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Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by geraldhumphrey(m): 8:51am On Mar 18, 2016
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Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by Timoleon(m): 8:51am On Mar 18, 2016
Igobang:
I support the arrest. If the parents of the girl never cared for her, he will not find her fit to marry.

So Y show disrespect to her family and particularly her parents. Courtesy demands that u go for introduction and let the parents know who is marrying their daughter. WTF!

Your opinion though!

it is however not a crime! hence, the police had no rights to arrest nor remand the young man in their cells.
Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by antsut(m): 8:52am On Mar 18, 2016
Igobang:
I support the arrest. If the parents of the girl never cared for her, he will not find her fit to marry.

So Y show disrespect to her family and particularly her parents. Courtesy demands that u go for introduction and let the parents know who is marrying their daughter. WTF!

Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by Nobody: 8:52am On Mar 18, 2016
daretodiffer:


So you are a heavy burden to your parentsshocked


I have my own dance space.
Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by confun: 8:53am On Mar 18, 2016
D lady is an adult anyway, bt what she did isn't too cool, once a while, one will always need ones parents in marriage no matter what, won't she need her mum wen she starts nursing children or want, d blessings of parents are necessary before marriage. I think it would av been better if they had resolved all dir issues before marriage, Well all d best to her sha.

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Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by sweetcocoa(f): 8:53am On Mar 18, 2016
If I had unreasonable parents like the lady's, I probably would get married without their consent, nonsense.


Good thing the innocent man has been released.

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Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by ichommy(m): 8:53am On Mar 18, 2016
Igobang:
I support the arrest. If the parents of the girl never cared for her, he will not find her fit to marry.

So Y show disrespect to her family and particularly her parents. Courtesy demands that u go for introduction and let the parents know who is marrying their daughter. WTF!

where is your sense of Humour Brother?

Yes, the guy ble.ep up. But why arrest?

Am sure the didn't want her to marry the guy.

This is what they called secret Married.

It happens everyday.
Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by kingDarius(m): 8:53am On Mar 18, 2016
Arrant Arabian nonsense...
Try shuwa girls for Chad or borno u go no say marriage na only for politicians.
omusiliyu:
Mr. Ugo is a sharp igbo man. He eloped her to avoid paying huge amount for her dowry.

You budget like #1M to marry ordinary Igbo Lady

You budget like #2M to marry Igbo Lady with first degree.

You budget like #3.6M to marry Igbo Lady with second degree.

....and over #6M for Igbo Lady with PhD or Medical doctor.
Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by Nobody: 8:54am On Mar 18, 2016
Igobang:
I support the arrest. If the parents of the girl never cared for her, he will not find her fit to marry.

So Y show disrespect to her family and particularly her parents. Courtesy demands that u go for introduction and let the parents know who is marrying their daughter. WTF!



Dont be s****d we are talking about adults here, is disrespect a crime?

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Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by ichommy(m): 8:55am On Mar 18, 2016
sweetcocoa:
If I had unreasonable parents like the lady's, I probably would get married without their consent, nonsense.


Good thing the innocent man has been released.

double post
Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by ichommy(m): 8:55am On Mar 18, 2016
sweetcocoa:
If I had unreasonable parents like the lady's, I probably would get married without their consent, nonsense.


Good thing the innocent man has been released.

Thank you for this post.

Cc igobang
Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by overdrive(m): 8:56am On Mar 18, 2016
ichommy:
Must parents approved wedding? Am sounding crazy abi? In this current age. I dont think anyone can chose or appoint wife, who to marry for me.

If the lady love him no wahala.

Vice-President Atiku married his first wife TiTi without her parent consent at Idi-Iroko Border.

We need to view this Wonderful planet with another Optical view at times.

Were u there?at d bolded?
Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by elderken(m): 8:56am On Mar 18, 2016
Igobang:
I support the arrest. If the parents of the girl never cared for her, he will not find her fit to marry.

So Y show disrespect to her family and particularly her parents. Courtesy demands that u go for introduction and let the parents know who is marrying their daughter. WTF!

Receive Common Sense. Is the lady not an adult? When has marrying an adult, that's not under any form of duress become a crime?

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Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by ichommy(m): 8:58am On Mar 18, 2016
elderken:


Receive Common Sense. Is the lady not an adult? When has marrying an adult, that's not under any form of duress become a crime?

nice post
Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by phenol33(m): 8:58am On Mar 18, 2016
ichommy:
Must parents approved wedding? Am sounding crazy abi? In this current age. I dont think anyone can chose or appoint wife, who to marry for me.

If the lady love him no wahala.

Vice-President Atiku married his first wife TiTi without her parent consent at Idi-Iroko Border.

We need to view this Wonderful planet with another Optical view at times.
the guy don't know what he is into yet (God forbid) if the girl dies in his hands, hummmm that time he will know that he kidnaped the girl. now they er just blined by love.

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Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by ichommy(m): 9:04am On Mar 18, 2016
phenol33:
the guy don't know what he is into yet (God forbid) if the girl dies in his hands, hummmm that time he will know that he kidnaped the girl. now they er just blined by love.

Agreed

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Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by Missmossy(f): 9:05am On Mar 18, 2016
Chai! She is long overdue for marriage yet her parents still want to hinder her from settling down. Nawa oo.

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Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by kennybabs1980: 9:08am On Mar 18, 2016
peacengine:
Why did he marry her against her parents wish? What if they decide to use spiritual means against him, it's too risky
African man gidigan leleyi o
Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by adedayourt(m): 9:08am On Mar 18, 2016
dis guy com resemble falz
Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by khalhokage(m): 9:09am On Mar 18, 2016
Ladies and gentlemen, this is a simple but effective method of getting married to someone you love when your parents are against it:
Simply impregnate or get pregnant for your boo.

