To forgive a cheating ain't easy, let's not pretend about it, the binding cord of trust is broken and cannot be joined together, so if they remain together by way of forgiveness, that binding cord has not be repaired because it cannot be repaired. The best bet for the lady's is to stay away. This is my own opinion anyway

she Don comot since, which kind nonsense be dat one

opineflu:
if u have neva sin then u shuld go ahead and cast d 1st stone

even the bible supports divorce in case of an adultry..

i will forgive her cos i'm no saint myself.

firstEVA:
Men hardly forgive a cheating spouse, if for any reason she remains in his house as wife, she will not enjoy the marriage.

This is not completely true. At least not all men.

I will forgive for the sake of my own sanity and peace of mind. And by forgiveness, I mean I would not take or even consider revenge any more and I'd try not to refer to the incident whenever other arguments come up.

However, she needs to leave that house. I won't hate her but it would be sheer torment to be reminded of her unfaithfulness whenever I see her lovely face - the face of a cheat. The mind will never forget such incidences.

lekjons:
even the bible supports divorce in case of an adultry..

na dont miss quote d bible ,,,,,,marriage is sanctity

Siena:
Nothing would make me forgive my wife, if she cheated on me.

No second chances.

wicked man

AfroKnight:
I will forgive for the sake of my own sanity and peace of mind. And by forgiveness, I mean I would not take or even consider revenge any more and I'd try not to refer to the incident whenever other arguments come up.

However, she needs to leave that house. I won't hate her but it would be sheer torment to be reminded of her unfaithfulness whenever I see her lovely face - the face of a cheat. The mind will never forget such incidences.

Spoken like othello d moor.

If her coochie is sweet and tight.

I will 4giv her but she leaves

look at them

Who are the husbands of those cheating married men?

Or Are they married to stones?

Don't worry you will never know

Chanchit:
I do not have a problem with a cheating wife as long as I do not know. But for me not to know, she must have worked with the CIA before.


On a second thought there is one reason, if I travel out of the country for a long period of time.

I pity u. U don't really know women...If u know, believe she jst wants u to no, else, be u CIA, FBI, nothing for u....fear those creatures

missbronze:
I don't really agree with your last statement.

Situations can make people do something drastic.

Let's look at this scenario for eg,

A wife and her husband have a kid who is critically ill and hospital wouldn't commence treatment unless a deposit is made.

husband and wife runs around for money, yet. no help.
( let's say husband have no job and poor)

Wife now runs to a rich neighbor for assistance, and he asks to sleep with her before rendering assistance.

Believe me, it will take a strong woman not to give in to save her child.

But, if she gives in for her child, will you say she has been planning it?

yes u re right in ur way buh as far as am concern the first love I have for her will nt b there anymore and she will smell whenever I want to make love to her unless if I don't know that she indulge in the act. Case close.

AccidentalGenius:
once she cheats, she Leaves!


it's something she carefully thought of before she did it

You can not judge it like that

GANJAFARMER:
If she can help me lure the men she's been cheating with to a location where I can sodomize them under her watch after then I'll shut her up forever.

You won't know na

I will 4give her when she leaves my house

opineflu:
if u have neva sin then u shuld go ahead and cast d 1st stone

Abeeeeegi! Dis is nt abt casting stone jare.... What makes a marriage peaceful if nt TRUST? Once d TRUST leaves, she also packs....



We need sincerity!

missbronze:
I don't really agree with your last statement.

Situations can make people do something drastic.

Let's look at this scenario for eg,

A wife and her husband have a kid who is critically ill and hospital wouldn't commence treatment unless a deposit is made.

husband and wife runs around for money, yet. no help.
( let's say husband have no job and poor)

Wife now runs to a rich neighbor for assistance, and he asks to sleep with her before rendering assistance.

Believe me, it will take a strong woman not to give in to save her child.

