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Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by 4nobody4every1: 5:50pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
JesusDWay: 2 Likes
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Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by ewizard1: 5:50pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
Greene66:I swear, i love this post die. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by sukkot: 5:51pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
[quote author=4nobody4every1 post=43593339][/quote] officer hoyt, you are in the office baby 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by ewizard1: 5:53pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
stillchris:Lmao! |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by Datsme: 5:58pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
Inspinia:*Never Ignore the warning signs *There are many fishes in the river *My candid ADVICE, go back to d top 2. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by deebrain(m): 5:58pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
Inspinia: Call off the relationship. Should you pay the heavy price for the courageous act, remember when coming back in the next life, not to PROPOSE to any lady because of your reasons (for proposing) listed. The bolded caught my fancy because, i kinda love strong ladies. Thanks. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by Inspinia: 6:02pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
fejikudz: What would you have me do? |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by peedeeasobie(m): 6:02pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
you have a very strong case of inferiority complex. The problem is not your fiancee but you! why would you still be with someone that violent and mannerless? what do you mean 'childhood crush'? are you okay or sick? you are seeing obvious signs and you are asking what you should do? Lick her Poo and urine... nonsense. you are disgustingly weak.... 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by colebrent: 6:04pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
this op self go be aje butter or mumu.... Girl they insult U because U love her? Trust me my advise is that U are a fool and disgrace to manhood.... Note... Man is the head of a family incase if u later marry her...oh my God I wish am ur elder brother or ur father... I for give u 3 good hot slap to reboot ur man sense commot that lover kid Brain 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by Inspinia: 6:06pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
Touchforfree: Yes sir, most of her staff in her office complain about how aggressive she is towards them but she doesnt flow with neighbours she is the solitary type. Unless they talk to her and most times it does not end well |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by Inspinia: 6:08pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
sorepco: I love her so much and i tried to see if i could contain the situation but it has gotten out of hand. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by Inspinia: 6:09pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
bimbor: Its not a movie script |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by eksammy(m): 6:13pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
OMG Bros.....you must be a mind reader. I share all you have said 100% and more. Unfortunately im going thru this too and sometimes i think maybe its my fault, my bad character and stubbornness (as she always says). Maybe we should form a club and seek help on how to deal with these aggressive 'better halves'. Guyman02: 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by colebrent: 6:19pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
Bro am sorry for what I posted earlier, just can't believe there are still men like U around, but let me tell u something u don't know about ladies.... U can't change with coolness, maybe U let her go, or U change to her and stop caring, if she is angry then U should be boiling, Show her U are the man and U can talk to her and she any just insult you anyhow... If u do like water for girls they go swim inside U I mean they will take U for granted, but when u do like fire sometimes they won't dare do anyhow, I don't mean beating her oooo, bro U have showed her you cared, U have pet her when she insulted U but she is not changing they try acting like U don't care, she insult U give her double, if she no ready change bro U aren't ulgy I know go out there and find another girl... Am not even worried about her breaking something on ur head or hurt U but she might make u do something U don't want to do, like beating her up one day and then it might result U going to jail for beating a girl.... Bro I understand U but ma nigeria we dey ooo... Be careful with what u deal with, most especially GIRLS... And again am sorry for my post earlier... |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by Touchforfree(m): 6:51pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
Inspinia: If you're my blood brother, I'll never advice you to put your head for a lady like her. What will you be saying you want to achieve, winning soul for love or what ?. There're so many ladies about who are cool-headed and are searching; if you meet them, you'll make it known you've seen it all. I beg leave her alone and let her go for revamp make she no put sand sand to your first marriage. Am enjoying my marriage with my wifey and I pray same goes for you too... |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by Nina4u(f): 7:03pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
Greene66: |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by onoslove(f): 7:09pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
Young man, listen to me, if all that you narrated here is the truth and nothing but the truth. And you came here indeed to see advice, then I Onoriode E, will advise you to run and don't bother looking back. I have friends that are temperamental as singles, believe me, when they got married nothing changed, in fact they became worse. If you do not want to die a premature death, stay off that girl. A word is not enough for the wise. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by byvan03: 7:20pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
