I can't hold it against her.......#Shit_Happens.But if it reapeatedly happens,she'll be going home for a while

missbronze:
I don't really agree with your last statement.

Situations can make people do something drastic.

Let's look at this scenario for eg,

A wife and her husband have a kid who is critically ill and hospital wouldn't commence treatment unless a deposit is made.

husband and wife runs around for money, yet. no help.
( let's say husband have no job and poor)

Wife now runs to a rich neighbor for assistance, and he asks to sleep with her before rendering assistance.

Believe me, it will take a strong woman not to give in to save her child.

But, if she gives in for her child, will you say she has been planning it?

Too much Nollywood

As many times as possible because I just realized God sent me to her to change her, not on any condition. If God forgives us on condition who would live?? It is by GRACE.

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PureWays:
I know it can be very painful and frustrating if you find out that your lady cheats on you, but as we all know most cheaters (The men) disagree with double standards when it comes to cheating... Lol..
So, here is my question:

What could make you forgive your wife if she cheats and ask for your forgiveness?
Considering the fact that you ain't no saint, will you forgive her?

cos I love her. and she loves me too.

though there's more tendency to me cheating on her than her on me, ( we are God fearing) however, if it happens I'll know there's something wrong and I've not lived to my responsility of loving her enough, I'll apologise to her ( in the presence of the man) and promise to make it up to her.


And when she's comes back to her senses, we'll both apologise to God who is the only one able to keep our marriage.

Also, suppose it takes her a while to come back, I'll keep on apologising to her no matter how long it takes until we're reunited.

I will not divorce my wife. I can only put her away ( not divorce) if she becomes a treat to my life and I'll never stop loving her.

Resist the devil n he shall flee from u.I will say forgiveness is an act of maturity, Only few people knows that. Love superseed all

udumosam23:



cos I love her. and she loves me too.

though there's more tendency to me cheating on her than her on me, ( we are God fearing) however, if it happens I'll know there's something wrong and I've not lived to my responsility of loving her enough, I'll apologise to her ( in the presence of the man) and promise to make it up to her.


And when she's comes back to her senses, we'll both apologise to God who is the only one able to keep our marriage.

Also, suppose it takes her a while to come back, I'll keep on apologising to her no matter how long it takes until we're reunited.

I will not divorce my wife. I can only put her away ( not divorce) if she becomes a treat to my life and I'll never stop loving her.

wow, this sounds too good to be true.

You sound really godly, but these things are easier said than done.

Nothing will ever make me forgive her.

Kachy1605:
If for any reason my wife cheated on me i will forgive her and warn her not to try it again that if she does she is leaving my house. In african of which i know a man is covered by law when he cheat at his wife. Eg my wife can't send me out of the house for cheating on her, but i can as the man. The fact is we all *man n woman* cheat, is only when you are caught that you are a cheat.

dont ever forgive a woman that cheat on you because she is going to cheat again. once a cheater, always a cheater.

[quote author=SexyStrawberry post=44413488]Men will never ever forgive a cheating spouse, so why should women forgive their men for cheating on them? i don't get it, for me the equation has to balance, as long as u as a man will never forgive me for cheating, i will never forgive u as well coz I'm not Jesus' younger sister, and any man who claims he has forgiven his spouse, check very very well, she'll never enjoy that union ever again. [/quote
May God have mercy on you.so you can go and cheat too if you get to know that your husband is bleeping outside?it's sweet for a man to say I have bleeped up to 5 girls this week than for a lady to say 5 guys have bleeped me this week.I never pray for your type though as future wife because you will like to compete with you man.

Even Jesus understood the severity of the crime of adultery on the woman's side, that's why he permitted divorce only on that course. Even culture frowns at a woman cheating and her recompense is life excommunication. Hence, if she cheats, she unconditionally without further provocation leave quietly. Don't even ask me what if I do. That's d conclusion of the whole matter, biblically and culturally. Na me marry u, no b u marry me. Like saying u came late to work cos ur boss is always coming late. U'll excuse him

divorce is d only option

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Why?
Why the double standards?
Why can men sleep with too many women and it's good?
The same way you're wishing you'll never come across a girl like her is the same way any self respecting woman won't want to come across you.
No one wants to be serviced by over used dick.

