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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by baralatie(m): 2:38pm On Feb 19, 2016
Amelian:
Men and women should learn to love, respect, be loyal and be selfless to one another in body and soul. Anything short of such leads to divorce... having a happy home takes lots of sacrifice from both parties..
True fact
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by baralatie(m): 2:47pm On Feb 19, 2016
andyjwe:
Enemy at work... It's not yet over until it's over. Don't be surprise to see Anita begging to come back after some years....




NB: please avoid that data guy above this post, he is not real but a scammer #data seller
It will bring to the kids to see their parents Chris and Anita get together again!
I pray it happens very faadt
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by Nobody: 10:25am On Feb 20, 2016
pinkrex:
[img]http://3.bp..com/-6P9jfk8iO6g/VASbPSLu_TI/AAAAAAAAHcc/yxbLf3wjBjM/s1600/anita%2Boyakhilome%2Bwhite.jpg[/img]

The following statement was written by Attwaters Jameson Hill, lawyers for Anita Ebhodaghe (formerly Anita Oyakhilome).

“We have been requested by Anita Oyakhilome to confirm that on the 8th February 2016 a decree absolute was pronounced in the High Court of Justice Principal Registry of the Family Division dissolving her marriage to Christian Onehirokpeana Oyakhilome.

Anita Oyakhilome would like to confirm that she is no longer involved in or part of Christ Embassy AKA Believers LoveWorld INC.”

Signed,

Attwaters Jameson Hill Solicitors
+44 20 3393 7265

Source: http://www.attwatersjamesonhill.co.uk/News/Anita-Oyakhilome.shtml
Where is d certificate sef?
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by Kayelyon: 1:14pm On Feb 25, 2016
[quote author=Olasam12 post=43043413]So many quentions begging for answers.
1. what caused the divorce? Someone like Chris shouldn't hide things like that.

Exclusive details from Nigeriantimes.

Talking about misery, our source disclosed that the woman had a difficult and sexless marriage for much of the time they were together but bore the pains because she believed it was the necessary sacrifice for the success of their ministry. She was transferred to UK to start off the international arm of the ministry in the late 90s, when the church had a programme there and Pastor Chris asked her to stay back and kick-start the international arm of the ministry. At that point, our source said, Pastor Chris’ word was life and death to her and she considered him next to God. So in spite of family and friends who cautioned against taking up the offer and that it was not ideal leaving her relatively young marriage for an oversea country, even for the cause of the gospel, she packed her bags in obedience to her ‘man of God.’ She took their two children Charlene and Sharon along with her.
In no time, her hard-work had paid off and the international arm of the ministry was booming, with numerous churches started in the UK and mainland Europe. But this success might have invariably cost her marriage, for while she was away from Nigeria, a few women had allegedly grown close to her husband and were living in the same housing complex known as ‘White House’ as he. ‘White House’ is an exclusive multi story building at the Church’s Oregun-Lagos branch where Pastor Chris stays whenever he is in Lagos. It has several luxury apartments, a swimming pool, and open only to Pastor Chris, and his closest aides, who incidentally are beautiful but unmarried female pastors and ministry directors, whom his ex-wife was uncomfortable with.
With rumours swirling around town about some suspicious activities bordering on infidelity, our source said Pastor Anita insisted on returning to Lagos, to her matrimonial home, and requested the sack of the strange women – Pentecostalspeak for home breakers , around her ex-husband. The man however refused, insisting that she was more useful to the ministry in the Uk, than in Nigeria and that the women were indispensible to the growth of the Christ Embassy Church.

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by mbembe: 5:42pm On Feb 25, 2016
People like you are worse than 'armed robbers' because those ones at least come out to declare that they want to rob you..... but Satanist like you hide behind the computer to spread falsehood.

I am no fan of Chris Oyahkilome, infact, l dislike that "jerry-curled", funky-looking, unserious persona of his, since l was young. I think "spiritual leaders" like him should "lead by example.... good example" .....and he is a bad example of "moderation". (my opinion though).

Let us ASSUME that what you posit above is TRUE. Let us assume that it was Chris who left/abandoned his family on London!
Let me also ASSUME that you have been to London, at least ONCE!

