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Djboosting:



Donaby, how are you doing, I love your question, especially the part @ bolded.

You see, from my view and game level, telling a girl to be in a relationship before having sex, is a low-status attitude. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying it doesn't work, it does. But that's not my style. Even try checking out most girls in this 21st century, try having a close heart to heart conversation with them, especially the outgoing type, you'll perfectly agree with me that doing the "proposal" thing before sex is a wrong move.
Because you've already given her the whole cake, which is you, already.

Having said that, to get to your home-base (sex) or in your word "knacking" , you have to get this two things down;

1. Make sure at the beginning of your conversation with "any" girl you're meeting, always include flirting impression.

Infact, if that's the only thing you say, always flirt. Because that will make her categorize you as the type of guy who is sexually active and he's free with his sexuality.

Example; if I'm meeting a girl right now, maybe just 10 seconds into the conversation after we greeted, I'll flirt with her and say something along the line of...

Me : "How did you know?" (curious look)
She : "Know what?"

Me : "How did you know today is my pink color day, and you went ahead and put on pink, (her name) are you trying to make me like you right now?"

Ofcourse she'll laugh and try to deny knowing about it. I don't care whatever she says at this point.
I'll say,

"Well, even though the pink top matches with your light skin and makes you look good right now, that doesn't mean I'll kiss you."

At this moment, she'll laugh and deny and almost always say something like,

She (smiling) : "And did I say you should kiss me?"

Me : "I can't even kiss you, I don't usually kiss girls of under18."

At this moment after I burst her ass, 99.99% of the time, she'll punch me playfully, and I won't say anything anymore, I'll stare deep into her eyes, I won't even laugh. Then there is TENSION. Depending on where we are right then, I might choose to kiss her.

Tell me, what kind of guy tells a girl he can't even kiss her? BOOM! Attraction!

Now she wants to know who this badass she just met is. The more she wants to know you, the closer you are to the "home-base".

And you, my friend is the badass, so the more she wants to know you, the more you keep flirting with her and bursting her ass and having fun yourself. Very soon she starts flirting with you on that vibe too, then sex is around the corner depending on your move.

GODDAMN IT! I feel sorry for her boyfriend, because you just hooked a new girl.

At this point, no girl can friendzone you when you have a flirty vibe going on. Because now she has categorize you as the sexual type.

You might might want to have the urge of "toasting" the girl at this point. Don't make the mistake. Just don't do it.

Be flirty, with all your girls.Even when talking to your mom, make it a practice. She'll love you for the inside compliments in the flirts, and before you know it, the flirty muscle become huge. Everyone of 'em, always flirt.



Now finally...

2. Work on your CONFIDENCE.

What did I say?

Work on your confidence.

Why?

Because it does not matter what you say, how good the lines are, with my game experience, what you say does not matter than how you say it.

How you say it is what is going to determine the attraction. The energy in your voice, the smile on your face. The certainty of being sure of knowing what you are saying is what sparks attraction.

you can learn more about how to do that right here.. http://joshuniverse.com/2016/02/27/how-to-build-your-confidence-with-girls-irrespective-of-how-you-look/

You, my friend, are a badass.

All those girls are waiting for a very confident badass like you to approach them. And I can already place my bet on you that you will bring them home with their back on your couch or your ridiculously soft bed, anywhere you want it, trust me the girls will love you for it.

Promise me you'll take action.

Promise?

Promise.

Good.

Okay, okay, stop seducing me with your handsomeness, I've got a coaching seminar to prepare for.

I'm out.

I love you, but i love me too.

Peace.

Josh D.

visit www.joshuniverse.com

*Remove hat*
Bruh you too much,goona give yhu feedback about this..thanks in bunch!

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Donabydeco:





*Remove hat*
Bruh you too much,goona give yhu feedback about this..thanks in bunch!

You're very welcome.
Glad I could inspire you..
Let me know how it goes..

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Djboosting:




First of all,thanks for the ego boost up there...

Now let's get down to BIZ...
there's one thing you outstandingly did wrong, that's the bolded part.. "I reason am..." Don't reason girls again..

In your tone. Reason = propose.

And there is something I noticed that you're doing wrong presently, what is it?

You‘re overanalyzing the issue with her...

You like this girl, good... You've created rapport with her, very good of you, in fact I love that rapport part.. Now you're doing things to make the girl like you... Very wrong..

You said she knows who you're dating, now you're trying to shy away from the girl you're dating so as to get this girl. This is what is making the issue obvious.

If a girl wants to fvck you really badly, she won't care even if you're dating her Bestfriend. She doesn't care, (some guys can attest to this.)

You dating another girl is not the issue here, stop bringing your girlfriend to her case. She doesn't care and does not want to know.

