Raymondenyi:


I do not have the luxury of time to waste on your lots; if my lexicon was way over your comprehension or vocabulary , the best you could have done was take solace in your dictionary instead of being stupid...... This is a social platform where all and sundry come, people are meant to learn and build up from what they know and do not know, not feigning crass, obscene and irritating ignorance and yet basking in grandiloquent delirium when in fact u know absolutely nothing...... saying you are silly will be an abuse of that word...... Go search for help , I will not dignify your obscenities with a response anymore..... continue in your crass ignorance you truly deserve it...

amtaken:

I have few things to say to you:

Wisdom is the principal thing. In whatever you are getting get wisdom.
If you lack it ask for it.

You didn't even deem it fit to mention the fact that she was slapped or doesn't that mean anything to you?

About the hospital bill: the lady had exhausted all her money in the medical treatment, any reasonable and caring guy would have offered to assist as much as he could.

I pray that none of my relatives should fall for your kind.

Repent!

mimzy:
Olodo rabata. Oju eja lomo je. Oni je paper. Silati loma lo. Aji yan wo. Eba tutu lomoje . shiki shiki. Shiorrrrr . Oro dun , ofe ke. Wole Soyinka. Mschewww. Did I even mention u in d first place. Notice me oshi

She highlighted all ur blunders. Its a shame cos u were tryna put someone else down when u ain't perfect. Stop tryna blow grammar biko. If u can't construct , keep it simple and real.
P.S I won't reply u again. UV been noticed

sweetcocoa:
Depends on why I was cheating and if I think, he can do it again.

Raymondenyi:
Please modify your post, and try to improve on your written English, it is appalling to say the least, re-read your post, try to make necessary edition, present it more lucid and comprehensible , for readers to offer their advices which you direly seek....
You have not communicated at all. Grammar only




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Back to the topic; Madam do not marry him, not because he is not suitable for you, but rather you are not psychologically mature for marriage. A lady with the mentality of "if you don't pay my bills or spoil me with gifts, then you not the one" is definitely not psychologically ripe for marriage ...... also the hypothetical anecdote you tried using on him further reaffirms my stance on your immaturity........ so i'll as a matter of urgency admonish you take out time, forget marriage for now, and do some growing up before you venture into that esteemed institution called marriage which is often trivialise by kids of today.....



*for those quoting me on inanities, you are only wasting your time as i will not reciprocate the privilege*

Suigeneris93:



Like seriously, your own grammar is even more appalling, I don't even know where to start from. Please take your own advice first.

sukkot:
why would he offer to pay for your hospital bills na ? hin na ya papa ni ? lmao. but ermm about the slap part - we need to hear his side of the story cuz you may have attacked him first and now you are forming innocent. jus sayin

Suigeneris93:



Like seriously, your own grammar is even more appalling, I don't even know where to start from. Please take your own advice first.

Raymondenyi:
you really need help, if you lack in English language, you should seek help..... This isn't a classroom and I'll not waste my time on a kid that knows nothing putting you through written English.....

MzzTega:


She needs advice not tutorials.

bellarmine:


I think your post is incomplete. Also, your way of clearing things with someone that may end up with you is very appalling and highly immature.

See, no one is a fool. And it gets us mad when you start with such instances like "my friend's husband" this and that. How do you think your guy won't know.

Next time be mature to go straight to the point and not creating lies in the name of clearing somethings.

Left for me, you-yourself is not yet ready for settling down. You sound so mentally unprepared for marriage.

Work on yourself,please. And get yourself busy with good stuffs. So you can attract respect for yourself.

Meanwhile, no reasons why he slapped you...

Raymondenyi:


I do not have the luxury of time to waste on your lots; if my lexicon was way over your comprehension or vocabulary , the best you could have done was take solace in your dictionary instead of being stupid...... This is a social platform where all and sundry come, people are meant to learn and build up from what they know and do not know, not feigning crass, obscene and irritating ignorance and yet basking in grandiloquent delirium when in fact u know absolutely nothing...... saying you are silly will be an abuse of that word...... Go search for help , I will not dignify your obscenities with a response anymore..... continue in your crass ignorance you truly deserve it...

Raymondenyi:
Please modify your post, and try to improve on your written English, it is appalling to say the least, re-read your post, try to make necessary edition, present it more lucid and comprehensible , for readers to offer their advices which you direly seek....




* modified*
Back to the topic; Madam do not marry him, not because he is not suitable for you, but rather you are not psychologically mature for marriage. A lady with the mentality of "if you don't pay my bills or spoil me with gifts, then you not the one" is definitely not psychologically ripe for marriage ...... also the hypothetical anecdote you tried using on him further reaffirms my stance on your immaturity........ so i'll as a matter of urgency admonish you take out time, forget marriage for now, and do some growing up before you venture into that esteemed institution called marriage which is often trivialise by kids of today.....



*for those quoting me on inanities, you are only wasting your time as i will not reciprocate the privilege*

lastpage:


You see, they say "Marriage is likened to NIGHT MARKET"........ until you enter, you can never be 100% sure what it is and how it will turn-out.

Seriously, did you even consider that the guy might be broke or going through some financial distress, when he came to see you in the hospital? Yet you think it is your "God-given Right" that he must pay your hospital Bills (for an off-On relationship that you cannot swear both of you were not doing some kpekus with someone else!).