Now, tell us, does London looks like a place where a "man" can impose his wish on his wife, against her will?
can you tell your wife to "sit down there".... (when she does not want to)..... and she will obey you?
As a mater of fact, when it comes to the whole of Europe and America, it is thee woman that tells the man to "sit down there"... and he does! grin grin
If he doesn't, he gets thrown out of his own house, that same night, with not more than his knickers, loses his kids and becomes an instant ATM (wife and child support) to the estranged wife.

Again, based on your words, which we decided to "assume for truth", let us ask this Kwesion: Did Chris also tie his wife down in London, that she could not buy a ticket and say "Today, l will live with my husband in Nigeria"... and fly to Lagos? ..... or does she have her reason for "staying put" in London and refusing to come live with her husband?

So, the argument that Chris dumped his family in London, does not wash at all.

Fact is; Anita was the one that abandoned her husband in Nigeria because she has her own "reasons and designs" for refusing to come home.

Jist: (meaning you can ignore it)
1.) She prefers living in London than Nigeria because over there, she gets to be the 'husband'.... while Chris will be the wife

2.) she was getting "power drunk" and wanted to be lording it over other Church Ministers who by "church hierachy", are senior to her since she is just the "Pastor's wife"... and not 2nd in-command. Infact, she was challenging Chris authority, within the church.
That sort of behaviour can only go unchallenged in London, hence her staying put over there! undecided undecided

3.) Since the church has a "very lucrative" branch in London, Anita figured out she better hold onto that one....and she eventually converted it to her own "personal church" (Go and read the court papers as regards the wahala that happened in that branch of the church, when she hijacked ownership of it! Imagine a British court "dividing ownership of church" between husband and wife, like it is some "carnal/material" property, eehn?)

Issokay!

So, for Anita, its all about the Love of MONEY and POWER....... the marriage can go to blazes!
I just hope she wont be pretending to be seeing visions of exhibiting anything resembling "spiritual", afterwards! undecided shocked shocked grin grin grin

Now that they are free of each other's burden, l hope we get to have some fresh air

- Sound analysis. You made lotta sense

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by Kayelyon: 8:39pm On Feb 25, 2016
hamilton62:

You first and primary duty is to God not your wife because she also has her duty due for God too... Yes paul said it as an opinion but did God agree with Paul? God didn't as Levites to be single did He? Ler's start reason with God as a yardstick here... Do you know that men of God give more attention to the congregation that their family? That's the nature of their work not that they like it and they need a spiritual and understanding wife who knows this and has seen it as part of their hubby's duty.

Honestly, what you are saying doesnot apply to this situation. If a man does not want you, you cant force him. A MAN CAN BE HEAVILY ANOINTED WITHOUT INTEGRITY OF CHARACTER. This woman suffered for 16 years!!!
Check out this exclusive interview with a close family relative.
Get the facts straight.

The couple’s divorce was finalized on February 8, this year but it was after much legal drama and fireworks in the English court. The major contentions were the sharing of their mutual property as well Pastor Anita’s right to speak freely about life with her former husband, which he had challenged, wanting the court to bar her from disclosing details of the divorce and their life together. He was however willing to consider a sufficient compensation to her, if she agreed not to speak about the matter .
On the matter of compensation, we gathered that Pastor Chris declared a total sum of 120,000 USD and a house in Johannesburg, South Africa and that he was only the spiritual head of the Christ Embassy Church, not its administrative or legal head, and so its funds were communal and not personal to him. Our source, who described the claim by Pastor Chris as a blatant lie, revealed that this was particularly distressing to Anita as she had invested the better part of her life, including finances in the
Christ Embassy Church. “She was particularly saddened by this claim, and had to go on vacation to Switzerland, her mother’s country, because of the stress,” he said.
That incident happened in October last year, shortly after which Pastor Chris donated the whooping sum of N1 billion to the Benson Idahosa University.
The court held in favour of Pastor Chris that the funds of the church were indeed communal and so would not be a factor in the divorce, to his great delight and the coterie of aides, hangers-on and senior pastors who accompanied him to the High Court of Justice Principal Registry of the Family Division in October 2015. So much so that it was learnt they threw a party at the Christ Embassy, Bermondsey branch to celebrate ‘the victory.’
The court however did not bar Pastor Anita from disclosing any detail of the divorce or life with her ex-husband, and we have learned reliably that she is getting prepared to write a tell-all about the misery she suffered at the hands of the so-called man of God.
What broke the camel’s back
Talking about misery, our source disclosed that the woman had a difficult and sexless marriage for much of the time they were together but bore the pains because she believed it was the necessary sacrifice for the success of their ministry. She was transferred to UK to start off the international arm of the ministry in the late 90s, when the church had a programme there and Pastor Chris asked her to stay back and kick-start the international arm of the ministry. At that point, our source said, Pastor Chris’ word was life and death to her and she considered him next to God. So in spite of family and friends who cautioned against taking up the offer and that it was not ideal leaving her relatively young marriage for an oversea country, even for the cause of the gospel, she packed her bags in obedience to her ‘man of God.’ She took their two children Charlene and Sharon along with her.
In no time, her hard-work had paid off and the international arm of the ministry was booming, with numerous churches started in the UK and mainland Europe. But this success might have invariably cost her marriage, for while she was away from Nigeria, a few women had allegedly grown close to her husband and were living in the same housing complex known as ‘White House’ as he. ‘White House’ is an exclusive multi story building at the Church’s Oregun-Lagos branch where Pastor Chris stays whenever he is in Lagos. It has several luxury apartments, a swimming pool, and open only to Pastor Chris, and his closest aides, who incidentally are beautiful but unmarried top female pastors.
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by baralatie(m): 7:58pm On Feb 26, 2016
They will both make up sha