But, if she gives in for her child, will you say she has been planning it?

what of after committing such and the child died. Few month the husband comes to know the atrocity committed by his wife.
Did you think even heaven will come down this man will accept any explanation from his wife? How will you start telling him you do that just because to safe our son. Forgiving will be my best option because I have no choice but leaving with her as a wife will not see the next day. Because definitely she will commit such and act if any situation arise

missbronze:
If Hosea can forgive Gomar for unfaithfulness in the bible.


Why then, will a man not forgive his wife if she cheats.


You can forgive for children, the sacrifices she made in the marriage, etc.


All I am saying is to forgive is Divine.

And as long as we are mere mortals, to sin or err is a must. it may be from husband or wife. Therefore, we should always be ready to forgive one another.

thanks for the long tory, personally I can't ooo.... I ain't Jesus, am a human

Men will never ever forgive a cheating spouse, so why should women forgive their men for cheating on them? i don't get it, for me the equation has to balance, as long as u as a man will never forgive me for cheating, i will never forgive u as well coz I'm not Jesus' younger sister, and any man who claims he has forgiven his spouse, check very very well, she'll never enjoy that union ever again.

missbronze:
For the fact a wife is human and not God, then, she is likely to fall into temptation and sin against her husband.

It can happen to husband too.

Hi, miss for me it's normal for guys to be promiscuous but in ladies, it's seen as a taboo.
Now as a married woman, where is your dignity when you cheat esp on your husband even if he is out on in the country the fact that you are married, you are in the best interest of your husband to protect that P@@sy for him cos that's his pride in you.

When it comes to forgiveness I can but to be honest the sight of her will disgust me and each time I look at her I just see a different being. I think ladies should not even think of doing such.

@missbronze

what's cheating?

missbronze:
I don't really agree with your last statement.

Situations can make people do something drastic.

Let's look at this scenario for eg,

A wife and her husband have a kid who is critically ill and hospital wouldn't commence treatment unless a deposit is made.

husband and wife runs around for money, yet. no help.
( let's say husband have no job and poor)

Wife now runs to a rich neighbor for assistance, and he asks to sleep with her before rendering assistance.

Believe me, it will take a strong woman not to give in to save her child.

But, if she gives in for her child, will you say she has been planning it?

Please put out such thoughts and mentality, it's not healthy. Such cases are so so rare. Don't believe what you watch on Nollywoods or TV.
Are there no friends or family to get money from? There are always alternatives, what about prayers for the child to get well? Some women would say they would rather pray than sleep with such a Man.
No one has an excuse for cheating. So please dear, the example you gave is outta it.
No offense.

Cheating is a choice, there is nothing like mistake. A cheat is just like a thief or a killer. It's like entrusting something to someone and the person gives it away saying it's a mistake.

merbenko:
what of after committing such and the child died. Few month the husband comes to know the atrocity committed by his wife.
Did you think even heaven will come down this man will accept any explanation from his wife? How will you start telling him you do that just because to safe our son. Forgiving will be my best option because I have no choice but leaving with her as a wife will not see the next day. Because definitely she will commit such and act if any situation arise

Even if you forgive her today, next week she go use another trick. Damn ladies are just ladies. God made them the way they are period.

SerialDigits:
if she can allow me to get down with any of her friends ...Equation balanced

no dey fall my hand again jawe,no be ur gf o,na ur house-wife. how will u go down wit ur wife's friend recieve small initiative nah

SexyStrawberry:
Men will never ever forgive a cheating spouse, so why should women forgive their men for cheating on them? i don't get it, for me the equation has to balance, as long as u as a man will never forgive me for cheating, i will never forgive u as well coz I'm not Jesus' younger sister, and any man who claims he has forgiven his spouse, check very very well, she'll never enjoy that union ever again.

True....

But how do women do it though. How do they forgive a cheatung man. Do you ladies continue finding d man attractive or its just forced.

gcode123:


Spoken like othello d moor.

Lol. I got carried away there. I get too melancholic sometimes especially on issues regarding loyalty.

Nothing

I wish married men will respond to this more

Its Simple....she's leaving my house..
if you re hoping she would change she will end up infecting u with some yeye tins lol.
i wont take chances o