saxomo6:

What gave you the conviction that any man will marry you with this your crazy woman concept. You remain single till you die, girl

Stop projecting your fears on her

Estherfabian, I think I might have to sue you for Psychological trauma

Sixix:


My mother is still with my father because he deserves it

I know your type of women, the troubled ones and the losers. Egotistical loser!

Mannerless loser! House ko home ni

I know your type of ladies,but @28 continue so we will know how your home will contain you. Sixix who don't know how to wash her pant want to dominate the man. Come and pay my price nd put me in your rented/built house. Mannerless ingrate

Hmmm, dts gud for u oh. Buh pls dont turn her into a robot. A woman with no mind of her own. It cud become boring u know

linusbnn:



Thank you oooo, i'm even nurturing her calmness so it would continue to get better. I fancy ladies who are submissive

misreal:
if you are implying that a woman is equal to a man in marriage then you are mistaken.submission is not slavery my dear,it is the best way to control your man if you play your cards well..the final decision should be left with the man but a woman can SUBMISSIVELY bend a man at will...

Hahahaha!

"'Nigerian marriages'....

Always wanting to bend themselves or conquer themselves like it is a conquest.

Carry go

silverr:


For every Ahab, there's a Jezebel. For every Adam, there's an Eve.
U just might end up with a woman who loves being dominated. U can't marry someone like the lady u quoted. C'est la vie

He can not. We are e miles apart. He knows his type. There is no woman who grew up in a loving family and with her own means of sustainance that will marry him. These type of women will want dominance wants it in another form not has a day-to-day affair.

He thinks himself a demi-god. He thinks he is entitled to be respected becasue he has a phallus.

Sixix:


Of course you do, after all you are a spineless loser!

I bet you if you are not submissive, you will never find a good home else you re married to a swine

Sixix:




He can not. We are e miles apart. He knows his type. There is no woman who grew up in a loving family and with her own means of sustainance that will marry him. These type of women will want dominance wants it in another form not has a day-to-day affair.

He thinks himself a demi-god. He thinks he is entitled to be respected becasue he has a phallus.

Do you have a phallus?. At the end you going to look for someone who has it

linusbnn:



I know your type of ladies,but @28 continue so we will know how your home will contain you. Sixix who don't know how to wash her pant want to dominate the man. Come and pay my price nd put me in your rented/built house. Mannerless ingrate

Why would I wash my pant when I have got a washing machine

If I am still single at 28, how would that be any of your business. At 28, you will still far below me in status. Oops! Don't get HBP


How much can a loser pay for a woman? Can it be up to a million?

The rented home/built house, you built for your family that is you, her and the kids. If your relationship breaks down, you can't send her out. She will be a slowpoke to leave (anyways, you will be getting married to a slowpoke), she will wait till she secured an apartment before moving out (she can never be able to secure one- she is a loser)


Mannerles loser!

pinkpebbles:
Hmmm, dts gud for u oh. Buh pls dont turn her into a robot. A woman with no mind of her own. It cud become boring u know

She is no robot because she is submissive,she shows strength by doing so. That makes me love her and I try not to fail on my own part.

linusbnn:



Do you have a phallus?. At the end you going to look for someone who has it

And you are going to look for a woman who has a vagina

What is the big deal? Oops! I forgot that you are a egotistical loser, one would have thought that your highness wouldn't need anyone else but himself.

Sixix:


Why would I wash my pant when I have got a washing machine

If I am still single at 28, how would that be any of your business. At 28, you will still far below me in status. Oops! Don't get HBP


How much can a loser pay for a woman? Can it be up to a million?

The rented home/built house, you built for your family that is you, her and the kids. If your relationship breaks down, you can't send her out. She will be a slowpoke to leave (anyways, you will be getting married to a slowpoke), she will wait till she secured an apartment before moving out (she can never be able to secure one- she is a loser)


Mannerles loser!

Why will she wait to rent her own b4 moving out? Ingrate

Like I said, good for u

linusbnn:

She is no robot because she is submissive,she shows strength by doing so. That makes me love her and I try not to fail on my own part.

bukatyne:


Hahahaha!
"'Nigerian marriages'....
Always wanting to bend themselves or conquer themselves like it is a conquest.
Carry go

what is your point exactly?

misreal:
what is your point exactly?

My point in my post you quoted bro.

Sixix:


And you are going to look for a woman who has a vagina

What is the big deal? Oops! I forgot that you are a egotistical loser, one would have thought that your highness wouldn't need anyone else but himself.

Vagina is surplus my dear

igivefuck4free:

And if she refused?

You ask for reasons and accept it if it is cogent

cruzita:
Well a good husband will seek his wife's opinion after all they are partners not maid and boss

Must you put a good husband. You women are too lousy and selfish

linusbnn:


Vagina is surplus my dear

So you FVCK men too?

You should have said something. Clearly you don't need a woman. If you want kids, find a surrogate. Easy-peasy!

it really bothers me that most ladies commenting on this thread are craving for equality in marriage i.e man equals woman..well i dont blame them at all,its just that many of them dont know what it means to be submissive,neither do they know the power of a submitted wife...marriage is like a kingdom ruled by a king(husband).decisions are delibrated by the counsel of elders(wife),where everyone of them is allowed to make meaningful contributions.the final say is with the king.a wise king surrounds himself with wise men,but what do you think will happen if every elder chooses to act as the king?..ur guess is as good as mine....chaos.......women,no matter how hard you debate this matter,you can never be the head of your husband,you can only help him make wise decisions..dont quote me if u will abuse me.

bukatyne:

My point in my post you quoted bro.

hmmm.obviously you are not married..

linusbnn:



Why will she wait to rent her own b4 moving out? Ingrate

Mannerless loser!

