Vikky014:
Toks2008 may GOD BLESS YOU WITH FIVE WIVES IJN AMEN!!!

please dnt forget to share your experience with us cos i know God must surely answer my prayers




managing one wife is even a very difficult task. in a polygamous home the man will always pick one of his wives as his favourite while others goes to native doctor to frustrate the life of the favourite wife and her kids. polygamy is bad if you not a muslim am talking from a real life experience with a close friend.

Fkhalifa:
Op, what you don't understand or probably don't care about is that ladies would never be pleased with the idea of polygamy,some will even reject it if God was to speak it from the heavens

No lady ill gree to your proposal if you let her know beforehand that you may take another woman in future, even though it is the reality

The sad truth is the rate at which men play away games is so on the high, even the so called decent men are already towing that path,Even me with all my firmness, I fear I may fall into it.

It is better in sight of God to legally marry another woman than to fool around,as I have not seen it any holy book where it is outright forbidden.

Don't expect the ladies to happily agree with you,only few who have seen it all will understand.

Toks2008:


This is the nearest most realistic,reasonable and factual comment i have read so far.

Please note this..i am not advocating for polygamy and you just sumed up my write up in your paragraph 3 and 4.

Toks2008:



Better stop having regards for me..if i woo you please rubbish me and if i woo anyone you know abeg tell the person im a monster.

I am ready to pay the price for the truth. The truth many ladies cursing me today will thank me for latter.

I know ladies love lies but unfortunately i stand for the truth.

Fkhalifa:
I feel good bro, but don't expect them to be happy with your posts o, Even some Islamic clerics don't like preaching that aspect to women, they don't take it lightly with the preacher from their countenance, #from experience o

Except you are ready to be dragging with them here for days.

Tinalex:

Wow!!! So its true....never judge a book by its cover. Thanks for showing who you really are tho. That asides....your truth is relative to you so stop spreading your foolishness on this forum.

Adaure4ever:
which woman will love sharing that "thing" with another woman?
Polygamy is crap!

HateU2:
Yes, I agree.
Guys are polygamous in nature. Na God created dem lyk dat. There will always be side chicks. Their 3rd leg is d wahala

Toks2008:
Before i dwell on the matter i would like to welcome every Lady Nairalander who has perfected the act of E-cursing to come on board especially those who are still far from the reality of marriage to call me names like monster,misogynist or any other name that comes to your mind.

Yes we know that philandering is a hell bound sin and adultery is very sinful so this is not about justifying or encouraging the act but does that change the fact that a man who will cheat on you will do and some guys will never cheat on the woman in their life but unfortunately there is no way this can be written on their foreheads.

Many ladies hate to hear the word "Polygamy" but do you know that POLYGAMY IS THE ANSWER TO THE PRAYERS OF MANY LADIES such as:

1.Many never married single ladies in the late 30s and in their 40s.
2.Many lady divorcées with children.
3.Many widows in their 30s and 40s

Apparently it is the married men that will fancy these set of ladies MORE and only a lady in their shoes will relate perfectly to my stands and i believe it makes no sense for a man to divorce an innocent wife because he desires another woman.

How hypocritical it is that ladies will prefer a man to be married to them alone and keep side dishes rather than for the same hubby to marry more wives and remain faithful to them? Same ladies that talk down on polygamy will be the same having affairs with married men and i just wonder at the level of hypocrisy and foolishness.

And even more pathetic is the fact that a lady will divorce her husband because he decides to marry or date another lady just for her to end up as a mistress to another married man or starts sleeping around shamelessly after divorce.
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SO IF YOU ARE NOT READY FOR THE POSSIBILITY OF SHARING YOUR HUSBAND WITH ANOTHER WOMAN EITHER AS A MISTRESS OR ANOTHER WIFE PLEASE DON'T BOTHER GETTING MARRIED.[/size]

I know many ladies will say a man should also be ready to share his wife too but please you are free as a lady to marry more than one husband at the same time if you can


This is not the way it should be but a fact you must accept as a lady or stay single for life.

esosa993:



even when a man that loves women marry four wives, would that ever even stop him from cheating a big NO...... so whats the point of marrying many women when you will still have mistresses


point two I wouldn't say any man shouldn't have more than one wife his problem but do you know the stress he put himself at the end of the day? on a norms four gals can't live peacefully in a place that's the FACT.... not to talk of women sharing the same man, they kuku kill u their husband at the end of the day that's the FACT



to buttress my opinion mr toks I see u usually insult other people by calling them less intelligent when they don't agree with your opinion its not cool at all, other people have their opinions too and this is a public forum na so why get irritated when someone doesn't agree with your post.



