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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Munzy14(m): 8:29pm On Mar 21, 2023
MasterJayJay:
When I hear some folks say virginity is lack of opportunity, I doubt if they realize how dumb they look when making such statement. Virginity is the presence of self-control and not lack of opportunity.


I have been observing one of my neighbor's movement, a boy. He has been sneaking in girls into their house to have sex. He is unemployed. On Saturday when his mom went out for elections, he decided to sneak in a girl. He didn't know when his mom came back and he was caught while trying to sneak the girl out. He ran away wearing a shirt and a boxer and returned in the evening.

I have been thinking how he has been able to get these girls, the motives, etc. Because obviously, he is not rich. this is not even a case of girlfriend-boyfriend relationship. It seems there is an app where one can get a girl near you for fornication.

Point: With technology in this century, even an introvert can get connected to someone to have premarital sex. Therefore, Virginity is never lack of opportunity. I believe virgins in this tech world have more self-control than virgins in 900 BC.
It is how you concluded on how he is getting the ladies from app that baffled me..Like how much of a time you had to waste poke nosing into another man affair.. grin

You mustnt be rich to attract all ladies.

Again and again virginity upholds self control and moral virtues...Whether on 18BC ooooo, 16 AD oooo or 2023.
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Blessings98(f): 8:40pm On Mar 21, 2023
Somehow shaaaa
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by kelspinall(m): 9:02pm On Mar 21, 2023
na money matter we deyoo,this virgin ain't paying since we have been discussing it...may una dey give better update...peace
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Robenna(m): 9:04pm On Mar 21, 2023
MasterJayJay:
When I hear some folks say virginity is lack of opportunity, I doubt if they realize how dumb they look when making such statement. Virginity is the presence of self-control and not lack of opportunity.


I have been observing one of my neighbor's movement, a boy. He has been sneaking in girls into their house to have sex. He is unemployed. On Saturday when his mom went out for elections, he decided to sneak in a girl. He didn't know when his mom came back and he was caught while trying to sneak the girl out. He ran away wearing a shirt and a boxer and returned in the evening.

I have been thinking how he has been able to get these girls, the motives, etc. Because obviously, he is not rich. this is not even a case of girlfriend-boyfriend relationship. It seems there is an app where one can get a girl near you for fornication.

Point: With technology in this century, even an introvert can get connected to someone to have premarital sex. Therefore, Virginity is never lack of opportunity. I believe virgins in this tech world have more self-control than virgins in 900 BC.


Bro universities make the opportunity very open bruh
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Robenna(m): 9:07pm On Mar 21, 2023
Katcall:
do you get wet dreams?
Rest bro

Not everyone want to miss heaven like you
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Robenna(m): 9:10pm On Mar 21, 2023
iammolise:
Boy you should be elated your first is a girl that wants you, I bet the tightness and warmth of that first cum was blissful... My first was a prostitute, I pay money to fvck and on top she was bossing me around untop my money as she knows I'm a learner, but still I can't forget that first cum, there's really nothing like it. If you ask me I think liberation from "virginity" (as you call it) is an eye opener rather than a curse, you just realize what you've been denying yourself of, its like when they tell you apple is sweet but you say you don't want to eat it because the sweetness could give you Jedi Jedi (you're on your own), and not to mention in my humble opinion I don't believe men were ever virgins, even bible never refered to any man as virgin.

Heaven is your goal
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by bluefilm: 9:23pm On Mar 21, 2023
wildikeman:
Lucky you

You can say that again!
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by TenQ: 9:27pm On Mar 21, 2023
Crucialgem:
Well it could be the mixture of both when i was in varsity i stayed in the school hostel throughout so i wasn't expose to the outside world because everything i want is between the four walls of my school that time. I didn't even used to think of girls or sex much, maybe sometimes when i leave my room to read in the midnight and i see love birds hanging around the dark corners of some buildings i begin to wonder what they were doing

I thought i would still have that self control when i finished school and started living alone. Hmm there is this carefree girl in the same compound that will come to the window of my room to dress up purposely, because i was sure she has mirrow in her room. Hmmm when temptation was becoming too high she started entering my room to watch movie she has big boobs and it was a point of attraction for me i couldn't resist one particular night she slept on my bed under the pretence of not feeling fine i knew something was fishy about the whole thing but as a virgin that has been expose to things online i couldn't resist the urge it was too overwhelming i moved closer to her and touched her and started kissing her and she didnt protest hmmmmm na so comrade fall for temptation and end up loosing my virginity

Dammy wherever you her i have not forgiven you ooo๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜ž.

