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Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by Jadekitana(f): 9:42am On Mar 20, 2016
See me see wahala o! Every relationship I had, started with going for a series of tests,ranging from HIV to all possible stds to avoid stories that touch! Even after 6months the tests were repeated and nobody ever complained.Infact it was always like judgement day when we go for tests results especially when he has been misbehaving,i normally say a silent prayer for him to get caught which God never answered.

There's this guy, very nice and caring, industrious,extremely rich and educated but ofcourse even with all that there's the most important thing he has to do- THE TEST

This has been an issue for the past 1year and I keep insisting that without conducting those series of tests I can never date him. He often replies that he doesn't look sick, he's fresh and living well. He started the wooing process again and I stood my ground about the tests.

I woke up this morning to see a lengthy whatsapp message with series of insults and heart break talks. That i'm so mean, I don't trust him,i'm wicked, I hurt his feelings, he's been on my case for more than a year and I still keep saying without tests no relationship.

I have heard of cases where people vowed to spread all sorts of diseases because they were naive and contacted it from someone they trusted so well. He may be fresh but what if he's treating himself properly,afterall he has the resources to do so. Looks can be deceptive.Anybody who refuses to undergo a medical test, be it std, hiv, fibroid,yeast infection etc should be dumped. Such persons have skeletons in their cupboards and often use emotional blackmail to pass this wickedness on.

Now I have every right to kick this evil humanbeing who has a hidden agenda to the curbs, because I see no reason why going for a simple test should be a problem for over a year.

Cc lalasticlala,rocktation,mynd44

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Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by LuveU2(f): 9:48am On Mar 20, 2016
Will you ask Phyno to go for hiv test if he starts looking your way? wink

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Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by Jadekitana(f): 9:52am On Mar 20, 2016
LuveU2:
Will you ask Phyno to go for hiv test if he starts looking your way? wink
If Jesus should come down today in the form of angel Micheal he would still go for the test. But I know my phyno would be very careful with other ladies wink he wouldn't wanna die with all that talent because of carelessness, go ask tuface that kind question.

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Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by Nobody: 9:56am On Mar 20, 2016
Another controversial forum! cheesy

It's fundamentally wrong. There's another way to do that. In doing so, you will not hurt the person's feelings.
Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by Nobody: 9:57am On Mar 20, 2016
[LoL.grin



Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by LuveU2(f): 9:58am On Mar 20, 2016
Jadekitana:

If Jesus should come down today in the form of angel Micheal he would still go for the test. But I know my phyno would be very careful with other ladies wink he wouldn't wanna die with all that talent because of carelessness, go ask tuface that kind question.
Babe today is sunday. This one you trust Phyno more than Jesus, make God no vex on top your matter o. tongue

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Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by MKO4ever(m): 9:58am On Mar 20, 2016
Make you sef stop jumping around with different men

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Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by Nobody: 10:04am On Mar 20, 2016
MKO4ever:
Make you sef stop jumping around with different men
Man, you're so mean!! How did you know she's been jumping from one bed to another?
Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by Lildoks(m): 10:08am On Mar 20, 2016
If he is so sure about his health and he really likes you the way he claims he shouldn't have a problem about the test.. It is for the betterment of both parties. It might not only be because of STD sef.. And u should also ask about the genotype if you are considering the person as a life partner that's if you are a sickle cell carrier or patient so as not to get too attached and then suffer a heartbreak

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Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by Abbeyunique2(m): 10:08am On Mar 20, 2016
Yeah I don't think it's an insult especially for guy like me that like it raw. I should know if she is clean or not
Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by uckennety(m): 10:08am On Mar 20, 2016
Jadekitana:
See me see wahala o! Every relationship I had, started with going for a series of tests,ranging from HIV to all possible stds to avoid stories that touch! Even after 6months the tests were repeated and nobody ever complained.Infact it was always like judgement day when we go for tests results especially when he has been misbehaving,i normally say a silent prayer for him to get caught which God never answered.

There's this guy, very nice and caring, industrious,extremely rich and educated but ofcourse even with all that there's the most important thing he has to do- THE TEST

This has been an issue for the past 1year and I keep insisting that without conducting those series of tests I can never date him. He often replies that he doesn't look sick, he's fresh and living well. He started the wooing process again and I stood my ground about the tests.

I woke up this morning to see a lengthy whatsapp message with series of insults and heart break talks. That i'm so mean, I don't trust him,i'm wicked, I hurt his feelings, he's been on my case for more than a year and I still keep saying without tests no relationship.

I have heard of cases where people vowed to spread all sorts of diseases because they were naive and contacted it from someone they trusted so well. He may be fresh but what if he's treating himself properly,afterall he has the resources to do so. Looks can be deceptive.Anybody who refuses to undergo a medical test, be it std, hiv, fibroid,yeast infection etc should be dumped. Such persons have skeletons in their cupboards and often use emotional blackmail to pass this wickedness on.

Now I have every right to kick this evil humanbeing who has a hidden agenda to the curbs, because I see no reason why going for a simple test should be a problem for over a year.

Cc lalasticlala,rocktation,mynd44

Pls. My dear i support u100%
Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by MKO4ever(m): 10:09am On Mar 20, 2016
DeeTus:
Man, you're so mean!! How did you know she's been jumping from one bed to another?
I knew from her first line of introduction.

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Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by joyberry(f): 10:09am On Mar 20, 2016
Asking someone to go for HIV test ain't wrong,in this era of STDs one got to be careful to avoid had I known stories. No matter healthy one looks you got to sure of ur status.its still depends on how u told him to go fr d test,was it in an abusive or insultive way?

