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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by baralatie(m): 2:38pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
Amelian:True fact |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by baralatie(m): 2:47pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
andyjwe:It will bring to the kids to see their parents Chris and Anita get together again! I pray it happens very faadt |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by Nobody: 10:25am On Feb 20, 2016 |
pinkrex:Where is d certificate sef? |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by Kayelyon: 1:14pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
[quote author=Olasam12 post=43043413]So many quentions begging for answers. 1. what caused the divorce? Someone like Chris shouldn't hide things like that. Exclusive details from Nigeriantimes. Talking about misery, our source disclosed that the woman had a difficult and sexless marriage for much of the time they were together but bore the pains because she believed it was the necessary sacrifice for the success of their ministry. She was transferred to UK to start off the international arm of the ministry in the late 90s, when the church had a programme there and Pastor Chris asked her to stay back and kick-start the international arm of the ministry. At that point, our source said, Pastor Chris’ word was life and death to her and she considered him next to God. So in spite of family and friends who cautioned against taking up the offer and that it was not ideal leaving her relatively young marriage for an oversea country, even for the cause of the gospel, she packed her bags in obedience to her ‘man of God.’ She took their two children Charlene and Sharon along with her. In no time, her hard-work had paid off and the international arm of the ministry was booming, with numerous churches started in the UK and mainland Europe. But this success might have invariably cost her marriage, for while she was away from Nigeria, a few women had allegedly grown close to her husband and were living in the same housing complex known as ‘White House’ as he. ‘White House’ is an exclusive multi story building at the Church’s Oregun-Lagos branch where Pastor Chris stays whenever he is in Lagos. It has several luxury apartments, a swimming pool, and open only to Pastor Chris, and his closest aides, who incidentally are beautiful but unmarried female pastors and ministry directors, whom his ex-wife was uncomfortable with. With rumours swirling around town about some suspicious activities bordering on infidelity, our source said Pastor Anita insisted on returning to Lagos, to her matrimonial home, and requested the sack of the strange women – Pentecostalspeak for home breakers , around her ex-husband. The man however refused, insisting that she was more useful to the ministry in the Uk, than in Nigeria and that the women were indispensible to the growth of the Christ Embassy Church. 1 Like |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by mbembe: 5:42pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
People like you are worse than 'armed robbers' because those ones at least come out to declare that they want to rob you..... but Satanist like you hide behind the computer to spread falsehood. I am no fan of Chris Oyahkilome, infact, l dislike that "jerry-curled", funky-looking, unserious persona of his, since l was young. I think "spiritual leaders" like him should "lead by example.... good example" .....and he is a bad example of "moderation". (my opinion though). Let us ASSUME that what you posit above is TRUE. Let us assume that it was Chris who left/abandoned his family on London! Let me also ASSUME that you have been to London, at least ONCE! Now, tell us, does London looks like a place where a "man" can impose his wish on his wife, against her will? can you tell your wife to "sit down there".... (when she does not want to)..... and she will obey you? As a mater of fact, when it comes to the whole of Europe and America, it is thee woman that tells the man to "sit down there"... and he does! grin grin If he doesn't, he gets thrown out of his own house, that same night, with not more than his knickers, loses his kids and becomes an instant ATM (wife and child support) to the estranged wife. Again, based on your words, which we decided to "assume for truth", let us ask this Kwesion: Did Chris also tie his wife down in London, that she could not buy a ticket and say "Today, l will live with my husband in Nigeria"... and fly to Lagos? ..... or does she have her reason for "staying put" in London and refusing to come live with her husband? So, the argument that Chris dumped his family in London, does not wash at all. Fact is; Anita was the one that abandoned her husband in Nigeria because she has her own "reasons and designs" for refusing to come home. Jist: (meaning you can ignore