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by donnie(m): 10:15pm On Feb 26, 2016
linearity:


The divorce Suit No FD14D01650, filed in the Central Family Court, High Holborn, London; by his wife in April 2014 alleges among other things, the following the following against the husband:

1. Unreasonable behaviors.
2. Adultery.

Look it up.

You are sick

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by eplanning: 10:30pm On Feb 26, 2016
Kayelyon:


Honestly, what you are saying doesnot apply to this situation. If a man does not want you, you cant force him. A MAN CAN BE HEAVILY ANOINTED WITHOUT INTEGRITY OF CHARACTER. This woman suffered for 16 years!!!
Check out this exclusive interview with a close family relative.
Get the facts straight.

The couple’s divorce was finalized on February 8, this year but it was after much legal drama and fireworks in the English court. The major contentions were the sharing of their mutual property as well Pastor Anita’s right to speak freely about life with her former husband, which he had challenged, wanting the court to bar her from disclosing details of the divorce and their life together. He was however willing to consider a sufficient compensation to her, if she agreed not to speak about the matter .
On the matter of compensation, we gathered that Pastor Chris declared a total sum of 120,000 USD and a house in Johannesburg, South Africa and that he was only the spiritual head of the Christ Embassy Church, not its administrative or legal head, and so its funds were communal and not personal to him. Our source, who described the claim by Pastor Chris as a blatant lie, revealed that this was particularly distressing to Anita as she had invested the better part of her life, including finances in the
Christ Embassy Church. “She was particularly saddened by this claim, and had to go on vacation to Switzerland, her mother’s country, because of the stress,” he said.
That incident happened in October last year, shortly after which Pastor Chris donated the whooping sum of N1 billion to the Benson Idahosa University.
The court held in favour of Pastor Chris that the funds of the church were indeed communal and so would not be a factor in the divorce, to his great delight and the coterie of aides, hangers-on and senior pastors who accompanied him to the High Court of Justice Principal Registry of the Family Division in October 2015. So much so that it was learnt they threw a party at the Christ Embassy, Bermondsey branch to celebrate ‘the victory.’
The court however did not bar Pastor Anita from disclosing any detail of the divorce or life with her ex-husband, and we have learned reliably that she is getting prepared to write a tell-all about the misery she suffered at the hands of the so-called man of God.
What broke the camel’s back
Talking about misery, our source disclosed that the woman had a difficult and sexless marriage for much of the time they were together but bore the pains because she believed it was the necessary sacrifice for the success of their ministry. She was transferred to UK to start off the international arm of the ministry in the late 90s, when the church had a programme there and Pastor Chris asked her to stay back and kick-start the international arm of the ministry. At that point, our source said, Pastor Chris’ word was life and death to her and she considered him next to God. So in spite of family and friends who cautioned against taking up the offer and that it was not ideal leaving her relatively young marriage for an oversea country, even for the cause of the gospel, she packed her bags in obedience to her ‘man of God.’ She took their two children Charlene and Sharon along with her.
In no time, her hard-work had paid off and the international arm of the ministry was booming, with numerous churches started in the UK and mainland Europe. But this success might have invariably cost her marriage, for while she was away from Nigeria, a few women had allegedly grown close to her husband and were living in the same housing complex known as ‘White House’ as he. ‘White House’ is an exclusive multi story building at the Church’s Oregun-Lagos branch where Pastor Chris stays whenever he is in Lagos. It has several luxury apartments, a swimming pool, and open only to Pastor Chris, and his closest aides, who incidentally are beautiful but unmarried top female pastors.