That time i was working from home and i was always at home then she kept on coming and coming. It was only when she left the house i realize what i have been doing
You've actually painted a picture of lack of self control.
1. You most likely did it raw knowing that Pregnancy, HIV and other related were possibilities
2. The day it finally happened wasn't the day you lost the battle. You had been fantasising about having sex with her till the opportunity presented itself.



As a Corper, that was how one SS3 girl came to my room at about 11:30 pm. She wanted to sleep with me till morning. Her excuse, she came late to school and the school security said she can't enter. Me, I just carry her go my lady Corper friend to find a place to sleep. She avoided me from that day. Much Later , she began to manifest on the field like a snake while the Christian corpers were conducting deliverance on her.

Such self control is meaningful ONLY if it was based on Spiritual cause. Otherwise, I don't know how a resolve of sexual purity can be strong.

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by eroticecstasy: 9:54pm On Mar 21, 2023
Starboytwo:
Sex is just a normal transaction now.
What did you just say? Like seriously?
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by RPG2020(m): 10:36pm On Mar 21, 2023
Starboytwo:
Sex is just a normal transaction now.

grin
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Katcall: 10:46pm On Mar 21, 2023
Acidosis:
You're right. There are many IG, FB, Twitter, WhatsApp page for hookup. The moment you're in, there's no limit to your self-destruct move though. Like BetNaija, you won't be able to control yourself.

how much do you pay for short rest?
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Katcall: 10:49pm On Mar 21, 2023
TOPMAN4LIFE:

Don't explore what will land you in problem.
Bible says flee fornication, every sin is outside your body but sexual immorality is a sin against ur body.
When you have sex with person you are not married, you bcom one flesh with her, that is you share from the spirit in her.
If it's evil spirit or witch craft, you share from it .
Beware
which spirit? young people have sex everyday and nothing happen to them
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Katcall: 10:51pm On Mar 21, 2023
tiswell:
Simp,there is nothing like a male virgin.


men don't do hymen!
so becos we dont have hymen, that count us out as virgins. You are a big fool
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Katcall: 10:53pm On Mar 21, 2023
wildikeman:


And the truth is that they will tell you they want to have sex o..that they are Hot...the minute you offer they shut you down and say kai. They want to have sex but not with you specifically. They know who they want unlike men. Men would stick their thing into anyone as long as it can cure the konji
one told me to suck her pussy that she's hot
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Katcall: 10:56pm On Mar 21, 2023
jayAjoku:
All I see in the comments is idiots who have been clowned into thinking getting sex is hard from women ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜… And also women who know itโ€™s easy supporting the idiots so they will stay sexless ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜‚. Virginity Ko Virginity ni just say you donโ€™t have balls to talk to women no one will beat you for it ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜‚
how many gals have you bleeped?
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Acidosis(m): 11:00pm On Mar 21, 2023
Katcall:
how much do you pay for short rest?

Weyrey cheesy cheesy Wetin concern me and short rest??
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by TOPMAN4LIFE: 11:06pm On Mar 21, 2023
Katcall:
which spirit? young people have sex everyday and nothing happen to them
Consequences might not happen immediately
Read Ecclesiastes 8:11-13
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Glistinin(m): 11:24pm On Mar 21, 2023
I thought you will counter him as you have got propensity for. It is good to see you accept defeat for the very first time. It means that you are healing.
pocohantas:


Okay
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by bigiyaro(m): 12:01am On Mar 22, 2023
Oga, it is lack of opportunity, read it again, it doesn't matter how you were disvirgined, you can see lack of husband as lack of opportunity to fvck. Fvcking in a marriage is still using marriage as an " opportunity" to fvck. Sit down and rest abeg
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Spanki(f): 12:31am On Mar 22, 2023
damosky12:


Thank you!

I laugh when some think being a virgin at 30 is"lack of opportunities." Sex is actually as cheap as water. You can get sex EASILY virtually anywhere!

