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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by kapai(m): 9:56am On Mar 31, 2016 |
Advice needed I have this girl,we have dated for almost 3years n we are looking at getting married barely 5mnths frm now.We enjoyed chatting eachother up on facebook cos its her favorite social ntwrk.Early last yr,she visited me at my new place of work,i observed she wasn't comfortable i tried findin out she later said she needed to know how to block one from facebook.I asisted by telling her how to do that,never knew it ws for me .Jst yestday i checked on facebk to share some pix of concept i tot wud b ok on our weddn preparation. To my greatest shock she has blocked me frm her frnd.i could bliv masef,had to use ma little one phone to check her wat i saw never worth holdin bak.She has bn busy confessin her love to a guy,sharing pic postcard to dz guy wch later found to be her Ex. Pls could it be that im not gud for her or she's not ready for the marriage.? What do u pple think i shud do? Matured advice needed cos i av invested alot in ths. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Fkhalifa(m): 10:48am On Mar 31, 2016 |
kapai:chai, this is deep, create a thread for it. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Mikocake(m): 11:25am On Mar 31, 2016 |
kapai:CHAI!! WHAT IS THIS?? THIS HOLES AIN'T LOYAL. 1 Like
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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by kapai(m): 1:08pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
I have done that.....tnc |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 9:19pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
tr3y: That's my mission, to inspire and train guys to become the BEST ATTRACTIVE VERSION of themselves by their own actions. We are always in motion for greatness. Thanks once again for being a follower and I love you too.. 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 9:52pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
kapai: Kapai, you're cool man with a very nice heart.. Bro, I love you a million times, why? The fact that you so perfectly put everything into a girl is a very HUGE investment. But, here's where the issue is coming into the big screen... ..from what you wrote up there, @ 1st bolded where she came to your workplace; your mind is about to pick up what is on her mind that's when you notice the dissatisfaction in her eyes... But simply because she's "my soon-to-be bride" so you couldn't fully figure it out. When she came to your face with that "dissatisfaction", she wanted to break the 'bad' news to you, but she couldn't, probably because she didn't want to break your happy mood and also couldn't bring herself to say it. So the surest way is to pass the message indirectly (Geez, women and their ways of indirect manner..) Now, on to you, what kind of question is this? @ second bolded "Not good for her..." Even with that mere phrase, what have you said about yourself? You're saying that she's the one choosing to you. You're saying she's the one with the power. You're saying you're the one lucky to have her. No wonder she left... It looks like she's the one who has the most control over that relationship. Seems like you're the one working for her. She has seen and known everything about you. Probably she got bored. That's a very good thing for you. At least it saved you a broken marriage.. No need to feel bad about a girl leaving.. Stop looking at the negative side of temporary defeats. Look at the positive side. A very wise man, Napoleon Hill, in his book Law Of Success once said, "Every temporary adversity brings within it a small seed of opportunity to a greater success." So instead of seeing it as something negative, see it as positive. She just saved you more unnecessary spending habits. She just saved you a broken marriage. She has just saved you from a bride running away when the wedding invitations has been posted. She has saved you your face of being ridiculed by the whole world. The mere act of her waywardness and small-mindedness saved you a lot and lots of wastage energy and resources. It has given you the time for yourself as a man to focus your energy on making yourself a greater and better person. It gave you the chance to recuperate and meet another woman who is valuable and more loving. Do not look at the glass as half-empty, look at it as half-full. You are the best. You are the man. You are in control of yourself. You are in control of your own destiny. I love you bro, and I love me too. Hope to hear from you soon. Peace. JD. Africa's Best Dating Coach. www.joshuniverse.com 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by lilreese: 10:41am On Apr 02, 2016 |
Should I text a girl or call her to ask her out. I send her text. She never replied back? So what's next ? |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by iykekelvins(m): 11:02am On Apr 02, 2016 |
Tedy, I just got a girl's number from a friend and I'll like to make things work with her How do I go about it |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by diggy4real: 6:39am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Djboosting: Been unable to call her up ever since .....told her that I would get back to her in a weeks time.....she was kinda OK with it....buh don't have and don't want to even give....how do I continue with her. .....what am I gonna tell her? Because I need her back. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by shakabulla(m): 10:31am On Apr 03, 2016 |
oma se |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Prodigee: 1:21pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Prodigee: 1:29pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
shakabulla:Dude...with this your moniker...you suppose dey fire her dey go o! lol My broda no need to be tensed about nothing. Just go have fun. You can have decent conversation by taking cues. Before una go inside the cinema hall, you guys can talk about the latest movies, or jus the movie you both are about to watch. Create a feeling of excitement in her. Don't over do it though... Be a listener too...let her express her thoughts or opinions. Compliment her hair do, her smile, the way she walks or laugh... Basically flirt with her...but don't over do it o. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by shakabulla(m): 3:32pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
Prodigee:Lol.... Very soon I go come testify before my brethen. Thanks for the advice. God bless! 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by diggy4real: 9:15pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
diggy4real: Please reply ooooo @ DJboosting |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by JhyMedex: 8:25am On Apr 04, 2016 |