If you want evidence of it's effectiveness come see my family, no time for lubbish.

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Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by Peacefulgold(m): 9:11am On Mar 18, 2016
peacengine:
Why did he marry her against her parents wish? What if they decide to use spiritual means against him, it's too risky
Hmmmm.....juju kwa....d most important tin is dat dry are adults and d girl was not forced into d marriage,so I believe before d parents try using juju they will also consider d effect on there child cos she is seriously attached to d guy....d basic tin is dat dry r adults...

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Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by emmalux2(m): 9:16am On Mar 18, 2016
Heb 12:14 "Follow peace with all men... ....." From the biblical point of view, what they did has an eternal consequence. The parents' consent first before anything. The guy in question does not have respect for the girl's parent. Is he a gold digger? Being a Medical doctor is just earthly and mundane, and a reasonable husband to be would not pass backyard and steal a young lady because they are not yet married. The young lady will regret later because soon the young gold digger will show his "inner man" if he does not quickly settle with the girl's parents. Their blessingd matters alot. Does it mean no T.M was done? because only bride price is recognised in heaven. The lady only yielded because of the lust of the flesh. A lady and her mother are closer friends, no suitor should seperate a girl from her mother. It may take a longer time for peace to be restored btw the young man and his inlaws. The arrival of kids can bring peace but let him go and restitute and marry her legally for more parental blessings. 08034342755 for more words of wisdom.

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Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by RobinHez(m): 9:16am On Mar 18, 2016
See as dem fine together.. embarassed
Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by ademoladeji(m): 9:17am On Mar 18, 2016
If na Adamu marry Chioma, dem go say na 'woman' abduction....

Well, our laws n Traditions in this country are very complicated

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Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by RobinHez(m): 9:18am On Mar 18, 2016
emmalux2:
Heb 12:14 "Follow peace with all men... ....." From the biblical point of view, what they did has an eternal consequence. The parents' consent first before anything. The guy in question does not have respect for the girl's parent. Is he a gold digger? Being a Medical doctor is just earthly and mundane, and a reasonable husband to be would not pass backyard and steal a young lady because they are not yet married. The young lady will regret later because soon the young gold digger will show his "inner man" if he does not quickly settle with the girl's parents. Their blessingd matters alot. Does it mean no T.M was done? because only bride price is recognised in heaven. The lady only yielded because of the lust of the flesh. A lady and her mother are closer friends, no suitor should seperate a girl from her mother. It may take a longer time for peace to be restored btw the young man and his inlaws. The arrival of kids can bring peace but let him go and restitute and marry her legally for more parental blessings. 08034342755 for more words of wisdom.

There's no such thing as bride price! undecided

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Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by DBossNG(m): 9:18am On Mar 18, 2016
Imagine!
Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by OrlandoOwoh(m): 9:19am On Mar 18, 2016
Igobang:
I support the arrest. If the parents of the girl never cared for her, he will not find her fit to marry.

So Y show disrespect to her family and particularly her parents. Courtesy demands that u go for introduction and let the parents know who is marrying their daughter. WTF!
So you are in support of the police acting in an unprofessional manner?
Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by karbridals(f): 9:21am On Mar 18, 2016
Have u been following the story?the story is that the parents refused that she will marry the guy cos they wanted her to marry someone else that she was not in love with.
Now is it still good that they got the young man arrested?

God knows nobody can try such with me.quote author=Igobang post=43868695]I support the arrest. If the parents of the girl never cared for her, he will not find her fit to marry.

So Y show disrespect to her family and particularly her parents. Courtesy demands that u go for introduction and let the parents know who is marrying their daughter. WTF![/quote]
Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by phenol33(m): 9:27am On Mar 18, 2016
sweetcocoa:
If I had unreasonable parents like the lady's, I probably would get married without their consent, nonsense.


Good thing the innocent man has been released.
just pray it doesn't happen to u. and also pray the guy doesn't die in ur arms.
Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by Nobody: 9:27am On Mar 18, 2016
28 years old lady can't make a marriage decision? Is the dad crushing on his own child? Silly man

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Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by pimpos: 9:30am On Mar 18, 2016
It's true that they are both consenting adults that can decide to get married with or without approval but as much as possible it's best to have your parents' consent when getting married. Some people have gone ahead to get married without parental consent and it has worked for them but it's particularly important that a girl has her family's support and approval when getting married.
I don't think the guy disrespected the girl's parent,it's the girl that disrespected her family(she shouldn't expect any form of respect from the guy except he's just a good person),she has told the man and the world that her parents mean nothing. It's true that some parents are difficult and hard but the very least you can do for your folks that have given you a lot of love is some respect.
I don't condemn them o but she should just pray that things work out in that marriage,if not...who is she gonna run to?
Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by Nobody: 9:40am On Mar 18, 2016
some parents can be so controlling,especially the one who are authoritative,an uncle on mine tried same with his daughter, with the excuse that he was an orphan from a poor background, the lady threatened to take the matter to court and defend her husband, people had to advice the man to back off,and the today he is his favorite in-law.some fathers just feel their daughters are properties that they own,even if it's better to get the consent of parents, some parents are more of hindrance when it comes to choosing a partner, it's better you allow a person make their choice in marriage that when the storm comes, they will not keep blaming their,but some parents just don't understand.Choosing a partner for you child will not exclude the marriage from marital crisis, you have only just given the child some to blame to the crisis

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