You don't owe her anything. All you have to do is to delete your girlfriend from any of her conversation with you. She's the one you're gaming, so face your opponent and stop worrying about the fans.

When you see her, tease her, challenge her, flirt with her. If she does not want to fvck you, she won't touch you at all.. But now she's attracted to you, all you gotta do is vibe on that.. Invite her to your place saying you want to cook your favorite food, and you want her to come because you prefer her to be your judge..

Say it playfully, fvck with her, play with her. Don't show your intentions to her, forget the outcome and live in the moment, eventually the fvck you wanted will surely come up if you play your games right..


Women love to be seduced, but they must not know that you are seducing them. They love the suspense..

Okay, okay, okay...

Gotta hit the gym
I'm out.
Peace
-JD

www.joshuniverse.com

yo on point bro...am over analysing the issue with her, the rapport stage fvking great just that she's always shy she prefers talking with me on social media..shes keen at qah I think abt her but since past 1wk or more I change game plan like I flirt with her in d mist of her female frnds jokingly...naxos she tell me say me I will be acting cool whereas m not saying me I b bad boy blah blah blah. she's always showing this kinda love but av stopped acting as a bfrnd since I started flirting with her...but the issue now be say anytime we dey TALK SHE MUST CARRY MY BAE MATTER ENTA M......BUT AM VERY SURE AM MAKING A MISTAKEN SOME WHERE......the housing matter she no go come fah....nah V package. I just tired for dis 100l girls

Good to be back. I hail una peeps

Eleniyan15:






yo on point bro...am over analysing the issue with her, the rapport stage fvking great just that she's always shy she prefers talking with me on social media..shes keen at qah I think abt her but since past 1wk or more I change game plan like I flirt with her in d mist of her female frnds jokingly...naxos she tell me say me I will be acting cool whereas m not saying me I b bad boy blah blah blah. she's always showing this kinda love but av stopped acting as a bfrnd since I started flirting with her...but the issue now be say anytime we dey TALK SHE MUST CARRY MY BAE MATTER ENTA M......BUT AM VERY SURE AM MAKING A MISTAKEN SOME WHERE......the housing matter she no go come fah....nah V package. I just tired for dis 100l girls

Lols getting tired already......oya ghet up jhare.

No need getting worked by what she says, all u need to do is focus on ur gameplan - You are dealing with a babe that likes you already.

xxxtedyxxx:



Lols getting tired already......oya ghet up jhare.

No need getting worked by what she says, all u need to do is focus on ur gameplan - You are dealing with a babe that likes you already.

baba mi aw you knw...this one go dey ask me things like....have you eaten and Co but I don't but yesterday we where chatting she was asking about....my bae if o called her during d weekend naxos I tell m say make she no dey ask me abt her if we chatting...she just vex tell me goodnight..#weirdd and m feeling maybe cos she feels m a bad boy faa like am not flirt with her though *winks dah y she dey run cos I no just understand..been running out of idea lately

o.t no dey full basket but we must surely cap.
more o.t still needed though

#SHELIKESME but I know m still not doing something ryt which I don't get

Eleniyan15:





baba mi aw you knw...this one go dey ask me things like....have you eaten and Co but I don't but yesterday we where chatting she was asking about....my bae if o called her during d weekend naxos I tell m say make she no dey ask me abt her if we chatting...she just vex tell me goodnight..#weirdd and m feeling maybe cos she feels m a bad boy faa like am not flirt with her though *winks dah y she dey run cos I no just understand..been running out of idea lately

o.t no dey full basket but we must surely cap.
more o.t still needed though

#SHELIKESME but I know m still not doing something ryt which I don't get

. Lol yea I grab.

The issue u r having here is one of trust. All u need to do is make her trust u, how do u do dat? By not responding the way she wants, she wants u to respond a certain way when she teases u about other babes and shit. When she does that, hush her in a friendly way and tell her.. " Wow, I like it when ur lips move like that..so kissable" then jump to sth else.


When u respond the way a girl wants u to, u end up being predictable, and that kills all the attraction in the long run. U end up being a pussy boy. U need to engage her and game her too, don't be @ the receiving end. Use future projection, talk of things u wana do wif her, act caring, keep the bf thing up, touching her etc. Keep the focus on her. That will build her a sense of trust in her. U end up being in her good book. From that vantage point, u can then go wherever u desire.

xxxtedyxxx:
. Lol yea I grab.

The issue u r having here is one of trust. All u need to do is make her trust u, how do u do dat? By not responding the way she wants, she wants u to respond a certain way when she teases u about other babes and shit. When she does that, hush her in a friendly way and tell her.. " Wow, I like it when ur lips move like that..so kissable" then jump to sth else.


