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Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by MasterJayJay: 12:15pm On Mar 20, 2023
When I hear some folks say virginity is lack of opportunity, I doubt if they realize how dumb they look when making such statement. Virginity is the presence of self-control and not lack of opportunity.


I have been observing one of my neighbor's movement, a boy. He has been sneaking in girls into their house to have sex. He is unemployed. On Saturday when his mom went out for elections, he decided to sneak in a girl. He didn't know when his mom came back and he was caught while trying to sneak the girl out. He ran away wearing a shirt and a boxer and returned in the evening.

I have been thinking how he has been able to get these girls, the motives, etc. Because obviously, he is not rich. this is not even a case of girlfriend-boyfriend relationship. It seems there is an app where one can get a girl near you for fornication.

Point: With technology in this century, even an introvert can get connected to someone to have premarital sex. Therefore, Virginity is never lack of opportunity. I believe virgins in this tech world have more self-control than virgins in 900 BC.

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Solsix(m): 1:00pm On Mar 20, 2023
MasterJayJay:
When I hear some folks say virginity is lack of opportunity, I doubt if they realize how dumb they look when making such statement. Virginity is the presence of self-control and not lack of opportunity.


I have been observing one of my neighbor's movement, a boy. He has been sneaking in girls into their house to have sex. He is unemployed. On Saturday when his mom went out for elections, he decided to sneak in a girl. He didn't know when his mom came back and he was caught while trying to sneak the girl out. He ran away wearing a shirt and a boxer and returned in the evening.

I have been thinking how he has been able to get these girls, the motives, etc. Because obviously, he is not rich. this is not even a case of girlfriend-boyfriend relationship. It seems there is an app where one can get a girl near you for fornication.

Point: With technology in this century, even an introvert can get connected to someone to have premarital sex. Therefore, Virginity is never lack of opportunity. I believe virgins in this tech world have more self-control than virgins in 900 BC.
It is not lack of opportunity. Getting laid now is very easy. From street gals, even classmate or coursemate. It's only grace of God can sustain someone

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Autobot05: 1:50pm On Mar 20, 2023
Lmao ... I agree .

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Silasloaded(m): 1:54pm On Mar 20, 2023
MasterJayJay:
When I hear some folks say virginity is lack of opportunity, I doubt if they realize how dumb they look when making such statement. Virginity is the presence of self-control and not lack of opportunity.


I have been observing one of my neighbor's movement, a boy. He has been sneaking in girls into their house to have sex. He is unemployed. On Saturday when his mom went out for elections, he decided to sneak in a girl. He didn't know when his mom came back and he was caught while trying to sneak the girl out. He ran away wearing a shirt and a boxer and returned in the evening.

I have been thinking how he has been able to get these girls, the motives, etc. Because obviously, he is not rich. this is not even a case of girlfriend-boyfriend relationship. It seems there is an app where one can get a girl near you for fornication.

Point: With technology in this century, even an introvert can get connected to someone to have premarital sex. Therefore, Virginity is never lack of opportunity. I believe virgins in this tech world have more self-control than virgins in 900 BC.
My own is that am a Virgin by grace cause as i am i really wants to explore.

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by MasterJayJay: 2:10pm On Mar 20, 2023
Silasloaded:
My own is that am a Virgin by grace cause as i am i really wants to explore.


Mungo Park explored the source of River Niger. But you want to use your penis for exploration.

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Crucialgem(m): 2:40pm On Mar 20, 2023
Well it could be the mixture of both when i was in varsity i stayed in the school hostel throughout so i wasn't expose to the outside world because everything i want is between the four walls of my school that time. I didn't even used to think of girls or sex much, maybe sometimes when i leave my room to read in the midnight and i see love birds hanging around the dark corners of some buildings i begin to wonder what they were doing

I thought i would still have that self control when i finished school and started living alone. Hmm there is this carefree girl in the same compound that will come to the window of my room to dress up purposely, because i was sure she has mirrow in her room. Hmmm when temptation was becoming too high she started entering my room to watch movie she has big boobs and it was a point of attraction for me i couldn't resist one particular night she slept on my bed under the pretence of not feeling fine i knew something was fishy about the whole thing but as a virgin that has been expose to things online i couldn't resist the urge it was too overwhelming i moved closer to her and touched her and started kissing her and she didnt protest hmmmmm na so comrade fall for temptation and end up loosing my virginity

Dammy wherever you her i have not forgiven you ooo😞😞😞😞.

