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Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Nobody: 6:37am On Feb 26, 2016 |
proudmom38 i sight u o. Pls continue to train lil proudy well jare. He wont turn out like some deluded sick dude here. Hail the male proudys for me. |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Vikky014(f): 6:46am On Feb 26, 2016 |
Toks2008 may GOD BLESS YOU WITH FIVE WIVES IJN AMEN!!! please dnt forget to share your experience with us cos i know God must surely answer my prayers managing one wife is even a very difficult task. in a polygamous home the man will always pick one of his wives as his favourite while others goes to native doctor to frustrate the life of the favourite wife and her kids. polygamy is bad if you not a muslim am talking from a real life experience with a close friend. 4 Likes |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Fkhalifa(m): 7:44am On Feb 26, 2016 |
Op, what you don't understand or probably don't care about is that ladies would never be pleased with the idea of polygamy,some will even reject it if God was to speak it from the heavens No lady ill gree to your proposal if you let her know beforehand that you may take another woman in future, even though it is the reality The sad truth is the rate at which men play away games is so on the high, even the so called decent men are already towing that path,Even me with all my firmness, I fear I may fall into it. It is better in sight of God to legally marry another woman than to fool around,as I have not seen it any holy book where it is outright forbidden. Don't expect the ladies to happily agree with you,only few who have seen it all will understand. 1 Like |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Toks2008(m): 7:46am On Feb 26, 2016 |
Vikky014: I know many people will read that write up in isolation and it takes a very intelligent person to grasp the deep message in it. I repeat...if a lady is not ready for the POSSIBILITY of sharing her man with another lady whether AS A MISTRESS or another wife,she should remain single. |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Toks2008(m): 7:51am On Feb 26, 2016 |
Fkhalifa: This is the nearest most realistic,reasonable and factual comment i have read so far. Please note this..i am not advocating for polygamy and you just sumed up my write up in your paragraph 3 and 4. I am decency personified in all aspects of life but i will be the greatest fool to start preaching to other guys to be ffaithful to their wives because even me with all my decency i know how tough the battle is. I have seen it all...ladies are ladies worst enemies,single ladies fall in love more these days with married men and i begin to wonder that with the rate things are going,any lady who still goes into marriage with that mindset of my husband must be faithful to me is not only a dreamer but a total joke. If your hubby ends up faithful to you i say a big congrats..but the bottom line is that you should expect the expected...that is my message. 1 Like |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Fkhalifa(m): 7:56am On Feb 26, 2016 |
Toks2008:I feel good bro, but don't expect them to be happy with your posts o, Even some Islamic clerics don't like preaching that aspect to women, they don't take it lightly with the preacher from their countenance, #from experience o Except you are ready to be dragging with them here for days. ![]() |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Nobody: 7:56am On Feb 26, 2016 |
which woman will love sharing that "thing" with another woman? Polygamy is crap! 3 Likes |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Tinalex(f): 7:57am On Feb 26, 2016 |
Toks2008:Wow!!! So its true....never judge a book by its cover. Thanks for showing who you really are tho. That asides....your truth is relative to you so stop spreading your foolishness on this forum. 11 Likes |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Toks2008(m): 8:01am On Feb 26, 2016 |
Fkhalifa: Me..drag...Heaven forbids.. My threads arte not the hilarious ones but deep and factual..the type of write up many of them will likely come back to read again and say....and this guy said it o...so im not bothered with their reaction now. |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Toks2008(m): 8:04am On Feb 26, 2016 |
Tinalex: In same vein,that foolishness is also relative to you cos thats what you think. As far as im concerned,many ladies will relate to this when it dawns on them. Good morning. |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Nobody: 8:05am On Feb 26, 2016 |
Yes, I agree. Guys are polygamous in nature. Na God created dem lyk dat. There will always be side chicks. Their 3rd leg is d wahala ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Toks2008(m): 8:12am On Feb 26, 2016 |
Adaure4ever: Definitely most women will swear never to indulge in polygamy yet they will willingly DATE a married man probably for finance and many ladies will gladly marry a rich dude who is happily married rather than be the only wife of a poor dude and we see this everyday. Many ladies will say they want a faithful guy as a boyfriend but will prefer to be with a guy other ladies want and please tell me if it is not true that many guys have more than one gfriend. Cant you wake up and see the sense in this write up? Polygamous affairs everywhere and most hypocritical is when a lady cant see that polygamy is also when a man is faithfully married to one woman yet keeps side chics..huh 2 Likes |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Toks2008(m): 8:15am On Feb 26, 2016 |
HateU2: Coming from a lady makes this interesting and with this mindset,you can never ever have infidelity issues in your marriage..never. Yet im not encouraging this but the truth is that if a lady is not ready for the possibility of her man with another ladystay single...Period. |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Nobody: 8:18am On Feb 26, 2016 |
