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| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by EhiTee: 2:42pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
Hello house.I am glad to be here.I'm 5weeks pregnant.Please I'll need your help.Thanks 13 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by zaynie(f): 2:52pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
EhiTee: Welcome mama. Have a fruitful and stressfree pregnancy. What do you need help with? 1 Like |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 3:30pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
*modified* @ favoredgal I'm already on one. Opted for the permanent one for which the procedure was carried out immediately after delivery via c-section. It hasn't been enough to allay my fears jor. Sometimes I have nightmares that the doctor either forgot to do it(despite constant reminders by me and the anesthesiologist) or didn't do it properly.  All through my marriage the onus has been on me to take precautions. I used calendar method to space the 1st 3kids. 2yrs betw 1st and 2nd and 3yrs betw 2nd and 3rd. Abstain when i'm not safe.Decided to close shop after the 3rd and suggested to DH that he should do the permanent method. He refused. I opted for pills as contraceptive but it failed me within the 1st month. Now i'm having fears that the tube-tying would fail. Warned DH not to come near me without condom. Sometimes I go as far as buying it myself. I don't regret the 2 extra kids-love them to bits. My only regret is this libido thing. Imagine me dreading something I should be enjoying.  I do hope it gets better with time.@Kimoni, I was quite open to the option until certain events made me retrace my steps. After a 7yr old girl who's like a daughter to Me got sexually molested by a male domestic staff, I decided that I was done with maids(this was some months after my 3rd child). 'I am a pedophile' isn't written on their faces. I could manage without one. He went all the way o. Raped her the 1st time and threatened her so she wouldn't sing.then he continued until she got so used to it that she began to look forward to it. It was to me she eventually opened up to when her folks began to suspect something was fishy. The kind fear wey enter my body ehn. And to think my 3yr old daughter used to hang out with them a lot. It could have been her. As God would have it, I took in again and required bed rest for a while and was forced to get a maid. She left 2 days before I had the babies. Just decided she was no longer interested. Had to get a replacement but cldnt get one till early feb. betw then and now I have replaced 2ce. Why would I agree to pay as much as 15k/m and have to correct/monitor something as minor as sweeping or doing dishes? Lies were being told about the level of experience of these girls and despite the fact that I was willing to teach, they were either not willing to learn or take correction. On top my hard earned money they were adding to my stress,mbanu! Not that they had to tend to the kids o. Mainly housework. I do my shopping,cooking and tend to d babies myself. I also put it in prayers that any maid who unprovoked wished me or my household ill,God would make my house hot for her and she would request to leave. One like that didn't even last 48hrs. She was so restless and began fabricate all sorts of lies about problems back home that she needed to attend to. Her people confirmed it was all lies but she wanted to leave so badly that she even refused to work. I let her go. The one who left last week stole a tablet and snuck out of my house the moment she realized I was searching for it. Now her family whom I do not know claim I or DH have done something with her as she didn't return home. I have warned that should they come within an inch of my gate, I would have them arrested for setting me up. They probably know where she is. If they don't, I can understand their apprehension. I initially adviced them to be patient that when she gets tired of wherever she has gone to, she would return home. She's an adult and had a destination in mind when she left my house. I would only see the agent who brought her to me as he was the one I did biz with and do not know them who claim to be her family. They may not even be actually related to her for all I care. It is this recent bruhaha that has strengthened my resolve again not to have a maid or nanny. I've had my fair share of good ones back when I was under paid employment. But at some point in their lives they had to move on. It would have been wicked and selfish of me to wish for them to remain at that level forever. I also would not because of few nasty experiences label all of them bad. It's just that i'm no longer willing to take the risk. MIL stays with SIL who lives a stone's throw away from my house. She comes once in a while to keep me company and help with the kids while I face house work. Sometimes she goes away with one of the twins and returns him/ her later in d evening. She is not always available though as she has other things she does and also helps with SIL's kids and home. I'm trusting God not to disappoint me concerning the case of this last maid. My hands are clean and she must show up at her people's place ASAP. The tablet is the least of my worries for now. I just pray she is safe. The downside of my decision is that I can't resume biz fully as early as I had hoped to. 10 Likes |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 3:56pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