That time i was working from home and i was always at home then she kept on coming and coming. It was only when she left the house i realize what i have been doing

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by ruggedtimi(m): 2:49pm On Mar 20, 2023
MasterJayJay:
When I hear some folks say virginity is lack of opportunity, I doubt if they realize how dumb they look when making such statement. Virginity is the presence of self-control and not lack of opportunity.


I have been observing one of my neighbor's movement, a boy. He has been sneaking in girls into their house to have sex. He is unemployed. On Saturday when his mom went out for elections, he decided to sneak in a girl. He didn't know when his mom came back and he was caught while trying to sneak the girl out. He ran away wearing a shirt and a boxer and returned in the evening.

I have been thinking how he has been able to get these girls, the motives, etc. Because obviously, he is not rich. this is not even a case of girlfriend-boyfriend relationship. It seems there is an app where one can get a girl near you for fornication.

Point: With technology in this century, even an introvert can get connected to someone to have premarital sex. Therefore, Virginity is never lack of opportunity. I believe virgins in this tech world have more self-control than virgins in 900 BC.
It seems there is an app where one can get a girl near you for fornication....na which village for jigawa u dey stay?

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by juniorstar(m): 4:13pm On Mar 20, 2023
Wat has been fuuuuked can't be unfuuuuked..so think before acting...

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by LikeAking: 4:18pm On Mar 20, 2023
MasterJayJay:
When I hear some folks say virginity is lack of opportunity, I doubt if they realize how dumb they look when making such statement. Virginity is the presence of self-control and not lack of opportunity.


I have been observing one of my neighbor's movement, a boy. He has been sneaking in girls into their house to have sex. He is unemployed. On Saturday when his mom went out for elections, he decided to sneak in a girl. He didn't know when his mom came back and he was caught while trying to sneak the girl out. He ran away wearing a shirt and a boxer and returned in the evening.

I have been thinking how he has been able to get these girls, the motives, etc. Because obviously, he is not rich. this is not even a case of girlfriend-boyfriend relationship. It seems there is an app where one can get a girl near you for fornication.

Point: With technology in this century, even an introvert can get connected to someone to have premarital sex. Therefore, Virginity is never lack of opportunity. I believe virgins in this tech world have more self-control than virgins in 900 BC.

Getat!

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Starboytwo(m): 5:48pm On Mar 20, 2023
Sex is just a normal transaction now.

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by damosky12(m): 5:59pm On Mar 20, 2023
MasterJayJay:
When I hear some folks say virginity is lack of opportunity, I doubt if they realize how dumb they look when making such statement. Virginity is the presence of self-control and not lack of opportunity.


I have been observing one of my neighbor's movement, a boy. He has been sneaking in girls into their house to have sex. He is unemployed. On Saturday when his mom went out for elections, he decided to sneak in a girl. He didn't know when his mom came back and he was caught while trying to sneak the girl out. He ran away wearing a shirt and a boxer and returned in the evening.

I have been thinking how he has been able to get these girls, the motives, etc. Because obviously, he is not rich. this is not even a case of girlfriend-boyfriend relationship. It seems there is an app where one can get a girl near you for fornication.

Point: With technology in this century, even an introvert can get connected to someone to have premarital sex. Therefore, Virginity is never lack of opportunity. I believe virgins in this tech world have more self-control than virgins in 900 BC.

Thank you!

I laugh when some think being a virgin at 30 is"lack of opportunities." Sex is actually as cheap as water. You can get sex EASILY virtually anywhere!