So relatives were standing by hoping to get their share of church money. grin no wonder they pushed their daughter to seek divorce from a london court.
Una eye don clear now. Pastor Chris even tried sef. Actually the man doesnt even get a salary from church, he is totally sold out to the work of the Lord, living by the faith that he preaches. . .so e try. cool . So you heard he donated 1billon naira and you started salivating. cheesy Greedy people, i'm sure they were imagining millions of dollars from sale of Rhapsody, which even Dr Chris cannot touch for personal use .

By the way, she better shelve that her plan of writting tales about the MOG, because it wont work, she will not achieve her desire. She should rather focus on repentance and getting back to her first love as the same spirit that pushed her to fight for divorce cannot defend her when God begins to vindicate His annointed. Those so-called friends around you Ma will not be able to help then.

You became a global figure because you married Pastor Chris, and this is how you repay him? The once anointed woman of God whose words blessed and healed millions around the world daily, is now given to petty gossip and useless carnal motivational blogging? undecided SMH
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by eplanning: 11:00pm On Feb 26, 2016
sabdaz:


Now she's over ambitious. Chris now deserves prayers abi? People sha..... In your comment, you referred to Chris as a Man of God but, now Anita was just Anita. Remember, they were both running things before. Then, she wasn't Woman of God. And for this comment, you have 22 likes. Those that liked your comment are the pathetic ones.. Not you, coz I'm sure you know you were to one sided in your comment

No one is dragging "Woman of God title" with her. If you are a WOG prove it! Do WOG fight for divorce? As a WOG she didnt consider the impact of her actions on the church of Jesus Christ? Or she was after her own happiness and her right to plenty sex ba? Some of you think God is British or that we will not give account to God for our actions. They need our prayers.
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by linearity: 3:53am On Feb 29, 2016
donnie:


You are sick

my guy, take it easy, don't be all emotional about it...that is her own suit and what her attorneys filed in court.

If you care to google Suit No FD14D01650', you will get nothing less than 3,500 hits and all the links are from home in Nigeria and foreign and if you open any of them that contain the details of the filings and what was actually filed; all of them in unison indicates that she accused her husband of "adultery" and "unreasonable behaviour" in her Divorce filings at the Divorce Section A, Central Family Court, First Avenue House, High Holborn, London, UK Court.

So, you can see that, it is not my words; it is what it is and you should relax a little bit, it will be well.
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by Kayelyon: 7:25am On Feb 29, 2016
eplanning:


So relatives were standing by hoping to get their share of church money. grin no wonder they pushed their daughter to seek divorce from a london court.
Una eye don clear now. Pastor Chris even tried sef. Actually the man doesnt even get a salary from church, he is totally sold out to the work of the Lord, living by the faith that he preaches. . .so e try. cool . So you heard he donated 1billon naira and you started salivating. cheesy Greedy people, i'm sure they were imagining millions of dollars from sale of Rhapsody, which even Dr Chris cannot touch for personal use .

By the way, she better shelve that her plan of writting tales about the MOG, because it wont work, she will not achieve her desire. She should rather focus on repentance and getting back to her first love as the same spirit that pushed her to fight for divorce cannot defend her when God begins to vindicate His annointed. Those so-called friends around you Ma will not be able to help then.

