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Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by deyemia: 8:44pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
AfroKnight: Some part of me still can't believe she seriously meant that. If everyone on NL knows its a dangerous mindset then she should also know it's a terrible ideology. But then, this is marriage where one cant afford to make a mistake. I will try a bit of patience and dialogue and I hope my instincts dont betray me.. Thanks bro 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by OgaSirAde(m): 8:47pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
Op you never reach your bus-stop oh still walk down a little bit den you go see your bus-stop (hpe d parable is clear) 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by AfroKnight: 9:03pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
deyemia: Bro, does she buy you gifts? Birthday, Christmas, Valentine or random gifts? If no, please don't even expect a change. Don't disappoint yourself. She wants to be a wife but why is she planning to carry on with the reasoning of a single lady? A marriage is the most fundamental form of Partnership. She must be willing to "cover the nakèdness" of her husband just like he covers her. If she has money and her husband is broke, outsiders must not even smell the situation. Tell her this. If she still insists on withholding financial assistance from her husband, well, many other ladies out there are supportive. If you still want to marry her, you already know what to expect. Just realize that for the next 60 or so years you must always have an infallible finance and never over-extend yourself cos she won't lend a helping hand. 10 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by Nobody: 9:06pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
Marry her bt I promise u u wil com to NL to lament hw terrible ur wife is.
She s a telemundo watcher, nt real, she lives in fantasy!
Open ur eyes. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by blackb2(m): 9:18pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
Free that 'girl' and look for a real woman #justMy2Kobo 6 Likes
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Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by phiszo(m): 9:28pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
Flee from her. Pls. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by Nobody: 9:29pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
Estharfabian:RomancelandeRs shout hallelujah. Estharfabian preaching & quoting Bible verse 4 d 1st time. I neva knew u could preach like this babe 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by idu1(m): 9:36pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
deyemia:Marry her ans start counting your sorrow. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by deyemia: 9:36pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
AfroKnight: Not at all, we just started courting not long ago, about three months now, her bday just passed in feb. I got her a lovely cake and a wrist watch, she really appreciated the gifts and I was happy too. My birthday is this month, I told her and she brought out her phone to save the date. I'll keep my fingers crossed and see what happens on that day. I strongly hope she doesnt disappoint after all she said today. If not for what she said today, I wouldnt be looking forward to getting anything from her. |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by Nobody: 9:40pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
adepeter26:I've given my life to Christ! bless You brother! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by Chanchit: 9:47pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
I would definitely drop her @ the next bus stop. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by Chanchit: 9:50pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
deyemia: If you try to beg her. Into saying what's not. Coming from her heart, you would just be disturbing ur self, had it been you dropped her @ the nearest bus stop she would know its a serious matter. WTF! 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by cynosure489: 9:51pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
I will only advice op to keep dating cos if a lady can say this to your face, then there is reason to be concerned- Rush into marriage and rush out. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by Nobody: 9:52pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
halfricanadian: He should change her mindset like he controls her mind right? 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by poik(m): 9:52pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
deyemia: wont be easy, but it will change if she loves you. To that extent. She nor know wetin world dey talk. if i were you, i would bounce if she doesnt change o. the problems this could cause! 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by Nobody: 9:54pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
Estharfabian:Wat the Lord has started in your life will be permanent sweetie *lool* Amen jare. Other peepx shld emulate u oo |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by halfricanadian(f): 9:56pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
PushPlay: I meant he should talk to her 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by deyemia: 10:00pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
[size=18pt] I cant help but wonder why no one that commented on this post shares that same mentality or support her view! This is more serious than I thought[/size] |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by mikolo80: 10:02pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
deyemia:her money her rules. what if she dies or turn housewife, won't you provide for the family. so long as she doesn't complain about her other wifelyduties, move on. see you o, de plan to spend another pesin moni |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by Nobody: 10:07pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
halfricanadian: That's the best he can do but it's up to her to change her way of thinking when it comes to marriage and finances. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by halfricanadian(f): 10:09pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
PushPlay: Ok cool op come and see nd learn o |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by Nobody: 10:11pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
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Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by olac21(m): 10:14pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
deyemia: So you want ppl to support that obsolete&ridculous behaviour?I hope not,and even with what you said now,am forced to think that the story is cooked-up! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by Nobody: 10:17pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
halfricanadian: I believe the girl in question is taking advantage of her privileged background since she would believe every potential suitor could be a leech. I noticed that from OP statement about her mom being rich. It is up to the guy to prove her wrong. |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by olac21(m): 10:18pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
mikolo80: What a poorly thought-out comment from a niqqa!a careful perusal will help your thinking next time I think!yollo 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by halfricanadian(f): 10:22pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
PushPlay: op still come learn o this guy is a pro Know thy partner thats my key word 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by cognize: 10:30pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
LaurelP:Indeed u are a seer. I concur |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by Lovelynature(m): 10:38pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
Op she must be joking or else you don enter one chance be that if you put head there. Just as somebody suggests, bring up some financial issue and tell to support you. Be serious about it and watch her reaction. Be careful before you say I do 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by mikolo80: 10:49pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
olac21:your fada is the niggaI and your moda is the LovePeddler that bore the imbeciler vagabond that is you. lazy FuckingI gold digger |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by deyemia: 10:53pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
PushPlay: Could that be the reason? and if so, how do you prove her wrong? work yourself to death to prove you dont need her support. Sometimes a supportive wife is actually a strong motivation. Inagine seeing a very expensive dress you would like tobsee on your wife but you know you have plenty other things to buy at home. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by 2sexycom(m): 10:56pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
deyemia:Those words are really disturbing as they seem but you would have to watch your back. Like I said, let her know how her words affect you. Bring her to realities of life. You said she is from a rich home, that could have been reason because such persons do not really know what REAL life means or look like. I could remember telling myself that I can't ask people for anything when I was in school all because I had mother that gave me everything I needed. I also remember looking down on people with poor grades and wonder why anyone could not make a better grade. But when my mother died, It dawn on me what it feels like on the other side, did I ask for help from people in those days after her death? SURE bro. What about my grades? it was affected. So you see what it feels like when we are on safer side? It same way many of our politicians do not know what the masses are going through, neither do their kids and family. You have to bring her to realities of what it feels like on the other side. I don't know about you but there are subtle ways to make her see it's not easy being a man not being supportive to man whom you call your husband is very cruel and insensitive. 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by Mobebi(m): 10:59pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
DonCortino: THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR THIS.... NO OTHER WAY TO ADVICE THE OP THAN THIS YOUR COMMENT.... 1 Like |
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