One of the reasons every smart guy wants a virgin is that discipline to hold herself. That discipline depicts intelligence and character. Isn't that what you want in the mother of your kids?

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by damosky12(m): 7:21pm On Mar 20, 2023
Crucialgem:
Well it could be the mixture of both when i was in varsity i stayed in the school hostel throughout so i wasn't expose to the outside world because everything i want is between the four walls of my school that time. I didn't even used to think of girls or sex much, maybe sometimes when i leave my room to read in the midnight and i see love birds hanging around the dark corners of some buildings i begin to wonder what they were doing

I thought i would still have that self control when i finished school and started living alone. Hmm there is this carefree girl in the same compound that will come to the window of my room to dress up purposely, because i was sure she has mirrow in her room. Hmmm when temptation was becoming too high she started entering my room to watch movie she has big boobs and it was a point of attraction for me i couldn't resist one particular night she slept on my bed under the pretence of not feeling fine i knew something was fishy about the whole thing but as a virgin that has been expose to things online i couldn't resist the urge it was too overwhelming i moved closer to her and touched her and started kissing her and she didnt protest hmmmmm na so comrade fall for temptation and end up loosing my virginity

Dammy wherever you her i have not forgiven you ooo😞😞😞😞.

That time i was working from home and i was always at home then she kept on coming and coming. It was only when she left the house i realize what i have been doing

You lost your guard. You chose to explore... It's no one's fault. Hope she didn't play the emotional game with you afterwards...

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Crucialgem(m): 7:29pm On Mar 20, 2023
damosky12:


You lost your guard. You chose to explore... It's no one's fault. Hope she didn't play the emotional game with you afterwards...

She didn't because she even had a boyfriend then that visit her frequently hmmm fear ladies. What she did was becoming a parasite which of course I had to shed-off

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Blupen969(m): 7:59pm On Mar 20, 2023
There is only three things in this world that gives me joy Weed money sex....

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by purples25(f): 11:10pm On Mar 20, 2023
When they see a virgin they say 'lack of opportunity' to justify going after her. After spoiling the girl or not seeing any virgin around them again, they cry about the scarcity of virgins.

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by pocohantas(f): 11:14pm On Mar 20, 2023
There is nothing like lack of opportunity for a woman. It is self-control, discipline and strong will.

Even mad women are getting laid,
It is only a knucklehead that would think it is hard for a woman to find a willing lay in this Nigeria or all over the world.

Emphasis on LAY. Don’t come here to tell me of commitment, I know the difference.

Thank you

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by ibkayee(f): 11:22pm On Mar 20, 2023
This topic again since 900 BC sha lol

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:03am On Mar 21, 2023
MasterJayJay:
When I hear some folks say virginity is lack of opportunity, I doubt if they realize how dumb they look when making such statement. Virginity is the presence of self-control and not lack of opportunity.

the saying means that.... some fugly baby whales out there remain virgins/unmarried because of how they look (aka lack of opportunity to find a mate).

It seems there is an app where one can get a girl near you for fornication.

probably Tinder (or Badoo) but as much as Konji is a bastard. most fugly people on these apps dont get laid (especially men) unless they match with a goldigging olosho looking for money before sex.

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by koladata(m): 2:21am On Mar 21, 2023
Who spoiled you ?
purples25:
When they see a virgin they say 'lack of opportunity' to justify going after her. After spoiling the girl or not seeing any virgin around them again, they cry about the scarcity of virgins.

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by zed7: 5:56am On Mar 21, 2023
pocohantas:
There is nothing like lack of opportunity for a woman. It is self-control, discipline and strong will.

Even mad women are getting laid,
It is only a knucklehead that would think it is hard for a woman to find a willing lay in this Nigeria or all over the world.

Emphasis on LAY. Don’t come here to tell me of commitment, I know the difference.

Thank you

Actually there is lack of opportunity for many women. We have a lot of sexually starved females. Not every woman is cheap enough to open her legs for just anyone. Some women have preference and would only open for a man of similar or higher status. Unfortunately, some of those men ain't looking her way.