You became a global figure because you married Pastor Chris, and this is how you repay him? The once anointed woman of God whose words blessed and healed millions around the world daily, is now given to petty gossip and useless carnal motivational blogging? undecided SMH

Wonderful!
Truth is, even if the MoG is proven to have dealt treachously with this woman, a lot of you will still attack this woman.
No wahala.
The man who constantly preaches to you has programmed you "by the word".
BUT No man is God.
And She deserves to be free from such a marriage.
While the moG looked harmless over this divorce, it is clear he has been "dealing" with this woman throughout. None of his speeches about her depicts reconcilation.
For those talking about greed, pls be kindly informed that Pastor Anita and her family were one of the first MAJOR partners in the blw.
She poured finances & indeed her life into this church.
The attack on her will continue anyway as manipulation & oppression is how we roll in Africa.
Continue(in Pat Jona's voice).
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by eplanning: 10:43pm On Mar 01, 2016
Kayelyon:

pls be kindly informed that Pastor Anita and her family were one of the first MAJOR partners in the blw.
She poured finances & indeed her life into this church.

Mtchew, Leave story abeg
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by eplanning: 11:22pm On Mar 01, 2016
linearity:


my guy, take it easy, don't be all emotional about it...that is her own suit and what her attorneys filed in court.

If you care to google Suit No FD14D01650', you will get nothing less than 3,500 hits and all the links are from home in Nigeria and foreign and if you open any of them that contain the details of the filings and what was actually filed; all of them in unison indicates that she accused her husband of "adultery" and "unreasonable behaviour" in her Divorce filings at the Divorce Section A, Central Family Court, First Avenue House, High Holborn, London, UK Court.

So, you can see that, it is not my words; it is what it is and you should relax a little bit, it will be well.

Can you see this: http://newshub.com.ng/adultery-not-anita-oyakhilomes-ground-for-divorce-but-other-reasons-read/

And this: http://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2014/09/new-report-claims-adultery-is-not-anita.html

Even on nairaland: https://www.nairaland.com/1891505/exact-facts-pastor-anitas-divorce

But of course, like the other stupid publications, you prefer the negative story.

You guys are fortunate that Pastor Chris is the kind of man that he is... Who will leave the battle for God. Some of those publications would have been liquidated by now. But make no mistakes about it... God's judgement is more severe.

Some of the publications even made attempt to correct their reports. But you, continue your false witness...
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by Kayelyon: 3:37pm On Mar 08, 2016
[quote author=mbembe post=43246615]People like you are worse than 'armed robbers' because those ones at least come out to declare that they want to rob you..... but Satanist like you hide behind the computer to spread falsehood.

I am no fan of Chris Oyahkilome, infact, l dislike that "jerry-curled", funky-looking, unserious persona of his, since l was young. I think "spiritual leaders" like him should "lead by example.... good example" .....and he is a bad example of "moderation". (my opinion though).

Let us ASSUME that what you posit above is TRUE. Let us assume that it was Chris who left/abandoned his family on London!
Let me also ASSUME that you have been to London, at least ONCE!

Now, tell us, does London looks like a place where a "man" can impose his wish on his wife, against her will?
can you tell your wife to "sit down there".... (when she does not want to)..... and she will obey you?
As a mater of fact, when it comes to the whole of Europe and America, it is thee woman that tells the man to "sit down there"... and he does! grin grin
If he doesn't, he gets thrown out of his own house, that same night, with not more than his knickers, loses his kids and becomes an instant ATM (wife and child support) to the estranged wife.

Again, based on your words, which we decided to "assume for truth", let us ask this Kwesion: Did Chris also tie his wife down in London, that she could not buy a ticket and say "Today, l will live with my husband in Nigeria"... and fly to Lagos? ..... or does she have her reason for "staying put" in London and refusing to come live with her husband?

So, the argument that Chris dumped his family in London, does not wash at all.

Fact is; Anita was the one that abandoned her husband in Nigeria because she has her own "reasons and designs" for refusing to come home.

Jist: (meaning you can ignore it)
1.) She prefers living in London than Nigeria because over there, she gets to be the 'husband'.... while Chris will be the wife

2.) she was getting "power drunk" and wanted to be lording it over other Church Ministers who by "church hierachy", are senior to her since she is just the "Pastor's wife"... and not 2nd in-command. Infact, she was challenging Chris authority, within the church.
That sort of behaviour can only go unchallenged in London, hence her staying put over there! undecided undecided

3.) Since the church has a "very lucrative" branch in London, Anita figured out she better hold onto that one....and she eventually converted it to her own "personal church" (Go and read the court papers as regards the wahala that happened in that branch of the church, when she hijacked ownership of it! Imagine a British court "dividing ownership of church" between husband and wife, like it is some "carnal/material" property, eehn?)