When u respond the way a girl wants u to, u end up being predictable, and that kills all the attraction in the long run. U end up being a pussy boy. U need to engage her and game her too, don't be @ the receiving end. Use future projection, talk of things u wana do wif her, act caring, keep the bf thing up, touching her etc. Keep the focus on her. That will build her a sense of trust in her. U end up being in her good book. From that vantage point, u can then go wherever u desire.

Ossssssdheeeeyyyy baddest just finished talking too her sef...thanks Bro you gallant
she hates it when I dont trust her..#weird

the aspect of teasing her m always doing that wella..buh she will still make sure I answer her questions ryt...to extent that if I lie too her she go vex. she's inquisitive always want too knw

OP OSHEY!
OP i servd last yr and met dx luvly lady dah al my co corpers wer dragging over. Buh i was d luck 1 dat got her. Although m big buh good looking nd tall. She cam to my hauz nd we kissd, on d process of kissing(dx is d first date) i put her on d bed nd started fingering her. On d process i discovered she was sweaty nd her pussy was oozing. So i made a suggestion of us taking a bath. Buh immediately she stood up she was jst reluctant abt having sex nd said she wanted 2 go home. I was unhappy nd tried 2 convince her buh all 2 no avail. 3 days later she got 2 knw i was chyking her frnd even b4 i got 2 knw her. So sinx den she broke up d rel coz she felt she ws cheap sinx her frnd i was chyking havnt said yes which she did hurriedly. Buh i was always wantin 2 please her by gettin her gifts but she dey form stubborn. She once told me m nw boring compared 2 wen we first met. Nw i hv left my service station. She neva called until she heard i got a job. Nw we chat on whatsapp buh shez nw forming rev sista. Although hv neva told her anytin abt rel again o. Buh i wan collet my inv bak baz on dah level. Wah do i do.

nawa o.. Werz evrione na nawa o.. Werz evrione na

My girl friend does not ask me for money or anything materialistic.I dont try to lord things over her too and even when i identify a need in her life,she refuses to accept my assistance.At a time i asked her y she does so,she said its just for now.Am bothered and wants to know from d experienced friends here who had been in relationship for long,whats my fate in ds relationship? ( Modify ) (Quote) (Report ) (Share )

My girl friend does not ask me for money or anything materialistic.I dont try to lord things over her too and even when i identify a need in her life,she refuses to accept my assistance.At a time i asked her y she does so,she said its just for now.Am bothered and wants to know from d experienced friends here who had been in relationship for long,whats my fate in ds relationship?

uobimba:
My girl friend does not ask me for money or
anything materialistic.I dont try to lord things over
her too and even when i identify a need in her
life,she refuses to accept my assistance.At a time i
asked her y she does so,she said its just for
now.Am bothered and wants to know from d
experienced friends here who had been in
relationship for long,whats my fate in ds
relationship?
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I've got a smell of a big lassa infested rat. Do you accord her gifts or tips when she deserves it? Or have you ever been caught loudmouthing as a guy that doesn't spend at all? This proves zero commitment. She won't respond at all.
That's for a serious relationship though. If you're a player, knack more and dump her ass. It's as simple as that.
Safe.

ChopBellefull:
OP OSHEY!
OP i servd last yr and met dx luvly lady dah al my co corpers wer dragging over. Buh i was d luck 1 dat got her. Although m big buh good looking nd tall. She cam to my hauz nd we kissd, on d process of kissing(dx is d first date) i put her on d bed nd started fingering her. On d process i discovered she was sweaty nd her pussy was oozing. So i made a suggestion of us taking a bath. Buh immediately she stood up she was jst reluctant abt having sex nd said she wanted 2 go home. I was unhappy nd tried 2 convince her buh all 2 no avail. 3 days later she got 2 knw i was chyking her frnd even b4 i got 2 knw her. So sinx den she broke up d rel coz she felt she ws cheap sinx her frnd i was chyking havnt said yes which she did hurriedly. Buh i was always wantin 2 please her by gettin her gifts but she dey form stubborn. She once told me m nw boring compared 2 wen we first met. Nw i hv left my service station. She neva called until she heard i got a job. Nw we chat on whatsapp buh shez nw forming rev sista. Although hv neva told her anytin abt rel again o. Buh i wan collet my inv bak baz on dah level. Wah do i do.