Same way many men are also sex starved. They could easily tempt the orange seller to sleep with them for money or even for free but some men also have taste and would prefer a girl of similar status and such girls ain't even looking their way.

Men even have it easier as they could easily get paid sex from these hook up apps. These hook up apps now even have some very cream chics. Again, with men, it's just sex, no emotions attached, so it's easier for a man to just lay the pepper seller and move on without feeling disgusted with himself. Not so for women.

They theory of women being able to get sex with the snap of their fingers is a fallacy. Many females have resorted to masturbation especially with their dildos as they can't attract their type of men for sex.

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by pocohantas(f): 6:33am On Mar 21, 2023
zed7:


Actually there is lack of opportunity for many women. We have a lot of sexually starved females. Not every woman is cheap enough to open her legs for just anyone. Some women have preference and would only open for a man of similar or higher status. Unfortunately, some of those men ain't looking her way.

Same way many men are also sex starved. They could easily tempt the orange seller to sleep with them for money or even for free but some men also have taste and would prefer a girl of similar status and such girls ain't even looking their way.

Men even have it easier as they could easily get paid sex from these hook up apps. These hook up apps now even have some very cream chics. Again, with men, it's just sex, no emotions attached, so it's easier for a man to just lay the pepper seller and move on without feeling disgusted with himself. Not so for women.

They theory of women being able to get sex with the snap of their fingers is a fallacy. Many females have resorted to masturbation especially with their dildos as they can't attract their type of men for sex.

Okay

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Crampyblood(m): 6:41am On Mar 21, 2023
Op wanna get laid too grin wink cheesy grin

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by MasterJayJay: 7:18am On Mar 21, 2023
Crampyblood:
Op wanna get laid too grin wink cheesy grin

My time for sex is when I get married.

I have no interest in fornication. Virginity until marriage.

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Tallesty1(m): 7:52am On Mar 21, 2023

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by pocohantas(f): 7:53am On Mar 21, 2023
Tallesty1:
cheesy grin

Getaut! grin

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Tallesty1(m): 7:53am On Mar 21, 2023
damosky12:


Thank you!

I laugh when some think being a virgin at 30 is"lack of opportunities." Sex is actually as cheap as water. You can get sex EASILY virtually anywhere!

One of the reasons every smart guy wants a virgin is that discipline to hold herself. That discipline depicts intelligence and character. Isn't that what you want in the mother of your kids?
Sex is cheaper than water sir

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Tallesty1(m): 8:01am On Mar 21, 2023
pocohantas:


Getaut! grin

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Greatdand007(m): 9:16am On Mar 21, 2023
MrBrownJay1:


the saying means that.... some fugly baby whales out there remain virgins/unmarried because of how they look (aka lack of opportunity to find a mate).



probably Tinder (or Badoo) but as much as Konji is a bastard most fugly people on these apps dont get laid (especially men) unless they match with a goldigging olosho looking for money before sex.

Na olosho plenty pads for tinder you can’t get serious lady there

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by damosky12(m): 9:17am On Mar 21, 2023
Tallesty1:
Sex is cheaper than water sir

Actually bro. It's too cheap!

Some girls offer themselves so freely that a reasonable guy will be scared.

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Tallesty1(m): 9:34am On Mar 21, 2023
damosky12:


Actually bro. It's too cheap!

Some girls offer themselves so freely that a reasonable guy will be scared.

The real temptation is not in the sex they offer bro, I handle it in such away that they will never feel rejected since they[majority] are not bold enough to make their intentions known. @ least one can pretend to be naive or just too daft to take hints.


The real temptation is in turning down the free foods.


Imagine being home alone wondering how to go to the market to get stuffs to cook then boom your phone rings or there is a knock on your door and what is waiting on the other side is a delicious flask of food or soup.

You know right that these free food taste differently and the meats are extra large in size.

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by onasokhare(m): 10:04am On Mar 21, 2023
Well, am a guy who is a virgin(26) and me been a virgin is due to lack of opportunity .. i really want to have sex but never had the opportunity to....

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