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Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by akreest(m): 11:48am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Carter4luv: Agree with you. The first step is to ascertain if it is a 'one off' behaviour based on the circumstances at that moment or if it is a trend in which case she will need Psychiatrist care. Had to call off a relationship with a young lady with anger management issues (in my younger days). Her behaviour gradually degenerated from verbal assaults to shirt squeezing to Collar holding. Forgave her after each episode (although it was quite an effort to keep myself from hitting her). When it progressed to locking me indoor, I could not take it any more. If I had been a bit more mature, I could have taken her for Psychiatrist help (even if I did not end up marrying her) 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by Odunharry(m): 11:49am On Mar 22, 2016 |
dearpreye:Yeah calling yr attention to emekamigo's post |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by Nobody: 11:51am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Odunharry: Bros, na to just siddon look. It's really amusing when I see these wiminz talk from their ovaries. 1 Like |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by ghostmist: 11:52am On Mar 22, 2016 |
tpiar:i do wonder sometimes why it is that most of your comments are usually off point or totally out of context from what is being discussed... This could be a pointer to some underlying psychological issues. Please don't be offended, it's just an observation. 3 Likes |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by MadCow1: 11:52am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Timbuktou: Well, so you would stay in an abusive relationship when you can get out without consequence? ![]() |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by rinzylee(m): 11:56am On Mar 22, 2016 |
tpiar: Must you insult me? |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by Nobody: 11:58am On Mar 22, 2016 |
MadCow1: Oh, of course I wouldn't. In fact, I did leave one even with great consequence as I reckon I valued my life over vanities and what may be described as emotional attachments. However, my amusement stems from our divergence in opinion regarding the recent Equality Bill's contents, specifically, the option to not undertake a civil marriage considering the obvious demerits it would mean for a man such as yourself. One can only chuckle at your apparent cognitive dissonance considering your very enviable situation. Turns out the very same situation I would like to avoid is the one you attempted, but woefully failed, to shame me to enter. Is this a classic case of misery loving company? Hmm. One wonders. |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by agarawu23(m): 12:02pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
bebe2:don't do that! You already knew my point ![]() |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by agarawu23(m): 12:04pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
enieme:impatience plus anger is a no go area. Combination of both is a suicide mission ![]() |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by MadCow1: 12:07pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Timbuktou: Blood of God.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() See Grammar! ![]() ![]() We dey quarrel?! If to say I no be child of God, I for consider this your response and attack on my intelligence. ![]() Wait make I find dictionary to take read your post before I can revert with an intelligible and exotic sounding response to your grammatically challenging post. Thanks! 2 Likes |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by Ngokafor(f): 12:08pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
..Good points op...I wonder why people put up with those kinds of people(male or female) ...Ladies please take note.Men with terrible habits or bad temper do not change!!.Dont endanger your lives or waste your time in the name of 'husband is scarce' rubbish which is a lie and a ploy by badly-behaved men in Nigeria to scare you into marrying their kind.. ..You dont have to marry that badly-behaved or hot-tempered man you know.Dont think you can change him cos you cant...i detest hot-tempered and easily-provoked men and avoided them like a plague while i was single(regardless of how 'correct'they thought they were) cos i can be quite opinionated and no push-over..and yes i married the kind of man i like....Firm but kind and generous....be wise ladies,be wise. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by agarawu23(m): 12:11pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by Onelovetayz(m): 12:12pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
enieme:My dear sister, hope you didn't possess any of this character, because I have been reading your comments where you been trying to put-in defensive measures on behalf of the people that possess such character. I don't mean any offence, but if you fall in that category CHANGE. I am not saying you are in that category oooo. I just likened that your defensive measure to my ex girl friend. She is the type that would bring out knife that she would stab me whenever we are having serious issues after some moments she would be begging me to forgive her that she doesn't mean to stab me. One love! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by Ngokafor(f): 12:17pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
...I can see some ANGRY comments as usual..Some people clearly have no peace in their hearts ![]() ..really unfortunate. |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by Nobody: 12:17pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Odunharry: It was a chilling one. Very chilling. |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by Nobody: 12:18pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
MadCow1: ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by Nobody: 12:19pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Ngokafor: He who has an ear, let him hear. |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by Nobody: 12:20pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
LaExpert: Thank you. We are totally responsible for our habits and character. 1 Like |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by cordss(m): 12:21pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Ngokafor: you can say that again |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by Amhappy(f): 12:25pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
People hardly change - Correct People don't change- Incorrect People change all the time. From good to bad and vice versa. Life experiences has its toll. Only The Holy Spirit changes a man completely. People cannot change people that why relationships built on trying to change the other fails. I know a once very angry man. He is a lawyer. He married his first wife ,they didn't last 8months. They were always fighting. He got married to the 2nd,a medical doc after divorcing the first,they lasted one year,had a son and divorced after much beating and fighting. He got no 3 and they fought for 6months and he accepted Christ and changed completely. His marriage is like 20yrs now. Fight and violence no more exist in his home. You can love someone but can't change that person. It's not even allowed to change someone you love because love is a choice of acceptance. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by cartoonday(m): 12:29pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
#thumbsup |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by eDoc: 12:30pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Amhappy: People don't change easily. i beg this one go correct. |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by OutOnBail(m): 12:30pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Men need to remember that women talk about problems to get close and not necessarily to get solutions. |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by Nobody: 12:46pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Funkybabee:Hmmmmmmmmmmm |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by tpiar: 12:49pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
rinzylee: where did I insult you? Are you yourself a Christian is an insult? ![]() or are you an antichrist? 2 Likes |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by Funkybabee(f): 12:50pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
DehtahGeh: yeah |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by tpiar: 12:50pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
ghostmist: I am sorry you had to disgrace yourself in this manner. let me see if the person has removed his post yet. 2 Likes |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by tpiar: 12:51pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
It's still there. get off your lazy non-thinking trollish butt and go find it. 2 Likes |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by successismine(f): 1:34pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Sorry 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by Nobody: 1:39pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
I never hit back in a violent confrontation its a habit i picked up as a child push me slap me o i will turn the other cheek There has been once i was beaten to a pulp i cried out to the lord that he should show him Who is God the person had an accident that night car was totalled frontal impact but he came out unscathed and frightened Do not harm anyone you can only come from a place of love anger is fleeting and can be tamed with love and respect. Incompatibility is another thing don't marry someone just because they look great marry someone you know will be there till the end. God can heal anyone and once your foundation (Love for God) is in place you will wither the storms 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by Nobody: 1:48pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
successismine: Leaving the violent guy was a smart decision. We need to summon the courage to quit when it's absolutely necessary. He would have probably killed you one day had you not run away. Marriage isn't the most important thing in life. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
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