Morning Gs.. Cld I get a quick reply pls...We've bn chatting 4 a yl at last week I sorta withdrew (u undastand) na..... Nw she's like I miss u (most indications prove she's fallen 4 d Niggur) Wat do I say back... I dnt want 2 b like I miss u 2... Any quick suggestions... PS :nt in2 her per se. Jst want 2 hit... ![]() |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Senorprinz(m): 6:20pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
@op, if your head was a bomb it would be the tsar bomba, your words so explosive they make the H-bomb look like a molotov cocktail. I thought i was an authority on women matters until i came across this thread, bros, you too mush. there's this issue that's been bothering me of late and i'll be glad to know what you think of it. i dont have any issues on how to hook-up with girls(my friends are even scared of introducing their babes to me because it doesn't take me an hour to psyche up a girl), the problem here is, my attraction for a girl ends once i notice she's begun to fall for me, i've left so many girls because of this, so many girls now term me heartless and i'm scared that's what i've become because i can't place a single babe i've got feelings for. any idea on whats going on? |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Mikocake(m): 8:08pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
Senorprinz:it's simple. you are gay. 4 Likes |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Senorprinz(m): 12:54am On Apr 05, 2016 |
Mikocake:lwkmd, yeah! it's true, i've been suspecting it, and you just confirmed how shallow and perverse your mind is. 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by JhyMedex: 3:40am On Apr 06, 2016 |
xxxtedyxxx:Boss I knw I myt b eyes late ![]() BT we set on dt watsap groupie?... Tanx Buck Ted.. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by diggy4real: 7:16am On Apr 06, 2016 |
Someone should just help me.......I met this chick..... We built a rapport for weeks..,...waited for her to be invested..... Now she called once and the next was a demand for..money..she is a student.....I just told her maybe the coming week .....if I do have....I will call her.....which is this week....this babe has called this week.... Wasn't with my phone...saw the missed call....I dunno what to tell her cos I don't have....she knows I work and own a car....buh ....I gat no money for her....I don't wanna to lose her buh...dunno what to tell her wen I call back..... Dunno if my reply will end the game.....if I do tell her No ....DAT ain't gat money....how do I still get the game on?.... So I can bleep he |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by lordfalcao(m): 4:44pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
diggy4real:it depends on how much she is asking of |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by diggy4real: 7:15pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
lordfalcao: Just little money for upkeep....buh don't wanna be a maga... Cos dats how it starts.. ...so what do u think? 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by habdulafeez(m): 8:16pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
diggy4real:go ahead and sow a seed. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by lordfalcao(m): 8:27pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
diggy4real:lol it's simple, 2-3k isn't bad. if you have a liltle you can use this opportunity to invite her to your crib, tell her to come take the money. if she comes Fvk her and give her the money |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by diggy4real: 8:38pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
lordfalcao: What if she refuses to come.... Or finds out that I wanna take advantage of her because of the money? That will spell doom for me....cos I will just lose the game. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by diggy4real: 8:39pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
habdulafeez: Hahhaha....not bad....buh I will check my pocket first....what if she doznt appreciate it? |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by lordfalcao(m): 8:47pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
diggy4real:someone you just met has already started asking for money, tell her to come over when she is free that you will see what you can do about it. if she really need it, she will come. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by diggy4real: 6:56am On Apr 07, 2016 |
lordfalcao: It amazes me bro. We met in February.....haven't seen her again cos she has been at school.... Did all d calling before she called once.....and the second was a demand....she is a student in Benin.....while her family house is in same warri DT I stay....we try it....thanx |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by lordfalcao(m): 7:30am On Apr 07, 2016 |
diggy4real:try am, if i no hear say she come |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 8:43am On Apr 07, 2016 |
xxxtedyxxw....NEED YOUR HELP. Initially from her actions,i decode her feelings for me wen she visited my office...i later tease her from there i disclosed my passion (mariage) for her after some rapports....her schedule prone my action because she is a banker,religiously good & studying. Only agreed to be friend according to her but she hides her personal informations from me despites our interactions like her family etc. It took my no nonscence attitude before she reveals her originality (so secretive in nature). Once, she spot my presence online. quickly,she goes offline. she either respond to my chat or not even @ all. thou she get serious @ times with my chats once she noticed am pissed-off with her...sometimes,i keep away from chats or calling her for days & she's 25years. HOW DO I HANDLE THIS? |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by diggy4real: 8:21pm On Apr 07, 2016 |
lordfalcao: I jokingly ask her to borrow DAT I will see what I can do about it dis week.....behold.....she just told me DAT she borrowed..... I tire oooo |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by afamjb: 8:47pm On Apr 07, 2016 |
read and advice me biko.. forgive d long epistle...i been dey find thread like dis since...! I dont even know where to start....but lets be going shaa...there is dis girl in my lodge...in her finals now, and she is way older dan me...for d past two weeks we developed a very close relationship to d extent she calls me her boyfriend..tho i havent really said anything like boyfriendish to her i just started treating her like my personal person..buying small take aways for her... Now d tin is d age barrier plus levels is just holding us back from doing d tin...and me i want to do but i dont know to reason her d tin..i travelled home today and she has been calling me to know how my journey was...we have talked...bikonu what do i do when i get back to lodge oh... |
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