Kimoni: Yes o! she go really like sharp sharp tinz. I like your style Zaynie. In fact I always advice my young female newly married friends not to be in a hurry to TTC. Even if it's just for a few months. Those precious moments when it's just the couple. Cos one can't predict the extent to which pregnancy would show them pepper. When the baby comes nko? Whether you like it or not your attention would be divided. I remember back then when me and DH were taking our time. I was willing and could go anywhere I wished with him. Even if it's just to buy fuel at the filling station by the corner. I didn't even need an invitation. I would jump into the car and go with him. We would travel to other states for the weekend to hang out with friends or family just for the sake of it. But when I chop beans, no matter how much he pleads, I would just wave 'see u later' cos pregnancy wasn't nice to me o. Of cos I couldn't gallivant like that too after baby came. @cutienik It is well with you. It takes a patient and understanding husband to minimize the psychological effect these thing have on some women. Some like you don't even know the nature or genesis of the problem and would continue to pretend not just to friends but to their partners too! How then would this parnter help solve it when he is given the impression that all is well? It is actually not easy though to open up about such things. DH has been pressing me to see a specialist about my bruises. I just kept mum about it. How do I face the Dr? How would I even shape mouth sef when talking about it? I lack the courage. I pray ur DH would continue to be supportive and understanding cos this thing has a way of making one feel like a failure. I feel 4 you. E-hugs. 6 Likes |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by favoredgal: 4:19pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
Goldmine Hmm the word permanent is scary but u guess with 5 kids shop has closed thru thru I know what you mean with the helps. I even pay 30k, doesn't mean they are nice to me even after giving them a free hand. I learnt my lesson fast sha and I have had a few good ones. My dh is very very domesticated like wash plates, sweep etc but the extra help counts for a lot. To b honest I c ant imagine looking after 5 children I guess God gives grace. Well done mama B 3 Likes |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 4:38pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
Hello mamas in d house! My name is Esther and am pregnant with triplets,20weeks now. Am on bedrest currently cos my cervix started shortening due 2 stress and am carrying low hence d modified bedrest. Difficulty sleeping and breathing as well as all the normal multiple pregnancy symptoms. But my main purpose of checking 4 a forum as dis(and am glad 2 find u all) is dat 4 about 2months now my blood sugar has kept rising,am on diet now (though its boring) but still my last appointment it read 10.5. Doc said next 2weeks i'l start d insulin dosage if it does'nt reduce. So i started seeking help,i was told 2 drink bitterleaf juice,a spoon,but after 2days,i realized via internet dat it cud induce labour,so i stopped. Pls does any of u have any answer 4 me?? I rily need 2 see changed by next appointment. Thanks somuch 4 ur help in advance. God bless u all 20 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by favoredgal: 4:51pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
Zaynie I saw your post on the other thread and don't agree with the dr's advice My daughter had something similar it's called blocked tear duct - Google it Breast milk is highly effective in treating it Also massage the eye ducts that's the bribing of the eye ( on the side / top of the nose) that's what my pediatrician adviced and it has gone 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Kimoni: 4:58pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
favoredgal: Thanks sis. I pray it helps her. We all need rest at some point. Body no be firewood |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Kimoni: 5:01pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
favoredgal: I have not seen the other thread but I can attest to the fact that breast milk helped my baby too when he was having this whitish discharge from his eyes in the first few months. Just like you said, the NHS nurse told me it was blocked tear duct and told me to apply breast milk. It worked like wonders. **i hope it's the same thing we are talking about o 3 Likes |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by favoredgal: 5:04pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
Kimoni:That's true sha I hope it's the same thing Cc Zaynie why not take her to the hospital to confirm |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Kimoni: 5:08pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
goldmine: I feel you on this house help issue. I guess we've all had our share of bad and good helps but by God's grace, I think I have been blessed with more good ones than bad. I try to get them from the same agents year in year out and I could also be very picky in choosing. As for that your special prayer ehnn, I no dey miss that prayer every day o  God help us all[size=4pt]How did we get to talking about house helps when nurse @kaffybill clearly instructed us to discuss kpekusing  Abeg, I no want nurse punishment o [/size] Back to topic!!! 2 Likes |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by rchilee: 6:00pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
A week or so after Cs I was chasing dh up n down for intimacy & he said NO. 6weeks after...I couldn't even bear the pain. I would give one excuse or the other most especially family planning. Off to hospital I got an implant. Probably once in 2weeks after much pity on dh. Libido was quite low compared to dh's own before I took in. Thanks to cerclage I had a perfect excuse to slip off dh's 'grip'. But I am hoping it'l improve. |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by JUMAYIN(f): 6:14pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
iomoge2:wow..i love this,cant wait to see mine 1 Like |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 6:32pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
Kikikikikikikikikiiii....... Libido  does that thing still exist  It's been a libodoless year o. Someone pls borrow me some libido o 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 7:38pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
cherrymum: heheheheh me and you dey the same category o! Na him make me keep quiet since just dey read comments! only done it once this year  and sadly I have no desire for it! Like one mama said THE SANTUARY IS VERY DRY libido doesn't exist in my dictionary for now.Before I gave birth I use to wonder how it feels for a baby to suckle? Does it give the same arousal as when DH is at it? Taaa! No where near it at all! My nippul as gone numb, unfortunately before baby came that was where my center of gravity was at! One touch and am ready to kpekus, Now DH will suck and suck hoping to start the engine for where? All I will be thinking of was please don't finish the milk for my son lolz Oh God save our marriage from libidolessness.Senior mama Kimoni please teash me how to do that font  24 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 7:38pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