This is what l dont like about "some" women!
They assume because they are "women" (and have that thing), a man should just become clairvoyant and pander to all their wishes! Men too have NEEDS, for Christ sake!
At least, he came to visit you in the hospital, that shows he cares.

Now, he has slapped you once (we dont know what led to it though) but l can assure you that if the event that led to it happened again, he would likely slap you again. He could be the type of person that is temperamental and reacts when provoked.

But where you goofed is trying to "form CIA" on him.
I am sure when he realised you were taking him for a ride by pretending it happened to your girlfriend, when you are actually referring to your relationship with him, he got Mad! (I would too) .......... and called your bluff!

He may not necessarily mean what he said but he is giving you the "middle finger" and saying in Oshiomole's voice: Go and Die!

Verdict: Dont marry him.
You dont trust him, you dont believe him....and now you have also sowed the seeds of doubt in his own mind.

It wont work, l dont want to hear another sad-story here in a a few months time.

Like: My loving husband is a beast! he slaps me whn we are making love!



Lastpage!

BTW: Dont let me see you trying to collect money/gift from him henceforth, .....now that you know you should not marry him o.
You know he can slap wella-wella.

Raymondenyi:
Please modify your post, and try to improve on your written English, it is appalling to say the least, re-read your post, try to make necessary edition, present it more lucid and comprehensible , for readers to offer their advices which you direly seek....




* modified*
Back to the topic; Madam do not marry him, not because he is not suitable for you, but rather you are not psychologically mature for marriage. A lady with the mentality of "if you don't pay my bills or spoil me with gifts, then you not the one" is definitely not psychologically ripe for marriage ...... also the hypothetical anecdote you tried using on him further reaffirms my stance on your immaturity........ so i'll as a matter of urgency admonish you take out time, forget marriage for now, and do some growing up before you venture into that esteemed institution called marriage which is often trivialise by kids of today.....



*for those quoting me on inanities, you are only wasting your time as i will not reciprocate the privilege*

jeff1607:


depend ke!!? my God I fear you ladies, I guess there would always b a reason to cheat.

is it possible for a lady to have s*xual relations with a guy and ve no emotional attachments whatsoever i.e hit n run(just like a guy). just curious

Raymondenyi:
yes i didn't deem it necessary to take that into cognisance, my reason is simple, her story is incomplete, she should tell the whole reason why she was slapped, what did she do? For the man to have slapped her just once during the course of their relationship tells he is not really an abuser as she is trying to portend..... she might have stretched him beyond his capacities......

As regards the money part, do you know whether the man had any on him at that point in Time? She never denied the said man hasn't been spending on her before Now? Has she ever reciprocated same gestures ? Women should stop this vain attitude of I'm meant to take all, and only open my legs for him as a payback.... (that's the mindset of low life street hookers, show yourself some class woman.....)

MzThormi:
Just raise a hand against me, and we're done.
That's how they start, sorry it'll never happen again.. And it will continue to happen. No matter what, it is very wrong as a guy to raise ur hand against any woman. Unjustifiable! !

Raymondenyi:


I do not have the luxury of time to waste on your lots; if my lexicon was way over your comprehension or vocabulary , the best you could have done was take solace in your dictionary instead of being stupid...... This is a social platform where all and sundry come, people are meant to learn and build up from what they know and do not know, not feigning crass, obscene and irritating ignorance and yet basking in grandiloquent delirium when in fact u know absolutely nothing...... saying you are silly will be an abuse of that word...... Go search for help , I will not dignify your obscenities with a response anymore..... continue in your crass ignorance you truly deserve it...

mimzy:
Olodo rabata. Oju eja lomo je. Oni je paper. Silati loma lo. Aji yan wo. Eba tutu lomoje . shiki shiki. Shiorrrrr . Oro dun , ofe ke. Wole Soyinka. Mschewww. Did I even mention u in d first place. Notice me oshi

She highlighted all ur blunders. Its a shame cos u were tryna put someone else down when u ain't perfect. Stop tryna blow grammar biko. If u can't construct , keep it simple and real.
P.S I won't reply u again. UV been noticed

olarhtunji:



I agree with u all diz cyber Bullies are every where knowing very well that they themselves are not perfect.....

greatiyk4u:


Will u marry her ?

Lol, I could marry for 2 weeks only

henergygirl:
I met this guy in 2010 when i went on a visit to see my aunt. It was an on and off relationship though.......during the course of this relationship, he slapped me and there was another time i was hospitalized, he came and left without offering to pay for the bills knowing fully well dat i had spent much on the sickness already..
Recently he called and said he wants to settle down and apologised for his past behaviour saying it was because he has this trust issue with ladies but he said he is trying to change........i said fine, he's even planning to come and see my family in June. But two days ago, i needed to clear the air on something so i asked him via whatsapp that my girlfriend wants to divorce the husband because he slapped her and he condemned the act saying it could lead to battery if proper measure is not taken. I also asked him that my friend's husband left her in d hosptal when she was hospitalized saying she has family so they should pay d bill. He found out that i was referring to him but his reply was that he should have given me two more slaps as prescribed and y would he pay the hospital bill when i was taking advice from my girlfriend....
Pls dear nlanders mature advise pls. Help a confused sister.

Mods, please front page

SycophanticGoat:





Slimy cuty! Why you dey embarrass the embarrasser na?