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Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by halfricanadian(f): 7:46pm On Mar 03, 2016
NemzySeries:

bring sum1?.....una go settle 4 village meeting

Treat your wife the way you want to b treated ok

She is human with feelings just like you

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Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Nobody: 7:50pm On Mar 03, 2016
Adaeze003:
The African type marriage is just scary... sheesh...


Note that I really didn't want to quote you...

Anyhoo... you do know you're still sleeping on a pole right

It's funny how you guys carry the submission thing on your head but when someone implies that submitting to a man is master-slave you guys start looking for ways to soften it up. The man can bring in who the hell ever to stay with them but the wife must get his approval when she will be the one to basically take care of the guest? She has no say and can't object to whatever "final decision" the said husband makes? And the marriage is a union and not slavery?

Oh well... good luck to ya wife sha.

And try and wake up from that pole before you'll be forming head and end up beheading the family...

And the same to who ever ends up marrying you and that chip on your shoulder.

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Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Nobody: 7:52pm On Mar 03, 2016
misreal:
submission my friend doesnt make u inferior,it makes you strong..no matter how hard u debate this,your husband remains your head,and he isnt your head just for fun.

Confirm.
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by ewosk: 7:57pm On Mar 03, 2016
For the Christians picture this and tell me the outcome.

Abraham informed Sarah that God has asked him to go sacrifice Isaac...

Figure my opinion in this matter

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Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by toprealman: 8:02pm On Mar 03, 2016
igivefuck4free:
We all know a wife can't just bring a family, not even a friend, to stay over for few days without consulting the husband first.... Now base on the society we are, as an African, wives are generally submissive to their husbands. So is it appropriate for an husband to bring a friend from another city (or friends from anywhere) who called that he's coming to stay two days in their house to execute a project in their city without first seeking approval from the wife? And if he seeks her approval and the wife says no or not this time, what should he do?
Tell the bugger to go get a cheap hotel. Two days will translate to months if care is not taken! Project ko execute in.

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Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by ilevic(m): 8:09pm On Mar 03, 2016
wait leme seek my wife's approval bfor commenting
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by linusbnn(m): 8:11pm On Mar 03, 2016
Sixix:


I am not going to find for a good home. It is going to come to me.

You are going to end up with psychologically damaged kids. A woman who can't hold her own in public. A woman who would be used and dumped if anything should happen to his highness. A woman who cannot control her kids without his highness. I don't wish for that type of ‘good' home.

Loser!

Go and read your bible very well. Forget those words pple say about marriage because a woman who will not submit to me,we can't proceed and dat is why I display it in my relatnship now. If you can't cope,kindly find your way. It is working for me. Willie is working and Linus is working tongue
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by teasel: 8:12pm On Mar 03, 2016
SUBMISSION in Africa means SLAVERY. I hate hearing that word come out from the permanently smelly mouths of African men.
Hypocrites.

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Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Sixix: 8:13pm On Mar 03, 2016
linusbnn:


Go and read your bible very well. Forget those words pple say about marriage because a woman who will not submit to me,we can't proceed and dat is why I display it in my relatnship now. If you can't cope,kindly find your way. It is working for me. Willie is working and Linus is working tongue

Why don't you sit down and reflect over your life?

You are no one and being a man does not make you one.
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by tosyne2much(m): 8:18pm On Mar 03, 2016
silverr:


That's the thinking that kills marriages.
There's no resting place for the head without the neck. I'm not married yet but hope to be very soon. I know my limits as a wife but if something like this happens, and my hubby goes ahead to bring the friend, no wahala but I'll suddenly receive a call from the village and leave the house for them. Its humiliating.
Yes it's humiliating but you should know two wrongs can't make a right cool
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by linusbnn(m): 8:19pm On Mar 03, 2016
silverr:


For you to say a woman is submissive, I feel for what you must have put her through already.

I never thought I would see you call a woman submissive.


