Marriage they say is the union between a man and a woman to become husband and wife. It has become a norm that ladies are the one who make all the plans for the marriage while the man do the financial provision.. In chemistry, when two elements wants to bond together, both element donate whatever they have in order to form a strong bond within themselves. So guys before you marry any girl, ask her to show you her bank account balance.. Both most contribute... Or is it wrong to ask a girl you want to marry her bank account balance

In this part of the world, some people may say you are not man enough to take care of her, but the thing is, we should grow up and not look at the guy as a MasterCard or something who is going to carry the burden of his own family and the in laws as well..... we should all see marriage as something two people will nurture and make it grow to our standard and not something left for one person.

for your question, I guess the guy should look for a cunning way to ask her, so that she will not freak out.

for once op is tight

for once op is right

obiorathesubtle:
Oga.. In chemistry, both Elements don't donate

I hear you sir... But in as much you understand what i am saying no probs

And after asking about her account balance what next?

So from the beginning of the marriage, they should start sharing bills?

What if the guy is capable of footing the bills.

If u see a woman you love and can live with, because her account balance is Zero, you should not marry her?

Well, where I'm from, the woman's family takes care of the engagement or trade wedding. The church wedding is on the guy.

If the girl's family is not buoyant enough, yhr guy can support too.

una go share pregnancy abi?

and then?

cruzita:
una go share pregnancy abi?

Funnny you

A woman who has no money deserve NO marriage. The days of leeching are long gone.

cruzita:
una go share pregnancy abi?

lolz

godfrey01:
Marriage they say is the union between a man and a woman to become husband and wife. It has become a norm that ladies are the one who make all the plans for the marriage while the man do the financial provision.. In chemistry, when two elements wants to bond together, both element donate whatever they have in order to form a strong bond within themselves. So guys before you marry any girl, ask her to show you her bank account balance.. Both most contribute... Or is it wrong to ask a girl you want to marry her bank account balance

you think men are solely responsible for the financial aspect of a wedding ceremony? Nah... The man is involved, the wife is, and both parents also.
And my man can't ask me my account balance, just like that I don't have a business with yours, so he shouldn't have a business with mine

kennygee:
So from the beginning of the marriage, they should start sharing bills?

What if the guy is capable of footing the bills.

If u see a woman you love and can live with, because her account balance is Zero, you should not marry her?

Well, where I'm from, the woman's family takes care of the engagement or trade wedding. The church wedding is on the guy.

If the girl's family is not buoyant enough, yhr guy can support too.

You are very wrong. Women should also contribute to the wedding because it's them that are always pushing for the marriage.

Obodo999:


You are very wrong. Women should also contribute to the wedding because it's them that are always pushing for the marriage.

Do the women tie ropes to the guys' neck?

amokeme:
you think men are solely responsible for the financial aspect of a wedding ceremony? Nah... The man is involved, the wife is, and both parents also.
And my man can't ask me my account balance, just like that I don't have a business with yours, so he shouldn't have a business with mine

Remember the bible says women be submisive to your husband and your husband will be submisive to you... Remember he is the one that made the first move to ask you about the balance.. And once you show him your own he can then show you his own... Submisiveness.....

you neva see anything, some working class brides demand money for hair, makeup, gown, shoes, etc from the groom. It's soo pathetic and worrisome.

obiorathesubtle:
Oga.. In chemistry, both Elements don't donate

Electrovalent bonding- donor n receiver Elements

Covalent bonding- Sharing/pairing elements

Back to the matter
Both should contribute to the success of their plan be it financially, morally, spiritually or otherwise. But asking for her account balance sound lame.
Inasmuch its a Union, all responsibilities is not for the man or the husband family.

She may not be bouyant today but full of potentials.

Responsibilities is all what I can say;
How responsible is He n She to the relationship?