Issokay!

So, for Anita, its all about the Love of MONEY and POWER....... the marriage can go to blazes!
I just hope she wont be pretending to be seeing visions of exhibiting anything resembling "spiritual", afterwards! undecided shocked shocked grin grin grin

Now that they are freew of each other's burden, l hope we get to have some fresh air
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by eplanning: 11:52pm On Mar 08, 2016
Kayelyon:


Now She is fighting for their "mutual" wealth.
Ignorant pple are talking of greed.
Seriously
How is this not understandable to any reasonable person?


Mutual wealth? They should start sharing church property like personal belongings? Are you okay? The first thing Satan does when he wants to finish you is to make you mad. You no longer reason well. And that is why she could not see that she was fighting a loosing battle. She tried to destroy God's servant and bring shame to the church but she failed, Period.

Well, at least we now know she is all for the money now. Clearly she has backslidden. The love of God is no longer in her heart. Now it is money, power and vengeance. Pray for Pastor Anita.

Kayelyon:

She layed down her life to serve this man.
Yes, and as long as she did so she prospered and was favoured of God.
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by vooks: 6:03am On Mar 09, 2016
myners007:
The Woman is quite over ambitious. Women should always learn how bto be submissive to their husband and be supportive ang encouraging even when the chips are down.Its not advisable for a Man of God to be involved in a divorce saga but Anita insisted and has finally gotten it. May God continue to strenghten you pastor Chris and your ministry will continue to wax stronger
Why did the 'man of God' marry an over ambitious woman?
Wait,say what? he did not foresee it?
What right has h to prophesy over your life if he can't foresee calamity in his life?
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by vooks: 6:12am On Mar 09, 2016
vicky85:
Is this woman not tired............She is such a disgrace to womanhood.......when you started dating a Pastor.......are you not aware that you will not have his 100% attention......Abeg, madam Pastor Anita, i am tired of seeing this court case etc.....try and remarry a man that is not into Gods ministry..Abeg.....PASTORS WIVES ARE CALLED ENDURANCE....COS, THEY MUST ENDURE EVERYTHING......
Abeg Oyaks sycophant,
The only guarantee that you won't divorce is not to marry because you may marry somebody who may not endure?
Will you try and think before posting?
Why couldn't Oyaks pray 'endurance' over her?
You mean the very God who gives him wealth, health and happiness could not give his wife 'endurance'? Or could he not give him a woman who 'endures'?
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by vooks: 6:14am On Mar 09, 2016
hamilton62:

You are right but that doesn't nullify my facts but remember, being worse than an infidel" does call for divoce because God said he hates it... She went too far in reaction.
Yes God hates divorce but for the hardness of man He made exception; adultery
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by vooks: 6:22am On Mar 09, 2016
prophetfire:
are you sure its the original? Anybody can cook up anything to draw attention to their site or publication. You are not sure. I tell you again, adultery is not part of it, directly or insinuated by anita.
Anybody can cook up anything, including yourself. Can you give us the grounds for divorce yourself?
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by vooks: 6:28am On Mar 09, 2016
lastpage:


Your assertion, bolded up there, is completely WRONG....and l would explain!

First, Marriage involves two people and it will only work, if both agree to make it work!
If one of the party wants-out, then BY LAW, they have the right to seek a divorce.
The other party can do nadda about it.

Secondly, in life, we learn in many ways: By 'direct experience', from the 'experience of others'..... but ALWAYS from EXPERIENCE!
Teachers who teach in schools, have themselves been students (Student teachers in training) where they learn the "experience"... so they can teach it to their own students.
Judges dont have a "special school" they attend but are appointed based on 'experience".

There is a cliché that goes like "EXPERIENCE is the BEST TEACHER"!
My point is, Pastor Chris is now even in a better position to talk about LOVE, MARRIAGE, FAMILY and DIVORCE... to his Church members.

Now, he will not be just speaking based on what he read in 'Books'.... but today, he has "walked the walk and talked the talk"!
He knows what it means to go through a divorce, he knows the up-sides and the down-sides.
He is in a better position to advise others, because he knows what led to this marriage breakdown and is able to educate other younger couples, on how to avoid such pitfalls.

Now, he would think twice before blaming another person whose marriage is not working out or say it is because God does not accept them or they are not serving God properly!
"Experience is KEY".