One old man told me a story. He said in those days, they marry a lot of women because of their farms and they knew they can't satisfy all of them especially the young ones. He said that anytime they are coming from a journey or from wherever, they'll be shouting the names of their wives from afar..... Iya lagbaja!!!, iye Bose etc so that the wives will know that they are around and quickly discharge whoever is with them be it a man friend. He said what u don't see cannot kill u. And it is wrong for you to catch her wen u know u cannot satisfy her. Today we have one minute men who'll say they won't forgive, we have men who leave wives for years abroad saying they won't forgive. I know something for sure, it is not easy, but forgiveness is a command, without which you will not be forgiven either......

nkemjacob2:
I wil forgive her, in as much she is remorseful and mearnt it in her heart to change

That's doubtful

This gender equality from the west is evil. - Bishop Oyedepo [

repogirl:
wow, this sounds too good to be true.

You sound really godly, but these things are easier said than done.

It is what I have done before, so I'm not just saying it.

people are yet to grasp the meaning and power if love. It is only in love that you can truly win or conquer.

Personally, I think the only reason that will stop couples cheating on each other is their love for God and themselves.

Anytime such love is demonstrated, the outcome is victory and peace.

Nothing, absolutely nothing.

Hmmm

firstEVA:
Men hardly forgive a cheating spouse, if for any reason she remains in his house as wife, she will not enjoy the marriage.

I beg to differ dear.....if a man deeply loves a woman,nothing matters,forgiving cheating,is like forgiving his child for breaking the decoder remote on a football match day.

I really doubt if I cud forgive myself for forgiving her... I just beta not try what I would regret every single second of my life

Men HARDLY forgive in such situation, but the women forgive again and again cos MOST men cheat on their wife's.

Handsomebeing:
Nothing will ever make me forgive her.

For it is written ' if you do not forgive your brethren, your own sin will not be forgiven'...mesning, if u do not forgive others be it ur wife, brother, mother, father, uncle, aunty, ur sins will not be forgiven...many prayers are not answered due to spirit of unforgiveness

AccidentalGenius:
once she cheats, she Leaves!


it's something she carefully thought of before she did it

And the next one you will marry will be faithful for life
But if u cheat its your house so you stay but she can leave if she can't forgive u
I laugh in spanish

I read all the comments and laugh. The truth is, you can never predict what you will do until it happens to you.
And mind you, there's no woman that cannot cheat.
Women have the same longing for s.ex like men do. Only that they pretend too hard.

Othellos jealousy

PureWays:
There is a fault in that.. You don't prove how loyal you are ready to be with sex (any kind of sex)..
What if she acts? She may be doing exactly same for the other man, you know..

missbronze:
For the fact a wife is human and not God, then, she is likely to fall into temptation and sin against her husband.

I agree with you but if she continue to cheat again and again then is no mistake

Cheat? =====> Forgive
Not in my dictionary................:>
She is a goner

dare2differ:


You won't know na

Hehe , I will o

I have this miniature toto reading meter that will send back signals of every activity down there to my laptop or mobile phone . From the number of thrust to the amount of fluid deposited if any and would also record if any foreign body eg condoms was present and it will have the capacity to give me the exact time using body heat as an indicator.This meter is designed in such a way that it could analyze and tell that something different fitted into that cavity.
You wanna try ?

Actionleap:
I read all the comments and laugh. The truth is, you can never predict what you will do until it happens to you.
And mind you, there's no woman that cannot cheat.
Women have the same longing for s.ex like men do. Only that they pretend too hard.

and I bet you they cheat more than we men only that they are more careful and we are easy to catch because they play the game better than us

foyeks2001:

For it is written ' if you do not forgive your brethren, your own sin will not be forgiven'...mesning, if u do not forgive others be it ur wife, brother, mother, father, uncle, aunty, ur sins will not be forgiven...many prayers are not answered due to spirit of unforgiveness

You have a solid point there. I have experiences with gfs that cheated more than ones. It is a habit that which does hard. I am married now and made it clear to my wife. I myself have NEVER cheated on my wife and never cheated in a relationship.