Counter thread in a bit

we 'll both wait niyen. ...the guy never ready

godfrey01:


Remember the bible says women be submisive to your husband and your husband will be submisive to you... Remember he is the one that made the first move to ask you about the balance.. And once you show him your own he can then show you his own... Submisiveness.....

husbands love your wife, and wife be submissive to your husband that's what my bible tells me, and the same bible said, a man that cannot provide for his family is worse than an infidel (I'm sure you will not see that part)well, I don't have a problem if he choose to be an infidel. I wonder what brought about submission here, but since you now want to use the bible to justify your 'point' oya let's talk bible.
The bible said the man is the HEAD of the home.. now one of the duties of the head is what? I'll leave that for you to answer.
Women should be a help mates to the head (husband ) now the duty of an help mate is what? To help the head when he is stuck (and not just financially )
What the husband shoild do is ask his mate for assistance not ask for her account balance like it's his right! And in yur own case, you are not even married amd you are already asking for your fiancée act balance how does that even sound to you
And when you want to get married, your wife-to-be, parents of both side amd yourself contribute to the success of the marriage financially!
Iv not even seen where a groom to be is the sole financial contributor towards his wedding. Sometimes I just wonder if some NLders are from a different planet
And at the bold part, I don't care about his account balance, he should keep it to himself.

prestige2013:


Electrovalent bonding- donor n receiver Elements

Covalent bonding- Sharing/pairing elements

Back to the matter
Both should contribute to the success of their plan be it financially, morally, spiritually or otherwise. But asking for her account balance sound lame.
Inasmuch its a Union, all responsibilities is not for the man or the husband family.

She may not be bouyant today but full of potentials.

Responsibilities is all what I can say;
How responsible is He n She to the relationship?

kai. ...please what do u drink ? Orijin or Star or 5alive .....Mama Ngozi pls give dis correct guy 10 bottles. .




Ur comment made me smile (From my @ )

I must confess ....your brain is 120% efficient'



Not all those stingy dudes. ....Yes the woman would contribute to the wedding but it's not compulsory because whether she like is or not she has 2 in marriage

amokeme:
husbands love your wife, and wife be submissive to your husband that's what my bible tells me, and the same bible said, a man that cannot provide for his family is worse than an infidel (I'm sure you will not see that part)well, I don't have a problem if he choose to be an infidel. I wonder what brought about submission here, but since you now want to use the bible to justify your 'point' oya let's talk bible.
The bible said the man is the HEAD of the home.. now one of the duties of the head is what? I'll leave that for you to answer.
Women should be a help mates to the head (husband ) now the duty of an help mate is what? To help the head when he is stuck (and not just financially )
What the husband shoild do is ask his mate for assistance not ask for her account balance like it's his right! And in yur own case, you are not even married amd you are already asking for your fiancée act balance how does that even sound to you
And when you want to get married, your wife-to-be, parents of both side amd yourself contribute to the success of the marriage financially!
Iv not even seen where a groom to be is the sole financial contributor towards his wedding. Sometimes I just wonder if some NLders are from a different planet
And at the bold part, I don't care about his account balance, he should keep it to himself.

You nailed it.. I am still single and searching... You are right in all your points...
But if you agree that man is the head, then the woman should answer to him whatever he says...

godfrey01:


You nailed it.. I am still single and searching... You are right in all your points...
But if you agree that man is the head, then the woman should answer to him whatever he says...

the word "HEAD" is pregnant... you can either be a HEAD or FIGURE HEAD! There is no in between! Only a figure head will ask for his fiancée account balance...
Choose whichever one you wanna be

kennygee:
So from the beginning of the marriage, they should start sharing bills?

What if the guy is capable of footing the bills.

If u see a woman you love and can live with, because her account balance is Zero, you should not marry her?

Well, where I'm from, the woman's family takes care of the engagement or trade wedding. The church wedding is on the guy.

If the girl's family is not buoyant enough, yhr guy can support too.

Iffa hear bride's family foot bills...... the gud ones only spend lil from d list loot while d bad ones wud still make d guy foot d trad bills


Op, Btw Op, what is d essence of this thread? Itemize Puleez

obiorathesubtle:
Oga.. In chemistry, both Elements don't donate

Depends on participating elements and nature of bonding.

Obodo999:
A woman who has no money deserve NO marriage. The days of leeching are long gone.

I CONCUR!

Ask her jare... If she's not an asset dump her.

thumbs up 4 u op......I really agree wit u

thumbs up 4 u op......I really agree wit u.. I can't marry a broke lady