Lastpage!
He can't possibly authoritatively teach on marital success unless he admits failure on his part to hold it together. Even if he told us what he did to ocassion failure in his marriage, he's in no position to tell us what to do to keep it together. In short, he is not EXPERIENCED in marital success.

He can teach you about wealth, health and happiness but not on marriage
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by vooks: 6:31am On Mar 09, 2016
lastpage:


People like you are worse than 'armed robbers' because those ones at least come out to declare that they want to rob you..... but Satanist like you hide behind the computer to spread falsehood.

I am no fan of Chris Oyahkilome, infact, l dislike that "jerry-curled", funky-looking, unserious persona of his, since l was young. I think "spiritual leaders" like him should "lead by example.... good example" .....and he is a bad example of "moderation". (my opinion though).

Let us ASSUME that what you posit above is TRUE.
Let us assume that it was Chris who left/abandoned his family on London!
Let me also ASSUME that you have been to London, at least ONCE!

Now, tell us, does London looks like a place where a "man" can impose his wish on his wife, against her will?
can you tell your wife to "sit down there".... (when she does not want to)..... and she will obey you?
As a mater of fact, when it comes to the whole of Europe and America, it is thee woman that tells the man to "sit down there"... and he does! grin grin
If he doesn't, he gets thrown out of his own house, that same night, with not more than his knickers, loses his kids and becomes an instant ATM (wife and child support) to the estranged wife.

Again, based on your words, which we decided to "assume for truth", let us ask this Kwesion: Did Chris also tie his wife down in London, that she could not buy a ticket and say "Today, l will live with my husband in Nigeria"... and fly to Lagos? ..... or does she have her reason for "staying put" in London and refusing to come live with her husband?

So, the argument that Chris dumped his family in London, does not wash at all.

Fact is; Anita was the one that abandoned her husband in Nigeria because she has her own "reasons and designs" for refusing to come home.

Jist: (meaning you can ignore it)
1.) She prefers living in London than Nigeria because over there, she gets to be the 'husband'.... while Chris will be the wife

2.) she was getting "power drunk" and wanted to be lording it over other Church Ministers who by "church hierachy", are senior to her since she is just the "Pastor's wife"... and not 2nd in-command. Infact, she was challenging Chris authority, within the church.
That sort of behaviour can only go unchallenged in London, hence her staying put over there! undecided undecided

3.) Since the church has a "very lucrative" branch in London, Anita figured out she better hold onto that one....and she eventually converted it to her own "personal church" (Go and read the court papers as regards the wahala that happened in that branch of the church, when she hijacked ownership of it! Imagine a British court "dividing ownership of church" between husband and wife, like it is some "carnal/material" property, eehn?)

Issokay!

So, for Anita, its all about the Love of MONEY and POWER....... the marriage can go to blazes!
I just hope she wont be pretending to be seeing visions of exhibiting anything resembling "spiritual", afterwards!
undecided shocked shocked grin grin grin

Now that they are free of each other's burden, l hope we get to have some fresh air. angry angry


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It takes two to make a marriage work, and it takes two to break it. Simple. Oyaks is as responsible for his marriage wreckage as Anita. Why couldn't he confess against the divorce?
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by donnie(m): 8:43am On Mar 09, 2016
vooks:

He can't possibly authoritatively teach on marital success unless he admits failure on his part to hold it together. Even if he told us what he did to ocassion failure in his marriage, he's in no position to tell us what to do to keep it together. In short, he is not EXPERIENCED in marital success.

He can teach you about wealth, health and happiness but not on marriage

Dr Chris can teach on anything he is instructed to teach and when he does, signs and wonders will follow because he did not send himself.

He is not a talk show host, he is a man of God.
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by donnie(m): 9:07am On Mar 09, 2016
vooks:

Why couldn't he confess against the divorce?

I promise you he did. In fact, if you listen to the meeting with Pastors and deacons in the UK (which went viral) where he tried to explain himself; towards the end, you hear him say "I will pray, confess the Word and do everything I know to do. . . "

He even rushed to the Uk to meet his wife and persuade her. But she was adamant, insisting like someone wrote here, that he sacks this one and that one...

