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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Reference(m): 8:40am On Mar 08, 2016 |
lamideee: Hmmmm......understand your sufferings as a result of your poor choices. That's why I will always advocate women especially to develop themselves before thinking about relationships with men. Elevate your thinking. 1 Like |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by otolinedebby(f): 8:40am On Mar 08, 2016 |
My husband, cus I trust him for manage n handle finance n others properties responsibly. |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by techJ: 8:41am On Mar 08, 2016 |
My wife is always my next of kin because no matter what happens, she's protected by that and she'll definitely protect her (our) children. 2 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by babyfaceafrica: 8:43am On Mar 08, 2016 |
itsdavido:you are right,but to avoid story that touches the heart....I will fill the same person for bothand it aint goin to be my wife...could be two different children,could be the same child,as the spirit leads!! |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by babyfaceafrica: 8:45am On Mar 08, 2016 |
luvbeloved:lolz |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by chemistry101: 8:46am On Mar 08, 2016 |
lolaluv1:Did the late guy used is brother as next of kin in an ONLINE registration or he met a lawyer? |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by globatop: 8:47am On Mar 08, 2016 |
It is the wisest thing to use one spouse as next of kin, but the infidelity world make one to think twice. All the same, my spouse is my next of kin. 1 Like |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Pavore9: 8:48am On Mar 08, 2016 |
babyfaceafrica: Even when a man dies from the effects of his unwholesome lifestyle, he was killed by the wife, when a wife dies, she was killed by........? 3 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by babyfaceafrica: 8:53am On Mar 08, 2016 |
Pavore9:her unwholesome lifestyle...two can play the game |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Stanbeto: 8:55am On Mar 08, 2016 |
#MyWife |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by soonest(f): 8:55am On Mar 08, 2016 |
I'm my husband's next of kin but my first son is my next of kin |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Pavore9: 8:55am On Mar 08, 2016 |
babyfaceafrica: So let us stick to real cause of death than accusing someone who may have no hand in the death. |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Nobody: 8:56am On Mar 08, 2016 |
PresVA: my kid with my wife as guardian untill they come of age my beneficiary strictly my kids.... |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by martineinstein(m): 8:56am On Mar 08, 2016 |
It depends on the kind of people that surrounds u... Be it husband, wife, brothers , sisters and parents... If u don't trust your spouse, make your parents your next is kins.. If she already have children for u, make her your next of kin, since your children are also hers... Do not make your sisters/brothers your next of kin 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by babyfaceafrica: 8:57am On Mar 08, 2016 |
Pavore9:noted...for me ..kids before spousem..when I mean kids...I mean useful kids...not all this telemundo kids |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by swaggprofessor(m): 8:58am On Mar 08, 2016 |
onoslove:My wife with a condition that she hands over everything to my child one's he has come of age. |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by ojuolu(m): 9:03am On Mar 08, 2016 |
onoslove:My wife is my next of kin. And our first son is her next of kin. We are both his legal guardian. The reason behind this arrangement is this. I am a man, statistics have it that our life expectancy is shorter compared to that of the opposite sex. My thinking is that if i pass on at anytime, she would be able to take care of the home. If we both pass on Our son will be the next of Kin by default because the direct next of kin for me is no more. If she pass on, my son is her next of kin and i am still the legal guardian. In any case, my prayer is to go before her, albeit in old age, fully ripe... . So there is no controversy. I love her and i believe she will be responsible enough to take care of things after me. She also love her kids so much that i know she will protect them with the last drop of her blood. My position may look somehow, but that is the structure that i want and is now in place. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Pavore9: 9:06am On Mar 08, 2016 |
babyfaceafrica: We all have our realities, so everyone is free to make their choice based on them. |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by 2goodbobo(m): 9:12am On Mar 08, 2016 |
Straight up. |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Evidence1000(m): 9:13am On Mar 08, 2016 |
Timoleon:Lmao! Wetin person no go see for nairaland? |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Nobody: 9:13am On Mar 08, 2016 |
eyinjuege: That's what an attorney is for. I engage, and use one. |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Johnrake69: 9:18am On Mar 08, 2016 |
repogirl: Your next of kin is not your beneficiary. Most people confuse the two. Working in financial services really made it clear for me. Your next of kin should be the person to reachout to in your absence. Your next of kin cant gain access to your bank account or investment without a will or letter of administration from the probate office. And its advisable that young adults make their parants or an elderly relation their next of kin And not their sibling. 1 Like |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Nobody: 9:23am On Mar 08, 2016 |
Wen i get married am gonna make my hobby my next of kin and my reasons are simply for those who say men can't be trusted. 1) I will marry sum1 i will make my BESTFRIEND. 2) my husband will knw EVERYTHING abt me jst as i will knw all abt him. 3) total submission and love. For these reasons i can make my husband anything, including my NEXT OF KIN. |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Evidence1000(m): 9:25am On Mar 08, 2016 |
soonest:Should I say that you do not trust your husband? |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by senatorken01(m): 9:26am On Mar 08, 2016 |
All of you saying my first child, what of if your first child is wayward or a spoilt brat or having a non challant attitude. Let's think with our brain not our heart. |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Johnrake69: 9:27am On Mar 08, 2016 |
ojuolu: My brother just make a will. Cos your next of kin cant have access to your estate without a will or letter of administration from the probate office. And going through probate means the government will own a significant portion of your estate And not to talk of the stress your family will go through. |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Nobody: 9:29am On Mar 08, 2016 |
BigElEddy:BigElEddy..it swings both ways + you don't go about announcing who your next of kin is... the part of killing is an exclusive reserve for those that jump into marriage and marry for all the wrong reasons... persons who leave good women to marry Jezebels |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Nobody: 9:32am On Mar 08, 2016 |
Siena:sure, by all means have it your way + your submission is subject to questioning as your initial input is in public domain 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by ojuolu(m): 9:33am On Mar 08, 2016 |
Johnrake69:Ok. I really don't have the luxury of a will for now. All investments are jointly own. Properties are in both names. But i think i will go will the advice soonest. I really don't want them to have any issue while i am gone. |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by ThreeGEEKS(m): 9:35am On Mar 08, 2016 |
Why for God's sake will anybody use a child as a next of kin. Have you people forgotten so soon the story of the prodigal son? I just wonder how you expect a child to manage an empire or an estate. Why not make it an adult like your spouse? SMH 1 Like |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by freecocoa(f): 9:35am On Mar 08, 2016 |
My husband( if /when I get married) but if not, my elder sister. |
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Nobody: 9:36am On Mar 08, 2016 |
NewSheriff:nobody referred to him as heartless or irresponsible...a handful of good men have done what he's asserted leaving a lacuna for in-laws to question the legitimacy of kids the man and his wife may have had all in th bid to disinherit the kids especially if they are minors. You get my drift? |
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