other.

menabae:
,that number 4 can nevr happen,why should i spend on a guy?huh,that's left for sugar mommies

menabae:
,that number 4 can nevr happen,why should i spend on a guy?huh,that's left for sugar mommies

Jadekitana:
But why should we split bills when we go out on dates? It's simple, either I pay for everything or he pays for everything. It's somehow when we start doing donation in front of the waiter or waitress because one person has decided not to cheat the other.

Jadekitana:
But why should we split bills when we go out on dates? It's simple, either I pay for everything or he pays for everything. It's somehow when we start doing donation in front of the waiter or waitress because one person has decided not to cheat the other.

MzPecs:
Thank God i'm not stingy!

omonnakoda:
Managing the finances of a family is not a joke. I think at least one person has to be stingy otherwise you will run into problems. Being "stingy" I think is the most important trait of rich people who make their money legitimately.They save money and invest in productive assets.It is a different thing when you can steal public money or kidnap etc and spend money anyhow but if you work hard Then either you or your wife,one of you at least must be prudent though others may call you stingy. One of the things I have observed is poor people spend more than rich people and that is why many are poor

henrylowe:
Shut your mouth and stop blabbing here.. So from all the lists, why emphasising on splitting the payment of a bill?


I still don't know why you carry dis thread for your head. Why are you so pained that you can't even hide your pains.. The same lazy bone who see marriage as an escape to poverty will still come here agitating for gender equality.. Capital FOOL !!!

missyadorable:


Yes,the marriage is what most ladies want.society has made it a yardstick to know who is responsible...For me,it was "get married and nothing else matters"..However,I dont preach love cos I don't believe in it.Apart frm my mother,no human being on earth loves me,na man wey fit shun me @ any time go fit love me? what a joke!

stolid:


You didn't have to be so insulting. Even as a man, the idea of splitting bills sounds utterly absurd to me, in all honesty. And I'm not even as rich. I mean, how will you even do it?

Waiter: Sir, your bill is 7000
Man: Alright. Errrrm... Babe, I have only 3, 500 Naira here, you'll have to pay the remaining. We're going dutch.

The heck!

It's not by force to have a girlfriend or go on dates oh! I always advice young struggling men out there to focus on their hustles, rather than women. It's the more rational thing to do. Because when the chips are down, they'll drop your broke ass for some other guy who can supposedly take care of them.

However, when a lady falls in love with you & gives you that green light regardless your financial situation, you can be rest assured that it's real. With love comes understanding, and you may not even have to go on dates except on very few occasions, and she'll understand.

But to carry babe comot her house go date only to split bills is just preposterous. Our society is patriarchal despite these ladies' cravings for gender equality, and it would be for a longer while. We shouldn't let our respective situations affect our stance, thinking, and divine responsibility as men.

If you don't have money to service a date singlehandedly, please leave her in her house. It's not by force.

wristbangle:
It perplexes me when a lady often nags and finds fault in everything just because her boyfriend is going through difficult time but the moment he climbs the ladder of success and achieves greatness, she will start being tolerant and nice even though she has been a nagging girlfriend.

When this character is noticed in a lady, it should ring a bell to guys that careful tactful need to be employ when dealing with such lady.

Below are the evidences that shows a lady will become very stingy when you marry her.

1. She presents inferior gifts to her boyfriend

For a lady who present inferior gifts such as N100 recharge card, mallam perfume, slippers, china boxers and singlets as birthday gift for her boyfriend shows that she will become a stingy and disastrous wife. It's a shameful thing to see how some ladies treat their boyfriends like a worthless dog hereby presenting an inferior gift to a guy who went extra mile to please them during their birthday celebration.

2. She doesn't want to lose anything

According to Prof Tosyne2much, he opined that some ladies are so stingy that they share similar characteristics with our policemen. When you visit them, you will be the one to spend, when they visit you, you will still be the one to spend. These kind of ladies are stingy and will contribute nothing in marriage.

3. She always claim to be broke

A lady who always claims to be broke at all time when her account is actually fat indicates that the probability is high for her to become a home wrecker. Such ladies are only interested in what a guy can offer financially but immediately things turn sour, you won't see their brake light again.

4. I can't spend on guys

It's a huge blow on ladies whose brains are wired to the belief that financial responsibilities and pressure should only be mounted on guys while the ladies go about flexing. As a result of this, many of them see marriage as a route to escape from poverty. Some of them will even say that they can never call a guy who sends them recharge card (what a wack mentality). These kind of ladies can't help build a home.

5. She can't Lend her Boyfriend Money

It's very shameful that many useless ladies always claim that they can't respect their boyfriends if they borrow him money. This is nothing but bullshit. The last time I check, relationship is give and take and it should emanate from both side. Never even consider walking down the aisle with such a lady.

6. She hates the idea of doing dutch on dates

I have seen cases where some stingy ladies grumble and murmur like children of Israel saying that their boyfriends do not love them just because their boyfriends demanded that the bill be splitted and paid by each party when on date. These categories of ladies will end up causing problems in the family as they are stubborn headed to pool resources together.

7. She's desperate to know her boyfriend's monthly income

I don't really blame guys who are bent on not disclosing their monthly income to their girlfriend, this is because many ladies are only curious to know so that they will know how to bring up cooked up stories to scam him. Survey has it that any lady who is desperate to know her boyfriend's monthly income is nothing but a selfish lady. Desist from such a lady.

8. She wants everything for free

They always advocate no sex before marriage yet they want everything for free while they are not ready to pay a sacrifice. However, ladies who want everything on a platter of gold need to understand that a guy will never cherish you if you are always at the receiving end. Guys like it when they beg a lady to accept their money or gifts. Ladies of this nature will become stingy wives.

menabae:
atlast,the only sensible comment here frm a guy....