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What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by Nobody: 2:23pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
What I find disturbing about Nairaland 1. Tribalism: it gets depressing just reading the hate-filled comments. It ruins the whole day for me. I have caught myself wondering if most of the people I run into during the day also subscribe to these intense hatred for others. Regardless of the terrible things happening around, I know for a fact that I can't paint a whole tribe as evil. I reside in the north. I have been shown real kindness by both the northern and southern people. I am actually from the east myself. 2. The battle of the sexes: I am not using this term in a playful way. Like the tribal e-war, the blame game is too much. A lady asks for advice and people begin to insult all Nigerian women or all women. What's wrong? I have lived a while on this side of the earth and I have met the good, the bad and the ugly. Both men and women fall into these categories. I see good men striving against all odds to do right by their family. I see women striving alongside them. Look around you when you drive to work tomorrow. You will see both men and women working. In fact, I know more people engaged in legitimate hustle than the gold diggers, oloshos, gigoles or runsgirls some commenters on nairaland would have me be believe inhabit Nigeria. I am not a writer so I will stop here. But really, why the hate? Is love now outdated? How come love is only seen as something between a man and a woman? What of the one between brothers, neighbors, friends, and so on? I am tired. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by SUPERPACK: 2:26pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
who cares i love nairaland |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by Nobody: 2:31pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
Actually its politicsland-tribal and gender politics. Love no dey naija again make we yan truth. D only love I see now is if you give me 50liters of petrol FOC and 5 USD every week, I swear I will announce my love for you on newspaper |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by Nobody: 2:34pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
Its just our Nl baby. We play every 'movie' role you can imagine without seeing any script. Everybody just sorta key in and act out ; Intelligence at play. if you take abuses to heart or allow folks's fervent teases to get into your head , yo just on a Veeeerrrryyyy loooooonggg Thiiinngg! 2 Likes |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by Nobody: 2:41pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
pinceprinz:Yer a man. You would be able to ride on with it your roadway is smooth Unlike women who's pathway is bumpy. They are the ones being analyzed/criticized/objectified/bashed/an beaten down. With Nigerian women bearing the brunt of it. |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by donholy28(m): 2:42pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
when u come only and post trash...what else would u expect but insults.... |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by Maxi112: 2:44pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
without all this things u mentioned op! there's nothing like nairaland.. |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by Maxi112: 2:46pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff:listen to ur self... 1 Like
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Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by ChappyChase: 2:49pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
Maxi112:And what give me joy Is the wey we unit during E-wars against other country, Eg south Africa! 1 Like |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by Maxi112: 2:51pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
ChappyChase:for sure we must.. cause no one will do it for u! |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by Nobody: 2:51pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
Maxi112:Oh! Yer right. Thank you sweetness fer bringing to my attention my spelling mistakes.I fixed em. |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by Maxi112: 2:55pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff:beta! how u doing?? |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by Nobody: 2:57pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
You have to understand that there are lots of frustrated people with lack of ambition hence the hatred their fellow black men. its a continental problem, you'll never see the white man do that. and you wonder why the black race is behind.. it willfully breaks the heart that the youth, the so-called leaders of tomorrow, majority of whom are graduates of tertiary institutions but have stubbornly stuck to ignorance and all the vices perpetrated by errant elders and deviant peers. They are equipped with all kinds of paper qualifications, from higher diplomas to higher degrees, yet they are without knowledge and perception, nor any form of purposeful bearing. God help us all 1 Like |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by halfricanadian(f): 3:00pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
True op is right This is too mch The only love they know here is d one btw a man amd a woman All oda love is cold out here But who cares any more Love ursef den u will realise ow better it is 1 Like |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by achinaboy(m): 3:01pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
whether go or bad,coins will always have two sides, so this is the world we live in,and it will never change,so it's either we get used to it,or someone gat to relocate, thas all 1 Like |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by Nobody: 3:02pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
Maxi112:Haha you know you wasn't tryin' ta help me with spelling errors. .....I'm good Maxi. |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by Maxi112: 3:07pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff:hahahaha U r smart anyway but I disagree to that.. |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by Nobody: 3:22pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
Maxi112:Smart cause I figured you out If you disagree fine. Because I don't wanna argue with you.Not you.We need ta be okay,cool. |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by Maxi112: 3:24pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff:lolzz... cool then! okay by me 1 Like |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by Nobody: 3:30pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: hmmm. and you, what are you? an activist? but really, the criticisms and finger pointings are necessary; Women make homes, thus they hold a very sensitive position when u talk about building the very viable society of our dreams. A morally lax woman begets a very dangerous larger world; Why they deserve our very astute tutoring on every pressing matter. We doing it our own classically rough way doesn't mean we ain't objective. We are blacks and blacks ain't got no chill That's whatsup! |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by Nobody: 3:33pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
pinceprinz:Save it I didn't say I wanted yer input........Just yer ear. |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by firstking01(m): 3:35pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
Some people are just too rigid...be liberal, and if you cnt stand the heat of nairaland deactivate the same way you activated case close |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by Nobody: 3:38pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff:My bad. Packs all of my words and arranges them neatly back into my backpack ... Happy now? |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by Nobody: 3:40pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
pinceprinz:Most Happy,yes. |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by Nobody: 3:43pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: Hope you're not displaying your tobacco stained teeth all over the place over there? |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by Nobody: 3:49pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
pinceprinz:no. |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by Nobody: 3:51pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff:and she displays it... I can see you from here ...Talk about potent black magic 1 Like |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by sse7en(m): 4:17pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
Tribalism tops it all...as in sometimes when I read people's comment I tend to resent some tribes and always think that how it is like in the real world, but I am surprised that they have not started a tribal war in real life...especially the yourbas and the igbos. You people need to stop, it's not healthy at all...BTW I have lots of ibo friends...and they are so cool, so wetin my yoruba people have against them I don't know oh. 2 Likes |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by AmAlbert(m): 7:23pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
My sister dey thing tire me sef o, I don notice say sometimes before you go undastnd some things for NL you no need to dey triba but you need to get Tribal Marks 1 Like |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by Nobody: 8:51pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
AmAlbert: Lol. Na so my brother. Nl sweet wella but some people hate comments de wan spoil the fun for me o. |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by Nobody: 10:32pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Not far fetched. 2 Timothy 3:1-5 1 Like |
Re: What I Find Disturbing About Nairaland by davidif: 2:12am On Nov 28, 2016 |
Gabby91: It has really gotten pathetic this days man but I think it's a vocal minority. 1 Like 1 Share |
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