Because she waited before she entered the house. Because she also spent her money, time and resources in that home. You will wait for her to slow detach herself from what she hoped will be her homw for the rest of her life. And if you are not careful she will be granted a certain proportion if she spent part of her money on it

If you can't wait for her to leave. Go sleep in a hotel or something


Loser!

pinkpebbles:
The home belongs to both of them and they should make decisions and agree on it together.I am not married but I do not think that if I dont approve of my husband bringin in his friend to my home, he should go ahead and do it. if your wife is rational, trust me, she must have very gud reasons. Your frend would not die in d city, afterall, there are cheap hotels everywhere, u cud take from her upkeep money and lodge him wtout her knowing but please dont bring him home. She wont jst be uncomfortable, she wud also make d home uncomfortable for your guest. When a man listens to a woman, his home is peaceful.

So, hypothetically, let's say you don't agree, and he thinks your reasons are not genuine, and insist on bringing the guest, what will you do?

misreal:
hmmm.obviously you are not married..

Haahahaahahahaha!

You will never know, will you?

LOL!

I am so amused by NL this evening.

linusbnn:



I bet you if you are not submissive, you will never find a good home else you re married to a swine

I am not going to find for a good home. It is going to come to me.

You are going to end up with psychologically damaged kids. A woman who can't hold her own in public. A woman who would be used and dumped if anything should happen to his highness. A woman who cannot control her kids without his highness. I don't wish for that type of ‘good' home.

Loser!

Hypthetically, his frend can come if he inisists buh den also hypothetically, I cannot tell how I wud react to his unwanted presence in my home

dicefrost:




So, hypothetically, let's say you don't agree, and he thinks your reasons are not genuine, and insist on bringing the guest, what will you do?

misreal:
it really bothers me that most ladies commenting on this thread are craving for equality in marriage i.e man equals woman..well i dont blame them at all,its just that many of them dont know what it means to be submissive,neither do they know the power of a submitted wife...marriage is like a kingdom ruled by a king(husband).decisions are delibrated by the counsel of elders(wife),where everyone of them is allowed to make meaningful contributions.the final say is with the king.a wise king surrounds himself with wise men,but what do you think will happen if every elder chooses to act as the king?..ur guess is as good as mine....chaos.......women,no matter how hard you debate this matter,you can never be the head of your husband,you can only help him make wise decisions..dont quote me if u will abuse me.

So a wife is inferior to the husband?

@Bold: Na so you dey fear?

Necessary to seek approval, a normal wife wit a normal brain won't say NO, an adulterous wife won't say NO!

bukatyne:


Haahahaahahahaha!

You will never know, will you?

LOL!

I am so amused by NL this evening.

nice.so your husband takes permission from you before he does anything,or he just seeks your opinion and advice??

Kondomatic:
I hate what I am about to type but I kinda agree with the person you quoted and technically speaking, wives in down here are being bought which places them well below their husbands.

To begin with, a man owns the house, I mean the building they live in, most girls cannot marry a guy who doesn't own a house. The man most times pays the rent if they're staying in a rented apartment which makes it his house not their house so he can bring in whoever he wants to so far the person is not a crook.

Finally, consider what the men pass through, when you see a woman you want to marry, her family will tax you mightily and when you pay everything they asked for and pay a certain amount of bride price, they will hand the girl over to you.(isn't that business?) keep love aside please, this is pure business arrangement, you pay for their daughter before she becomes you wife.

So she was bought and cannot be equal with you.

A lot of things need to change for our women to enjoy certain privileges in their marriage.

There's this outdated mentality of some ladies that "her money is her money but her husbands money is their money" meaning that the pays almost all the bills and yet they clamour for equal rights.

It smells like nonsense.

This is trash, even though you have an estate,you as a man should still give your wife right to be part of our decision if you want it to be successful. Man head the family but women own the house.if you try to disregard her role in decision making there will be problem as women in this house will not make it work becaus we man know little in the house .

bukatyne:


So a wife is inferior to the husband?

@Bold: Na so you dey fear?

nooooooooooooooooo.a woman is never inferior to a man.u r misunderstanding me...a womans place is to give counsel to a man where necessary,and that of the man is to take the final decision.....only a foolish man will think his wife inferior.

Seventeen:
These kind of threads always intrests me. I shake my head and smile when i read certain comments cos i know dat most of the nairaland guyz who form hard men with their comments, are d very ones women control. Well nothing wrong in dat sha, we all can play make believe on nairaland, its allowed, but those who are actually married know its no longer as simple as ABC like in our forefathers dayz. In a good marriage where there is love and respect on both sides a man would respect his wife's opinion and wishes and vice versa. Only in a marriage that already has k-leg will a man b willing to quarell with his beloved wife over a friend comin into town for just two days. I have had to deny my sister from coming for hols one certain time my hubby wasnt in a gd mood and dint approve of her coming. I culd hv insisted and had a huge fight that wouldn't hv bn worth it, plus my sis wouldn't hv enjoyed her stay. My husband at certain points in our marriage has also had to gv up certain ideas and requests i dint approve of. Couples should just learn to love and respect each other thats all. More so, saying 'NO' by either party could also b a saving grace, not all 'NO' is said to be sturborn or to control. Some 'NO's have actually saved many families from trouble. Thats not to say that there should be no compromises either.

Interesting, seems u have quite a loving husband. Permit me to ask, do you think that your husband is the head of the family and has the final say in decisions?

misreal:
nooooooooooooooooo.a woman is never inferior to a man.u r misunderstanding me...a womans place is to give counsel to a man where necessary,and that of the man is to take the final decision.....only a foolish man will think his wife inferior.

If a wife is not inferior to her husband and she is not equal, then what is she?