What inv Can't get you there. Answer first and I'll make my suggestion.

uobimba:
My girl friend does not ask me for money or
anything materialistic.I dont try to lord things over
her too and even when i identify a need in her
life,she refuses to accept my assistance.At a time i
asked her y she does so,she said its just for
now.Am bothered and wants to know from d
experienced friends here who had been in
relationship for long,whats my fate in ds
relationship?

if she appears materialistic from her cloth, shoes, hairs make up etc
I mean if she looks so trendy, changes or uses big phones, and her parents or brothers aren't that too rich, while she herself doesn't have steady thick income, then we can suspect someguy or guys does the spending, whilst you are just among the numerous bfs

But if she's the down to earth, cool, decent and very simple type, then she could just Be a decent babe with a good mentality

Fkhalifa:
if she appears materialistic from her cloth, shoes, hairs make up etc
I mean if she looks so trendy, changes or uses big phones, and her parents or brothers aren't that too rich, while she herself doesn't have steady thick income, then we can suspect someguy or guys does the spending, whilst you are just among the numerous bfs

But if she's the down to earth, cool, decent and very simple type, then she could just Be a decent babe with a good mentality

thanks for your insight

pls I need help there is this girl have been keeping a rapport with for like two weeks now we chat normal I kinda flirt with her have giving her a nickname but on three occasion now any time I ask to meet up with her she always give excuse at the last minutes. the last time I called her, she ask hw was my day I answered it didn't go well bla bla I said she caused it by depriving me of her presence then she promised to see me the next day and it was the same excuse. I don't know does it mean I don't have a chance or what can I do thanks.

bigt2:

What inv Can't get you there. Answer first and I'll make my suggestion.

wat i mean is dat i hv invested a lot, nd nw i need 2 get my rewards. But i find it hard chatting with her even wen she wanna chat wit me. Like hv lost interest. But i stil need my return on investment but distance has set in.

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Xup dj boosting..xxtedyxx...and oda gurus....abeg there is dis girl dat I started dating...few days to d relationship, she ask me my views on sex and kiss.......so I told her dat. Kissing is very important. For relationship to grow ..while sex does not make good and bad relationship, and it depend on individual involve...since den na only kiss we dey......abeg did I make mistake....what should I av said.

thanks boss

Pls gurus.....being on dis Gurl for long now...done d rapport thing.....Buh she just surprisingly started calling....buh just once and behold d second one was a demand for money..... I don't want to be anybody's maga....buh don't wanna lose her....she said d money is for her upkeep in sch....DT she just misused her money. I don't intend to give her ....though.... How do I play myself outa dis without losing her.

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diggy4real:
Pls gurus.....being on dis Gurl for long now...done d rapport thing.....Buh she just surprisingly started calling....buh just once and behold d second one was a demand for money..... I don't want to be anybody's maga....buh don't wanna lose her....she said d money is for her upkeep in sch....DT she just misused her money. I don't intend to give her ....though.... How do I play myself outa dis without losing her.

Hey, don't make the mistake of giving money to her thinking she'll stay, bro.

How are you doing today?
I can see the curious look on your face, but it's cool because it shows that you want to learn something today.

Unto your question,

Stop doing things for a reason.

That's FAILURE.

Let me do XY for her, so that she'll like me.

Let me do YZ for her, so that she'll see I'm caring.

Let me do AB for this person, so that the person won't reject me.

Let me give her the money, so that I won't lose her.

Bro, that's a bad attitude and it guarantee failure.

And right now I'm staring at you in the face, you're not a failure. You're a successful motherfvcker.

You do things on your own accord.
You do things because you want to, not because she want to.

You do things freely wanting nothing in return. Do NOT attach any reason to why you're giving.

Me, here, giving you this advice and inspiration, and sharing this value with you freely, I want nothing in return.

I give to give.

As a badass, you don't give something to get, you give to give.

If you have the money, and you're comfortable, without any reason attached to give to her, give it bro.

But if your financial status is strictly confidential, do not give her, since you won't feel good about it.

Most guys fall into maga zone ( in your word ) because they give so that they'll get something.. The sex, the skin, the kiss etc...

But you on the other hand knows that's not a good mindset.

If she has done something that worth you giving that to her, give.
If she hasn't do not give.

If all she's done is only just rapport and because she's cute, do not give.

If she wants to go merely because you didn't give her cash, what does that say to you about her?

Good.

We don't want a gold digger who will drain our resources.

If she wants to go, boss, let her go.
Your cup is full on your own. Go out and meet other girls.


In fact you should read this :
http://joshuniverse.com/2016/03/29/turn-off-signs-to-watch-out-for-in-women-protect-yourself-warning/

That should clearly, ridiculously and perfectly answer your question.

You know what to do now bro.

I love you, but I love me too.

Peace.
JD

www.joshuniverse.com

djbooster Nice site you got there, and awesome marketing spirit.

Good luck.

Xup dj boosting.....pls ansa mai qwestion...


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