I HOPE U WONT CALL ME LESS INTELLIGENT TOO FOR MY COMMENT.

esosa993:



even when a man that loves women marry four wives, would that ever even stop him from cheating a big NO...... so whats the point of marrying many women when you will still have mistresses


point two I wouldn't say any man shouldn't have more than one wife his problem but do you know the stress he put himself at the end of the day? on a norms four gals can't live peacefully in a place that's the FACT.... not to talk of women sharing the same man, they kuku kill u their husband at the end of the day that's the FACT



to buttress my opinion mr toks I see u usually insult other people by calling them less intelligent when they don't agree with your opinion its not cool at all, other people have their opinions too and this is a public forum na so why get irritated when someone doesn't agree with your post.



I HOPE U WONT CALL ME LESS INTELLIGENT TOO FOR MY COMMENT.

Toks2008:
[s]Before i dwell on the matter i would like to welcome every Lady Nairalander who has perfected the act of E-cursing to come on board especially those who are still far from the reality of marriage to call me names like monster,misogynist or any other name that comes to your mind.

Yes we know that philandering is a hell bound sin and adultery is very sinful so this is not about justifying or encouraging the act but does that change the fact that a man who will cheat on you will do and some guys will never cheat on the woman in their life but unfortunately there is no way this can be written on their foreheads.

Many ladies hate to hear the word "Polygamy" but do you know that POLYGAMY IS THE ANSWER TO THE PRAYERS OF MANY LADIES such as:

1.Many never married single ladies in the late 30s and in their 40s.
2.Many lady divorcées with children.
3.Many widows in their 30s and 40s

Apparently it is the married men that will fancy these set of ladies MORE and only a lady in their shoes will relate perfectly to my stands and i believe it makes no sense for a man to divorce an innocent wife because he desires another woman.

How hypocritical it is that ladies will prefer a man to be married to them alone and keep side dishes rather than for the same hubby to marry more wives and remain faithful to them? Same ladies that talk down on polygamy will be the same having affairs with married men and i just wonder at the level of hypocrisy and foolishness.

And even more pathetic is the fact that a lady will divorce her husband because he decides to marry or date another lady just for her to end up as a mistress to another married man or starts sleeping around shamelessly after divorce.
[size=15pt]
SO IF YOU ARE NOT READY FOR THE POSSIBILITY OF SHARING YOUR HUSBAND WITH ANOTHER WOMAN EITHER AS A MISTRESS OR ANOTHER WIFE PLEASE DON'T BOTHER GETTING MARRIED.[/size]

I know many ladies will say a man should also be ready to share his wife too but please you are free as a lady to marry more than one husband at the same time if you can


This is not the way it should be but a fact you must accept as a lady or stay single for life.[/s]

HateU2:
Yes, I agree.
Guys are polygamous in nature. Na God created dem lyk dat. There will always be side chicks. Their 3rd leg is d wahala

misspicy:


LMAO

was just passing by and didn't want to comment on thread until i saw this


www.nairaland.com/2853834/rule-2-nairaland.a-true-test

LMAO

good morning nairalanders

Toks2008:


Coming from a lady makes this interesting and with this mindset,you can never ever have infidelity issues in your marriage..never.

Yet im not encouraging this but the truth is that if a lady is not ready for the possibility of her man with another ladystay single...Period.

Smellingmouth:
not all guys dear..
Although I ain't a saint, and I USED to have side chicks but I ve met some real dudes

HateU2:
Yea like 1% out of 100% of u guys

Smellingmouth:


And what abt the ladies?

HateU2:
once a lady is married, she's married unlike guys wey still dey cheat even after getting married

HateU2:
That's the truth bro. I grew up with house full of blood brothers so I know the drill. It does not surprise me at all. It's just that too much of it and no respect for the wife is what is totally bad

tartarus:
This guy again?.. ...

If you're not ready to share your wife with another man you're not ready for marriage

^^ How does that sound? R£tarded right? Op that's how u sound. Always belittling women, you've probably got mommy issues. Settle with your mom please.

Women are suffering in this part of the world. Imagine the nonsense. Smh