it) 1.) She prefers living in London than Nigeria because over there, she gets to be the 'husband'.... while Chris will be the wife 2.) she was getting "power drunk" and wanted to be lording it over other Church Ministers who by "church hierachy", are senior to her since she is just the "Pastor's wife"... and not 2nd in-command. Infact, she was challenging Chris authority, within the church. That sort of behaviour can only go unchallenged in London, hence her staying put over there! undecided undecided 3.) Since the church has a "very lucrative" branch in London, Anita figured out she better hold onto that one....and she eventually converted it to her own "personal church" (Go and read the court papers as regards the wahala that happened in that branch of the church, when she hijacked ownership of it! Imagine a British court "dividing ownership of church" between husband and wife, like it is some "carnal/material" property, eehn?) Issokay! So, for Anita, its all about the Love of MONEY and POWER....... the marriage can go to blazes! I just hope she wont be pretending to be seeing visions of exhibiting anything resembling "spiritual", afterwards! undecided shocked shocked grin grin grin Now that they are free of each other's burden, l hope we get to have some fresh air - Sound analysis. You made lotta sense 1 Like |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by Kayelyon: 8:39pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
hamilton62: Honestly, what you are saying doesnot apply to this situation. If a man does not want you, you cant force him. A MAN CAN BE HEAVILY ANOINTED WITHOUT INTEGRITY OF CHARACTER. This woman suffered for 16 years!!! Check out this exclusive interview with a close family relative. Get the facts straight. The couple’s divorce was finalized on February 8, this year but it was after much legal drama and fireworks in the English court. The major contentions were the sharing of their mutual property as well Pastor Anita’s right to speak freely about life with her former husband, which he had challenged, wanting the court to bar her from disclosing details of the divorce and their life together. He was however willing to consider a sufficient compensation to her, if she agreed not to speak about the matter . On the matter of compensation, we gathered that Pastor Chris declared a total sum of 120,000 USD and a house in Johannesburg, South Africa and that he was only the spiritual head of the Christ Embassy Church, not its administrative or legal head, and so its funds were communal and not personal to him. Our source, who described the claim by Pastor Chris as a blatant lie, revealed that this was particularly distressing to Anita as she had invested the better part of her life, including finances in the Christ Embassy Church. “She was particularly saddened by this claim, and had to go on vacation to Switzerland, her mother’s country, because of the stress,” he said. That incident happened in October last year, shortly after which Pastor Chris donated the whooping sum of N1 billion to the Benson Idahosa University. The court held in favour of Pastor Chris that the funds of the church were indeed communal and so would not be a factor in the divorce, to his great delight and the coterie of aides, hangers-on and senior pastors who accompanied him to the High Court of Justice Principal Registry of the Family Division in October 2015. So much so that it was learnt they threw a party at the Christ Embassy, Bermondsey branch to celebrate ‘the victory.’ The court however did not bar Pastor Anita from disclosing any detail of the divorce or life with her ex-husband, and we have learned reliably that she is getting prepared to write a tell-all about the misery she suffered at the hands of the so-called man of God. What broke the camel’s back Talking about misery, our source disclosed that the woman had a difficult and sexless marriage for much of the time they were together but bore the pains because she believed it was the necessary sacrifice for the success of their ministry. She was transferred to UK to start off the international arm of the ministry in the late 90s, when the church had a programme there and Pastor Chris asked her to stay back and kick-start the international arm of the ministry. At that point, our source said, Pastor Chris’ word was life and death to her and she considered him next to God. So in spite of family and friends who cautioned against taking up the offer and that it was not ideal leaving her relatively young marriage for an oversea country, even for the cause of the gospel, she packed her bags in obedience to her ‘man of God.’ She took their two children Charlene and Sharon along with her. In no time, her hard-work had paid off and the international arm of the ministry was booming, with numerous churches started in the UK and mainland Europe. But this success might have invariably cost her marriage, for while she was away from Nigeria, a few women had allegedly grown close to her husband and were living in the same housing complex known as ‘White House’ as he. ‘White House’ is an exclusive multi story building at the Church’s Oregun-Lagos branch where Pastor Chris stays whenever he is in Lagos. It has several luxury apartments, a swimming pool, and open only to Pastor Chris, and his closest aides, who incidentally are beautiful but unmarried top female pastors. |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by baralatie(m): 7:58pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