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Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by Nobody: 10:12am On Mar 20, 2016
MKO4ever:
I knew from her first line of introduction.
Damn!!!
Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by Vinshu(f): 10:17am On Mar 20, 2016
Why are you jumping from one bed to another?
Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by Nobody: 10:19am On Mar 20, 2016
its not an insult ooo smiley annd a sane person will nnott see it as one.


Probably you were impolite with. the request
Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by vooyour(f): 10:23am On Mar 20, 2016
what is he hiding? if he can't oblige for a simple test he cannot be trusted. I don't care how healthy he looks. test first
Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by Nobody: 10:30am On Mar 20, 2016
sleeping with men won't make them respect you more, rather the opposite. but then i guess you know that already.

sex isn't something we just do, it's a symbolic way of totally giving yourself without reserve to your significant other.(read spouse).

I guess one day you will have to ask yourself, "why am I giving these guys husband benefits, while they are yet to wife me?"

if they like what they see, let them put a ring on it.
Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by Pucaxo(m): 10:37am On Mar 20, 2016
Jadekitana:
See me see wahala o! Every relationship I had, started with going for a series of tests,ranging from HIV to all possible stds to avoid stories that touch! Even after 6months the tests were repeated and nobody ever complained.Infact it was always like judgement day when we go for tests results especially when he has been misbehaving,i normally say a silent prayer for him to get caught which God never answered.

There's this guy, very nice and caring, industrious,extremely rich and educated but ofcourse even with all that there's the most important thing he has to do- THE TEST

This has been an issue for the past 1year and I keep insisting that without conducting those series of tests I can never date him. He often replies that he doesn't look sick, he's fresh and living well. He started the wooing process again and I stood my ground about the tests.

I woke up this morning to see a lengthy whatsapp message with series of insults and heart break talks. That i'm so mean, I don't trust him,i'm wicked, I hurt his feelings, he's been on my case for more than a year and I still keep saying without tests no relationship.

I have heard of cases where people vowed to spread all sorts of diseases because they were naive and contacted it from someone they trusted so well. He may be fresh but what if he's treating himself properly,afterall he has the resources to do so. Looks can be deceptive.Anybody who refuses to undergo a medical test, be it std, hiv, fibroid,yeast infection etc should be dumped. Such persons have skeletons in their cupboards and often use emotional blackmail to pass this wickedness on.

Now I have every right to kick this evil humanbeing who has a hidden agenda to the curbs, because I see no reason why going for a simple test should be a problem for over a year.

Cc lalasticlala,rocktation,mynd44

More lies soon to hit FP sad


Smh..

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Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by Specialbaby(f): 10:39am On Mar 20, 2016
You always have stories to tell,i wonder what your next thread wil be!


Btw I see nothing wrong with that

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Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by Marlvin(m): 10:43am On Mar 20, 2016
Why tag the mods to the post, front page perhaps ? do people get paid for that ?
Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by ndujekwu(m): 10:58am On Mar 20, 2016
Go in peace my dauta...... ur faith has saved u
Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by Sharp9: 11:29am On Mar 20, 2016
Saying yes to his proposal is not = sex. Or do you intend to open your legs immediately after the test result is out. Say yes first then both of you can go for the test. Is easier that way ( doing it together). we are not the same remember( he felt patronized by suggestion).
Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by Nobody: 11:41am On Mar 20, 2016
I woke up this morning to see a lengthy whatsapp message with series of insults and heart break talks. That i'm so mean, I don't trust him,i'm wicked
Did you say he is nice and caring?



There's this guy, very nice and caring,industrious,extremely rich and educated
Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by TIDDOLL(m): 11:45am On Mar 20, 2016
Another story from the fictional library sad... you wanna have a date with pills,then open your gate for Thor's hammer....or keep insisting, your choice.
Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by Dharneehell(m): 6:38pm On Mar 20, 2016
No, It's only an insult to someone with HIV. IMO
Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by igwe44(m): 6:49pm On Mar 20, 2016
Jadekitana:

If Jesus should come down today in the form of angel Micheal he would still go for the test. But I know my phyno would be very careful with other ladies wink he wouldn't wanna die with all that talent because of carelessness, go ask tuface that kind question.
Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by igwe44(m): 6:50pm On Mar 20, 2016
Blasphemy
Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by Elzends(m): 6:51pm On Mar 20, 2016
Smart lady
Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by cr7lomo: 1:14pm On Mar 29, 2016
I totally agree with u jidekana.... U are indeed a very smart lady, wish Nigerian girls could reason like u... Pm me, if its kool with u
Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by cr7lomo: 1:19pm On Mar 29, 2016
Sharp9:
Saying yes to his proposal is not = sex. Or do you intend to open your legs immediately after the test result is out. Say yes first then both of you can go for the test. Is easier that way ( doing it together). we are not the same remember( he felt patronized by suggestion).

What's the difference, if he's got the disease, he will still get dumped... Complaining about 1 yr without her accepting him like its her fault... Do the needful and she's urs... If he's looking for a job and they tell him to go for test, will he send them that sort of absurd text... Infact, the boy is a suspect
Re: Is Telling Someone To Go For HIV Test An Insult? by drered(m): 1:26pm On Mar 29, 2016
Solid move. Don't relent and always insist. I also always insist and I even have an hiv test kit at home. There's probably more to the guy that meets the eyes cuz if he wants u that bad then there'd be no biggie in running the test if he is clean..

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