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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by seankay(m): 8:18am On Mar 08, 2016
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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by cocoberry(f): 8:18am On Mar 08, 2016
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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Bluezy13(m): 8:18am On Mar 08, 2016
My gateman











Because my money is underground in my house

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Dannyset(m): 8:18am On Mar 08, 2016
My wife for sure!

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by jtizie(m): 8:19am On Mar 08, 2016
My wife

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Morountodun: 8:20am On Mar 08, 2016
lolaluv1:
There is a case going on now, where the late guy's entitlements are being dragged by the wife, the brother and the dad. All because the guy used his brother as his next of kin and he didn't update his information after getting married.

The late guy's child who he didn't even get to see has been left in the cold. And the more they tussle, the harder it is accessing the cash. So the wife and kid are really not finding it easy.

I would suggest either wife or child be used as next of kin....

The next of kin does not mean that you have the right to inherit the properties

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Nobody: 8:21am On Mar 08, 2016
From the thread, you can see how selfish and self absorbed most women are...they make their children their next of kin, but expect the man to make her his next of kin...gtfoh

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Ekakamba: 8:22am On Mar 08, 2016
My first child of course. I can only make my consort next of kin when she's 80years old and above. I guess y'all know why.
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by BigElEddy(m): 8:24am On Mar 08, 2016
BlaqCoffee109:
Your wife should be your next of kin...guys like you are the ones leaving their wives and children out in the cold should anything happen to the man...

You want his wife to kill him abi?
Why are women always asking to be next o kin like they are very sure the man will die first
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by omoigbomina(m): 8:24am On Mar 08, 2016
Those saying my child,so even in the case of emergency and your next of kin had to be reached and your child is a minor then what happens?

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by adesola220: 8:25am On Mar 08, 2016
it depends on the situations of things on ground... it might be anyone close to me
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by repogirl(f): 8:25am On Mar 08, 2016
I am my husbands next of kin, my first daughter is mine, her younger brother is hers and his younger sister is his.

That was how my father planned ours also. Dad> mom>me>younger sis> etc.

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by professore(m): 8:28am On Mar 08, 2016
Your wife/husband or any responsible child irrespective of the position,not just any child

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by nusirat(m): 8:29am On Mar 08, 2016
This is a question that needs to do with integrity, of the party involved.
In my own I will rather whom I have know for many years and know his character before switch the allegiance to my child.
No do out my brother is my next of kin if I live to see my child reach 18 years then switch my allegiance to my son.
If my son love he can take care of her mother when I left., likewise I don't expect my wife to use me as her next of kin.

All of us are human being any un expected situation can happen you need to chose the best person you trust, not because you love that particular person, let's look at the case Arowolo, who kills his wife because he know he his her next of kin, this life should not blind us what infatuation we call love.

It is mine own opinion oh. Iree ooo
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by itsdavido: 8:29am On Mar 08, 2016
hi guys, pls be informed that next of kin is different from a beneficiary of a deceased estate. the role of a next of kin is to contact and get more information about the principal person in the event of any occurrence. in my current office, my next of kin is different from my beneficiary cos they are two different thing.

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Frankiss44(m): 8:29am On Mar 08, 2016
It ought to be the wife till the first child comes of age...

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by HoneySwag(f): 8:29am On Mar 08, 2016
my first child
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by candycrushsoda: 8:30am On Mar 08, 2016
My son. Most wives I know used their son or daughter while husbands used their wife

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by oloriooko(m): 8:30am On Mar 08, 2016
My sweet wife of course!
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by professore(m): 8:30am On Mar 08, 2016
repogirl:
I am my husbands next of kin, my first daughter is mine, her younger brother is hers and his younger sister is his.

That was how my father planned ours also. Dad> mom>me>younger sis> etc.
This is one of the most brilliant contributions here

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Pavore9: 8:31am On Mar 08, 2016
BigElEddy:


You want his wife to kill him abi?
Why are women always asking to be next o kin like they are very sure the man will die first

Going by reality on ground more men die before their wives.
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by luvbeloved(m): 8:33am On Mar 08, 2016
It's my first child Naaa but since she's still a kid....i used her mum's number as her number when filling forms...if I die now the woman go remarry sharp sharp o!...am not dying anytime soon thou
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by buoye1(m): 8:35am On Mar 08, 2016
Wife!

When you marry the right woman, it makes life easy for you


I repeat... WIFE

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by jopretty(f): 8:35am On Mar 08, 2016
My Husband will be my nxt of kin.
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by iamclime(m): 8:36am On Mar 08, 2016
itsdavido:
hi guys, pls be informed that next of kin is different from a beneficiary of a deceased estate. the role of a next of kin is to contact and get more information about the principal person in the event of any occurrence. in my current office, my next of kin is different from my beneficiary cos they are two different thing.
THE BEST ANALYSIS SO FAR. THERE IS A WHOLE LOT OF DIFFERENCE BETWEEN NEXT OF KIN AND HEIR. THEY HAVE DIFFERENT BUT RELATED LEGAL CONNOTATIONS.

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by lamideee(f): 8:37am On Mar 08, 2016
My child of cos,not wit the way men are promiscuous these days. Laye hubby,ko jo
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by babyfaceafrica: 8:37am On Mar 08, 2016
GogobiriLalas:
From the thread, you can see how selfish and self absorbed most women are...they make their children their next of kin, but expect the man to make her his next of kin...gtfoh
you dey mind them...hypocrisy at its best
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by buoye1(m): 8:37am On Mar 08, 2016
itsdavido:
hi guys, pls be informed that next of kin is different from a beneficiary of a deceased estate. the role of a next of kin is to contact and get more information about the principal person in the event of any occurrence. in my current office, my next of kin is different from my beneficiary cos they are two different thing.
Good you clarified that, when I'm married Wiffy will be my beneficiary and next of kin.... She ought to be my second half!

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Reference(m): 8:38am On Mar 08, 2016
My wife of course. Is this a question.

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by babyfaceafrica: 8:40am On Mar 08, 2016
Pavore9:


Going by reality on ground more men die before their wives.
that's true,and they were killed by their wives
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Samuel8604: 8:40am On Mar 08, 2016
my wife, simple

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Creamz(m): 8:40am On Mar 08, 2016
Some of you saying my wife will be my next of kin. What if something happens to you and she gets married again and she is the type that makes the husband next of kin and something eventually happens to her. Will the children not lose everything? No matter how small the child is its of my own opinion to make the first child nxt of kin. If you have other properties your other children canbe nxt of kin there too

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