PureWays:
I know it can be very painful and frustrating if you find out that your lady cheats on you, but as we all know most cheaters (The men) disagree with double standards when it comes to cheating... Lol..
So, here is my question:

What could make you forgive your wife if she cheats and ask for your forgiveness?
Considering the fact that you ain't no saint, will you forgive her?

PureWays:
I know it can be very painful and frustrating if you find out that your lady cheats on you, but as we all know most cheaters (The men) disagree with double standards when it comes to cheating... Lol..
So, here is my question:

What could make you forgive your wife if she cheats and ask for your forgiveness?
Considering the fact that you ain't no saint, will you forgive her?

Tonydeeb:
If it's a lady I so love and still love at the advent of the occurence, then I might forgive her...the marriage could never remain thesame though...as everytime I remember what had transpired, I sure will review my stance on letting her remain with me.
On the other hand, if it happens to be a lady I married out of pity or desperation or the love btw us is vaporized, then no story...it's straight divorce(with no issue btw us ofcourse).

juhan:
wicked man

PrivateInvestig:
I cant stay with a cheating babe, let alone wife. Am i mad? I ll forgive her. But thats d end. Its unimaginable, thinking the doggy style dey used.

AreaFada2:
When a woman cheats, her man's life is in danger.

Men can casually cheat, no emotion involved. Just a mechanical process.

But MOST women get emotionally attached. The guy they cheat with can brainwash her to kill you. Or her lover can even organise killing you.
Both can then take your properties or just to remove you as an obstacle.

Also women cheating I'm marriage could mean your kids are not biologically yours. Like 30% of all kids by the way.

SexyStrawberry:


I hope the word "divorce " is still in ur dictionary? Many women are readily opting for it just in case you've not noticed, and as for financial support, helloooooo! don't u have eyes to see that most women are standing their own grounds without their husband's support? I've personally seen lots of marriages where the wife is the breadwinner of her home and no one knows about it unless u are extremely close to the family to notice the difference, my dear it's only d undying love she has for her husband that can make her stay, millions of kids are being raised in a broken home, don't forget that, so i see no tangible reason whatsoever for her to be obliged to remain with a cheating husband.

McCarlito:
Where is the person she cheated together with

We just have to discuss
Because he will be explaining to the devil why he arrived early to hell

PureWays:
What if there isn't any kid between them yet, do you still think he should forgive her?

AfroKnight:


How did "divorce" creep into this? I sincerely doubt we are on the same page. You intended to remind me that some women remain with their cheating husbands despite the hurt. I consequently explained why those women chose to stay. I most definitely didn't say that all wives would remain with cheating husbands. I also did not imply that those women who remain are unaware of the option of divorce. So, "divorce" is totally besides the point.

I would like to reiterate that many of those who stay on do so for practical reasons (that benefit them) and not the fairytale reason called "love".

AreaFada2:
When a woman cheats, her man's life is in danger.

Men can casually cheat, no emotion involved. Just a mechanical process.

But MOST women get emotionally attached. The guy they cheat with can brainwash her to kill you. Or her lover can even organise killing you.
Both can then take your properties or just to remove you as an obstacle.

Also women cheating I'm marriage could mean your kids are not biologically yours. Like 30% of all kids by the way.

AccidentalGenius:
once she cheats, she Leaves!


it's something she carefully thought of before she did it

Ugoadaba:
forgive

missbronze:
If Hosea can forgive Gomar for unfaithfulness in the bible.


Why then, will a man not forgive his wife if she cheats.


You can forgive for children, the sacrifices she made in the marriage, etc.


All I am saying is to forgive is Divine.



And as long as we are mere mortals, to sin or err is a must. it may be from husband or wife. Therefore, we should always be ready to forgive one another.

missbronze:
I don't really agree with your last statement.

Situations can make people do something drastic.

Let's look at this scenario for eg,

A wife and her husband have a kid who is critically ill and hospital wouldn't commence treatment unless a deposit is made.

husband and wife runs around for money, yet. no help.
( let's say husband have no job and poor)

Wife now runs to a rich neighbor for assistance, and he asks to sleep with her before rendering assistance.

Believe me, it will take a strong woman not to give in to save her child.

But, if she gives in for her child, will you say she has been planning it?

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This is very true....... but women dont want to accept it, just as they dont want to accept that "men and women" though complimentary in nature, are DIFFERENT and therefore NOT EQUAL (two different things cant ever be equal!).
I am not saying Men are "superior", mind you, l am saying they are "different" from women.

X chromosome is not the same as Y chromosome otherwise, X will be equal to Y!

We just need to observe other living things (especially primates closer to the human race) and see the territorial behaviour of the male, compared to the female.

The physiological make-up of women determines how they engage in 'shex', for maximum pleasure while that of men also determine theirs as well.
Even Scientist have factually demonstrated that it is a different part of the brain that gets triggered in men when they get the urge, compared to women.
There is a reason creation 'recessed' women's shexual organ while that of men is "protruding"!
Women take shex more seriously than men! To them, it is an "act of total submission to domination" and a lot of emotion is invested in reaching such decision.
For a man, it is an "act of domination and conquer" ...... and like al conquest, it is the "next challenge" that matters! No emotion involved!
One party (woman) accepts fluid inside her .....while the other (man) is protected from such violation, by the make-up of his organs, which are external and not receptive to accepting any fluid!
Everyone should think about these things for a moment
All these "facts of life" are not mere coincidences.


Once you are sure your wife is cheating, your best action is to "quietly leave her" for her lover........ if you still love your own life. .
Dont even attempt to keep sleeping with her anymore.
Just "dash her out" to that person she thinks she loves and engages in shex with, more than you.
Dont get annoyed, dont get dismayed but take it as a challenge that some-how, some-where, you are still found 'wanting'!

Just take time and work on yourself!
But "woe betide that Man" whose wife cheats when he was still "wanting"...... and takes her back when he has stepped-up in life.
There are tens of other women, who are "more set" than her and would eagerly marry you, so what's the big deal?

As for the kids, l think a time will come when at every birth, a DNA TEST will be a pre-requisite for putting a name on a birth cert.
We are getting there..... slowly though.



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ajalaolanr:

Abeggi, no dey quote Bible. I find it amusing how quickly we are to quote the scriptures as an inference to how we should or would react to certain situations such as this.

When the reverse is what we would do should the situation present itself.

We just like to quote bible, even quote the bible as to why the chicken crossed the road!

dare2differ:



If I hadn't seen anything, I would have agreed fully with you

Women CHEAT. It may not be as high as men but they cheat.

I see you are a married man, you must really have high morals if not you would know that married women cheat!

jrerico1:
the child dies or better still I'll go and steal.. Is she a sex worker?? Its forbidden from my town to see a woman sleep outside marriage no matter the cost..

youmour:
I cant just imagine another man getting freaky with my woman ubanu blood must flow,on a good day when i be werey for bedmatics you still go yansh outside?it cant happun sef

lekjons:
even the bible supports divorce in case of an adultry..

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Even at that, did she ask her husband's "opinion and permission" ...to exchange her body, for shex, in other to save their child?

I guess the husband should be given 'a say' in such events that affect both of them critically.

Except maybe the wife and the man have been "coochy-cooching" behind the husband's back, even before the child/family needs such financial help!




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