Toks2008: even when a man that loves women marry four wives, would that ever even stop him from cheating a big NO...... so whats the point of marrying many women when you will still have mistresses point two I wouldn't say any man shouldn't have more than one wife his problem but do you know the stress he put himself at the end of the day? on a norms four gals can't live peacefully in a place that's the FACT.... not to talk of women sharing the same man, they kuku kill u their husband at the end of the day that's the FACT to buttress my opinion mr toks I see u usually insult other people by calling them less intelligent when they don't agree with your opinion its not cool at all, other people have their opinions too and this is a public forum na so why get irritated when someone doesn't agree with your post. I HOPE U WONT CALL ME LESS INTELLIGENT TOO FOR MY COMMENT. 2 Likes |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Tinalex(f): 8:22am On Feb 26, 2016 |
[quote author=Toks2008 post=43262099] In same vein,that foolishness is also relative to you cos thats what you think. As far as im concerned,many ladies will relate to this when it dawns on them. Good morning.[/quotw Whatever! Morning to you too |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Toks2008(m): 8:27am On Feb 26, 2016 |
esosa993: Lol Where on earth did you get that from? Only people who curse are labeled unintelligent by me and that is undisputable. Away from that,the issue is not even about marrying all the women in one house or renting different houses for them or is it about the guy living long or short life. The bottom line is that ladies should not bother getting married if they are not ready to face the possibility of living with that mindset. I cant stress it enough. Im tired of hearing same stories of how a man cheated,the lady left bla bla bla And at the end na another person husband or boyfriend go dey do the same womanwey leave her husband due to infidelity....MADNESS. Why leave your marriage to start living a useless life? |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by misspicy(f): 8:36am On Feb 26, 2016 |
esosa993: LMAO ![]() was just passing by and didn't want to comment on thread until i saw this ![]() www.nairaland.com/2853834/rule-2-nairaland.a-true-test LMAO ![]() ![]() ![]() good morning nairalanders
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Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by EastanPower(m): 8:38am On Feb 26, 2016 |
Toks2008: 4 Likes |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Smellingmouth: 8:45am On Feb 26, 2016 |
![]() ![]() Although I ain't a saint, and I USED to have side chicks ![]() HateU2: |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Nobody: 8:47am On Feb 26, 2016 |
misspicy: thanks a lot for the link , I usually read the guys post some are okay while some are not but thats is my opinion I notice he gets too agitated when people don't agree with what he says, for crying out loud people are not robots you can't force things down everyone's throat that's why its a forum.anything he says everyone must agree ni ogaaa ooo. I only feel for the woman in his life cos he's the type who would never listen to his woman's advice. and mr toks am not saying this cos I don't agree with your post infact I hate arguments , I only want you to change that's all for the better. 1 Like |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Nobody: 8:49am On Feb 26, 2016 |
Toks2008:That's the truth bro. I grew up with house full of blood brothers so I know the drill. It does not surprise me at all. It's just that too much of it and no respect for the wife is what is totally bad |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Nobody: 8:52am On Feb 26, 2016 |
Smellingmouth:Yea like 1% out of 100% of u guys ![]() |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Smellingmouth: 9:00am On Feb 26, 2016 |
HateU2: And what abt the ladies? |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Nobody: 9:06am On Feb 26, 2016 |
Smellingmouth:once a lady is married, she's married unlike guys wey still dey cheat even after getting married |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by tartarus(m): 9:23am On Feb 26, 2016 |
This guy again?.. ... ![]() If you're not ready to share your wife with another man you're not ready for marriage ^^ How does that sound? R£tarded right? Op that's how u sound. Always belittling women, you've probably got mommy issues. Settle with your mom please. Women are suffering in this part of the world. Imagine the nonsense. Many Nigerian men think women don't like sex as much as they do, but do we find nigerian ladies justifying cheating? NO. just useless nigerian men e.g toks feel they are entitled to cheat. Smh 13 Likes |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Smellingmouth: 9:33am On Feb 26, 2016 |
HateU2:Not in all cases.. we have seen/ heard cases of married ladies shagg1ng dudes. |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by BlackBaron: 9:38am On Feb 26, 2016 |
When you come across the most debased trash, you don't know who to blame, the OP's education or if simply his writings are products of his experiences in his own household. 11 Likes |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Toks2008(m): 9:40am On Feb 26, 2016 |
HateU2: LOBATAN. |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Toks2008(m): 9:44am On Feb 26, 2016 |
tartarus: Only real men will catch my drift. And as i wrote,ladies are also free to do as they wish..its a free world bro. |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by firstking01(m): 9:45am On Feb 26, 2016 |
True....to a very Large extend |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by firstking01(m): 9:46am On Feb 26, 2016 |
True....to a very Large extend... |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by firstking01(m): 9:46am On Feb 26, 2016 |
True....to a very Large extend. |
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