They will both make up sha 1 Like |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by donnie(m): 10:15pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
linearity: You are sick 1 Like |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by eplanning: 10:30pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
Kayelyon: So relatives were standing by hoping to get their share of church money. no wonder they pushed their daughter to seek divorce from a london court. Una eye don clear now. Pastor Chris even tried sef. Actually the man doesnt even get a salary from church, he is totally sold out to the work of the Lord, living by the faith that he preaches. . .so e try. . So you heard he donated 1billon naira and you started salivating. Greedy people, i'm sure they were imagining millions of dollars from sale of Rhapsody, which even Dr Chris cannot touch for personal use . By the way, she better shelve that her plan of writting tales about the MOG, because it wont work, she will not achieve her desire. She should rather focus on repentance and getting back to her first love as the same spirit that pushed her to fight for divorce cannot defend her when God begins to vindicate His annointed. Those so-called friends around you Ma will not be able to help then. You became a global figure because you married Pastor Chris, and this is how you repay him? The once anointed woman of God whose words blessed and healed millions around the world daily, is now given to petty gossip and useless carnal motivational blogging? SMH |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by eplanning: 11:00pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
sabdaz: No one is dragging "Woman of God title" with her. If you are a WOG prove it! Do WOG fight for divorce? As a WOG she didnt consider the impact of her actions on the church of Jesus Christ? Or she was after her own happiness and her right to plenty sex ba? Some of you think God is British or that we will not give account to God for our actions. They need our prayers. |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by linearity: 3:53am On Feb 29, 2016 |
donnie: my guy, take it easy, don't be all emotional about it...that is her own suit and what her attorneys filed in court. If you care to google Suit No FD14D01650', you will get nothing less than 3,500 hits and all the links are from home in Nigeria and foreign and if you open any of them that contain the details of the filings and what was actually filed; all of them in unison indicates that she accused her husband of "adultery" and "unreasonable behaviour" in her Divorce filings at the Divorce Section A, Central Family Court, First Avenue House, High Holborn, London, UK Court. So, you can see that, it is not my words; it is what it is and you should relax a little bit, it will be well. |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by Kayelyon: 7:25am On Feb 29, 2016 |
eplanning: Wonderful! Truth is, even if the MoG is proven to have dealt treachously with this woman, a lot of you will still attack this woman. No wahala. The man who constantly preaches to you has programmed you "by the word". BUT No man is God. And She deserves to be free from such a marriage. While the moG looked harmless over this divorce, it is clear he has been "dealing" with this woman throughout. None of his speeches about her depicts reconcilation. For those talking about greed, pls be kindly informed that Pastor Anita and her family were one of the first MAJOR partners in the blw. She poured finances & indeed her life into this church. The attack on her will continue anyway as manipulation & oppression is how we roll in Africa. Continue(in Pat Jona's voice). |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by eplanning: 10:43pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
Kayelyon: Mtchew, Leave story abeg |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by eplanning: 11:22pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