I wonder what is big in been submissive. Submission is I go low for other party to go higher. I and my wife will never be equal because she is my companion and helper, I paid her price and I take charge of her welfare. Tell me why you should be loyal to your boss in the office.
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by tosyne2much(m): 8:19pm On Mar 03, 2016
Irore:


The Bible, the Word of God that created women said men should treat them with affection for they are the weaker sex. It is not our custom and norms that placed them beneath men. It is God's arrangement. Let somebody shout alleluyah.
Hmmmmm !!! Nice Biblical back-up cheesy
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by misreal(m): 8:22pm On Mar 03, 2016
silverr:


We call those type of kings over sabi or I too know.

Any man who feels his wive's advice is foolish is the bigger fool for marrying a foolish woman.
so a husband must obey his wife wishes??yes or no?
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by linusbnn(m): 8:22pm On Mar 03, 2016
Sixix:


I am not going to find for a good home. It is going to come to me.

You are going to end up with psychologically damaged kids. A woman who can't hold her own in public. A woman who would be used and dumped if anything should happen to his highness. A woman who cannot control her kids without his highness. I don't wish for that type of ‘good' home.

Loser!

I only pity you. You want to be the head of the house?,then carry go but not with some1 like me because I will frustrate you like mad.
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by misreal(m): 8:25pm On Mar 03, 2016
ewosk:
For the Christians picture this and tell me the outcome.


Abraham informed Sarah that God has asked him to go sacrifice Isaac...


Figure my opinion in this matter
hahaahahahhaa.....sarah would have killed abraham oh...lol
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by linusbnn(m): 8:27pm On Mar 03, 2016
Sixix:



Mannerless loser!

Because she waited before she entered the house. Because she also spent her money, time and resources in that home. You will wait for her to slow detach herself from what she hoped will be her homw for the rest of her life. And if you are not careful she will be granted a certain proportion if she spent part of her money on itsmiley

If you can't wait for her to leave. Go sleep in a hotel or somethingundecided


Loser! tongue


I should leave my house for you and go to hotel or something? I pity your dreamland. Man love your wife and wife be submissive to him. If you re wiser than God,then go against this and see how miserable I will make your life to be.

Anu Mkpama tongue
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by linusbnn(m): 8:28pm On Mar 03, 2016
Sixix:



Mannerless loser!

Because she waited before she entered the house. Because she also spent her money, time and resources in that home. You will wait for her to slow detach herself from what she hoped will be her homw for the rest of her life. And if you are not careful she will be granted a certain proportion if she spent part of her money on itsmiley

If you can't wait for her to leave. Go sleep in a hotel or somethingundecided


Loser! tongue


I should leave my house for you and go to hotel or something? I pity your dreamland. Man love your wife and wife be submissive to him. If you re wiser than God,then go against this and see how miserable I will make your life to be.

Anu Mkpama tongue tongue
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by linusbnn(m): 8:30pm On Mar 03, 2016
Sixix:


So you FVCK men too? smiley

You should have said somethingsmiley. Clearly you don't need a woman. If you want kids, find a surrogate. Easy-peasy!


So you are a male?then you must be a slowpoke for writing rubbish. Your father will be highly disappointed. I pity him
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by linusbnn(m): 8:34pm On Mar 03, 2016
Sixix:


Why don't you sit down and reflect over your life?

You are no one and being a man does not make you one.


I try to perform my duty as a man by the little God has blessed me with and so I see no reason why my benefactor will want to equal me or dominate. It can't happen wailaihi
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by tiwiex(m): 8:45pm On Mar 03, 2016
vfactor:
Not really seeking her approval. But getting her informed and hearing her opinion. She may just give u a side to it you may never have thought of.

Make he go stay hotel before we start hearing details of stories that touch.
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by misreal(m): 8:46pm On Mar 03, 2016
linusbnn:



I should leave my house for you and go to hotel or something? I pity your dreamland. Man love your wife and wife be submissive to him. If you re wiser than God,then go against this and see how miserable I will make your life to be.