One of the reasons every smart guy wants a virgin is that discipline to hold herself. That discipline depicts intelligence and character. Isn't that what you want in the mother of your kids?

It is honestly, so is it goats you've been having sex with all the while? Virginia for where exactly? Are you a virgin?
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by bluefilm: 3:48am On Mar 22, 2023
rowosky:

ChatGpt has rendered your services completely worthless

Jeeze!

You don't have to be so mean ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ™‚
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Kennyfancy(m): 4:17am On Mar 22, 2023
ruggedtimi:
It seems there is an app where one can get a girl near you for fornication....na which village for jigawa u dey stay?
ikpedia is that you ?
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by eazzzy1(m): 5:34am On Mar 22, 2023
Your post doesnโ€™t disprove virginity been a lack of opportunity. The guy who sneaks girls in has the opportunity to because his mom leaves him home alone, if there was an aunt at home 24/7 then the opportunity would be removed, the girls he sneaks in have the chance to leave home for an extended period of time, thatโ€™s an opportunity. If they lived in a house where they canโ€™t go out unless they were sent on errands, how would they get snuck in to a guys house?

Thereโ€™s nothing like self control when it comes to sex. When people meet someone they like and want to sleep with, self control usually flies out the window.

The 30 year old virgin you think has some super power called self control may have tried having sex on several occasions, the pain stopped her not the magic wand so called self control.

Unless body count means penetrative sex to you, there are virgins with double digit body count, whereโ€™s the self control in that?

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Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by zed7: 6:02am On Mar 22, 2023
Katcall:
do you agree with the school of thought that doing hookup is cheaper than maintaining a girlfriend?

It depends. There are expensive hook ups and expensive girlfriends. They're cheap hook ups and cheap girlfriends.

Not every girlfriend is a leech, some girls are very low maintenance, but such girls are few.

It depends on what you want. With a girlfriend, you have someone to connect with. Intimacy is much nicer when you have a connection. Hookups can be a disappointing experience most times as the sex is boring, bland and mechanical.

To each his own. People should choose whatever they want.
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by pocohantas(f): 6:11am On Mar 22, 2023
Glistinin:
I thought you will counter him as you have got propensity for. It is good to see you accept defeat for the very first time. It means that you are healing.

Lol. You wish I will argue an open and shut case in 2023. Na your mama go heal first before that happens.
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Tallesty1(m): 7:17am On Mar 22, 2023
luminouz:


๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜..

Especially pounded yam and efo with egusi and many obstacles. What's a man to do?
Man cannot do not anything my brother, it would be disrespectful to reject something like that.
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Tallesty1(m): 7:19am On Mar 22, 2023
pocohantas:


And I am the glutton?
Smh!
Let's just say that we learn some bad characters from the friends we keep. Even if they are internet friends.
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Katcall: 7:40am On Mar 22, 2023
iammolise:
Boy you should be elated your first is a girl that wants you, I bet the tightness and warmth of that first cum was blissful... My first was a prostitute, I pay money to fvck and on top she was bossing me around untop my money as she knows I'm a learner, but still I can't forget that first cum, there's really nothing like it. If you ask me I think liberation from "virginity" (as you call it) is an eye opener rather than a curse, you just realize what you've been denying yourself of, its like when they tell you apple is sweet but you say you don't want to eat it because the sweetness could give you Jedi Jedi (you're on your own), and not to mention in my humble opinion I don't believe men were ever virgins, even bible never refered to any man as virgin.
how much you pay? and did she suck your dick?
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Katcall: 7:44am On Mar 22, 2023
tosinhtml:


They can, 2Face have had sex with so many ladies in his music shows more than he can even remember. The problem is that 2Face will not claim any of them as his girlfriend, they are simply babes he is just sleeping with. Nothing more.
I thought he had sex with only his three babymamas
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by Katcall: 7:49am On Mar 22, 2023
Klass99:


You just made my day cheesy. Enjoy the rest of your week.
you must have a boring sex life
Re: Premarital Sex, The Cheapest Opportunity: A Case Study Of My Neighbor by FiremanX: 7:57am On Mar 22, 2023
pocohantas:


Lol. You wish I will argue an open and shut case in 2023. Na your mama go heal first before that happens.
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