Did you see the part in the divorce statement where she insisted that Dr. Chris' teaching on submission in marriage is too extreme and she does not agree with it? So you see, there is more than meets the eye. It is an attack of Satan.

But you know, bloggers will take the part that suits their objective and publish it.
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by vooks: 10:52am On Mar 09, 2016
donnie:


I promise you he did. In fact, if you listen to the meeting with Pastors and deacons in the UK (which went viral) where he tried to explain himself; towards the end, you hear him say "I will pray, confess the Word and do everything I know to do. . . "

He even rushed to the Uk to meet his wife and persuade her. But she was adamant, insisting like someone wrote here, that he sacks this one and that one...

Did you see the part in the divorce statement where she insisted that Dr. Chris' teaching on submission in marriage is too extreme and she does not agree with it? So you see, there is more than meets the eye. It is an attack of Satan.

But you know, bloggers will take the part that suits their objective and publish it.
I mean these Word of Faith preachers pretend to be invincible against everything, diseases, poverty.......why couldn't he muster enough faith to stall the divorce? Either they are not invincible as they claim, or he badly wanted the divorce
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by donnie(m): 11:04am On Mar 09, 2016
vooks:

I mean these Word of Faith preachers pretend to be invincible against everything, diseases, poverty.......why couldn't he muster enough faith to stall the divorce? Either they are not invincible as they claim, or he badly wanted the divorce

Too early to rejoice bro. . . He is still excercising his faith. And I believe with him for a miracle. cool
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by vooks: 11:18am On Mar 09, 2016
donnie:


Dr Chris can teach on anything he is instructed to teach and when he does, signs and wonders will follow because he did not send himself.

He is not a talk show host, he is a man of God.
He is all that times 1000 yet he could not keep save his marriage
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by vooks: 11:24am On Mar 09, 2016
donnie:


Too early to rejoice bro. . . He is still excercising his faith. And I believe with him for a miracle. cool
Who is rejoicing?
Whatever happens now, they'd have to REMARRY because they are legally divorced. Even if they REMARRIED, they'd still be divorcees remarried. Point is, NOTHING can happen henceforth that erases the historical fact of their divorce. Benny Hinn never divorced, he separated from wifey but they got back.

PS
I also believe in miracles, but no miracle can erase history cool
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by donnie(m): 11:53am On Mar 09, 2016
vooks:

Who is rejoicing?
Whatever happens now, they'd have to REMARRY because they are legally divorced. Even if they REMARRIED, they'd still be divorcees remarried. Point is, NOTHING can happen henceforth that erases the historical fact of their divorce. Benny Hinn never divorced, he separated from wifey but they got back.

PS
I also believe in miracles, but no miracle can erase history cool

Didn't Benny Hinn remarry? One two one two, they mention Benny Hinn. Those who encouraged Pastor Anita to seek for divorce probably mentioned Benny Hinn's wife. No be so o. Pastor Chris is Pastor Chris, Benny Hinn is Benny Hinn (two distinct men of God with different callings before God) and The Word remains the same.
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by Kayelyon: 1:05pm On Mar 09, 2016
eplanning:



Mutual wealth? They should start sharing church property like personal belongings? Are you okay? The first thing Satan does when he wants to finish you is to make you mad. You no longer reason well. And that is why she could not see that she was fighting a loosing battle. She tried to destroy God's servant and bring shame to the church but she failed, Period.

Oga Church wealth is not their mutual wealth o ?
They were a couple!
The man has personal money. The least the MOG can do is settle his wife properly. Why continue to fight her.
After all you put her through!!!
na wa o.
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by eplanning: 2:01pm On Mar 09, 2016
Kayelyon:


Oga Church wealth is not their mutual wealth o ?
They were a couple!
The man has personal money. The least the MOG can do is settle his wife properly. Why continue to fight her.
After all you put her through!!!
na wa o.

Pastor Anita who was able to stay in London and see Dr. Chris' "inappropriate relationships" should know better than you when it comes to the MOGs finances right? So leave matter for mathias. Abi you be her lawyer? Court neva finish?
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by flamingREED(m): 2:23pm On Mar 09, 2016
adult91:
this people just de spoil Christianity name. nawaoo!!. promoting divorce. judgment truly will start from d Church. oya helele!!! let's go back to deeper life bible church!!!
Deeper Life is waxing strong.

Modesty and steadfastness pay... smiley

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