linearity: Can you see this: http://newshub.com.ng/adultery-not-anita-oyakhilomes-ground-for-divorce-but-other-reasons-read/ And this: http://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2014/09/new-report-claims-adultery-is-not-anita.html Even on nairaland: https://www.nairaland.com/1891505/exact-facts-pastor-anitas-divorce But of course, like the other stupid publications, you prefer the negative story. You guys are fortunate that Pastor Chris is the kind of man that he is... Who will leave the battle for God. Some of those publications would have been liquidated by now. But make no mistakes about it... God's judgement is more severe. Some of the publications even made attempt to correct their reports. But you, continue your false witness... |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by Kayelyon: 3:37pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
[quote author=mbembe post=43246615]People like you are worse than 'armed robbers' because those ones at least come out to declare that they want to rob you..... but Satanist like you hide behind the computer to spread falsehood. I am no fan of Chris Oyahkilome, infact, l dislike that "jerry-curled", funky-looking, unserious persona of his, since l was young. I think "spiritual leaders" like him should "lead by example.... good example" .....and he is a bad example of "moderation". (my opinion though). Let us ASSUME that what you posit above is TRUE. Let us assume that it was Chris who left/abandoned his family on London! Let me also ASSUME that you have been to London, at least ONCE! Now, tell us, does London looks like a place where a "man" can impose his wish on his wife, against her will? can you tell your wife to "sit down there".... (when she does not want to)..... and she will obey you? As a mater of fact, when it comes to the whole of Europe and America, it is thee woman that tells the man to "sit down there"... and he does! grin grin If he doesn't, he gets thrown out of his own house, that same night, with not more than his knickers, loses his kids and becomes an instant ATM (wife and child support) to the estranged wife. Again, based on your words, which we decided to "assume for truth", let us ask this Kwesion: Did Chris also tie his wife down in London, that she could not buy a ticket and say "Today, l will live with my husband in Nigeria"... and fly to Lagos? ..... or does she have her reason for "staying put" in London and refusing to come live with her husband? So, the argument that Chris dumped his family in London, does not wash at all. Fact is; Anita was the one that abandoned her husband in Nigeria because she has her own "reasons and designs" for refusing to come home. Jist: (meaning you can ignore it) 1.) She prefers living in London than Nigeria because over there, she gets to be the 'husband'.... while Chris will be the wife 2.) she was getting "power drunk" and wanted to be lording it over other Church Ministers who by "church hierachy", are senior to her since she is just the "Pastor's wife"... and not 2nd in-command. Infact, she was challenging Chris authority, within the church. That sort of behaviour can only go unchallenged in London, hence her staying put over there! undecided undecided 3.) Since the church has a "very lucrative" branch in London, Anita figured out she better hold onto that one....and she eventually converted it to her own "personal church" (Go and read the court papers as regards the wahala that happened in that branch of the church, when she hijacked ownership of it! Imagine a British court "dividing ownership of church" between husband and wife, like it is some "carnal/material" property, eehn?) Issokay! So, for Anita, its all about the Love of MONEY and POWER....... the marriage can go to blazes! I just hope she wont be pretending to be seeing visions of exhibiting anything resembling "spiritual", afterwards! undecided shocked shocked grin grin grin Now that they are freew of each other's burden, l hope we get to have some fresh air |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by eplanning: 11:52pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
Kayelyon: Mutual wealth? They should start sharing church property like personal belongings? Are you okay? The first thing Satan does when he wants to finish you is to make you mad. You no longer reason well. And that is why she could not see that she was fighting a loosing battle. She tried to destroy God's servant and bring shame to the church but she failed, Period. Well, at least we now know she is all for the money now. Clearly she has backslidden. The love of God is no longer in her heart. Now it is money, power and vengeance. Pray for Pastor Anita. Kayelyon:Yes, and as long as she did so she prospered and was favoured of God. |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by vooks: 6:03am On Mar 09, 2016 |
myners007:Why did the 'man of God' marry an over ambitious woman? Wait,say what? he did not foresee it? What right has h to prophesy over your life if he can't foresee calamity in his life? |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by vooks: 6:12am On Mar 09, 2016 |