Kimoni: Sweet Mamas abeg forgive us for derailing .One thing led to another. We won't do it again. |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iffffffy(f): 7:39pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
Mamas, help me thank God on behalf of my sister-in-law. She just delivered twins(a boy and a girl) after 16years of waiting. I'm just soooooo happy. 53 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by eigmaticme: 7:40pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
Hello mamas. Had my cerclage done two weeks ago today. It went well, no pain or bleeding. 14wks tomorrow. This child has come to stay in Jesus name. #teamseptember# 20 Likes |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 7:45pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
eigmaticme:Amen and it will end in praises! Happy for you. Iffffffy congrats to your Sil and glory to the Most high! 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 8:40pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
eigmaticme: I say a big amen to that. You shall carry to term, deliver safely and be empowered with all you need to nuture your children. @estyble, wow! Triplets. May God grant you the strength to carry to term and deliver safely. Is this your first missionary journey? @ Iffffffy, God be praised! 16years! Congrats to your SIL. |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by christybabe(f): 8:44pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
Lolst. .. :DLolst. .. all this Libido and Libodoless story that our senior mama's are sharing is very funny. Me too I get Libidoless sometimes... |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iffffffy(f): 9:09pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
Chinwendym:thank you. |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iffffffy(f): 9:14pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
goldmine:yes o, 16good years. Thanks sis. 1 Like |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by zaynie(f): 9:22pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
favoredgal: Thanks sis. I actually went thru previous posts here and on the Newborn thread to see if anyone has experienced it. I saw that bm worked for most and I tried it. The discharge no longer glued her eyes shut but it was still much and yellow. I'd already googled ( trust me nah) and saw that it could be blocked tear ducts, bacterial or viral infection. By 7pm when I saw that the discharge didnt stop nor reduce, we set off for Gbaja and by 8pm we were back home (Govt hospital o!!! Dem deserve award abeg). It was bacterial conjunctivitis. The Paed said they have had several cases of it of recent and that some serious ones were even in isolation upstairs. She prescribed some ointment and eye drops and said we should watch it for a week. |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by zaynie(f): 9:27pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
Kimoni: Thanks sis. Hers is bacterial conjunctivitis. We are back from the clinic. I am just wondering where she got it from. No one has it around us. I wash my hands and even sanitize regularly. Maybe @ my Mom's sha. Cos that's where I keep her when I go to work. 1 Like |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Aim07(f): 9:52pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
Let me come out of my behind d scene, and contribute to this topic. Before I got preg, my lidido was normal. During and after d 1st preg, it ws still okay. though was a bit painful when I resumed abt five wks postpartum. D second preg came wen I ws not ready for it, libido during d preg was normal bt after delivery I dey fear o. my vjay dey pepper me d 1st time we tried after abt 2mths postpartum. libido has gone down for dat I only feel d urge to do it once a while....abi av not really done it o. it is 3mth postpartum now, my libido is still low even after I had done arm implant. I will say mine is as a result of many factors... such as financial, stress and lots more. 4 Likes |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 9:54pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
goldmine: 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ozycy: 10:17pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
Iffffffy:Congratulations to her. 16 years  all I can say is WOW. Unchangeable GOD |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iffffffy(f): 10:29pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
ozycy:thanks sis 1 Like |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by nazablossom(f): 10:31pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
Gaily04:my dear, porting is seriously allowed. infact that's what has been on my mind since ,May is too far for the type of bump i have. it"s well with all of us. as per the libido thingy, i am so libidoless, my big bump isnt helping matter,we keep looking for cimfortable position b4 you know it no interest for it again. |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 10:42pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
goldmine:Amen 2 ur prayer sis and thanks somuch 4 ur response. No,dis is my second and last journey o. My first is a 2yrs old toddler. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by rofemiguwa(f): 10:45pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
Team may? How una dey? Senior mamas I hail o Fellow bumping mamas tuale for una o We sha all carry to term. ˚°◦ooo☺º°˚˚°ºo boy this days breathing n sleePing na war mehn!! Sometimes na floor I go jus deY so my situation go improve. It is well with us ooooo Concerning the topic. ˚°◦ooo☺º°˚˚°ºo boy na DH libido low o mehn. The guy dey feAr d belle,like sey he go burst the ballon. *eyes rolling* na so I go try all the seduction skills. If he fall and maybe the following day I start to get small belle pain.or maybe baby overkick. Na wahala o. He will now be like I told u oooo. Now I no dey boda again. Waiting to offload,make we continue were we stop. All I can dream of now is dose days I can't wait to hang my legs on his shoulder. Hehehehehe. For now. Cuddlings tins till my lucky ngts. My hormones dey tophigh now. Is it normal sef 3 Likes 1 Share |
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