Anu Mkpama tongue tongue
brother,the problem is witht the word "submission".women generally believe that when you ask them to submit ,it means you want them as dumb slaves.the holy bible says men should love their wives as christ loves the church,and women should submit to their husbands..they only look at the submission part but forgetting the love part..it takes more than physical attraction to love a wife the way christ loves the church.for instance,christ died for the church,how many men can actually give up their limb for their wives talkless of dieing.so i ask,what is then so dificult to submit to a man who can love you unconditionally,just as christ loves the church.absolutely nothing! but our ladies are just being blinded by,their ego.not wanting to submit,thinking that it is easy to love them unconditionally...if the bible was wrong,i dont think women would be so crazy about men showering them with love.
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by GovWahala: 8:48pm On Mar 03, 2016
Estharfabian:
Why bother?? undecided
You'd Only be stressing Your ever So precious self.



The "Husband" Is the master. The Almighty, The king. his majesty!
The "Wife"on The other hand is Nothing but A low-life being, who's leading the life of A Robot. Her sole purpose in life is to Serve her husband(Lord n Almighty) And do whatever he tells her to.
Hence, Subjugating the wife To Eternal slavery Masking in the name of "Marriage"

LoL! grin issoryt!


The way things are going. I won't get married till I'm 60! grin
#Long Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew!!!
Amen to your prayer of not getting married till you are 60
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by teasel: 8:49pm On Mar 03, 2016
The man's friend should stop being a fvcking bug! Let him go book a hotel room. Or is he broke?
Just because the husband is broke doesn't mean he should have broke friends too.
Silly!
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Adaeze003(f): 8:51pm On Mar 03, 2016
linusbnn:



So sorry if you have a man like me as husband. That your father's house that you love so much, I will send you back there. I display my authority in relationships so if you dnt like it,you quit. I respect women and they must obey me whether good or bad.

Well... I won't have a husband like you so... ehm... ok I don't have anything else to say, probably because you have nothing meaningful to say either.

Say hi to the unlucky girl for me... wink wink

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Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by mikolo80: 8:53pm On Mar 03, 2016
cruzita:
Well a good husband will seek his wife's opinion after all they are partners not maid and boss
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Sixix: 8:55pm On Mar 03, 2016
linusbnn:



I try to perform my duty as a man by the little God has blessed me with and so I see no reason why my benefactor will want to equal me or dominate. It can't happen wailaihi

Benefactor?undecided

You are her benefactor too.

Who the hell do you think you are?

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Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Adaeze003(f): 8:55pm On Mar 03, 2016
ghostwritter:

sorry I quote u.
It is d likes of u that love to be 'on top' while having sekxx with ur husbands because u don't believe and accord him d respect he deserves. I pity dat ur poor husband if u have one sef.
Submission is not slavery, it is what ought to.

It's your type that'll never let his wife stay on top because of his own insecurities... tongue tongue

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Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Sixix: 8:55pm On Mar 03, 2016
linusbnn:



So you are a male?then you must be a slowpoke for writing rubbish. Your father will be highly disappointed. I pity him

You are a gay!
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Sixix: 8:56pm On Mar 03, 2016
linusbnn:



I should leave my house for you and go to hotel or something? I pity your dreamland. Man love your wife and wife be submissive to him. If you re wiser than God,then go against this and see how miserable I will make your life to be.

Anu Mkpama tongue tongue

Ewu!
Ode!

Ole!

Ole!
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by linusbnn(m): 8:57pm On Mar 03, 2016
Sixix:


You are a gay!

Bring your smelling ass forwrd
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by silverr(f): 8:57pm On Mar 03, 2016
tosyne2much:
Yes it's humiliating but you should know two wrongs can't make a right cool

So he's the only one allowed to make a wrong abi?
Instead of locking horns with the "head", I decided to travel and u say its wrong?
I hate being treated as less. I believe marriage is give and take, not some alpha male lording over me. I just hope we have kids in the house. They will spend the week dealing with Pampers and poo. Head indeed.
Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by linusbnn(m): 8:58pm On Mar 03, 2016
Sixix:


You are a gay!

Bring your smelling ass forwrd.

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