vicky85:Abeg Oyaks sycophant, The only guarantee that you won't divorce is not to marry because you may marry somebody who may not endure? Will you try and think before posting? Why couldn't Oyaks pray 'endurance' over her? You mean the very God who gives him wealth, health and happiness could not give his wife 'endurance'? Or could he not give him a woman who 'endures'? |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by vooks: 6:14am On Mar 09, 2016 |
hamilton62:Yes God hates divorce but for the hardness of man He made exception; adultery |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by vooks: 6:22am On Mar 09, 2016 |
prophetfire:Anybody can cook up anything, including yourself. Can you give us the grounds for divorce yourself? |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by vooks: 6:28am On Mar 09, 2016 |
lastpage:He can't possibly authoritatively teach on marital success unless he admits failure on his part to hold it together. Even if he told us what he did to ocassion failure in his marriage, he's in no position to tell us what to do to keep it together. In short, he is not EXPERIENCED in marital success. He can teach you about wealth, health and happiness but not on marriage |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by vooks: 6:31am On Mar 09, 2016 |
lastpage:It takes two to make a marriage work, and it takes two to break it. Simple. Oyaks is as responsible for his marriage wreckage as Anita. Why couldn't he confess against the divorce? |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by donnie(m): 8:43am On Mar 09, 2016 |
vooks: Dr Chris can teach on anything he is instructed to teach and when he does, signs and wonders will follow because he did not send himself. He is not a talk show host, he is a man of God. |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by donnie(m): 9:07am On Mar 09, 2016 |
vooks: I promise you he did. In fact, if you listen to the meeting with Pastors and deacons in the UK (which went viral) where he tried to explain himself; towards the end, you hear him say "I will pray, confess the Word and do everything I know to do. . . " He even rushed to the Uk to meet his wife and persuade her. But she was adamant, insisting like someone wrote here, that he sacks this one and that one... Did you see the part in the divorce statement where she insisted that Dr. Chris' teaching on submission in marriage is too extreme and she does not agree with it? So you see, there is more than meets the eye. It is an attack of Satan. But you know, bloggers will take the part that suits their objective and publish it. |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by vooks: 10:52am On Mar 09, 2016 |
donnie:I mean these Word of Faith preachers pretend to be invincible against everything, diseases, poverty.......why couldn't he muster enough faith to stall the divorce? Either they are not invincible as they claim, or he badly wanted the divorce |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by donnie(m): 11:04am On Mar 09, 2016 |
vooks: Too early to rejoice bro. . . He is still excercising his faith. And I believe with him for a miracle. |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by vooks: 11:18am On Mar 09, 2016 |
donnie:He is all that times 1000 yet he could not keep save his marriage |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by vooks: 11:24am On Mar 09, 2016 |
donnie:Who is rejoicing? Whatever happens now, they'd have to REMARRY because they are legally divorced. Even if they REMARRIED, they'd still be divorcees remarried. Point is, NOTHING can happen henceforth that erases the historical fact of their divorce. Benny Hinn never divorced, he separated from wifey but they got back. PS I also believe in miracles, but no miracle can erase history |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by donnie(m): 11:53am On Mar 09, 2016 |
vooks: Didn't Benny Hinn remarry? One two one two, they mention Benny Hinn. Those who encouraged Pastor Anita to seek for divorce probably mentioned Benny Hinn's wife. No be so o. Pastor Chris is Pastor Chris, Benny Hinn is Benny Hinn (two distinct men of God with different callings before God) and The Word remains the same. |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by Kayelyon: 1:05pm On Mar 09, 2016 |
eplanning: Oga Church wealth is not their mutual wealth o ? They were a couple! The man has personal money. The least the MOG can do is settle his wife properly. Why continue to fight her. After all you put her through!!! na wa o. |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by eplanning: 2:01pm On Mar 09, 2016 |
Kayelyon: Pastor Anita who was able to stay in London and see Dr. Chris' "inappropriate relationships" should know better than you when it comes to the MOGs finances right? So leave matter for mathias. Abi you be her lawyer? Court neva finish? |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by flamingREED(m): 2:23pm On Mar 09, 2016 |
adult91:Deeper Life is waxing strong. Modesty and steadfastness pay... |
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