Please stop this love thing and find yourself a woman . This one is crazy! |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by Melahou(m): 7:24pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
It has spiritual undertone |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by CivilzedTyger(m): 7:26pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
Greene66:Which foreign girls are you talking quite? Ghanaians? |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by Ruthbaro10(f): 7:38pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
Bro, run for your dear life |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by kpolli(m): 7:43pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
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Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by kpolli(m): 7:43pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
Strahovski1: I disagree with you sir, she might have said yes because everyone of her friends is married and she wants to join the league asap..... I actually think she doesn't love him and is very frustrated that she can't marry the man of her dreams so she lashes out at him |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by asalimpo(m): 7:56pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
From what i see,my guess is that, She must be very beautiful or classy or both. And also quite confident. These qualities attract men to her. She's been bathed with attention and men falling over themselves to please her and she's had her way with men. The thing is, women know relationships are power games while few men think it's love. They want the sceptre of power, they want the control in the relationship and gullible men like you just throw it to them all the time. When they get angry (you appease them) When they complain, you soothe them. When they sulk you soothe them. You smother them, clearly giving away your sceptre of power. They'll take it, enjoy the feeling of control, and continually accumulate contempt for you. Soon,they'll insult you openly and you'll be beggin/soothin' them. Then, they'll go out and have affairs with men who have the power. First, stop giving your power to her. Treat her with respect. If she takes your respect for granted ,put your foot down. Sanction her. Suspend her. Make her apologize. Two,it's hard but, consider finding another girl. Some1 who will respect you. If you go ahead in the present situation you are in, she may eventually leave you. Y? Because she doesnt respect you. Settle for mutual respect or no deal. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by Nobody: 8:00pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
Eeyaaa.. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by odekunlemi(m): 8:08pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
She may later be the one to kill u |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by Jennifer89(f): 8:13pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
op that your girl friend is an undertaker. Run for your life coz she will kill and cremate you. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by hush15: 8:15pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
Inspinia: I will make it as brief as possible. 1. What's love gat to do with it. Guy, here are some things you have to disallow and now is the best time. She can't love you and insult you, the two doesn't gel. If she is aggressive and insulting, then you need to do what I term a reality check... you need to let her know she is doing something wrong and how she takes it will say the rest. Don't bother marrying someone who won't think of how you feel. You need to put love aside abeg and stand as he man. If you cannot influence her from misbehaving, abeg use the next exit. You will only suffer non the long run... 2. It's all about the attitude. You afraid to loose her obviously and she knows that. She knows ur weakness then. You need to stand firm because, he will always use that joker against you and at the end of the day, you wont matter which goes back to point one. If you be in more liberal and control your emotions and be objective, I mean refuse disregard, not violently but let her know, you love her but you won't tolerate anything that will undermine you stance in the relationship and not afraid to move on... I think she might want to readdress that attitude of hers towards you. 3.and like my younger bro spoke, don't marry her cos she can kill ya... |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by Inspinia: 8:22pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
kpolli: I doubt it's because her friends are married. Most of her friends are single ladies. She is only 24. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by tosen64(m): 8:27pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
Inspinia: 1) The very worst use of time is to do very well what does not need to be done at all. E.g. Relationship that don't end in marriage. 2) I see you are emotionally vulnérable. Don't go into marriage based on émotions. Emotion is like an alcohol, it doesn't last. Émotions alone cannot sustain a marriage, infact it will dry up with time. It is compatibility that sustains a marriage. Think Bro. 4) I see you have an identity issue from your post. You shouldn't feel insecure because Guys are flocking around her. I can tell you are good Person, so whoever marries you is a lucky girl. Common bro, Who are you? 5) My Brother if you don't want hell of a home. Quit abeg and pass through the pain. You will heal up and come out strong |
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by Greene66: 8:32pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
wristbangle: You see my mother is not a Nigerian actually. I'm of a mixed breed. My mum is Spanish my dad is Yoruba. And I'm currently engaged to an American as I type this. |
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